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djon78:
Sure things will continue to change, but for this continent, it is still a long way. Gay rights and acknowledgment are still frowned upon. So Africa is still long way to go.

In Nigerian politics how many women are governors, senators etc very few. So Africa is still a long way, but little by little changes

@ bold: Is there anything in Nigerian constitution today stopping women from contesting? Can we take the statistics of votes women who braved contesting got? Or do you want us to have a quota for representation of women which would mean depriving men who are interested or qualified to contest for the said position.

I remember a woman who contested for presidency and got only 4 votes.

In another news, watched 'Coming from Insanity' and I so so love Gabriel Afolayan.

The scene where Bola Nino carried injured Gaby on one shoulder and carried the Ghana must go was aweaome

Reminds me of Ghost in Power. I find Tommy extremely loud, vulgar and zagazaga.

liberalchick:
It’s funny you used the word “slut” slut is a derogatory word used ONLY for women.

Give me a word that covers both

ThothHermes:
I don't know. It just is.

Nymphomania is a medical disorder. I've never seen a male nymphomaniac.

Satyriasis (also satyromania) is the corresponding condition to nymphomania in men.
https://www.google.com/search?ei=l_YMXd_QArqG1fAPo5OP0AY&q=a+male+version+of+nymphomanic+is&oq=a+male+version+of+nymphomanic+is&gs_l=psy-ab.3...3631.15285..15485...3.0..1.556.7444.0j17j15j1j0j1......0....1..gws-wiz.......0i131j0j0i22i30j33i22i29i30.hB3ecTI5-DI

Satyriasis - Urban Dictionary
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Satyriasis
Uncontrollable sexual desire in a man's behavior. ... But unfortunately there are some people--it is called satyriasis in men, nymphomania in women--who engage in it compulsively and without joy. ... The male version of a nympho.

Bed hopping is a sign of an underlying disorder in men or women.

ThothHermes:
Male -- Player, stud, womanizer (at worst). All terms of endearment

Female -- Slut, Olosho.


Stop mixing things up

They both sound disgusting to me

truthsayer009:
I don't know why we need to be debating on this issue, It's like ABC.
Think of a Formula One driver & someone who just started driving today 21 June 2019. Please would you able to Spot the difference, Yes or No?

It's easier to teach someone how to ride a trailer who has been riding buses, but someone who never drove a Car/Bus before. Where do you start? From ground Zero.

I want ground zero and I got it.

Acidosis:
Slut is a derogatory word used ONLY for women who get paid for casual sex. Why do you detest the truth so much? Who are the women who hang around hotels and brothels all night? What about those migrating to Italy, Etc.?

Why can't you and your likes handle the truth? Is prostitution industry not peculiar to women, same way internet fraud is peculiar to men?

Slut - Wikipedia
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slut
Slut is generally a term for a woman or girl who is considered to have loose sexual morals or who is sexually promiscuous. It is usually used as an insult, sexual slur or offensive term of disparagement (slut-shaming)

SLUT | meaning in the Cambridge English Dictionary
https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/slut
slut definition: 1. a woman who has sexual relationships with a lot of men without any emotional involvement 2. a woman who is usually untidy and lazy.

Slut has nothing to do with sex for money.

That is prostitution.

OlawaleSmarter0:
- Alhaji Yerima Shettima says the north will produce the next president when President Muhammadu Buhari leaves office in 2023

- Shettima, who is the president of the Arewa Youth Consultative Forum, says the current administration has not favoured the north

- The AYCF president says the ruling All Progressives Congress will die before 2023

- Shettima says the north will never allow power to shift to the south, adding that it is the only thing the zone has The president of the Arewa Youth Consultative Forum (AYCF), Alhaji Yerima Shettima, has said that the north will produce the next president when President Muhammadu Buhari leaves office in 2023.

Legit.ng gathers that Shettima stated this in an interview published in the New Telegraph on Friday, June 21.

The AYCF president said President Muhammadu Buhari-led administration has not favoured the north, adding that the current government is purely a southwest government.

He said: "I don’t know who is going to be the next president of Nigeria until we see those who will declare interest.

However, talking about the zone, which should produce the president in 2023, I have said it on many occasions that the North will produce the next president and you could see that the issue is becoming very clear. "I don’t just make pronouncement on something I am not sure of.

We are sure that this government has not favoured the North. This government is purely a South-West government. They have taken everything.

" Shettima also said that the only thing that is holding the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC) together is President Buhari, adding that the party will die before 2023. He said:

"Even in the National Assembly, somebody was working to ensure that his interest is protected to make it easy for him to become president come 2023, but unfortunately the party itself will die before 2023.

