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What kind of greed and foolishness is this?

Anyways, hands re-attached.

wizzy41:
Since my dad turned into a broke man,his attitude towards us has changed from bad to worst,he doesn't have any regards for any one in my family including my mum,most times he trys beating her,my dad doesn't contribute for anything in my family any longer, he's just broke n lazy,the worst part of it is,he lays insults on us for just a little thing,I n my sister together with my mom do contribute for our house rent,my dad does no contribution,most times d way he begs me for money makes me feel weather if am d dad to him or a son to him,I should be d one asking for money but d reserve is d case,my mum tries so hard to put food on d table,she lives for market very early in d morning by 5:30am to ensure that we eat for the day,to my greatest suprise my dad was having a misunderstanding with my mum very early in d morning,he called my mum a LovePeddler that she source her income from her sugar daddies,imagine someone that doesn't even makes an attempt to put food on d table talk more of observing other fatherly responsibility,most times I feel that he should be erased from existence, he's wahala is too much for us to bear.

This is your mother's fight.

My fear is that she has been subservient (not submissive) for so long that putting her foot down now would be viewed as 'misbehaving because your dad is broke'.

Since you know your dad is broke (obviously he won't be able to provide), you can give him stipends weekly than waiting for him to beg you. That begging is enough to break him especially if he provided for you guys prior to his recent brokenness.

You can also engage him when he is calm on his vision for the family and if you guys are living up to it.

You can also appreciate him for the things he did well for the past to give him hope and drive for the future.

By the way, what changed his fortune negatively? What made him broke?

Goodluck.

Gone through the thread, very funny responses.

I must applaud the Ghanaians for making the law somewhat balanced (based on what they believe is the likely vices of each sex).

So as a husband, you have committed a jailable offence if you:
1. Beat your wife
2. Molest her
3. Refuse to eat her food
4. Make her 'emotionally unhappy'

As a wife, you have committed a jailable offence if you:
1. Verbally abuse/ insult your husband
2. Refuse him sex

I believe they would also be handle cases like when the wives refuse to cook, make their husbands unhappy or when the husbands refuse sex.

This world is seriously turningoniown.

Powerfly:
Those people up saying 'what if she's a bad cook?
So you can taste the pussy but you didn't taste the cooking skills?..

Truly.. Nothing gives you peace like being true and honest to God's word. Total Obedience to his loving word is the the ultimate answer to a happy, contented life.

Let me do give my life to Jesus.. And surrender totally to him. I don dey observe the world.. E no favour me, instead things are spiralling out of control. Things are just no longer going to be good.

Hahahahahahaha!

It is well.

Ishilove:
Nice one. How can I labour in the kitchen to cook for you and you dare refuse to eat the fruit of my labour?

Fruit of your labour kwa?

What if you pissed him up and instead of apologizing maturedly decide to cook to manipulate him?

Omoluabi16:
baba you should 'stoop to conquer. ..

This thread is cracking me up!

blackjack21:
What about wives who refused to cook for their husbands, or refused to indulge in "the other room"?

B part is punishable.

Omoluabi16:
They will only end up discouraging people from getting married.

That's what these jokers never understand.

Unfortunately, modern women are all about 'sexual liberation' so they help men further.

Why buy the cow when you can milk it for free?

ubunja:
She'll still bring you food in prison lol.

Hahahahahahaha!

crackhaus:
Like I noted on the first page in my conversation with angelfallz, sensible men will/should continue gaming the system for as long as possible.

Every law, or more specifically, laws that have to do with policing the relationship between men and women, will always have loopholes that can be exploited... and exploited they should.

Cunny man die, cunny man bury am.

You have seen the new one from Ghana?

Not eating wife's food or coming home late or anything to hurt the wife emotionally punishable by fine or up to 2 years imprisonment.

Not sleeping with husband also punishable.

@bold:

True.

Elder0001:
I used to think Ghanaians are sensible but it seems I was wrong all this time.

Hahahahahahaha!

crackhaus:
Happy Sunday to you too B.

About the video, way ahead of you.

Someone posted it on one of my group chats yesterday and it brought up an interesting conversation lasting more than an hour.
The woman does have her good points, I must admit

I can imagine. drop small gist here na.

That's the beauty to listening to a preacher over time.

You begin to hear the checks and balances in part 1, part 2 and part 3 of their sermons. Singling one sermon to criticize a preacher is not right in retrospect.

Jqtyfx:
Does this woman ever preach the actual Bible or topics of the kingdom?!

All her preachings are worldly topics, what men want, sex, what women want, feminism, blah blah.

