Family › Re: Emotional Moment As Argentina Legalises Abortion In Historic Vote (Photos) by bukatyne(f): 12:17pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
mariahAngel: [s][/s]
YOU ARE A WICKED LIAR AND A DECEIVER! "Soul enters the foetus at birth"? THE NERVE!
How come babies react to voices and sounds of music in the womb? As long as there's a heartbeat, THERE'S A SOUL! Hahahahaha You have taken it personally  Na wa for you! Go to a maternity Ward and see the soul descending immediately the mother births the baby. |
Romance › Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by bukatyne(f): 7:58am On Dec 30, 2020 |
Chai! Went through the thread. Aunty fine lawyer, e Pele o! They Don table your matter for NL! When a 'Nigerian' man says he needs a humble, submissive wife or he is the head, I am super duper wary.  They lack the capacity to understand those concepts in practicality. When one thinks it is the older generation of women who trained them, one 'wanders' like my Ghanaian friends would say. |
Education › Re: Deeper Life High School Suspends Solomon Ndidi Over Molestation Of Pupil by bukatyne(f): 9:36am On Dec 29, 2020 |
I just read a summary of the story and it is so heartbreaking. I pray the boy gets the mental, physical, emotional and physchological healing he needs.  The principal, boarding masters, senior prefect and other people in charge should be suspended during investigations and dismissed publicly when done. The students involved should be publicly expelled and sent to remand homes if less than 18 and imprisoned if more than 18. How does sending a junior student to senior dormitory cure bedwetting? This is how we keep breeding animals on human skin. How would this boy relate with humans if he doesn't get healing? |
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Family › Re: Nairaland Christmas Giveaway 2020 by bukatyne(f): 8:02am On Dec 29, 2020 |
pocohantas: The giveaway is over please. I won’t respond to mentions, not because I am rude- but because I have nothing different/special to say.
Meanwhile, no be only una need phone, I need a phone too. Anyone that can buy me iPhone 11 or 12 should indicate biko.  Kudos and Merry Christmas. |
Family › Re: Sponsoring A Lady or Man To A Western Country by bukatyne(f): 8:42pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
binghammer: Guys, is sponsoring a Nigerian woman to a western country through marriage in the same category as paying her school fees because you are dating her? Would you do this? What if you guys have been dating for several years before you travel to the western country? Would you reconsider because of this?
Ladies, would you sponsor a guy from Nigeria to a western country through marriage? Are you more disposed to doing this if you guys had been dating for several years in Nigeria before you travel? Peeps around me interested in relocating abroad do so with the whole family. They mostly use the wife because she is naturally younger hence more advantaged. Some others (when the husband has a fantastic job) send their wife and kids abroad while they keep working in Nigeria with the aim to join them upon retirement or at a set time. I know a couple where either wife/husband get papers, they marry immediately and travel out. I honestly don't see this fear of wives turning in them. I would however state that: 1. They were all married for some years; 2. They had a solid relationship before the papers came through (for singles) Nobody came to Nigeria to find a spouse nor did they just 'pick' or 'sponsor' someone off the rack. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Couple Welcomes Twins After 27 Years Of Marriage - Pictures by bukatyne(f): 7:19pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
DrFunmisticGlow: i rejoice and congratulate them, but we all know that they did IVF. Nothing miraculous about it. And IVF working out is not a miracle? Can science determine implantation of the introduced foetus(es)? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Adeboye Celebrates Wedding Anniversary Of His Children by bukatyne(f): 7:15pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
IamHeWrites: General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God Pastor Enoch Adeboye on Monday jointly celebrated the wedding anniversaries of all his children, Igbere TV reports.
