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coputa:
But we have legitimate marriage.

UjuJoan2:
The kind of wife you marry goes a long way in determining your future.

mrblessed:
1. This gospel is dreadfully one-sided and it is also steeped in gender bias. It says nothing about women but charges men to be self-assertive as a precondition to getting better women.

2. This line of reasoning is wooly because there is no correlation between being self-assertive and getting good women.

3. Due to the nature of human, people who tend to be meticulous on their choice of women, don't always achieve all that tick their boxes.

4. A member wondered why the end goal of assertiveness of men should be in getting women and was not given adequate answer.

5. If a man's assertive disposition is merely to get good women then it is shortsighted and dense.

6. It is good to encourage people to be self-assertive, however, let this positive trait be tailored towards solving societal problems, and not seeking for the gratification of women.

7. If one becomes successful by being self-assertive, women, I mean good ones, have no choice but to follow he who has wields the palm front.

LordKO:
More kudos to the Inculcator General of the Federation.

jidamsel43:
Many women nowadays are of the opinion that they have an equal right with their husbands at home.

Many of them except the same freedom they had in father's house to be replicated in matrimonial homes

xrayj:
One of the unbiased ladies we have on this forum. Nice one bukatyne.
But becoming an assertive visionary man is tied to a lot of factors in the society though & the present society we live in today is not helping matters.

Liposure:
i like where you said an assertive man is not a rude man. For years, its been a stereotype

Liposure:
Incisive. I'm enlightened

CanadaOrBust:
A more interesting aspect is why 70% of black women are single. See below.

(I just opened a new thread based on it)

https://www.nairaland.com/5964241/why-70-black-women-single

Rozz:
you right but women endured them those days because of some good qualities they possess,women today sees nothing to endure in most of their men and hence divorce becomes the only option left.

Unnerve:
Is this rudeness or assertiveness?

Belafonte:
Not bad, Buka.

Rozz:
a very good one

Unnerve:
In summary, the reason why a man should be assertive and a visionary, is to get a woman/wife.

Really?

NO.

We, The Association of Assertive Visionary Men, London Chapter humbly refuse to accept this conclusion as a worthy enough reason for our assertiveness and vision.

Rozz:
The topic says 80 percent of women initiate divorce,its so because of the frustrations men of these days put them through in marriage,most men want to live their single life while married and it's not and never going to work that way hence the topic.

Rozz:
Because men have stopped being responsible since the days of our fathers.Just few of them left

engrtee:
after divorce, women get richer in usa

CanadaOrBust:
In U.S. that is.
And what lesson can we learn from that?
And why is it that 50% of the marriages end in divorce? (See below)
And what lesson can we learn from that too?

jidamsel43:
Because most women think the matrimonial home is equated to their fathers' homes

Anojo:
A family dog has just mauled twin sisters to death while mother left the room to talk to a neighbor
Mother Elaine Novais, 29, a council worker who had struggled to conceive for nine years, left her 26-day-old premature babies at their home in Piripá, in the northeastern state of Bahia, Brazil, last Tuesday, June 23.


Read more : https://www.globalalat.com/2020/07/01/docile-dog-mauls-newborn-twin-sisters-to-death-while-their-mother-left-briefly/

Myer:
Lol I can assure you that that doesn't work.

I stand to be corrected if you can prove me wrong though. Be honest, has God informed you of your own purpose? Other than the generic biblical purpose to serve and worship God.

NerdyRudeGyal:
Mine too. Happy birthday to us!

rasheedatt:
huh you mean no environmental influence?

Myer:
How does one find his/her purpose?

Have you found yours?

livebyday:


Money indeed does make the strange and absurd seem trendy

Oh well ...

Munzy14:
We care in different ways....


So if oga travel out of state for business or official assignment, you won't cook again?.

You know that man that said he can't go out to fill gas for the family, might find washing plate and the wife's clothes as cool even ma payint na bra......

E fit be say he does other chores apart from that gas thing..


That's how a guy was castigating another guy for giving his babe cunnilingus, little did he know that his babe attested to his expert skill in cunnilingus... to the other guy's babe.

radiolover:
Morning all. Loan still in need.

HiFreda:
This is not MMM.
To start, she will probably not make any profit the first 2 months because she needs to put down structure. Equipment, feeding materials etc.
Let's say she makes the money to pay you back, is that the end of the business? Which money will she use to continue the business?
.
What she needs is a long term loan, or to source for personal funds to start with.