As long as you are on THIS earth, all these topics are important.

You don't want to hear them, go to heaven straight.

Wait:

His brother disflowered you while dating him?

Move on, move on, move on.....

MrBrownJay1:
Exactly!!!! Any person with some little wealth and common sense (whether in love or not), must think of when that love/Union will be over, in order to protect their wealth (because we all know that one day or another, love go sour). The law is there from the get go, it's your job to make sure you protect your wealth at all times.

I know "someone" in Brazil who was changing his gfs every 6 months, regardless of how much he loved them, simply because he knew that staying with them more than 6 months would put his wealth in danger of being part of some love settlement, if ever these women sued him. It's called protecting your wealth.....and unless you put your wealth under some hidden corporation that can't be traced back to you, then that's what most men with money must do.

So far, 50cent and OJ Simpson are the only famous people that have been able to succeed doing that. That's why they were sued and these people are still waiting for their money, even though both are rich.

@bold:

Sad.

Unnatural laws birth unnatural behaviors to beat them.

Well, 3rd wave feminists made it easy:

Get a consent form and hook up.

If you want a kid, get a surrogate and hire a nanny.

EOD.

SIRTee15:
Don't worry, just wait until it hits u, then we will review your broader mindset.
Just like Mike Tyson said "every boxer has a plan, until they enter the ring and get punched in the face".

That was how that Twitter doctor was supporting rape victims irrespective of circumstances until that girl came for his blokos....
He's got a disciplinary hearing with GMC soon and God help him and his medical licence.

That judgement was a scam and u know it. The lady just opened pension on top the guys head for nothing.
Do u know how many men will be stuck with spousal support if they are forced to account for every relationship with the opposite sex. That's sufficient to bankrupt 99% of men.

Well this is a lesson to all simps like Latner- once a simp for women, u are forever enslaved. The guy even paid off her mortgage while they were dating. Yet it wasn't even considered.

The western nations should continue their stupidity and their pathway to self destruct. He go soon clear for their eyes.
Moral decadence, weak family values n dysfunctional society are the initial symptoms of an empire in decline.

It is funny that his good deeds actually counted against him.

They didn't think 'oh, he paid off her mortgage, he really loved her. What happened line.'

Do good with sense.

Ore ni won.

Carlyboi:
Well!it only proves that the “world gold digger”is not an exclusive preserve of our African women...and women of all races do date or marry for money,power and fame more often that not lol...it only behove a man to use his sixth sense on these matters of the heart and the flesh!Qed!

Wait, you thought only Nigerian women dig for gold?

Let me laugh first!

Well, it is not over until the person is dead.

Divorce like failure in other aspects of life is not the end.

If the person married in the Church and divorced for any other reason apart from adultery, they might want to consider the eligibility of re-marriage (if interested).

Alexaonfleek:
Those people that did not misplace priorities in university by getting married in their first year should I tell you where they are today?

In romance section of nl forming redpiller,and Alfa male.
As for the ladies,you might catch them in Shiloh.

Hahahahahahaha!

Abeg leave me.

Faith without works is dead.

The earlier Christians learn this, the better.

Faith and works would never be interchangeable.

Except your sister has confided in you that her husband is the problem, I don't know how you concluded that celibacy caused their issues.

They have been trying for 14 years. Have they been to the hospital for tests? Seem any specialist?

If this same pastor told your sister to be pregnant before marriage, wouldn't you guys be the first to cry foul?

Or are they taking only faithatrin?

Kudos ojugo.

ggirl4real:
Alright.

Miracle seeking Christians, you don hear? Go and hustle and stop sitting in one place praying and fasting for miracle money you didn't work for to be sent into your account.

No genuine Christian would even pray and fast for a miracle without working.

God will bless the WORKS of our hands. Proverbs also tells us that a DILIGENT servant/worker will serve kings and not mere men.

Even the preachers in the Bible worked. Paul was a tent maker (whatever that means ), Peter was a fishermen and later tanner.

Even Jesus Christ learnt carpentry from his earthly father.

EVERYTHING on this earth operates according to principles and God respects them.

Whatever everyone sows, they will reap.

A Christian's advantage is knowing how to 'hustle' or what to do with minimal effort.

If God tells you what to do and you ignore, He would be looking at you.

ggirl4real:
If you say so

But what about Christians that are struggling to survive despite their devotion to God and endless prayers? Is God happy to see them struggling?

I have responded to this in another post.

ggirl4real:
That is what your Bible says.

