Romance › Re: The Multi-billion Naira Sex Industry In Lagos And Its Invisible Players by bukatyne(f): 4:39pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
pocohantas: No premium baby girl lives under the illusion that maga will continue to pay. That is why you see them opening beauty parlours and making these men BUY them properties. Some of these businesses are used to launder money for politicians. These girls do not fck for a lifetime, they diversify.
There is this innate part of men that makes them want to explore a woman they think is NAIVE. That is what drives them to Bolanle. The difference between how they approach Bolanle and Lucia is just what you mentioned, PRICE. When these men approach a Bolanle, they come as a saviour. They’ll ask you who is that chewing gum bf making you do shakara for them and tell you to just YES, let them scatter your life with money. However, with Lucia, they know she is already in the game- so they go straight to business. There is really no thrill in Lucia, as she can even be a high-class escort to many other men.
Some of these men are not even into such fetishes. Some just want you to call them ode and make them feel young again .
Lol. You need to move around and see solid things these girls are building. Their major problem is always not knowing when to retire and extravagant lifestyle they live. It is hardly ever the source of the wealth. If we put morals aside and look at it realistically- why can I fck my struggling bf who will still dump me for another girl and call me borehole pussy, but it suddenly becomes a sin when I fck a sucre papito? Why?
Regina was a clueless and naive one as can be seen. A lot of these girls are stuck in the lifestyle and getting married to their benefactors is the least of their plan.
Lol. I wouldn’t call them that, but then, man’s greatest problem is his ego, not even women. Men with the money are not online complaining of how women are materialistic, because their ego does all the materialism and they are always out to spend on their women. 1. This is the senior level, the premium ones and I was adding the yahoo yahoo Boys. 2. The Bolanle is outside the scope of this discussion na, they are not engaging her for transactional sex as they would Lucia. It is under the guise of 'relationship' and 'marriage' especially when they are tired of 'fvcking' around and what a family or want a family while still actively on the field. Some of them in my office talk about how they snatched 'girls' from chewing gum boyfriends in school and NYSC and used money to 'scatter' her life. Some of them married Bolanles and still maintain their Lucia. Some still bring their Lucias to mutual parties and events. Clean brown skinned chics like they are made of glass and tape rule for symmetry. 3. Yep, the youth that feminity (real and fake brings). Unfortunately, it is something most of them seek as they grow richer and naturally older. The woman they need vs the woman they want dynamic. The queen (efficient, effective, resourceful manager) vs the princess (sweet, fresh, Ego massaging, beauty queen). 4. Back to first point. Except they are extremely objective to know when their (selling point) looks fade and the men want younger play things, they can't invest. Jumping from Dubai to France does not make you think investments, you think faaji  5. Sex outside marriage is sin so gvcking boyfriend and papitos take you same place if you don't repent. There is however an extra level of degradation transacting sex for money. That is the simple definition of a prostitute. It is also assumed that a prostitute has higher body counts aka diseases, mingling of spirits, wear and tear of the body etc. With the way people change sexual partners today, that might not be the case. And we have Lucias kept by one patron today. Someone told me the story of a lady that was a Lucia to a patron for 11 years and stopped upon marriage. Some girls have had 11 boyfriends within that time frame. Some men who claim to be in love and sleep with only their girlfriends have 'dated', 22 girls in that period. 6. That Regina? I thought her mother was streetwise. 7. A man who can conquer his ego is on the way. Rich men have no problem spending money on women, they just want their women (wife, Lucia, Bolanle and daughters) to be feminine. Poor men and rich men have different problems. This is the natural man's behavior which is changed by religion, training, morals or culture. |
Romance › Re: The Multi-billion Naira Sex Industry In Lagos And Its Invisible Players by bukatyne(f): 4:10pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
DisLifeSha: This life can never be balanced  Sex change is available. |
Romance › Re: The Multi-billion Naira Sex Industry In Lagos And Its Invisible Players by bukatyne(f): 4:09pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
crackhaus: Well yea, if the guy was trying to level it out (male hoes compared to female hoes) on a scale, then that's impossible because it will always tip in favour of female hoes.