"By 2023, All Progressives Congress (APC) will no longer be visible. The only thing that holds that party is President Buhari, but he is not coming back.

This is his last tenure and I am sure the Buhari I know will be busy thinking of how to go for his retirement rather than thinking of whether the party survives or not.

"He has achieved all he wanted to achieve. He has become both head of state and civilian president."

"On what informed his belief that APC would die before 2023, he said: "It is because of the characters that formed the party do not share the same ideology. Theirs was completely unholy marriage.

"We will continue to fight until our last blood. We will continue to expose them until the right people come to governance. It is not a personal thing; it is for us. The North must have to retain power.

"You cannot take power, which is the only thing that is left for us now. The current president is not really helping us. Insecurity has destroyed the entire North. We are left with poverty, kidnaping and banditry on daily basis.

"People are dying and you think the little power we have despite the fact it is not being used for the best interest of our people, we will just fold our hands and allowed it to be taken back by the South, which have resources.

The common man in the North is not benefiting anything; the whole thing is held in the hands of few individuals and you think we will allow that."


https://www.legit.ng/1244671-the-north-produce-president-2023-arewa-youths-leader-shettima.html

Can they concentrate on this current tenure?

I would think an effective strategy would be to perform so well this tenure that we would accept the next candidate they push.

runwaymodel:
Hello Buka, Cococandy's asskisser . By fire by force we must see everything she has, LMFAO. Talk to ha hubby for ha to give ha more attention, maybe we can finally breath . Someone who looks 40 now and is obese, LMFAO. Let her keep fooling y'all with old photos. Took you forever to reply, Buka. The other sidekick of an asskissa go be here shortly. Yes, I like trouble. Bring it . I ain't moved

For someone who makes a lot of money as a RN, you sure have a lot of time on your hands monitoring faceless people.

May you find peace.

liberalchick:
I was replying another moniker to a question he asked. You can love sex and be content with having all your sex with one partner and you can love sex and want sex with different partners.

Well someone who loves sex with different partners is a slut.

Male or female.

liberalchick:
Nope that you respect your Muslim friend for accepting to be a second wife, is acknowledging that her choice exists and acknowledging that she has the rights to make said choice. You just validated her choice. You don’t have to attend.

No

ThothHermes:
Are you a learner?

Some even inflate figures It's a thing of pride

What do you think happens on this thread?

https://www.nairaland.com/4957496/ashewo-beer-parlour-share-ashewo/1362

You are taking anonymous jambites and jobless men serious?

Put it on your real facebook page with your family following then we can have a convo.

doitforyou:
No it does not. You can continue to tell yourself that but the meaning of "I like it" is not going to change.

SMH.

When you tell your man that you like his compliments, are you encouraging him to compliment you more?
Will he automatically compliment you more because you like it?

QueenSekxy:
Misandrists and misogynists thread.

Hahahahaha.

Misandrists + Misogynists = Equality

Acidosis:
I tire, my sister

As in.

liberalchick:
I don’t think you believe this to be true.

I do.

I have not seen anywhere where men are praised for having multiple sex partners.

Excused? Yes. Overlooked? Yes.

Please give me examples.

liberalchick:
So are you saying it’s not natural for some women to like sex?

What has liking sex got to do with multiple sex partners?

liberalchick:
What qualifies you to be the moral authority that tells women how to be decent with decorum? If you are secure in your morality and believe that there are consequences to every action/choice, then what is the problem?

When did I constitute myself as a moral authority?
When did I start punishing women for their choices?

liberalchick:
Respecting people’s choice is validating it though. It means you recognize that someone will have another choice that is different from yours but you respect their rights to have it.

If I don't insult my Muslim friend for becoming a second wife: that's respecting
If I attend that wedding: that's validating.

liberalchick:
Fine. Some men can have as many sexual partners as they want and some women can love those types of men. Some women also love and want to have many sexual partners and there are some men that don’t care.

In all religions, societies, customs, cultures and families,

Men want women as chaste as possible.

That is why an average woman would lie about her body count if high to a potential husband and every first sex encounter is a rape or forced.

The number of women who have claimed to be virgins while they are not is also enough to be reckoned with.

truthsayer009:
BRO, mehn I'm tired of people online asking obvious questions. How would a Virgin boy even satisfy a lady?

For you to give a Woman uttermost satisfaction, these things come with experience. In reality, you need to have been with tons of Women & because Women love it differently, What that means is you indirectly have multiple teachers. So It's like gathering knowledge from multiple sources to yourself.

