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Another thread where a woman consciously plays around with an abusive, misogynist cyber bully in the name of food.

Until it hits home, people will always play with their demons.

Ebubu:
so if you marry a wife with a degree, you can’t sponsor her for Masters education if she desires to be a lecturer?

Help us ask. It's no surprise that there are over 290 idiots who liked that. But on a forum filled with teenagers, what else is there to expect?

MufasaLion:
When will you people (both genders) learn to stop bearing the burden that was never meant for you?

Doesn't she have a father or mother that could enroll her in school? You left educated women to marry someone you'll be funding her education, what for?

Your premium heartbreak is about to start!

She cheated on him because he sent her to school or what are you trying to say?

World over, spouses help fund each other's academics. It happens everywhere. But it is only here you will see teenagers acting as if it's a crime of relationships to do so after reading the red pill manifesto.

Don't contribute to your spouses life, just live like strangers. Marry only the educated, because the uneducated are tainted.

This forum houses a lot of myopia tagged as wisdom.

Goodman247:
Truth is bitter, you are not suppose to use money to buy love

But men want to use cleaning, cooking, birthing, young age, great figure, good complexion, free support system and money to buy love.

The usual earthshaking hypocrisy of males.

Yankee101:
Ladies make your own clean money

Do you guys work with apes or with women in your offices, or do you just like bashing women? Women don't make clean money? Really, because men don't make dirty money? Or all men are making clean money?

There are as many jobless, entitled men in the world as there are women. Give it a rest already.

dalass:
Our fathers must be ashamed and the dead forefathers turning in their graves of so called men nowadays who full Nairaland with tales of woes as if women are not being ripped off by those same guys.

but a lady just went to jail just so her broke ass boyfriend o can travel out

Reality doesn't matter once women are involved.

They only see what they want to see. The rest doesn't exist.

Anyone looking at his size would be tempted to beat him up. He doesn't look particularly happy after meeting the president, being surrounded by the army/police and all.

Hope2023:
Indeed... NO 1 NOSE 2 MORROW...

Wicked you are.

I normally don't watch these videos, but today I did.

This has to be the most useless video to grace the forum. After a total of 15s of watching it, I was too disgusted to continue. Absolutely useless video.

Just like the audio and "subtitle".

Nemesis0147:
He committed suicide because he couldn’t cope with his studies?

Lol
What sort of men are they breeding these days?
The same university I went to?

You are not him, and he is not you. Thus you cannot react in the same way.

irunoko:
ok

Okay

irunoko:
I hate to say you're right.all of the signs are there.how can you marry without dating and knowing who you want to give your life to

Because she didn't intimate the world on her dating, it means they never dated?

Aren't you guys happy that now she won't be slated for being single and looking for love? Or does it mean the fun from bashing her is over? Are you now the moral police?

Expecting to see extreme monitoring of her relationship. After all, many people believe she shouldn't be married, after complaining that she was not get married and that she was getting old.

You guys are insatiable.

Very legit to begin with.

Cue women-bashing.

Birdman07090:
Nigeria girls are very lazy, The Malaysia girl that paid me 15 thousand Malaysia Ringgit close to 2 million naira is just 21 years old she has been working since she was 17 years old, she never have her own personal car, Wetting dey pain me for where Nigeria girls dey na Them broke and still get high taste, my ex girlfriend told me she want to celebrate her birthday then I asked her like how much she need she said like 200k would be enough I said okay then I asked her how much she get but unfortunately she said she don't even have any money I was like you don't have any but you are making a budget of 200k

If you had been working since 17, and earning such money yourself at that age, and were not such a gold digger to be interested in women's pockets till present, you wouldn't need to announce this. Or maybe if you were more than money, you would have a different moral to give from your half-baked tale. Your only contribution to the life of any woman is money, so why wouldn't she use money to judge your worth?

You expect 17 year old Nigerian girls to give you money, when 17 year old Nigerian boys don't even have it. Except maybe after a romance scam. Laughable.

ahnie:
Mumu girl....who does that?

She was trying to appease the likes of zone_free, to prove she's a good woman, not knowing that you can never please a stupid person.

That's not possible.

The Ukrainians are killing Russians every day. They're winning this war with superior weaponry.

They're blowing up Russian archaic tanks every day.

Samantha123:
He's not a real man.

Real men don't chase after their wives while with their girlfriends.

What do real men do?

Everyday this? This is the new trend of threads?

Well, at least it isn't the former norm of daft boys.

Another thread where a woman consciously plays around with an abusive, misogynist cyber bully.

Until it hits home, people will always play with their demons.

Slawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

Too bad

Na the way way all those police for that picture take gallant I just like

It's just two older members of the police force in multiple pictures. They don't look intimidating. Were they brought out of retirement to fight in Putin's war?

ganisucks:
This is a wardrobe malfunction not a problem of weight. A woman of her caliber should know her shoe size for crying out loud.