However, if it's just on the idea that there are women who do pay for sex, dem dey o. It's just very coded and restricted to certain environments/circles. Of course, women pay money for sex however, that is not an ideal situation. Are you sure it is so coded?  Things happen all around jare. I wonder why the OP said Lagos. It is a general something worldwide which is why I said poverty has never been the cause of high end prostitution. |
Romance › Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs. by bukatyne(f): 4:02pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
xynerise: https://www.nairaland.com/3958925/ladies-dont-want-sex-should
The truth is, if you don't want sex, then please don't kiss him or make him ready for it. That's torture. It is just like touching your cucchies and the guys stands up and walks away. All thses things used to be common sense knowledge before. I don't know what is happening these days. |
Health › Re: Vietnam Police Seized 324,000 Used, Repackaged Condoms(Pics) by bukatyne(f): 4:00pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
What kind of wickedness is this? |
Romance › Re: The Multi-billion Naira Sex Industry In Lagos And Its Invisible Players by bukatyne(f): 3:58pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
Rapsodee: Maybe sha...it was still their decision tho Of course, it is their decision. |
Romance › Re: The Multi-billion Naira Sex Industry In Lagos And Its Invisible Players by bukatyne(f): 3:58pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
BreconHills: Including even the mallams that make tea at Opebi -Allen, the gate men that sell "stand up" spaces, the IG cosmetic and facials purveyors and the LAWMA vehicles that expertly remove all traces of the evenings shenanigans before office workers arrive at work. It's a smooth operation.
Remove the industry without installing a failsafe system and watch society unravel. It is tentacles within tentacles within more tentacles.  |
Romance › Re: The Multi-billion Naira Sex Industry In Lagos And Its Invisible Players by bukatyne(f): 3:55pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
crackhaus: Exactly, it's not the "average" woman that pays for sex.  Unfortunately for the guy's dream, it can't come to pass.  We would always have more female prostitutes and male patrons than vice versa. Not to go far, the Nigerian movie industry is a classic example. |
Romance › Re: The Multi-billion Naira Sex Industry In Lagos And Its Invisible Players by bukatyne(f): 3:52pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
This is the reason I am always a fan of young relationships.
No baggage, no woman/man used to thressome, no man who has slept with more women than the sand at the beach, no woman who has acquired taste for wierd sex tastes, no overly sexed people who can no longer bond with spouses etc.
All these Oloshos and patrons would think of marrying other people on future. |
Romance › Re: The Multi-billion Naira Sex Industry In Lagos And Its Invisible Players by bukatyne(f): 3:35pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
Rapsodee: lol...buying latest shoes, bags, jewelries and the likes are simply investments into their olosho ministry...better package, better clients...they will then use the little interest buy food and rent . I agree it is an investment into their jobs, however no bi poverty cause am. |
Romance › Re: The Multi-billion Naira Sex Industry In Lagos And Its Invisible Players by bukatyne(f): 3:34pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
BreconHills: Not true.
It's not the government that turns anyone to prostitution. Prostitution is a business like any other and an old one at that. The write up did not even include the entire ecosystem - landlords and madams that provide the real estate in exchange for weekly "rent", the " wears" sellers, online dating platforms, the recreational drug industry, doctors, ride hailing services, police protection, juju ( fake and real)etc, etc It's a huge industry bigger than several banks put together.
The returns are massive and the players range from agbo sellers all the way to "successful" entertainers and business people. It's inflation proof too because at the mid to high end, returns are dollarized.
No government needs to push anyone into a thriving industry. It's the poor bottom of the ladder prostitutes that spin that " I do it to feed the children/parents narrative. For the rest it's a clear eyed decision. Gbam! It is a whole ecosystem. |
Romance › Re: The Multi-billion Naira Sex Industry In Lagos And Its Invisible Players by bukatyne(f): 3:31pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
Nigsrdumb: It's not the economy, what happened was good girls allowed oloshos to run them over.
You need to go on Instagram and see how girls are recruiting girls into prostitution.
I almost cried when i saw a live Instagram video of a young pretty Igbo girl going into porn for the first time.
This was all orchestrated by another girl.