A woman reading this might start feeling bad, but excuse me, If your husband gives you the best Sex on wedding night like a PRO without you Literally telling him which areas to hit. Trust me, he's a Prostitute because being great at Sex doesn't come from just Reading books, you have to practice it.

This S-H-I-T is like Engineering!

From my experience, not necessarily.

It takes time to learn what each party wants. Also our wants change with age and with a open mind, the stars is the stepping stone.

sassysure:
U know u are lying but kontinue
The crackhous I knew before started with the capital letter c.
It might be u too.
This is the voice of Esau but the hands of Jacob.
Ahaaa
Kanwulia busted your bombom.

I don't know how people actually decode who is behind some monikers.

As for the topic, I have since decided not to go on lengthy arguments on nairaland.
It gives some people hard on
If I try to pass my message across in a discuss like this and we have to start going round and round, I will quietly bow out.
I'm not a lawyer neither am I a preacher


Nairaland should be strictly for fun and sometimes I react on the so called real life issue that people posts which sometimes aren't.
Besides, I lose interest very fast if the discuss isn't interesting and educating like this one.

I will meet you somewhere else and ask you loads of questions.
U be baaaaaaad boy, very very bad boy

Thanks for finding the thread interesting and educating.

truthsayer009:
Yes, because a lot of them don't want to get hurt. Not really born-again per say.

Meaning they get hurt when sex happens in a relationship that goes south?

Acidosis:
...because women dislike virgin boys. The average woman do not want to marry a virgin. Women have made their choices by their attraction to high mileage guys. So technically, the average woman love a male prostitute.

Men have also made a choice. Do you want to change our choices?

@ Bold, not all.

I dislike men who has wasted their seed and strength on strange women.

I wanted a fresh man like myself and I got it.

We learn together to each other's tastes.

ThothHermes:
Fixed.

Do guys share theirs?

liberalchick:
This is an example of a double standard, why are women shamed for having a high body count, but a man is not? Why would they be instinctively shamed? Would a man have same emotions?

Because a lot of people on this thread will not behave like the girls doesn’t mean some won’t fight and protect to have a society where these girls’ choices will be as validated as a man’s. You don’t have to participate in something to fight for the right for someone else to do it. That is how organized societies are built.

What are immoral behaviors? Who decides what is immoral or not?

Let's be honest.

Forget all these internet jargons from NL boys, where have you actually seen men praised for having multiple sex partners? In Nigeria, there are a number of things that men do not have access to until married.

Even guys I know are sexually loose still try to hide it in the midst of decent people.

Your conscience and training tells you what is moral or not.

Morality across societies and religions are also very very similar.

liberalchick:
How is the bolded an example of double standard? You said, we are celebrating the negatives or women only want to aspire to be the bad things that some men do. My response was the negatives were highlighted to explain the double standard in society. One rule for men and another for women.

There are many women that aspire and are actually astronauts, presidents, engineers etc. We can do both, call out the double standards and go on to achieve whatever goals we set for ourselves.

The society do whatever they will.

I set my own standards and how I cannot stand uncouth, indecent and immoral ladies, I cannot stand the male version either.

liberalchick:
If this was reflected in your post, do you think we would be here 10 pages later?

You seem to think, respecting people’s choices = promoting/encouraging said choices.

No one is forcing you to accept anything, you need to just respect people’s choices. Humans are diverse, we are of different backgrounds and cultures, you can’t expect all to be alike.

We are also capable of discussing other issues, this is the family section and we can only discuss topics that are presented.

Nowhere in the OP did the woman force women to conform to her standard.

There is a difference between respecting people's choices and validating them.

crackhaus:
Lol..
Me I can take being called a misogynist and anti-feminist on NL, I don't have who I'm toasting or want to toast here.

But if you think she is a misogynist or anti-feminist, the joke is on you oo.

I am different things every day.

truthsayer009:
You

Of course!

My girls would learn aim to marry better than your father. If not, just replicate him. Ditto my boys.

No long story.

Acidosis:
LOL, the problem is multifaceted. Yes we indeed dread comparison with other men but we also know very well that behind every experienced kicks is a desecrated body.

Give me one reason why I should eat for the rest of my life what multiple (sometimes countless) men consecutively ate at interval and got tired??

Hahahahahahaha.

The desecration, the multiple demons in them, the wear and tear!

Can't deal.

desvi:
"men" like you are scared of women with experience
I know you dread the comparison with other men
you made it clear on some other thread
and we can all imagine why

You are not making sense.

You think multiple sexual experience is something to be proud of?

I see why desperation and mental disorders is on the rise.