₦airaland Forum

Mummymahdi:
hmmm waist beads are there since time iimmemorial, but we don't paste pics of bum on internet just to show waist beads some girls are uselessly useless than one can think.

Donald95:
Nice points. My problem is with the girl that refused to speak out and co-operate while being raped into depression. At least one of her uncle or Aunt could even take her up.

The mother kept her just for her to help in cooking the food she hulks around in wheelbarrow.

The father has already written them off because illiterates in our society still blames women when they produce only female children.

What i can do now is to pray for her

franchasng:
She left her husband because he was not treating her well and went to squat with a stranger, a man who is now raping her daughter and she is hiding it to avoid being thrown out of the house the man.


If she could endure a stronger molesting her and her daughters, why couldn't she endure her husband's I'll character and engaged in things that fetched her money while she saves money to get her own apartment

Just wondering



Meanwhile op, if you don't have money to help them rent an apartment, please stay out of it

crackhaus:
The gods found a vessel in you.

Mindfulness:
If you must leave the father of your children, make sure it actually improves your and your children's situation. I don't see how her situation has improved if her 5 and 6 year old girls have been left at the mercy of strangers and her older one is being s.exually abused. Something doesn't sit right with me.

Donald95:
There is this single mum living just beside our house (She is single because she left her husband, accused him of not being faithful and not taking care of the family, They are not officially divorced.)

Now, she has 3 daughters only, 2 very little girls about 5 and 6 years that has been given out as maids and another girl of about 15 years and she and her daughter due to hardship is squatting with another family, living in their house for free.

One day as i was looking out from our house, I noticed some rowdy movement inside the squatters room. Then after a while, the introverted girl rushed out of the house Tensed ( Very Afraid). I asked her Ogini! but she never replied. After a while, the landlord of the house came out of her room claiming to be angry and making phone call.



I later called the girl and asked her, she first denied that she is being abused but later agreed and also told me that she had been raped by him b4 then she pleaded with me that I shouldn't tell anyone.

I talked to her mom about it and she started shouting at her daughter that she has warned her severally to always lock herself up whenever she is out selling food (which she does for a living). She made the victim guilty. I stopped her but she continued by saying that the house they are living is their only hope and anything that will make them chased out of their will not be accepted. He warned me to keep shut and stay out of her family business,That i shouldn't involve the police or the man's wife or street youth. She insisted that doing such will ruin their life in the city. Even the victim also begged me to keep it down

I wanted to go to church to report to his pastor but on second thought, pastor will invite the man and question him and this will bounce back on the victims family.

If you were in my shoes, what will you do as i don't want to hurt the victims family the more?

freethesheeple:
you are lucky your idiotic woman did not disrepect him...

iamadonis2:
My Girlfriend still reaches out to her Ex Boyfriend for financial assistance. I admit it gets me really upset.

I want the best for her and want her to grow financially, but I feel help from an Ex is going too far and quite disrespectful.

Please advise, guys, is my anger justified and reasonable?

gregyboy:
Not only prayer they should ask us for guns to fight boko haram....yeye they smell

Is that how American soldiers are also prayed for ....

theButterfly:
British Colombia.

UjuJoan2:
Of course that's what is should be in an ideal situation. But we all know that things don't always work the way they should.

ifyan:
Just like Linda Ikeji advocate for calibacy but went behind and be doing otherwise.

Most of their likes are liars, deceiver etc. I pity those that don't use their brain

LilMissFavvy:
What is wrong with her getting married? If she was not married, guys will mock her for being single and call her frustrated feminist. Now that she is married, you guys are still complaining.

UjuJoan2:
Maybe you treated her badly while you were courting, because you thought she was desperate to hook you. And you were some kind of 'prize'. A wise woman will tolerate your shit just to ensure she doesn't lose all the years she wasted with you, and then once the deal is sealed, it's payback time.

Don't assume every man is passing through the same thing.

If you don't lay a good foundation, your marriage will suffer.

Iyke4400:
Hello guys
Please I need help on this.
Is it wrong for a woman to wash her husband cloths. I feel is part of their responsibilities to take care of us. I stand corrected and to learn from experienced guys and women.
cheers[color=#000000][/color]

merit1988:
I got married as a young virgin...probably didnt understand what love was all about then....I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..coupled with some other marriage issues..I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...all I need is advices on how to build my love life and not yabs pls...it's very hurtful