This girl could easily marry a rich man but prefer 10k to act porn  Rich man where? The ones patroning the high end oloshos? |
Romance › Re: The Multi-billion Naira Sex Industry In Lagos And Its Invisible Players by bukatyne(f): 3:30pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
Rapsodee: Nigerian economy has turned our girls to olosho and gold diggers, and our boys to Yahoo boys....God have mercy!  Not the economy. It is their decision. If it were the economy, they would the money for rent, fees, feeding, family etc. Not to buy latest shoes, bags, jewelry, cloths, cars etc. |
Romance › Re: The Multi-billion Naira Sex Industry In Lagos And Its Invisible Players by bukatyne(f): 3:26pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
DisLifeSha: My prayer is for the male sex industry to be open too. Sugar mummy and sugar babes to fu ck You better stick to yahoo yahoo. An average woman would not pay for sex.  |
Romance › Re: The Multi-billion Naira Sex Industry In Lagos And Its Invisible Players by bukatyne(f): 3:25pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
Vivonose: If only men can stop patronising Ha! Then you don't understand human nature. |
Romance › Re: The Multi-billion Naira Sex Industry In Lagos And Its Invisible Players by bukatyne(f): 3:24pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
kkins25: i never understand why E dey pain men say women live comfortably with little effort.. keep hating on olosho, meanwhile your leaders dey get political advise from the same olosho una dey here dey bash!!! Hahahahahahaha! Perhaps Oloshos should take Political Science as a compulsory course so they guide our leaders right. |
Romance › Re: The Multi-billion Naira Sex Industry In Lagos And Its Invisible Players by bukatyne(f): 3:21pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
OpinionCounts: What shocks me is that we have even some girls from Rich and average families in this, though most are from not very well to do background, but a lot of the girls in this industry are very pretty yet very empty upstairs, infact some of them are not even literate but can compete in beauty with a miss world 
Some of them sha will later make it financially and try to get some mental upgrade in learning and in civilization.
Poverty is a big factor....but believe me, some of these girls do not even come from very poor families, they come from the normal hand to mouth kind of family that just needs patience , hardwork, determination and the God factor to finally live an atleast average life(is this not also the case for most Nigerians?), But they decided to go the fast lane. Some are just out of pure laziness (desire to make quick money without working for it), primitive ignorance ( the ngbeke's that are trying to catch up to show they can also shine and be like other big girls), peer influence (bad company/ friends), illiteracy (when you know you are dumb and can't compete with others out there for decent jobs), lack of exposure (especially early exposure to a bigger ideal, a bigger truth and life reality...when u have been living in the rocks a mud house will look like 5 star hotel to you, so you can be easily deceived into selling your body to people, not knowing that you are belittling and destroying yourself, not knowing that life is way bigger than that), etc etc Poverty is not a factor for high scale prostitution or yahoo yahoo. |
Romance › Re: The Multi-billion Naira Sex Industry In Lagos And Its Invisible Players by bukatyne(f): 3:20pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: The Multi-billion Naira Sex Industry In Lagos And Its Invisible Players by bukatyne(f): 3:19pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
pocohantas: This is the part I find intriguing about runz girls (and closet yahoo boys). The fact that they make no effort to balance their obvious income and recurring expenditure. Men are not fools, no one is a fool. If you have a 100k job and you are driving a car, living in a furnished apartment, changing phones like pant, spotting luxury bags...etc. It isn’t really nuclear physics that you have a sponsor somewhere and some men won’t take you very seriously(not like they are ever serious sha).
Anyway, runz is so old school, sharp girls now do sponsors- okunrin meta (1 man with the ability of a thousand) . Go to the Island and you will see men that are ready to spend. Some girls deliberately move to the Island and go to choice places just to meet them and they are always ready to meet you too!!! It is like a thrill for them to just pick you up and rearrange your life. This one is not urgent 2k boys o. The interesting part is, they do not increase your mileage and damage the whole alignment of your pussy like U-27 boys. They are hardly ever around or less busy. Premium sucre papitos. 1. There is the illusion that magas, mugus and papitos will continue to pay. 2. A surce papito would not 'see' Bolanle talk more of 'engage for her services': Bolanle has to upgrade to Lucia which entails a lot of money and time. When papito sees Lucia, 'fear' would not let him 'price' her anyhow. 3. Surce papito has left survival mode and the feeling of 'power' that he can buy any high class girl he wants is orgasm enough so why should he break his waist? They would also rather 'exotic' styles to fulfill their depraved fantasties. And the fact that the Lucias are 'submissive' and 'feminine' make them pleasant companions. 5. There is a belief that money gotten from ill proceeds never build anything solid. Problem starts when they foolishly decide to marry sucre papito E. G. Regina. I guess these men fall into 'Alpha Bucks' which is uncharted territory for red pill.  |
Romance › Re: The Multi-billion Naira Sex Industry In Lagos And Its Invisible Players by bukatyne(f): 3:03pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
tundchip2: They'd be like: why should i suffer when i have a pussy.
niggas too be like: how can i starve when my Niggas are doing it large?
