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Maximus69:
Surely both Male and Female were created in the likeness of God! Genesis 1:27
But carefully note how Genesis 2:18-25 further explains, when God said 'let us make man in our own image' {Genesis 1:26} the ONE and ONLY creature made was Male!
So according to the Bible, Female humans came as a COMPLIMENT of the one created in God's image{Males} therefore it is clear that Females are secondary NOT the primary image of God!

Moreover, when angels from heaven came down to have SEX with humans, it was recorded that this angelic creatures were Males NOT Females! Genesis 6:1-2
Of course God punished them for that unwholesome relations! Jude 6 compared to 2Peter 2:4-5

Please we are NOT talking about the deities of Egypt, Assyria, Babylon, Persia, Greece or Rome here, where there are Goddesses as well as priestesses in their shrines. This is about the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob whose laws and viewpoints are written clearly as instruction for those who might wish to worship this same God in our own time! Romans 15:4 compared to 1Corinthians 10:11

Read Gen 1: 26 - 27

Except you are telling me that the female not created in His image is also to dominate with the man created in His image.

Interesting.

Then why are you not married to her?

Bestboy11513:
Parents can only guide you, it's left for you to make your choices yourself. So if a child decides to be of negative impact on the society, then it is certainly not a parents fault.

Parents do not guide, they train and discipline.

Very interesting.

Logobenz:
not true.
He named his first son after me and gave him two of my names!only a man that did love his son will do that!
I have given this a lot of thought for more than 10 years and I know that woman was up to something.
It is impossible for my Dad to leave the family he so much desired to that woman.
My dad was a CC in his prime,married my mom very early and never seized to sing her praise because he watched her started something very small that later transformed into an EMPIRE.upon that she respected him so much and was ever loyal.
Never quarrelled or argued.infact she was the whole 9 yards of submissiveness and you tell me about desires?what desires?
Something he still does till date that the other woman never liked while I lived with them!jealous creature.
Anyways,let's see how this goes.i know I will win for sure.I'm a capitalist.

Even if the second wife manipulated him, she needed a contact:

Your dad either slept with her or ate her food for the jazz to work..

Have you asked your mom what she thinks?

Logobenz:
Now I don't need any advice since I've made up my mind already.
So today i got a very early call from my sister telling me how my dad called her and was telling her how bad things were for him and his family(second family ).So she asked me to go there and see things and report to her so let's see how we can help them out

I'll tell you a short story...
So I grew up loving this man so much.he was everything a young boy can ever ask for from a father.
Elegant,handsome,educated,dedicated,patient,strict and all...
So one night I was like 11 at the time.we were outside the compound gisting like father and son then all of a sudden he went inside,grabbed a tennis bag with some few clothes,handed my like 2k as he always does when he is travelling and zoomed into the night.
Well this was a bit odd because whenever he travelled,either the driver drops him off,my brother or his best friend then.
I thought oh well,na him way sha.i went to sleep.
I did not know that was the last time I will ever live with my dad in the same house.
So I started calling him with my little change I had almost daily..he kept promising he will return whereas he went to marry this ugly woman and started birthing kids.
I later found out from my mom that this dude is married and things won't be the same any longer again.
Wow!I was disappointed,my dad of all people do this to me?
Well I forgot about him and stopped calling them.
Dude gave birth to 4 boys and thinking life was better
So after everything,the new woman bankrupted his ass with some couple of bad investments and all
So after high school,I went to Europe and came back to Africa to continue school.
Mom wanted me to study in Nigeria so what better place was I to stay than his house?
So I came to phc courtesy him and started living with his wife and 4 kids
The wife was good to me tbh but I knew it as fake because they were not doing good money wise and she knew who my mom is so she can't try nonsense
My dad I knew had become a shadow of himself courtesy this dummy of a woman and all...broke and all
Then my dad and I later had issues and I left his house in anger and never returned till some months back.
So my sister called me like 2 months ago that they called that they were suffering and all.she sent me a picture of him men,I almost puked!
See what this woman did to my dad.damn no human should be like that.
So I went there,we saw each other,he was happy of the man I've become and all..gifted him some cash and a Toyota corolla I had so he can start doing something to fend for himself.
I did not want to tbh.just because of my sister.i don't want that bitch to ever gain anything from us.
So today she called me again to go there bla bla bla...
I did men and I was shocked
Things are even worse than they were.the house looked like and abandoned prison yard.like a nuclear holocaust happened in there.
Dead furniture,empty house,yeye everything!and the car I gave them broke down without any money to fix it!
And funny enough there is a backlog of rents there for like 3 years.
When I walked in,the woman started being excited and forming all lovey and all and wanted to offer me food
For which house for this environment wey I dey see So?
Called some of her kids and started introducing me to them as their brother see what she turned my dad into for God's sake!
I just laughed because she does not know what I plan for her and those her kids.
This is what I am going to do....
I am going to wait till they get evicted from that house so my plans will work well.
After that I will give him very strict conditions;
- no visiting or seeing that woman and her kids!
-none of our resource is going that way!
Will get him a small apartment and fix his car and place him on a very tight budget that will be enough for just him and I will be watching him like a hawk.
Of course he must accept since he does not have a choice at this point!then I will put that woman where I want her to be
I want to watch that woman suffocate with her children.lets see how far her 50k job will take her and 4 kids
So that when next she sees another woman's husband that has grown children,she will back off!
Damn some women are killers.
I wonder what he even saw in her.not presentable,no money,not beautiful,not creative.just knows how to open her legs and be birthing like an hausa woman.
And funny thing is my mom is far better sef in all ramifications.
I was really disappointed today for real.
Men should be careful what they do to themselves for real.