You must be very polite, because this is beyond knowing her shoe size.

Too much red meat.

Lummoni:
I'm starting to believe so too

Best believe it. The Nigerian approach to family and children is abnormal. If the men aren't kicking their wives out of their homes penniless, then they are claiming the children as their sole property. But if the child turns out bad, it's the wife. If he cheats, it means it's her fault.

Patriarchal ownership culture with full-blown escape of responsibilities when it suits them.

grandstar:
My younger brother who now lives in Wales calls these out of control criminally minded black boys the "scourge of England".

He said their parents have no time for their kids, working 24/7 to make money and achieve the reason why they japa. Unfortunately, what these kids are not thought at home, they learn outside on the streets.

It is not racism but negligence.

But later on they'll tell you the British and their police force are "bloody racists". It's never their own doing. They're harmless saints once they're in countries not ruled by blacks.

The attraction of blacks to crime and evil is unparalleled. Their white counterparts are Albanians and other gypsy TT types.

Familyplug:
A 50-YEAR-OLD NIGERIAN WOMAN SHARES HER REGRETS ABOUT HER PARENTS SENDING HER ABROAD TO SCHOOL AS A TEENAGER.

I came to the UK in the 80s and went to Skinners school for girls in Stamford hill where I failed woefully. I come from a family where going abroad was like going to the market for us. I lived with my sister-in-law who I happened to have appeared to as a burden at the time. I had no one to take me out as a child, didn't enjoy McDonald's treats. I remember being bought KFC once by my mother's younger sister who was in the UK at the time. Most days I had to walk from Pembury estate, Hackney to Stamford hill because I had no transport fee. An uncle got me free school meals from the government so I always had lunch at school but other meals were not guaranteed...

No one ever asked me how I was doing in school even though I was a failure, never disclosed my report sheet because my results were always 'U- Unclassified' worse than F9. I lived at the expense of a few of my brother's friends who were ready to give me £5 in exchange for me seating on their laps whilst they used my nipples as a toy. On a few occasions, my immediate family would give me £5, £10 but NONE EVER TOOK ME ON AS HIS OR HER RESPONSIBILITY. One glorious day, a brother of mine took me on when he noticed that I have been associating with friends that were smoking and sexing at the age of 12 but due to malicious beating every day I had no choice other than to run away from his house. ....

I became streetwise, smoking heavily at the age of 11/12, and did my first abortion at the age of 14/15. I was unable to contact my mother because I had no access to the telephone moreover I didn't know how to use the phones then. I lived with a Jamaican friend who was a few years older than me and we had a man friend aged 50t who was impotent but would pay our rent whenever we allowed him to lick/suck us. Hhhhmmmm I'm sobbing as I'm writing this; I don't know why my spirit has led me to share this horrific and pathetic story but I am sure it is to bless someone out there so I am not ashamed of letting it out because someone outthere will think twice before making the mistake my family made.

I and friends began to find it easy to befriend men for money at night clubs (Gullivers, Petter Stringfellows, etc) at a very young age which I found disgusting, they molested my body orally. I can't even carry on expressing my bitter past experiences because I have learnt to see them as the strengths that made me who I am today...

The Koko of this post is this... Now in the UK, we see Nigerian children killing, shooting, stabbing, selling drugs, raping, etc and we wonder why they are ridiculing our darling country's name... Hhhhmmmm it is not the kids' fault it is the fault of the parents that weren't ready to prioritize their priorities.

I can't blame my mother and neither can I blame my father because they thought sending me abroad to school was the best for me. They also trusted my siblings and didn’t like to get involved in the way they were raising us. They believed when you give a goat to someone, you let go of the rope. They didn't know their darling daughter had become something else.....

You may be boosting that your child lives in London, America, etc but do you ever ask yourself how life is treating them where they are??

So many parents in Nigeria believe the field is greener on the other side forgetting that NO ONE CAN TRAIN YOUR KIDS THE WAY YOU CAN EXCEPT LOVING & GOD-FEARING PEOPLE.

In the UK so many Nigerian parents have misplaced their priorities, they rather work 24/7 and make all their monies to build mansions in Nigeria at the expense of their children's lives.

So many Nigerian parents in the UK don't even attend parents' evenings at their kid's school, some can't even help their kids with homework. Some believe their kids are at home and they are safe not knowing who is there with them. Some would rather spoil their kids with money & expensive outfits instead of investing quality time in them.

Sending your kids abroad to be looked after by someone else is a pure waste of time and bringing your kids from 9ja without giving them all the time needed is an irresponsible move and to be working all God-sent hours, making sterling, dollars, and euros, naira, etc without spending quality time with your kids is a disgrace to parenthood.

This is one of our bad irresponsible cultures even back home ….most children in Nigeria were brought up by housemaids/gatemen/next door/grandmothers/neighbors etc. Some Nigerians don't believe in family planning rather they will have so many children and start using them to hawk sweets, bread, etc after school...

