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Bodydialect57:
The blessing of the Lord makes rich, and that without sorrow.

True.

techmo:
Wise and very humble

Well like you said



Experience is the best teacher.

I just rather other people's experience.

Some of us can blame our ego from not learning from others

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It is well.

kzubyar:
fact's just like me still living with my mother's

Goodluck

Plead:
Exactly.
It depends on family and social status.

True.

Richer people stay back home building wealth except when their parents' home is far or they have a very toxic relationship.

techmo:



What works for A might not work for B, always find the balance

Read about Simon Cowell's life, read about The Founder of Kentucky's life

For me I left home very early for college 16/17, travelled out after service and never looked back since except visitation.. but my street brother stayed and married in his father's house, built a sport betting company from home, built his first house from home, leveraged on his father's Goodwill and became a caretaker LGA chairman, and became a multimillionaire ,


If I never had to pay huge rent because of Vagina aka Privacy I could have done a lot at home, and if I had stayed and put up with my parents "wahala" I would had been better motivated

Serving a Landlord by paying your rents to him is a sure way not to get your own house, always leverage on family support


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Experience is the best teacher.

I just rather other people's experience.

If your parents are not poor, your work is not too far from home and you have a bit of space, stay at home.

I know rich kids who stay at their parents' house investing their supposed rent and raking in millions.

That your street bros is so so wise.

lanibi:
All you need to do is to ask me about something and I'll make enough comprehensive research about it beyond your expectation.



But here I am studying a business related course.

Business analysis, Business research, Business strategist.

You need your gift of research.

Hajokexyz:
my talent and interest are not compatible.
I love that field sis.

Hmmmmm

You can have competencies in several fields aka heterocompetent.

Hajokexyz:
I can repair things without been taught ....unfortunately I'm studying a medical related course .

Why na?

SyrusdeHansome:
In my yr 2 as a Uniuyo student my mom called me one day to come over to the house. On getting there I met my mom in her room nd in the company of my paternal aunty discussing about me. Immediately they saw me they instantly stopped talking nd instead started gazing at me. After that moment of silence I summoned courage to ask her what the problem was and in her words she told me:
I accompanied ur aunty to one Orthodox church (name withheld) nd during their counseling session one of the pastors told me that u're keeping very bad companies in school nd that u will be initiated into a cult group this month that's y she called me. It was very funny because I know myself. I waited that month nd I wasn't initiated nd till I finished school nobody brought up the issue of initiation to me. Some prophets sha.

The second one happened in my yr 3.
One Friday my departmental sec invited me to their church tarry night program nd I was to play the keyboard sef. But the problem was that I had a test by 9am the following morning so I informed them earlier that I'll go back by 4am which the choir director agreed. By 4am I stood up to leave via the church front door and as i was about leaving I heard the pastor asking who is that young man that's leaving. So i immediately turned back to see the whole church fixing their eyes on me. I also saw my secretary trying to explain to him why I was leaving. After the explanation he commanded me through the mic to come nd get the answers to the test questions. And immediately he said that the whole church exploded in admiration of the pastor. They started calling him boastful names like: Jesus' mouth piece, prophet talk nd do, etc. After the uproar he started calling out numbers nd options like number 1 is A, no 2 is C till he got to number ten. Our sec was busy writing on my behalf. It was so funny because I don't bliv in prophecy, nd number 2 because my department can never set objective questions 4 test nd exams so I knew it was a fake prophecy. But I still collected the paper not because I couldn't oppose or disgrace the pastor but because I knew the law of power that States never outshine the master so I gave him his way. I later went to school nd wrote a theory test. The sec was ashamed when he saw me because he also helped the lecturer to supervise the test. Some church members are so gullible.

Pls share urs.

@bold:

You displayed wisdom there.

PaulH07:
Anointing oil dey your head, no be engine oil...

It has always been anointing oil.

Study of human relationships is a beautiful thing.

Especially when you realize that Adamu in Turanshi and Adam in New Jersey are prone to same behavioral patterns if not in a contained and controlled environment.

Funny question, depends on family and economic status.

The richer one's family is, the less the pressure to leave the house before you are ready to (marriage or job).

When to leave the house without a concrete reason to do so is usually a discussion for the lower class.

OP is postulating why married and committed men are more desirable to women than single men.

But again, these married men seems to be desired by women other than their own women.

Or how do you explain a married man on one hand complaining his wife no longer sleeps with him regularly while on the other, he is seen as more desirable in the sexual market hence single girls flocking him?

Nkan be

zedegit:
There's no professionalism there. Since she's working as secretary to chairman na there see finish dey start o. Who knows if the chair is an honourable man.

Very true.

I don't even like opposite sex PAs.

How can they tell a Microbiologist to double as a PA?

Not even EA?

Nope.

Vulcan24:
u should av ignored that post and conc on d video

most of those advisors are from the city behind hell

Nope,

Thank God I did not listen to the video.

I did less than 10secs and jumped out.

fieryy:
Dear Klass99,

How about you cut off the sentimental bullsh*t?

First of all, what you feel and what buka feels is none of my business.

Secondly, my post isn't based on how buka 'feels' about the traditional 9 to 5 job. Unlike her, I don't try to impose my beliefs on others. So if she's not a fan of traditional jobs, then fine...As long as she's happy

Thirdly, I'm not taking her words out of context. She said it herself 'I don't like my job/ working 9 - 5. I am tired of it' . How do you take that out of context?

