₦airaland Forum

WoundedLamb:
That's under the assumption that the father always knows all what it takes to thrive in the present world.

istina:
Education:
Spiritual
Intellectual
Moral
Financial

Support:
Spiritual
Moral
Financial

Give these to your children and you will be proud of them sooner than soon.

Shokoloko:
Nothing was hidden from anyone. All three of them knew what was happening
1. Moyo was Ali's babe before meeting Tunde. This was open knowledge in the bank

2. Moyo and Tunde are BLACK AFRICAN YORUBA but the two children are FULANI WITH ARAB ANCESTRY. If Tunde is claiming he didn't know from day one then he is an slowpoke. A BLACK yoruba couple CANNOT have mixed kids

3. The marriage survived 8 years: The daughter was 8 years when the marriage ended, meaning that Tunde married a pregnant Moyo.

4. Moyo left for the US in 2017.Tunde did not attempt to retrieve "his" fulani kids.

5. Tunde was engaged and his fiance was pregnant when he died. Apparently the guy wasn't looking to get back the kids.

My take is that Moyo and Tunde played a milking game on Mr. Nuru but Moyo ran away with Mr. Nuru's settlement

Womanizer:
You people should face your own lives and leave this lady alone

Na fuçk she fuçk, she no kill person

GboyegaD:
Is this some fiction in the light of the current issues going on?

ibkayee:
Naija guys make it hard to pity them generally in situations like this unfortunately. Sorry to the man in the story though, I feel bad for he and the children but once I finished the story and started reading comments from the guys on here I was lowkey laughing (not at the man in the story)

Righteousness2:
You can put up laws to make people do certain things. They might obey and do what u want but once they are out of sight, they do whatever.

Only an Encounter with JESUS Christ that will truly Change a Person for good

Timmi:
This is deep and thought provoking. Truly the heart of men/women are evil. Only God knows our heart. The wickedness is mind boggling - having an affair with husband’s friend. Wow.

sapphiere:
Makes sense to some extend

SweetCunt97:
There's waybill. Lolz see the children for what exactly? Go to the beach and hangout? Puhleeese, are we in d movies? Abi who seeing eep.

dominique:
The way a lot women get jittery when DNA test is mentioned ehn

That's why men mustn't tell their wives that they're carrying out for DNA test on their kids. Just take a strand of the child's hair and take it for testing. If the child is not yours, you can now decide what to do

bigjackass:
are you actually going to travel to Abuja from imo state to carry food? Is the quantity that much

Wallade:
I don't think there's any rule, policy or regulation on the bank's HR Policy that explicitly prohibits sex between staff especially where there is no concrete evidence that such sex or relationship occured in the office premises.

Neither Moyo nor Nuru admitted to extra marital affairs and I doubt that Moyo or Nuru will authorize any DNA test on those kids for public scrutiny or knowledge. The fact that Moyo is no longer a staff of the bank also indicates case closed to the bank.

All Organization's HR know that such happens in the most organizations through grapevine but nothey would rather prevail on an irreplaceable staff to desist from the amourous relationship using unofficial means to protect his image and the bank's image, when the relationship is becoming an issue.

I believe some people in the FCMB want Mr Nuru's job and they are relying on public revolt to force him out of office.

GboyegaD:
It seems our idea of excitement for our lives as Nigerians is to chase clout.

GboyegaD:
What is the crime of the man we are petitioning here? We sabi chase clout sha.

bottlewater1:
First of all, I want to wish you all a prosperous new year. I want us to educate ourselves on this topic ' who builds a nation ' the man or the woman.
please share your own view

leadzeal:
I trust he will start to shuffle his aides. Once bitten twice shy.. but in this case, twice bitten. He will definitely sit up. Again u made some points there and I believe a relation of his will be viewing and reading this thread.

humilitypays:
Rich men don't care about a lady's class. All they do is roll with any chick available at the moment that catches their fancy at that point in time. They date countless number of women so there is no way a rich man of his calibre would date only classy or popular ladies.



In fact the more money you get as a man, the more you dislike classy ladies because they don't taste natural again. Most of them have used bleaching creams and cosmetic surgeries to remove all the naturalness of a woman in them.


Rich man doesn't need a woman's reputation or brains or wisdom or class, all he needs is a body and personality that attracts him at that moment. Sometimes he may never remember the girl's name thereafter because there are countless of them waiting in line for him in every city he visits.



And again most times they don't even go for the girls themselves, its mostly arranged by aides, friends or associates....so they usually don't have time to screen who the girl is

streetsoldier1:
How Adenuga dey do him own package, you can't even see pic of him let alone all these nansenz

lkillbrokehoes:
He can have as many pussies as he likes, body no be firewood and besides he's the richest man in Africa, but he should try and date matured ladies not all these cheap skunks, he should date classy ladies not hoes, he's bigger than that

Cousin9999:
You don't like women, do you?

So you must love men.

angelfallz:
i believe he had another baby boy(not the one that passed) before this baby girl

adedayoa2:
o sick gan

Vyolet:
She's more Nigerian now, moreover, this matter is settled already, his enemies are currently at work to bring him down.
The man's mom is also oyinbo
His son married oyinbo too.

mariahAngel:

If we had to collect all the money our mothers "borrowed" from us, we'd all be richer than Dangote.

@op, Kudos to your dad, yes, YOUR DAD, for the allowances, and thanks to your mum for imbibing the prudent nature in you.

copyrites:
Nigeria is the worst place on earth to raise a girl child. With people like you in Nigeria, I will do anything humanly possible to have my daughters raised and trained abroad.

Hintona:
I heard Ghanaian men treat their women well.

Just wish her happy married life.

deleSayo:
I'm sure many of you have seen the previous threads about my turbulent marriage. Truth is I feel less shame discussing my marriage here as I'm anonymous.. so insults are welcome as no one here knows me personally..

So, my wife and I have had issues from the very beginning, from the lack of relationship between her and my family members, to her growing cold towards me, to me distancing myself from her etc..

Truth be told my marriage as reached breaking point on numerous occasions but this is the height of my pain as I sit here typing on Nairaland whilst others are busy celebrating the new year with their families.

My wife wished me a happy new year by informing me for the hundredth time that she has fallen out of love with me and is tired of our sexless marriage - only this time she also informs me that she recently reconnected with an old flame from uni (who happens to be from Ghana). They had always had a thing which never materialised as she refused to date him due to cultural differences (she couldnt marry someone that isn't Nigerian).

I recall her telling me shortly after our engagement that this particular 'friend ' cut off contact with her out of anger & frustration when she told him she has decided to marry me.

Now recently, this guy is back again in the picture and they've been talking. When I questioned her further, she admitted to my face that she is sexually attracted to him and the only thing stopping her from cheating is the fear of God.

I have every reason to end this marriage but things are so complicated. We have this strange connection I can't explain despite our marriage and sex life being in tatters - she's got such a magnetic character, kind, and wears her heart on her sleeve. If she has slept with that guy I would know for sure (that's how open she is). I actually grabbed her phone during the altercation this morning - read all her chats ..with him saying all the nasty things he would do to her, how he doesn't give a fucck about the dude she's married to (me) because he knew her before me, how he doesn't want to disrupt her home but wants to be there for her sexually and emotionally, he's accepted his fate bla bla.

I'm at my breaking point right now..