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Colephbreed:
Hello guys good day hope y'all are doing great.

Am writing this with so much grief in my heart as I feel depressed, sometimes love can come with somuch pains and joy at same time.

So recently I agreed with my fiance to relocate to a different city since she got a job over there, we agreed a scheduled time we wil have to see each other within a specific period of time. This is someone we share everything in common the love was great, she's an awesome soul to be sincere.

I got so much attached to her, that it made me felt lonely and empty when she left, due to that reason I always want to call and check up frequently, This has been going on For about 4 weeks consistently, the first red flag I noticed was that she asked me not to be calling her frequently that sometimes it's not really cool with her, I respected that fact and reduced the way I call but I was beginning to loose the trust I had for her.

She goes out with her friend frequently and they love partying, even when I consistently warn her about the late nights they keep most times in clubs and partying she keeps telling me she's not a kid and she can handle things herself. Lately the relationship have been filled with lots of argument, misunderstanding, and the trust is beginning to reduce drastically.

Yesterday she uploaded a nasty picture as her display pics on WhatsApp, she was just putting on a top without bra, though she's busty and all that, I asked her take it down and upload something more appealing and decent that am not comfortable with such pics, she began to rant and start saying all manner of things like it's her privacy,her phone, her body,and she decides what to do with it, am an African man and I don't welcome this woke mentality of women nowadays, feeling they need to be half naked to feel sexy I can't cope with such indecent dressing, I told her am not trying to tell her what to do but atleast you should respect my opinion sometimes, I got angry and sent her a very long message about my displeasure. since then she has refused to pick my calls nor reply my messages.

She tried calling earlier today but I didn't pick, I couldn't sleep through out the night the whole drama was just playing in my Head.

Guys is this enough reason to call of a relationship or are my just being too self centered? have actually made up my mind just need to hear from different and more matured people in the house.
Thanks for reading and enjoy the rest of your day.

ahnie:
I have bn longing to create this topic for some months now,but due to my busy schedules as I barely have time.

For some time now.... I have bn noticing a particular pattern going on and couple with some experiences which I ain't cool with.

I don't know if other married women finds it cool,but to me it's very disgusting and appalling.

Sometimes I do wonder if those wondering phalluses no even get eyes to see that the woman they're chasing is even married sef.
Aren't they seeing the little kids with the women?

You become a target if they by any chance noticed your husband isn't based in same state with you and comes once in a while and God epp you if you're beautiful and always decently dressed.



Recently I had another experience....I was somewhere with my daughter picking some items...when this man with his bend bend legs like pastor gbejero walked up to me and said he likes me,that he has bn noticing me for sometime,he was even twitching....

I just looked at him then laughed,I told him to take a walk.....few weeks later I saw him trekking under the hot sun going from store to store with his bend bend legs like oshodi octopus.

One sick one even had the impetus telling me...I go dey chop like thief from corner oga nor go know.
Before he even finished the statement...a powerful slap landed on his cheek,yes I can be mean and bold at same time.

Surprising these men would go back home then pretend to their wives,them no go tell them say....them dey run after people wives.

On-line isn't even different......


So men...chasing people's wives....how do you sleep at night?

samtoles:
And these terrorists will sleep well at night after this massacre?

A7:
New hatchlings update

5 poults hatches yesterday. They're over a week early.

I am hoping more will hatch from the 7 remaining eggs.

Joezinho:
Snow white abeg free us. Go and look for your 12 dwarfs..

She wanted to use manipulative mode by crying back then. FFK is wise, the more lies she threw, the more she got busted.

The lies women tell should be tolorated but a man's reaction to those lies is attacked.

Women should know that lies can not help you win a case with a man.. FFK, Mr short fuse no send you or anybody... The brain damaged perfect handler of Igbo women gave it to her wotowotoly...

airsaylongcome:
As in... This one caught me "offside". Sniper fire everywhere. With laser guided bullets as soon as target is locked.

airsaylongcome:
Lol! I never ever said I was above mistake, and I'm happy you found one. My issue has always been the incorrect use of words and spelling. Anyone looking at "Agnecy" will know it's a typo. I also often incorrectly spell "the" as "teh". But "Are my to let them go?" is anything but a typo. Good point you pointed out my incorrect spelling.

Farfalla:
He won't opt for celibacy.

He's likely to pick another beautiful Jezebel. They're usually very addictive.

Tufunky:
That boy is a weakling, a rabbit and a victim of the powerful, male or female. He should do his best to work on both his strength, skills and character.

Kajaard:
You must be very weak mentally. This life is for the tough ones not lily livered people. I believe this is another means to beg. Very soon you will drop your bank account number.

Using suicide as an excuse is the most stupid thing to do on this forum and no one will even listen to you when you start barking suicide like a rabid dog.