Adeboye used the occasion of his last son Leke’s wedding anniversary to celebrate his other children’s.
https://twitter.com/PastorEAAdeboye/status/1343468409904881665?s=20
Leke’s wedding to Titilope clocked nine on Monday. Congratulations Pastor Adeboye. An all round fulfilled papa  |
Celebrities › Re: Rita Dominic, Fidelis Anosike Are In Love — Patrick Doyle by bukatyne(f): 6:56pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
Eriokanmi: When your yam sprouts, you eat it with your mouth covered with both hands...its a local adage. This girl hasn't learnt her lesson yet, even at her age. She doesn't need all these publicity. Village people never sleep nor slumber. Ko ye mi o! Olorun a mu Ojo ro! |
Celebrities › Re: Rita Dominic, Fidelis Anosike Are In Love — Patrick Doyle by bukatyne(f): 6:54pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
MrMcJay: Yuzedo, there goes your crush.  That year. Someone should look for him at Banana Iceland o! His sweetus is escaping April 2021. @OP: I thought Rita would have learnt by now and flaunted the ring or gown like Agbani especially after claiming social media ruined her last serious relationship.  Goodluck to her. |
Romance › Re: . by bukatyne(f): 12:12pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
Vanzcharles: It has not finished with me biko Abeg stop dragging everybody into one trouser. Hahahahahaha! |
Crime › Re: 17-Year-Old Girl Accuses Justin Ugonna Of Statutory Rape. He Reacts by bukatyne(f): 11:51am On Dec 28, 2020 |
@OP:
The disgust aside,
I have a hard time processing this.
This is no different from men or women lying about their age for sex or marriage. |
Crime › Re: 17-Year-Old Girl Accuses Justin Ugonna Of Statutory Rape. He Reacts by bukatyne(f): 11:50am On Dec 28, 2020 |
Mindlog: A good lawyer would argue the 16 year old boy way out of impending imprisonment focusing on him also being a minor and about the same mental capacity of the girl involved but sadly if you go to the prisons, you are likely to see guys under18 serving terms for statutory rape. Is statutory rape having sex with a minor or having sex with a minor female? |
Crime › Re: 17-Year-Old Girl Accuses Justin Ugonna Of Statutory Rape. He Reacts by bukatyne(f): 11:44am On Dec 28, 2020 |
ImpregnaTor: And suddenly age is no longer just a number right  |
Family › Re: Hilarious Photos Of Men Shopping With Their Wives, Can You Relate? by bukatyne(f): 11:38am On Dec 28, 2020 |
Ishilove: That's where you men have it wrong. We don't move around aimlessly. What we are doing is accessing, analysing, comparing and surveying the items on display. It will aid us in making a choice. A woman's mind is working on overdrive in that so-called 'aimless wandering'. She is computing figures, drawing mental images, creating pie charts, bar charts and scales of preferences during those moments.
A woman's mind is a wonder of God's creation, and it is scientifically proven that women are better multi-taskers than men.
Personally I don't like shopping with anyone, be it male and female because I don't want anyone imposing time constraints or ideas on me. There's just this...this... feel when shopping. The sights, the sounds, the ambience... it's almost orgasmic. 
I was at a supermarket today and I spent close to 45 minutes at the perfume section. Heaven... 
See, you just can't understand. You are a man.
If you are my man, I'd tell you to sit your ass down at home let me do the shopping alone. Any time I return home, take am like that.  You gerrit |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Aigbe And Family Share Lovely Christmas Pictures by bukatyne(f): 8:34pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
Mercy Aigbe, Iyabo Ojo, Mide Martins-Abiodun
Sweet women. |
Family › Re: Today, I Did What I Have Never Done Before....i Think I Am Matured Now by bukatyne(f): 8:29pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
Oluwapluto: I'm 23, I live in my parents house....Every christmas that we have been doing, my big bro is the one that always kill the chicken....But this year is kinda different, Big bro is not at home, he travelled and he is not coming back anytime soon
This Evening when my mum came back, she bought 3 chicken from d market, came into my room and told me to come n kill two of them, omo, fear grip me o but I man up and entered d kitchen, picked up the chicken and Knife....though I was scared but I succesfully killed d two of them, but since then till now, I have been restless Make una help me thank God o, I don ripe, I don mature....I can now kill a chicken  Alleluia . . Merry Christmas people I love you alll Thank God Oluwapluto don ripe  To killing of goats and cows  |
Family › Re: Today, I Did What I Have Never Done Before....i Think I Am Matured Now by bukatyne(f): 8:27pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
vickydankal: Wow what an achievement. By the power vested upon me, I hereby declare you a man, raise up, go forth and do exploit by killing goat, ram and cows.