Having a child is not by force, God did not say YOU MUST HAVE CHILDREN, YES HE STATED 'MULTIPLY' but he didn't mean we should do it to suffer for them. Having children does not mean you will live your life joyfully and it doesn't give you a place in heaven either, instead, your children may make you miss heaven if care is not taken.

I am a product of a neglected, nonchalant, cultural upbringing and I WILL NEVER WISH IT ON MY GREATEST ENEMY BECAUSE I HAD IT ROUGH AND IN SADNESS.

Let us stop being selfish and stop pushing our problems/burdens on others. Your child should be with you no matter how poor or rich you are and you must teach them in the ways of God.

Some parents in Nigeria, have children in Diaspora and know nothing about their life , only the fact that their child is abroad.

Is this your story?

You host liberals, you want their money, you know what it means, then you expect them to sit still as if they're governed by ayatollahs?

Kobojunkie:
In the Kingdom of God, restitution is not the law ---it is instead of the Old Covenant. Instead, those who wish to enter into the Narrow Gate which leads to True Life aks Jesus Christ are required to sell it all and give it all away to the poor in order to gain the treasure that is Heaven and also have treasure in Heaven. Without this, no man gain access to the Narrow Gate which leads to Heaven at the end and Jesus Christ is that gate.

Restitution is important. Even human laws demand it.

Everyone will be happy to commit crimes/sins and afterwards live fat on it if there's no restitution. They feel what they did was illegal, so let them make amends financially, after all, they conned people out of their money.

Restitution is the way to go about it, otherwise these pastors aren't sorry. Counting on grace so iniquity may abound isn't wisdom for them.

Kobicove:
I wonder what made him fall from grace to grass

It's right there in the story.

etrouble:
Football should be devoid of politics

Since BLM it became impossible. Now everything is permissible. If black people can, why not any other movement? Very soon Zionists will want recognition on the pitch.

ogascomax:
All their stupid hypocrisy. Blacks were so foolish to accept that stupid black lives matter thing. Do you know what Black lives matter truly means. Like you are going into extinction and that you are an endangered species. Look at the outrage that greeted Kenye West when he wore White lives matters. It's because the people behind the black lives matter understand that it was an insult against the black race and many foolishly accepted such a curse. What is england simpling doing is a protest against not accepting LGBT calling it fight for human life. What vexed me was even calling it 'One Love' armband.

Lol.

Your vexation is funny. It is the Rolex nowadays.

This world cup has been overshadowed by religious and needles gender issues. Offended hosts who agreed to host, but now everything is an insult and offense to them; offended participants who came to champion rainbow rights in order to get offended and not really watch the matches, forgetting where they went to watch it.

All this policing only results in more divisions.

FreshFarmAgro:
You should start worrying about your safety not the goats. Whatever killed the goat in such a cruel manner must be really cruel


I'm writing this to tell you to be careful about your life.

This clearly is the doings of a dangerous animal


Now, let me advice you professionally.

Go and do deep research on why animal rearers always choose to pair a donkey alongside other animals like yours while raising them. This can be the answer to saving you from such losses into the future.



Be careful. Be it an hyena, a fox or a jackal. These animals can be deadly



An hyena doesn't need to kill an animal from the neck, though it's not that it can not. This suggests another dangerous animal





Jackal Diet

Jackals are nocturnal, omnivorous scavengers. With their long legs and curved canine teeth, they are well adapted for hunting


Jackals kill small prey with a bite to the back of the neck.



Range & habitat

All jackal species live in Africa, albeit in different regions.



Diet

Jackals can be both diurnal and nocturnal. This means that they can look for food both day and night. All jackals are omnivorous, meaning that their diet consists of both meat and plants.


Highlight


" When it comes to killing small prey, they usually do so by delivering a bite to the back of the neck and vigorously shaking the animal. "



Possible culprits


Jackal

Fox

Juvenile Leopard

African civet

Aren't jackals as little as foxes? A fox would choose a chicken over a goat.

Whatever killed it only ate the neck. Touch luck finding and killing the animal who kills but will not eat.

Seems like the work of an angry human.

MideMrPossible:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vr85NFhuwJk

We are having this kind of attack second time this month and the pattern of the attack is exactly the same.

Due to farm invasion of our livestocks, we only allow them to graze at night and leave them till daybreak while we let them into their cage.

The first victim of this wild attack was Huda ram, he was sick and want missing, after about the third day, we found him with his head ripped off from the neck, likewise the second goat, brought in for mating about 12 days ago, felt sick, recovering, went to graze and the second day we met him this way.

We are currently working on installing perimeter net for the first part of the land we intend to use for livestock, that's about 3 acres, it separates the farm from the remaining land meant for crop plantation.

Which animal do you think is on the prowl?
Kindly suggest how to capture or kill this animal.

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The same people who don't want you farming in their suburb.