Males are doing fraud, scams, drug dealing, bunkering etc. And the females too, are doing their thing.
Nobody wan suffer for this life.
Person wey quote "use what you have to get what you need" know wetin he dey talk about.
Nice article tho. It is really pathetic! |
Celebrities › Re: Chika Ike Flies In A Private Jet For Business Meetings (Photos) by bukatyne(f): 10:47am On Sep 24, 2020 |
ajebuter: Real Alpha females don't marry their ' financiers'..
The fun and thrills wear off is she marries him..
Bottom line? Both of them are home wreckers.. A man like Ned is not to be married  So there is new dynamics: Alpha Bucks.  Babe is looking very sweet in her immaculate white. This is a pepper dem, blind dem sumtin! Let me be watching: When Regina launched her first ride, I was one of her supporters citing how she has acted for years and should be able to afford it. |
Celebrities › Re: Chika Ike Flies In A Private Jet For Business Meetings (Photos) by bukatyne(f): 10:46am On Sep 24, 2020 |
Meteng: Someone up there said it's Ned Nwoko ladies care foundation   |
Celebrities › Re: Chika Ike Flies In A Private Jet For Business Meetings (Photos) by bukatyne(f): 10:37am On Sep 24, 2020 |
Desric: Nah Regina Daniels own carry start be this too, from flying private jets and sharing on social media, to buying mansions and luxury cars for the mum etc to becoming Mrs..... you the rest of the story. He claims to marry only virgins na. Maybe he has a line for baby mamas and mistresses.  |
Romance › Re: Woman Flaunts Her 2 Husbands, Says 'Marrying 2 Men Is Greater Than Marrying One' by bukatyne(f): 9:40am On Sep 24, 2020 |
Goodluck sister. |
Romance › Re: Woman Flaunts Her 2 Husbands, Says 'Marrying 2 Men Is Greater Than Marrying One' by bukatyne(f): 8:28am On Sep 24, 2020 |
DirtyGold: Sugar mummy with two toy boys. She saw that she needed the extra hand to handle her excess baggage and apparently, she can afford them too 
Men are territorial. Men don't share women they are emotionally invested in.
What's tha business?  |
Business › Re: What Can Five Naira Note Buy Nowadays? by bukatyne(f): 4:03pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
feedthenation: Does ₦5 still exist?
Maybe enough to buy 2 tomtom One is N10  |
Family › Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by bukatyne(f): 1:02pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
JuanDeDios: Interesting debate between bukatyne and mariahAngel. Thank you. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by bukatyne(f): 9:22am On Sep 23, 2020 |
okeyben10: My dear I don't even like d idea of DNA test. I'll be married to a person and be suspecting she's making kids for me with another man??
I'm a bit old fashioned. I pray i dont get my heart broken @bold, amen. I suggested DNA because of the concern you raised. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by bukatyne(f): 8:13am On Sep 23, 2020 |
EXOUSIAng: "Preventing pregnancy" is the key word. Note: some many things we do everyday are against the scriptures, this is just another one, I am also not validating sin... I have for sons, am not married and I will cut off any hands that comes too close to my balls with a knife Preventing pregnancy under WHAT circumstances? Please read the passage again. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by bukatyne(f): 7:55am On Sep 23, 2020 |
EXOUSIAng: Gen 38:9-11 Onan got killed for preventing pregnancy Under what circumstances? |
Family › Re: Proud Dad Made 6 Month Baby Food In 5 Minutes by bukatyne(f): 7:51am On Sep 23, 2020 |
illicit: If nobody taught you how to make a baby, why should you be taught how to make it's food.... Just pondering....  |
Family › Re: Proud Dad Made 6 Month Baby Food In 5 Minutes by bukatyne(f): 7:49am On Sep 23, 2020 |
degamemaster: My dad comes to mind. The only super dad I have known and seen for real. When mum was so down with sickness, dad will make a delicious meal for us with tomatoes and okro and stockfish and anything his have could reach. And he will tell us that's How they make it in the army, very fast and so sweet. At a time, we wished that he will continuously be cooking for us like that. He will not forget to add jokes and especially some yabs at me and latter some proud and motivating names. He always tell me that anytime I become able to feed myself, he will count himself as a fulfilled dad because I was the real final consumer when it comes to food. Guess what, the little "Nnanwachukwu" then is now a big man, feeding many people and paying bills in Europe. God bless my dad with good health and more years. Your "chidi nwanfo nri" really love you. Military life gives an all-round life training. God bless him. |