Raise lord Oluwapluto Sexy vickydankal Are you sure Oluwapluto wants to rise  Merry Christmas |
Family › Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by bukatyne(f): 8:11pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
[quote author= wwwkaycom post=97424749]She is going to be 22 by end of January, Born 1999, now a final year pharmacy student.[/quote]Bros 22 yr old is old enough to marry na Her mates are done with their kids.  Seriously, she was wrong for not informing you before the visit. She should have said 'Brother, a male friend of mine wants to visit me here.' Na you go kana say na her boyfriend. This would have prepared you to engage him as baba Iyawo. I want to assume he is serious that's why he can visit her in your home. However, I don't understand the part of entering the room for three hours. Surely, they are not stupid enough to have sex in your house?  Let madam talk to her so she learns how to behave next time. That way, you also make an impact in her life. Merry Christmas. |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Johnson And Family Looking Amazing In 2020 Christmas Pictures by bukatyne(f): 6:11pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
Merry Christmas to the Okojies. They look so Christmasy  |
Family › Re: How My Sweet Husband Changed After Two Years Of Marriage- Please Advise by bukatyne(f): 10:48pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
I actually clicked and read the story:
Summary:
Woman married a mad man who just changed after two years in marriage.
Hmmmmm. |
Family › Re: Many Women Are Married To Men Who Engaged In Homosexual Acts In Boarding School by bukatyne(f): 8:32pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
wisdomiskey: So according you your logic, if a boy grows up watching his father beat his mother, Then, he grows up to do this same to his wife he is justified?
Ok. Got it  Did you just learn the word 'justify' Or is your name Justin? Learn, unlearn, relearn. If a boy grew up seeing his father beat his mother, chances are he would beat his wife too because he learnt the wrong conflict resolution skill and/or bullying from his father. It is possible he comes of age and realizes that wife battery is not normal and unlearns it. If he unlearns battery as a conflict resolution skill, he then has to relearn the right skills for conflict resolution. He either works on himself or reach out to someone (mostly a therapist or religious leaders) to help him do so. I still don't get the point of this thread. That junior student sexually molested in that school would be classified as a closet homosexual husband tomorrow by your OP. |
Family › Re: I Do What My Husband Wants, Because It Has Made Us Rich by bukatyne(f): 8:14pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
crackhaus: Buka let's summarize the issue and not dilly-dally...
The truth is that women these days (of a certain generation and below) want it ALL.
They want a man who will provide the millions while making out time to massage their bodies & legs, cook for them, buy them whatever they want, take them out to fancy places, all without demanding anything too much from them in return.
As far as they are concerned, their wombs and vaginas which holds and bears the man's children, is enough. It is human nature to want it all with little in return  Husbands also want wives who co-provide, look sexy at 60, cook gournment meals four times a day, handles all the chores, care for the kids, maintain the spiritual temperature of the home etc. All they would do is provide the balance. It is wisdom for one to know no one is perfect, be content and grow to be a better fit for our spouse. If that wisdom is common is another matter.  |
Family › Re: Many Women Are Married To Men Who Engaged In Homosexual Acts In Boarding School by bukatyne(f): 8:07pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
angelfallz: i have explained this homo stuff in 2ndary schools before. Let me do it again, to help you better understand and in your arguments with others. There are 3 types of students that engage in homo acts in secondary schools, they are:
1. those that have sexual urges, but since no female is available they pounce on junior boys or their mates that have big nyash/ behave girly. 2. those that were molested as junior boys, these ones are just doing it because it was done to them(this also applies to bullying) 3. those that were molested/introduced from home, at very tender ages
Notice that the first group are not really homosexuals, they're just trying to satisfy their konji. the secondary group are not homosexuals, they're more or less revenging what was done to them. the third group are the real homosexuals. It is not a mean feat to raise stable, wholesome kids. Some people are anti-boarding house because of the gives kids can pick up. Well, the only girl that got pregnant in my set was a day student. She legit left home everyday for a full term and never got to school. She was diverting to mechanic's house/shop for d*ck appointment. The one who set someone to be raped was also day. It seemed the day students had too much time on their hands. And the day students supplied the mofti, contraband, weed, skunk, appointment places etc. for the boarders.  |
Family › Re: Many Women Are Married To Men Who Engaged In Homosexual Acts In Boarding School by bukatyne(f): 7:59pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
wisdomiskey:
 So you are actually justifying this? I see you modified your previous post. Do you know what justify means? I like to find the root cause of something and mitigate against future occurrence. I don't pick an isolated event and run with it. I went to a boarding house so I know that there was sexual molestation (same/opposite sex) going on. I also know that some people grew out of it, and I am sure some of them entered express fully. Interestingly, some others picked up the orientation after secondary school. |
Family › Re: Many Women Are Married To Men Who Engaged In Homosexual Acts In Boarding School by bukatyne(f): 7:45pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
etrouble: Most ladies too are lesbians Abi, if we are going that route. |
Family › Re: Many Women Are Married To Men Who Engaged In Homosexual Acts In Boarding School by bukatyne(f): 7:45pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
wisdomiskey: Nope.