Also, I'm not going to come here and pretend I'm not petty. I am petty as heeeeelll. In fact honey, I'm the Queen of Pettiness, lmaoooooooo However, this time around I wasn't even trying to be petty! Tf?!

Lastly, I had an epiphany. It finally occurred to why Buka is always so hell bent on imposing the traditional house wife lifestyle on young ladies. It's not only because she loves that role, but it is also because she hates her job!

Let me enjoy my epiphany moment, will you? And if my moment is what you define as nastiness, lmaoooooooo

It is what it is

I impose house wife styles on young girls from my laptop and phone?

Hahahahahahahaha!

Another person on this thread still accused me of encouraging women to be spend too much in the home?

Una never start.

Don't have epiphany in how to progress in life, be having epiphany on top my matter on how/why I am forcing young girls on internet to be housewives.

Dalby:
http://www.fab.ng/2017/04/daddy-freeze-ex-wife-opeyemi-olarinde-tells-side-story-new-interview/

The recorded audio interview with her is there also

Thanks a lot.

Modified: I have read it and it is just a backward version of Daddy Freezes' interview.

Dude claimed they wife was beating him and showed marks and bruises to that effect.

Wife claims husband was beating her and putting side chic on phone to further humiliate her.

Only the two of them and God really knows what happened.

@Klass99

I appreciate the 'defense'.

I leave people to show their content and breeding.

They never disappoint

And I brought the post here myself so some people don't start dancing azonto that there is inside gist.

I don't like 9 - 5 anymore and never will.

Too many things to do with life

We are going to going to get our dream jobs of 10 am - 2pm, 5 mins drive from the office, total work time of 6mths and 6mths paid vacation.

Anyone has that type of job should hit me up biko

Humbleamanda:
Note, I applied for the post of microbiologist, and they plead with me to help them in doing little secretary work like receiving and sending email that they will get a new secretary within a short time. Now they have indicated in the offer letter that and taking two position just for 60k. Meanwhile this job required that I have to live in the factory quarters to go home on Friday evening. I am a married woman though still expecting to have children, I plead with them to give me one day off on Wednesdays they disagree. I want to turn down this offer, what is your candid advise?

Reject the offer,makes no sense.

For N60k?

If a job would take your time, it should be able to pay for it.

And jobs like this don't make you grow or switch because you are stuck grinding at the wheel all day long.

Besides, as a microbiologist, you want a specific job and not jumping from the lab to the Chairman's desk and back.

leaculpa:
it's not news. you can Google the exwifes interviews.

Hmmmmmm.

Interesting.

Rozz:
Thats the name tagged for ladies who indulge in such.

It is just the wives afraid to face the person who is the cause of their problems:

The husbands.

Shifting the blame to the side chic makes it easier to 'deny' and 'forgive'.

Afterall, if the man was snatched, there is nothing wrong dragging him back home.

Ishilove:
The randy he-goat of a husband is to blame for this absurd mockery of the marriage institution.

Randy he-goat

Double honors.

leaculpa:
This was exactly what daddy freeze and his side chic (now current wife) did to his ex-wife.

She would call the wife and rain abuses on her, with daddy freeze supporting the side chic. Until the wife had to pack out of the house. I was so glad dt woman later got a green card & relocated herself & children abroad.
I pity those dt believe in that soulless idiot & his 'save the sheeple' campaign.

Any proof?

Rozz:
The man brought this upon his wife,shameless man.As for this husband snatcher karma awaits her.

How a husband be snatched when he is not an handbag?

What kind of madness is this from the side chic?

And which kain yeye advice is the Facebook poster giving?

It is her prerogative to forgive her adulterous husband however, if you say 'men would always be men', why the surprise that the man in behaving like a 'man'?

Secondly, why is the advise sounding like the crime is the side chic confronting the wife and not the husband cheating?

Thought processes like this makes adultery harder to tackle.

If you already believe all men cheat, you would not be careful while choosing and not make conscious effort of training your sons not to do same.

Nice one.

She did well.

Congratulations to her

And God give her the grace and wisdom to achieve ground breaking things with her knowledge.

Amen.

starbuck:
This reminds me of my cousin that bears the name Ogochukwu, only for me to call and congratulate her on her matriculation(University of Ghana), she told me that I should start referring her as Pearl



Told her if she no want gree answer the name we grew up with, make she forget

Very funny

Palema007:
Please just carry your wahala and go Biko.

You are very RIGHT ma!

Hathor5:
You are the greatest Buka.

Feel better?

You must mistake me for the airheads plagued with victimhood mentally or out of touch with reality

You girls still don't get it: Your opinions of me don't matter

Whether you think I am the greatest, not, the best, always right, always wrong, whatever, I don't care.

It is your opinions and are fully entitled to them.

Goodnight ladies.

Hathor5:
It's ok to not like one's job and console oneself that others don't like their jobs either. Not everyone can make a wise decision when it comes to something you will have to do for decades until retirement.

Awwwww

Sorry if your job is all you look forward to towards retirement or if you are so stuck in it that you cannot make changes if necessary.

I am looking forward to making impact with the gifts God has graciously given me.

Now, I feel sorry for you.

Congratulations to Liverpool.

Hathor5:
Funny how you never reap what sow. You must be the only exception on earth.

You must be talking about your self.

Pray to God, He will deliver you (if you believe in Him).

I sow goodness all around me and I reap bountiful goodness with His grace, love and mercy.

I am a blessed, favoured child.