Kingnelson9:
The 4th photo got me laughing...

czarr:
The powers that be are interested in normalizing femininity in men. Because if that is achieved, real men who would stand up to face them when they start their real agendas would be interested in how they look in the mirror, docile, less aggressive and less confrontational.

20 years ago if you came out and told men that they have to take a vaccine if not they wouldn't be able to travel, and they should lock themselves at home and not come out, there'd be a civil war for sure bevy rugged testosterone filled men would confront those powers, because that's just what men do. But they are creating a world where masculinity is demonized and called toxic.

The so called feminist who support the war on masculinity should know that a time will come when they would need men to be masculine and aggressive to stand against the agenda of the powers that be and those men would rather be in front of the mirror trying to get a perfect eyebrow.

julie90:
I have been working for this company for two years. In December 2021, there was a change in management, a new manager was assigned to my Department. Before the change in management, I applied for some jobs in November 2021 but I didn't get any response.

Things between my new manager and I developed really quickly (he is not married and he is 10 years older than me). Although we have been working together, when he became the new manager we started dating. it was mutual, it wasn't like he forced me. We liked each other and we started dating in March 2022. We kept things professional in the office. Nobody in the office knows about this even till now.

Those companies I applied to in November 2021 reached out to me for an interview. I got two offers at the same time. Both offers come with great pay (similar to what my boyfriend currently earns) and a significant boost to my career. I spoke to my boyfriend about it and being my boss he told me to reject both offers, he told me he would be able to cater for my needs that the only commitment he has now is paying for his house and once he is done paying for it, he would have more money to take care of me and I didn't need a job where they would pay me what he's currently earning and be in a role similar to his.

I told him it's not the money but it would be about moving up the ladder in my career. These are offers people do not have, now I have two, he is asking me to reject them. He told me even if I have to move the only offer I should take is the one close to the company where we work which has a lower pay compared to the second offer. I told him I would go with the second offer which has more opportunities for me. Both offers are in the same state although my preferred offer is a bit far from where I live but it is still a reasonable location to commute everyday. At one point he told me, I was too ambitious and I took it as a compliment.

I noticed he changed since then, he informed the company management that I was leaving and we began the handover process, I noticed he changed after we had the discussion about me accepting the second offer but I thought it was about him missing me. May 31 was my last day and I noticed few days to my last day he was acting strange so I asked him what the matter was. He said he doesn't feel anything for me and we should stop seeing each other.

This is a man that was really excited when we were dating, all of a sudden doesn't feel anything for me because I got a high paying job? Is it wrong for a woman to be ambitious? When has it become a crime for a woman to aim high in her career? My role will still be to support him. I have never been rude to him and I am not going to be rude to him because we now earn the same salary. I really like him and I feel disappointed that he could act this way.

Is it now a crime for a woman to be ambitious?

Sharatan:
Wealth, affluence and fame is not what you think it is. You see this royal family doing show up and down but we don’t know what goes on behind the scenes. We crave for it because we have thirst for the luxury because we don’t have it. But when you get to the top you notice there’s a lot of baggage that comes with it. You have to be mentally and emotionally ready for what it brings., and I’m telling you it’s not funny.

The prince has rejected his fame and glory to be comfortable and happy without all the paparazzi and cameras always in his face.

He’s happier where he is now.

cococandy:
The misogyny on this forum is sickening.

GloriousGbola:
there is trouble and there is s**t the bed
there is trouble and there is malicious and deliberate attempts to destroy an ex's source of income
there is trouble and there is doctoring of photos and videos

incidentally, these are the reasons for redpill and mgtow in the west - men frustrated with women gaming the system.

the reason why johnny depps story resonated so hard is that it is the story of several western and undoubtedly some african men too - a woman can make up any story she wants , and get the man sacked from work, kicked out of the house , on a restraining order, barred from seeing his children

the only saving grace for johnny is he had the resources to defend himself fully.

now maybe some people will think twice or thrice when a malicious woman wit her own agenda started claiming all sorts of domestic abuse.

i am sure depp also paid kate moss to testify for him
i am sure depp is such an arsehole that somehoe now bitter ex lovers or employees did not show up for their pound of flesh.

Raalsalghul:
Which other one?

Did you even check details of the moniker?

Haha!

Raalsalghul:
You don't just know when to quit, do you?

Jeez!

GloriousGbola:

it is quite clear you have made up your mind that Depp is the genteel, innocent victim of a powerful violent husband beating woman

i have read enough of your comments to know we will not agree on this. i am sure we have both been following this story

so let us agree to disagree.

GloriousGbola:
Dem no tell you - pledge na donation?

