Quality20: so u mean u d one doing a guy favour rather than d guy doing u a favour? I also don't think girls shd enjoy or demand for it o. Except if she is a lesb or she is tending towards lesb
My hubby from day 1 we no ourselves, he gives me his phone. Even if he put password on phone, and I ask, he tells me straight away.
Last 3 days now, I discovered he called one no often, so I saved d no and asked him who's so so so, but didn't ans me and I left him. 3rd day, I told him if u don't tell me, I won't give u d phone, so I hold d phone, d same no called him, and can't pick d call b4 it end, and she didn't call back. So, I decided to call back with my phone. Immediately she picked my call, she decided to call me back, so wen she called back, I end d call and call her back and asked her, maybe she has any msg she wanted to pass to him.
So she z is dis so so so wife, I z no. And continued, z her name is so so so, but my hubby came to tell her about me, that they were both even laughing and gisting, that I should not panic, that she just like my hubby bla bla bla... So I asked her, I don't ask u all dis, tell me y u are calling him, but refused and I end d call...
Now my question is dis; my hubby refused to give me his password, which has never happened before for 6yrs ago in my marriage, so I decided to give him his phone. Am I wrong
But not just happy with him at all. Ur advise pls
Your husband is sleeping or about to sleep with her.
If you say you have been sharing passwords and this is happening suddenly, then you want to backtrack to consider what changed.
And please, stop chasing or harassing the lady unless she comes to your space.
jakandeola: did u think god is happy with waste.I always feel sad wen I throw food away but I cant eat some food.if u tell dem not to bring food dey will get angry
Well, I have stopped giving neighbors anything.
I try not to collect too because I will not eat it.
BRASH: I will like to knw if the federal character principle was duly observed by d organizers of this outing Are the Igbos, coneheads and almajiris fully represented? How about the wailers and the zombies? Did u guys also replicate d e-bashing u always engage in online or u all belong to d same category? MERRY XMAS
humblemikel: Men used to be a pillar of protection for women in my fathers time Can someone tell me briefly what men represent in women's life in our modern day society.??
I would like you to expand with practical examples what you mean.
Comparing present day husbands to husbands in our fathers' time.
Ginaz: The two are different oga madam. No common sense here, the common sense you’re initiating is from your emotions. There are so many post delivery states to pick from than vagina not going back to normal. My sole concern is safe delivery and that’s most important until she puts to birth. Whatever the advises here, she won’t know if the vagina goes back to being normal or not until she experience it herself.
Nobody would do that for her, it is a personal journey as with motherhood. No body have the same body and each is different . Which brings me to my question. “WHY WORRY”?
sassysure: It's indoctrination. So hard to break though the Christians girls up there are becoming very daring these days. Aisha buhari was a child bride too. See that she couldn't develop herself except that she had a spa in Abuja. All these old northern politicians married child brides.
Hopefully their children E. G. The Zahras would speak up and teach them better.
Ginaz: She never asked for solution to damages or moving on after birth. Those are what you have said from your head not from what she wrote. She was curious about if the vagina goes back to being normal after childbirth .
Of which I told her to worry more on delivery than anything else cos she is not a pleasure thing.
The pleasure thing is a two way street. While her role as a wife is to bed her husband, however it is not the sole purpose of marriage . Whatever happens to her vagina after childbirth was not planned deliberately so no need worry until she puts to bed to experience it herself in her own way.
Cos if anything should happen to her , do you think her husband would not move on? Have another pleasure “THING” like you said she is?
No need to worry until you put to bed . Simple!!!
Madam same difference.
If she is worried about the state of her Vjay. It is only common sense to assume she is talking about the POST-delivery state.
Prognose: The poster. After saying "everything will remain the same," he now hopes she has a Christian home. In between the lines he knows the vagina won't remain the same and is hoping the husband will be faithful/religious enough not to go outside