However, I still feel that Christians should be God's priority. It should only be after the Christians have received all round blessings and are living comfortably before any unbeliever receives.

Why are many Christians still struggling and suffering while unbelievers are enjoying?

Some Christians even die while in the process of praying for a positive turn around in their situations. Why should that be so? Does God rejoice in their sufferings?

Contrary to whatever we are taught in Church, as long as we live in this earth, we will face challenges.

You lose some and win some. Christianity doesn't automatically immune you to ALL the problems of this life.

Again, this physical world has principles. If you do not follow the principle of wealth, you will not be rich. If you do not invest rightly in your marriage, you wouldn't have a good marriage. If you are not diligent at work, you will not grow. If you do not read your books, you will not pass etc.

If you follow the above principles as an unbeliever, you will reap the benefits bar exceptions.

You are however assured of eternal life if you abide in Christ till the end.

@Topic:

Sounds so much like our Sunday School today.

ggirl4real:
I don't understand why we should thank God for all these things.

Aside from number 10 (which is just a mindset), how sure are we that it is "God" that make these things possible?

If He's the one, I think all atheists and free thinkers should be denied these things.

Since everyone has access to these things you've mentioned, I don't see why we should thank God for them.

As a matter of fact, I'm very sure that there are many Christians who are struggling to access these things. Some die in the process while some free thinkers are still enjoying full access. Whose fault is this?

God shines sun and showers rain to the whole world so why wouldn't He give other gifts to everyone?

His love is for everyone, His blessings and promises are not for all.

Sambaby7640:
There is no water...the school lacks water...you buy water and it's expensive

Then that is responsibility of the school.

What have the SUG been doing since 1960?

Madibah:
But why did the Bible tell us Abraham has only one child when we know it's two
Ishmael and Isaac
Should I continue?

Read the whole Bible, then you will understand.

anataala:
Mine are as follows;

1. If Jesus Is God, Why Did Jesus Never Say “I am God”? Worship me

2. If God just forgives all Christians and none of them go to hell, why would any Christian do good when they can sin all they want?

1. Christ manifested as Son of Man; He did not gone to be worshipped. He came to serve man (by His good works of healing, deliverance, restoration, salvation) and give His life as a ransom (sacrifice) for many.

2. What Bible passage is this?

Youngzedd:
NIV and NLT is the best.

KJV and NKJV still remain the most terrible translation of all time. Too many errors. The guy did cut and join in there. King James aka slave master.

Someone mentions my NLT

I was gifted NLT almost 20 years ago.

Since then, that has been my version of choice.

Mummy wa

More anointing.

@Crackhaus, happy Sunday. Please check out this video.

She touched on the obedience/submission dichotomy.

HigherEd:
First do not even assume that Oyedepo knows who freeze is. Oyedepo doesn't watch news and doesn't read newspapers or use social media. He's as traditional as it gets. National relevant news are relayed to him in the most very old fashioned way through his aides.
Even his children or wife knows not to bring this sort of discussion about an irrelevant freeze to him, you may not like the response you will get.

Mind you Oyedepo created 6,000 more churches in the most rural parts of Africa in past six months. His organization is growing like wild fire with growth exceeding his past nine years of ministry combined. That is the point he is making right there. If so called haters can't stop a person from expanding or growing their sphere of influence then they are noisemakers.


A man still thinking about creating the largest hospital in Africa, largest housing, largest cathedrals and still manage a wage bill shooting exceeding high in the excess of 5 billion naira monthly. Oyedepo knows these new things won't come from wishful thinking at his advancing age, it requires the application of his brain to learn and conceive, his time to execute. His attention (brain) and his time - the two things critics are demanding are those he is wisest not to give.

In 200 years to come, Freeze and his followers would be remembered by a minority of historians. Their relevance in history would be tied to how they successfully rode to fame by dragging highly successful clergy. Oyedepo's legacy would live on! His churches would continue to bless lives. His university system would continue to be at the fore of cutting edge research breakthrough. Hahaha read his vision 2032, he is just beginning his life at 67 when many of his accusers are already done with theirs at 30.

We know this why? Jesus was condemned - his accusers are today irrelevant and unknown. Same with Aimee Semple MacPherson, Kathryn Kuhlmann, Maria Woodworth Ether, Smith Wigglesworth, Oral Roberts, Archbishop Idahosa etc. Critics are spectators! In a football field, 22 people are fulfilling their lives and destinies while 50,000 are crying, rejoicing, wailing and cursing. In the end only the 22 would get paid.

Ife Olaleye

That football analogy is so apt!