SeriouslySense:
You are missing it, its not about his stardom or statistics, or whether he was eating candy in court or just being himself with some grace and dignity, its about the evidence, there is no evidence that he was abusive, evidence is what the court works with, not with assumptions and conjectures.


If there was evidence, then pls explain the following:

1) Why did Amber heard not take photos that showed injuries from domestic violence, at least all the photos she took were either she was on make up, which she claimed covered the injuries. (very convenient)

2) Why does Amber heard take photos' of Johnny when he is asleep or drunk, and shares it with her friends and in the court she claims she was doing it for self healing and therapy. (Weird)

3) After the domestic violence she went to the doctor and the doctor concluded that there was no injuries. (no evidence)

4) Why is the only evidence showing that she hit him so he can get out of her way, and then she hit his head with the door.

5) On TV, Amber claimed she donated all the proceeds from divorcing depp to charity which is 10 million dollars, she was going to split between two charities. But after ten or eleven months, she only deposited 100 thousand dollars.

IamDora:
Dear Nairalanders, Good evening to you all. I'm in a state of delima right now and I'm so confused on what to do that's why I decided to bring the issue here.

I have a Cousin, he's wealthy and we used to be very close to each other, we do alot of things and talking together. Even when we do meet at Villa during festive periods, we are always together 24/7 that people do think I'm the one eating his money. (If cousins were to marry each other, we would've married ourselves)

So fast forward to 2020, things began to take a new turn, he began to change towards me completely, he hardly picks my calls, neither does he reach out to me thereafter to know why I called (Mind you, I'm not a leech to him, as my family were very comfortable too) When I lost my mom (May her soul rest in peace) this my said cousin never called me to sympathize with me, and I didn't hold it against him either. He started giving me space, I tried everything possible to know why the sudden space from him, but to no avail. So I kept my cool and distanced myself from him.

So fast forward to this 2022, his fiancee (Whom I knew her from him) called me on the 20th of last month to tell me that their wedding is on the 18th of this month and she would so much like me to be in attendance! My cousin never bothered informing me about it even till now!

Now my question is,' Should I honour the said invitation by his Fiancee and attend their wedding or I should stay back and call her to wish her Happy Married Life after their Wedding?

Please help me push this to front page so I'll get a wider audience to share their opinions.

Thank you.

Gamesmart:
You are a fooolish human being. Stop pulling rubbish from your ass in an argument.

What do you think a brain is meant for?

SeriouslySense:
And that's is what makes her a manipulative and dangerous individual, from what you just wrote.

1) According to you, she says what she heard, probably trying tp create a compelling negative image of Depp.

2) Being rich does not make him automatically quilt, and you can observe from his mannerism and everything he does in public that he is a kind personality, and from the evidence, it seems they took his generosity for a ride.

3) Third, statistics is not a conclusion, its a =only an observation of the commonest likely outcomes, so because he could be drunk does not automatically mean he was violent, its at best a conjecture and not evidence.

The court doe not work on conjectures and self talk or rumor's or stardom, it works with actual evidence, and from all the evidences, there is nothing to indicate he was abusive, it only shows he was kind, very friendly and open to people, which amber and her sister took for granted.

Although i did not witness any part of the first court case. Its likely that the first time Amber won in the court despite his stardom, because probably he did not fight back in the court or this evidences were not shown.

Did you see the video of her accusations in the first courts case, you can see, how she seem to be creating new lies and stories on the go, she is not consistent with her stories.

Gamesmart:
Can you prove the stuuuupid statement you made?

Do you have any reliable source that gave you that "fact"? ..................... A source that is not your ass?

Stallionhorse:
This one big pass some guys prick on this NL.

Dreadlock69:
There is this girl/lady of mine , dark tall and good looking, how we started talking and dating was a coincidence ,she was speaking rudely or not fairly to my cousin and I interrupt and cautioned her never to try that or repeat it again cause me get “gbana" for head i know dey take disrespect/nonsense.
she later calm down and became gentle like pikin wey Dem shout for ,after advising her and her later gra gra like I do am bad thing but me know send , how we start dating is a history I don't know how it happened.

Now she got this problem she get very sharp mouth how do I go about it ?
It only when I'm around she tries not to do anything stupid and talk pass herself because I do give her this stare warning eyes and she go respect herself ,like the one wey “ my mama go give me if I wan collect sweet from stranger or person she no like when I dey small".
She always feels she can get away with anything cause I'm around and no one will/dare to touch her .“ she get this kind mindset like nah cultist she dey date nobody got touch am".

My cousin bro and sis sometimes are like I know blame you anytime your husband dey you dey get wings.

She sweet and all to me and everyone but her mouth to sharp and ee dey off me sometimes , how do I manage her behavior I'm a cool / mind my business kind of person.