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Plead:
Pocohantas belongs to elder001 and no one else.

Oh! I see.

@pocohantas, how true is this?

RisenPhoenix:
No it doesn't, especially after child 2. We men only pretend that it does so that our wives will not keep on bugging us with questions, suspicions and lamentations. It actually stays very loose and is not as pleasurable for the husband. But then, nothing in a woman remains as it was when we first married her. Everything goes downhill very fast.

And no, you can't tell the difference between a woman who has had a child and one who hasn't unless you have had sex with them, pre- and post- childbirth. This is because some women who claim not to have had children are very loose down there.

Only because you specifically asked for honesty.

And you are right, women do like to deceive themselves. See on this thread how they are vehemently trying to inform us that it neither changes, nor does it matter whether it does. It does matter. Sometimes, the husband may not enjoy it as before, but will toil on just to keep the peace. But there is nothing you can do about it unless you don't want children.

@bold

What do you suggest?

Jozzy4:
while it seems like a joking matter, it's a serious point.

I am not joking either.

Interesting thread.

And we need the update on the budding romance between Alexandre7 and Pocohantas

Phenomenal16:
Pls can a virgin get pregnant......... Even without penetration....I don't want to believe this story now

Yes.

If a man ejaculates near her P, it can flow in and fertilize an egg.

Not common though.

bodaola:
Last week. I invited a girl to my house and one thing one thing we started smooching... When the smooching is going on. She said, i Dont want to do this. I said why, she said... My wedding is 28 of December.

In shock i was like, so you will soon be a married woman. She said yes. Even should me I.V on her phone. I was wowed.
Then i tend removing my mind off this. Not until she said she's already Hot that she needs my dick now... She pounce on it and we ride on. While we were fuvking, her Fiance called and she instructed me to keep quiet. Then i did.
During the Convo, the guy asked her where is she. She then replied she's at aunty Hannah's place. She came to bargain about the wedding planner shit. Then the guy said OK and dropped the call.
We continue fuvking, but my mind was off it. At that time, i began to feel heartbreak. I felt the pain. I began to think my girlfriend is fuvking another guy apparently. Mehn! As we are talking now! I just broke up with my girlfriend. I can't allow any woman do this to me in future.

See, i Dont think I will get married. I sorry mum, I will do baby mama thing. No! Women are thieves!

You have a girlfriend, invited another girl for sex and feel better than the lady cheating with her husband to be?

And if she did not want to sleep with you, why did she come to your house?

And why divulging the info that she is marrying on Saturday?

Some girls are very stupid honestly.

You sometimes want to remove their brains when they open their mouths to talk or watch them act.

sassysure:
Now u are seeing the picture.
It sends signals to their men that the girl is ready for consumption( if I should use such word) and the parents have endorsed by making her up

One of my builders said he forbid his daughter from making up so as not to send the wrong signal to men( she is schooling).
They make love to children, sweetheart.
Small children.

This is poverty of the mind + religion + Greed + irresponsibility at work.

And because the elites shine better when their people are in the mud, they keep them down.

I don't even know if their men's taste for children is innate or nurtured.

Even our darling president that seems educated and enlightened married someone 30yrs younger at 49.

I served with a sweet girl who was so desperate to marry because she was feeling like an old maid at 23.

Her parents pressure did not help matters; her mother married at 16.

I know a man who married late teens and divorced them in their earlier 20s.

23 was too old for him.

A well traveled man in his late 40s.

Prognose:
Because he lied

Who?

Ginaz:
It does cos she is putting it above everything else. She hasn’t put to birth yet ,why worry?

She is going to live with her husband and hopefully keep making love to him for the next 40yrs.

If she was putting it first, she wouldn't have gotten pregnant.

She want to ensure minimum damage and really move on after child birth.

sassysure:
U are still speaking grammar
Go to the north.
It's as normal as drinking water.

Especially children of the poor.
Marketing strategy.
And u need to see these kids flirting with adults.
Those people live in the world of their own and they won't change anytime soon

I believe this is fuelled by their pedophilc culture.

The kids have to grow up faster than they really are.

Really sad.

BizBayo:
Who knows, I could create for you an ocean

That sounds nice.

BizBayo:
What would you like to drink? All bills on me.

Water.

Jadeobee:
Hi

I’m currently pregnant for my husband and I’ve just been wondering after vaginal birth if it goes back to normal. I’ve heard instances where men will tell their wives it feels the same, but it’s only to make them feel good about themselves.

I think this question is mainly directed to men because I feel like sometimes we women like to deceive ourselves with lies. Does sexual intercourse feel the same with someone who has had a child? Also can you tell the difference between someone who has a child and someone who doesn’t even if they don’t tell you? I just want to have a discussion about this.