Dont ignore that a lot of people willingly engaged in the act.
Digress all you want but the fact remains that a lot of married men in our society are closet homos 
Why would senior boys in this school be so interested in the anal cavity of a young boy? Did the senior boy wake up one morning and start molesting junior boys? Was he not once a junior? Ever heard of cause and effect? A lot of ladies are closet lesbians, lot of peeps are closet thevies, gluttons, schemers, betrayers etc. |
Family › Re: I Do What My Husband Wants, Because It Has Made Us Rich by bukatyne(f): 7:38pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Aileexa1: Only high quality men deserves this doormat that is claiming submissive.
So because I want to be submissive, I should lose my sense of self? Or because he makes us millions, I should be his slave? Am I not human? Are there not times I won't want to do it? If its money, I'll make it myself. Let both of us be sharing wifely duties together. Rubbish!
Las las, marriage no be by force How has this wife lost her sense of self or become a doormat? |
Family › Re: I Do What My Husband Wants, Because It Has Made Us Rich by bukatyne(f): 7:37pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Exodora: She should continue ooo , but we don't want to hear stories of how he has being humiliating her tomorrow . That was exactly how Tonto Dike and co kept us in the moon for so long how they have been living a perfect life until she could not take it any more . One thing I hate in life is pretences . Some women out there will be jealous of this one naw thinking that everything is perfect for her. No marriage is perfect jhooooor ! . Everything is perfect for her how? The wife spent 95% of the post telling us what she does for her husband. How did she paint perfection? |
Family › Re: Many Women Are Married To Men Who Engaged In Homosexual Acts In Boarding School by bukatyne(f): 7:34pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
wisdomiskey: ... and?? I hope you're not trying to justify the sexual assault that took place in that school?   Justify: make right an event. How has any of my posts 'justified' the alleged abuse in the school? Interestingly, the tread is 'low key' discriminating against victims of abuse in boarding house. What does the OP wants a person to do if they married a boy/girl sexually abused/molested by same gender in boarding house, on the street, in the church/mosque, family etc? Divorce them? Or is a guy/lady telling their intended that they were molested/experimented by same sex in Secondary School a basis to end the courtship? What reaction does the OP want? |
Family › Re: Many Women Are Married To Men Who Engaged In Homosexual Acts In Boarding School by bukatyne(f): 7:22pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
wisdomiskey: How do these fit into the same category as assholee drillers? Would you be happy to learn that your husband once fuccked boys? The issue is not my happiness or lack of. It is the circumstances and process to become a better person. A typical boy in secondary School is 10 - 18yrs. Some of us were 15/16 in SS3. |
Family › Re: Many Women Are Married To Men Who Engaged In Homosexual Acts In Boarding School by bukatyne(f): 7:10pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
A lot of women are also married to thieves, bullies, beggars, clout chasers, ass kissers, dirty pigs, gluttons, low self esteemed boys etc. Same applies to the men. What is the point of this thread exactly?  |