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uuzba:
My sister was doing a simple job and managed to buy one small Toyota.
At that time, her fiance (Now husband), was roaming the street looking for work with 3rd Class degree.
Guy no dey even near our house. Sister was just quiet and prayerful about everything.
Later, the guy threw away all his degree and used SSCE to join Helicopter pilot (Caverten). God save am. They took him. Small money enter him hand, he ran to buy V-Boot 2nd hand Benz.
Immediately he bought that one, he now proposed marriage. Na that time we come dey see him face for our house.
He's still a pilot anyway and has bought 2 other cars. As for my sister she too has bought 2 other cars.
They dashed and sold off the old ones. So they both each have 1 car now

MT:
Everyone is a stranger, even those your marry in Nigeria. Why do people treat people in other climes differently?. If they LOVE themselves, they will overcome their individual differences. The OP needs to be genuine and honest with her and they should both determine to make it work. I am a Yoruba, and there is a proverb in Yoruba that defines Marriage as "Oja Okunkun" - meaning Night market - you cant be sure of what you are buying till you get home.

sonnie10:
Man way never buy car want to go and marry a woman that already owns a car? That means her salary is probably higher than the supposed husbands.
How or what are you even going to use to trip such a woman ?

bukkysam:
Gone are the days when men still have shame. We are in shameless society now

yemi1504:
Abi o, tell him! The marriage is not even important or the koko but the better and life changing opportunities he will give himself and his unborn children. My 2 cents.

binghamm:
He is a financial slave seeking a financial dominatrix. Them plenty for naija.

spiceadole:
That's fine.
A man supports his wife.
Woman supports her husband.
I work..I support my husband in paying bills.
My husband has hands..He assists me with chores.
While I am preparing breakfast for the family,he is bathing the kids.

We have bills such as school fees,rent,home keeping allowance..He brings 50-70% and I balance with 30-50% as the case may be.

It will be unfair if my husband just relaxes in front of TV or in bed,doing nothing while I struggle to cook,clean,bathe the kids,do the laundry,etc.

It will be unfair if I "hoard" my money while my husband struggles to pay school fees,utility bill,house rent,etc.

Marriage is all about supporting and assisting each other.
Its not a war zone or "I get sense pass you" venture like people on this platform make it look like.
Let's stop this unnecessary bitterness.

DebbieBianca:
Former super eagles and Stoke City player Mikel Obi, spotted cooking for cooking for his adorable twin daughters on their 5th birthday.

Mikel Obi twin daughters celebrated their birthday today being 13th of September 2020.

Watch The Video Below:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WugvhcDmTyc

Source:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CFFIQ5yHqAf/?igshid=1411qqt6e67ri

buchilino:
is this a trick question?

lakesguy:
Where's laycon?

OlawaleBammie:
In what way are they helping women pls??

Fourwinds:
The gist is she cheated on him with the church choir master and mistakenly sent nude meant for the choir master to him.

advise1980:
We haven't broken up yet. I am still with him. My BF did.. meaning he's an ex already.


From your wealth of experience. Please how can I gently break up with him without being at fault cos he seems subtle.

SATANNIST:
she cheated severally and dared him severally. i dont know why people are not talking about that. since they started posting this topic, you are the only guy that have asked sensible questions. people dont ask the reason for extreme actions like this. i am happy we still have sensible people like u in naija

Iconstar:
Set awon "touch not my anointed "will still defend this man. One day a pastor will rape or kill their loved ones and they will still justify the killing. Brainwashed fools!

Omoluabi16:
It is not just enough to divorce now. One should just make the right choices in both relationship or marriage.
Many psychopaths out there. This mad man obviously doesn't care for his life again..no hanging or electric chair will bring that lady back.

Kemimarch16:
I dont support divorce but sometimes it good to leave abusive marriage for the sake of peace

DaInferno:
bukatyne pls come

Ishilove:
2.0 sef is too low. It should be 4.0

Jqtyfx:
They're important but they shouldn't take the place of actual biblical preaching about the word of God's. When you call yourself a pastor and your entire sermon is about sex and different positions, and all your other topics are of a wordly nature, then you're simply a clout chaser and in the wrong profession.

crackhaus:
Lol, I can only imagine how you must have felt looking at the photos and wondering what was happening

Ishilove:
Cooking for him is another way of apologising. Our parents did not apologise to us. They simply bought us things after royally pissing us off.

advise1980:
He was the one who did it. I accept my mistake.