Thanks.

There is something called husband's stitch back in the days for women to retain a bit of semblance.

Don't know if it still exists.

You can ask your obstetrician/gynecologist.

Ginaz:
She’s is not a pleasure thing please. She is first of all a human before the pleasure and she’s no “THING” cos she has feelings .

Nobody has said she is not human.

And her being her husband's pleasure thing does not negative the existence of her feelings.

Lonelypacifist6:
Somepeople see problems where there's none.

Very true.

Gandollaar:
So you don't know that prayers can make the widest coochie shrink overnight?

I am thinking he meant the husband should be a Christian so he can embrace whatever changes happen to her body.

Ginaz:
Madam try to give birth first before worrying about your husband’s pleasure. You’re not a pleasure thing!!!

Choosing CS over natural birth cos you don’t want your pussy to slack it’s the most dumbest advice I’ve ever heard. Madam , put your health and that of your baby’s life in thoughts more than anything.

If you like, have vagina tighter than the anus of a hen, if your husband wanna cheat he will do it. it may even be inside a vagina that is as wide as the ocean to surprise you.

Dem no Dey fit keep man in one place finish.

@bold:

She is a pleasure thing for her husband amongst other things.

This is creepy

Lonelypacifist6:
This one is even close to home my ex wife's mother married 3times And she gave birth to all females her daughter is following her foot steps.

I used Clarion because she is popular.

Women are re-marrying everyday, shacking up with multiple men yet someone is saying society is unfair to them.

I know someone married 3x too and had kids for all her husbands.

crackhaus:
Lol...
I believe I would have been the first respondent on the thread... saw it immediately it was published and my intention was to make complete fun of that word choice.

But then I rechecked the moniker & profile, then decided to be nice and just hold my peace.
Too bad you were not so sympathetic.

Now you are making me feel bad.

I saw the overly rehashed topic and all that caught my attention was 'vividly'.

Reminded me of D'banj's "Suddenly"

"Suddenly, they are moving in..."

Hahahaha!

They started living vividly suddenly!

oweniwe:


Male spaghetti with big chicken lap in the centre abi?

I wish I understand you.

milemimi93:
I did nt sleep around Judge Bukatyne. I only had fun and there was no emotions attached

I see

SteveOfu:
Yes

I mean is it a new trend?

There has always been pregnant brides.

IgboSomalia:
Aunty, please temper English with mercy.

Hahahahahaha!

English or Justice?

Anyways, plea for mercy from those daddies accepted.

Felicity001:
I just tire o which one come be vividly unto the matter na For him mind now he sabi inglis

We all make mistakes.

Cc: Akhere Okaka

cassyrooy:
Please, kindly note that I'm not defending the OP with my post.

Now, the timeframe for moving on is flexible, different people can take different time to sort themselves out, some don't sort anything and they move on like that.

The OP taking 6months before following up with that nice girl is okay, besides, the cause of his last relationship to fail was ethnic differences.

So, do blame him for not waiting for 2years or longer. Different strokes for different folks, remember that.

Oga OP, you messed up, hooking up another girl when you've not fully purged out the last lady is grossly unfair to the Nice Girl you're currently with.

Na so you go take break her heart, and we'll have one angry person to deal with.

If you can't give your all, apologize to her and quit the relationship before things advance between both of you.

Hmmmmm.

gowonmaharajah:
Why not correct him instead of laughing at his mistake?

Don't be a spoil sport now.

eyebee01:
I no know o. Maybe (s)he meant permanently

Hahahaha.

[quote author= post=85176712]Just imagine this rubbish from the mothers......




Na so we see am o![/quote]Sad.

It is a pain to look at.

Erediauwa:
Always standing by the truth.

Maximum respect!

Thank you

Erediauwa:
Always standing by the truth.

Maximum respect!

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crackhaus:
I understand all you have typed Thorpido, it's textbook information...but you are a doctor I guess, so I assume you also know that the practicality of performing the procedure on a near-fully formed foetus isn't just a walk in the park.

For heavens sake, they have to crack the skull and soft bones of the foetus before it can be evacuated through the cervix at this point. This is murder man.
No no no no no, I don't even want to think of it.

Personally, at five months I'd rather risk a 13yr old carrying her pregnancy to full term under careful monitoring and observation, have the baby birthed by caesarean section when its due than letting anyone insert any goddamn equipment in there to mutilate things - too many things can go wrong very fast, even in the hands of QUALIFIED MEDICAL PERSONNEL.

@bold:

This is a joke right?

@Topic: I would rather let the girl birth the baby through CS, do comestic surgery to clean up the scars and give out the baby for adoption.

There are just some things I would dabble in. The stain would never leave my conscience and it would probably make my mind snap in the end.