₦airaland Forum

FarahAideed:
Like why do people that just left Big brother house need police protection ? When we have police deficit in Nigeria ...

FarahAideed:
I can never fully understand the psychology in Nigeria

MurderX:


Walahi I just saw that response.

angelfallz:
Lol. it happens sometimes, you wouldn't know it's an old thread. it happens to me as well.

Klass99:
Pressure from who and from where, pls?

I think individuals put themselves under pressure, by themselves in their quest for materials things and the quest to blow, then they turn around and want to blame it on other people or society.

Is a gun being held to Sikira's head under mad pressure to run things with one big god father, somewhere?

Is Audu under mad pressure, at gun point, to scam or ritualize people?

As individuals we always have a choice in this life! Your life is also yours to build, it is not for others to steer.

I chose to live where I live now, I chose to decline a job offer @ MVP, I chose to turn down Kadiri's sexual advances while accepting Kelvin's for xyz reasons, I chose not to visit the baba's place for anything............these are just examples of choices, we all make on a regular.

Pressure may come from certain quarters like peers, family etc but at the end of the day, you get to decide by yourself and for yourself, what to do.

MurderX:
You answered yourself in the statement "Let us explode and see how mama gets angry and wipes us off her surface".
We deceive ourselves to think that we control nature, when you take one here from nature, you give one there back to nature - matter cannot not be created or destroyed at worst it is converted to energy. Man does not have what it takes to control nature, he is material and a subject of the material world. If you overpopulate nature will trim you, if you underpopulate nature will punish you, the optimum population at any given time is determined by mother nature and not our science.
I maintain that the natural order for procreation is superior to the unnatural and sociocultural, religious requirement for marriage.

solmus:
Ewo!!! Investment bawo ... Please don't say rituals oo lol Chai people's destiny


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nextstep:
Heh, my people.

But I hate it when commenters start yabbing Nigerians, as if this is not commonplace around the world. See people in a rich country doing the same damn thing - on a busy intersection for that matter - yet nobody will come and start talking about hunger, poverty, or the like:

https://www.gazettenet.com/Money-Toss-in-downtown-Northampton-13075852#lg=1&slide=0

solmus:
Forming Billionaire driving Camry muscle


Niggar mentality.... You better go invest and make some more raba

dosage150:
Well, no appreciation since I resumed work, when he fault me even when I know am right, I keep the good work going, we are really good, saying thanks really cost nothing

Abdulazeez99:
Nigerian musician, Akinmayokun Awodumila, popularly known as MayD has taken to social media to jubilate after his marriage to his long time white boo, Caroline Wassmuth crashed, Igbere TV reports.

MayD and Caroline walked down the aisle in November, 2018 after they dated for many years and they are blessed with a son.

Igbere TV recall that in 2018, after their legal wedding in 2018, MayD took to social media to share photos and captioned it “Off the market”.

Announcing the end of their union, MayD took to micro blogging platform, Twitter to celebrate.



https://twitter.com/MisterMayD/status/1310599119195508741?s=19[/quote]I was not aware that the 21st century behavior is to celebrate failure in marriage.

Nor should 'freedom' be sought when relationships/marriages get to a certain milestone.

dosage150:
A filling station with 3 outlets

dosage150:
Is it really necessary to thank your boss after paying (salary) you for job you did?

introvert2:
it bothers me how people pretend to like you but talk so bad of you behind your back.

KevinDein:
I probably won't lose a night's sleep if my wife divorces after even a year. Just an opportunity to wife a younger woman

Blue pilled simps don't know such women are doing them a favour

padi94:
Lol... u people have abused the man too much, you can't blame her for trying to fix him

Mires:
Looking at this woman's house, one can see that she has taste.

crackhaus:
The same article you posted states that the news should be discarded.

And what's your interest in this story?
Is it just the namesake thing that's making you sentimental, or do you work with them?

Makanaki127:
Make she just give the guy only chewing make he chew,d guy go done day miss that place na, a whole 8 years oh, u reason am na, suffer say he no kill person he should give him small

Dominion791:
I am 19 d eldest of 3 my brother is 15 and my sister is 10. We lost our mother 3 years ago since then everything has been hard cos my mum was d only one who worked hard for us to be well , my dad is an alcoholic he has never bothered about us. After d burial we packed out from d 2 bedroom house that my mum rented to a room . The room is so small it’s not very safe for my sister to be staying with 3 men in d house. My mum sister has been trying to convince dad that he should allow my sister stay with her but my dad has bluntly refuses.. For example she started her period she was shy to talked to me or my dad so she been struggling all alone and has hidden all her dirty period panties under her suitcase mixing it will all her clean clothes it was my brother who found them and showed to me , it was so disgusting to see when I ask her why did she not tell me or my dad about her period , she said she couldn’t tell us because we are boys. And yes she was right if she was with my aunty she wouldn’t be shy to tell her and I have reason with my dad why we should let her go , he still refusing saying as long he is alive he would not allow any of us to go and stay with our mum relatives. My sister is so eager to go and stay with my aunty she been crying all the time pleading with dad to let her but dad is adamant that she is not going anywhere.
He is not also doing his parental responsibility for us I am the one who is feeding the house with the little I get from work , I and my brother hadn’t been schooling for almost 3 years now , my sister is still in school but d way things seems to be I don’t think my dad would send her to school this term.
My brother and I are also struggling and suffering but we are men we should hustle hard but my sister doesn’t deserve all this treatment for her sanity she must leave this house . I really feel sorry for her cos she deserve to be in a good place with a mother figure cos there is a lot of things that she need to learn which neither my dad or I can help her with.
My dad doesn’t know where my aunty stay I want to take my sister there without his consent and please do you think I should do it or just let my poor sister to suffer the same way we are suffering?

crackhaus:
I hope you won't do what you plan to do behind your father, and your sister ends up getting maltreated at your aunt's house or even worse.

The guilt you're going to feel then will be 10× worse than whatever it is you're feeling now.

Makanaki127:
You are very wicked very very wicked, she should frustrate him sexually so he will go and commit suicide, then next week I will see man commit suicide after wife refused to accept him back in her life after eight year .. The devil is lier. sister abeg give am oh but use condom
Don't follow this wicked gal, he still ur baby dad remember

SegFault:
I don't know oh.

frozen70:
Stop making mockery of sensetive issues like this
No one goes to marriage to get divorced and no child was born with the intentions of being in a broken marriage

Go and get married and experience what it is

pocohantas:
Yes, I have also observed the growing trend of such divorce cases. My guess is, some of these women want kids, companionship, but not marriage. However, they can’t say it with their full chest in a country like Nigeria and they know the long run effect of having these kids from various men. So they go into marriages and leave after having kids. It isn’t a coincidence that they always have kids first. Better a divorcee than babymama.

Anyway, it shouldn’t be much of a problem that women are leaving marriages. After all, men claim to gain nothing from marriage and are also not interested in marrying Nigerian women anymore.

jomarq:
but you know human being learn by mistake. this is a fatal mistake and I need help if you have solution. once again, am wrong