Your story is touching.

However, until you hold your father accountable for his actions, you would not heal.

The 2nd wife did nothing to your family.

He decided for whatever reason to break the vow with your mother and move on.

If she didn't want marriage, why did she marry?

According to the OP, she knew marriage wasn't for her before meeting le boo.

The irony is that she doesn't know what she has until she loses it.

She is actually having the best of both worlds.

Very unprofessional of the hospital.

Discharge both parties even if on admission and ban them from your hospital if it tickles your fancy.

When Doctors & Nurses or Nurses/ Doctors & Patients get down, do they publicize it?

This judge is playing with fire.

What gives him/her the right to instruct a woman who is almost 6 months gone to abort when the grandmother to be is willing to care for the child?

There is also no issue with the pregnancy or baby thus far.

They should fight it every way they can.

Our girls ooooooo oo.

3 - 0

Our boys better do us proud

Our girls have demonstrated more spirit than other matches thus far.

Ordega is doing a fantastic job.

Our girls have demonstrated more spirit than other matches thus far.

Ordega doing a fantastic job.

Story doesn't look real.

Xisnin:
Stop encouraging rape.

Encouraging rape?

Did the boy rape the girl?

Nice dress.

Hmmmmmmmm

Stephani3e:
Don't you have family members that wants to get rich?

All his family members are rich.

This OP is black and shine

Happy Married life and God's wisdom to build a wonderful home.

LordKO:
"Because we can't get along..." This is a typical scenario where a too clever by half woman (a man can equally be in her stead) was hit below the belt by a sly man. A case of two disingenuous people who crossed each others path - I couldn't afford to ascribe aristocracy to the man for the obvious reason, even though his intention from the inception could had been genuine as he claimed.

Always be wary of a wo/man who comes into your life and gives you an impression that you've no need to improve on any aspect of your disposition - this isn't an encouragement of subjugation by a partner to another - because that by extension unpronounced, means s/he doesn't owe you faithfulness. Fake libertarians are worse than domineering people - the man was either the former or latter in this case.

When someone's utmost interest in you is just to taste a portion of whatever little good you can offer, he'll give you an impression that something like liberty, which is a right anyway, doesn't need conscientiousness for checks and balances. So, if you feel happy in a relationship or have peace of mind - all as a result of unchecked liberty - don't always assume and conclude that it's mutual. It may not be after all and you may be dealing with a sly partner, so consciously avoid being a victim of a pernicious act of a sly person, like in this case, by taking to altruism and conscientiousness. You can never go wrong with this in a matter of this nature. First-hand unpleasant experience like this is always avoidable.

In the end, and under normal circumstances, it's a man who chooses a woman to marry - a woman only has right of refusal.

Serious oil dey your head.

One of the markers of a man who wants to marry you is to seek to improve/ correct you especially to his taste.

Harmonyemerald:
Really? I just think if same open mind is applied to inter-tribal it might also work


Never really done any though but I don’t wanna object to it if it happens

We are too culturally inclined especially in marriages and intertribal marriage would mean wading a lot of waters.

Goodluck.

nairalee:
The girl and her family ought to have come out directly from the onset to say they aren't going to endorse the marriage rather than play with his emotion. But that's not an excuse for his crimes.

I wonder how he could be so mad to have thrown away his life and freedom just to get even with his fiancée's mother.

Very true.

Unfortunately, this is statutory rape, babe is not 18.

However, how did the Northerners marry underage girls without landing in prison?

How long would he be in prison? "what happens to the girl and child?

I am thinking they should release the boy and let him take care of his upcoming family.

Pamatips:
Source: https://punchng.com/no-immediate-plan-to-ban-almajiri-system-presidency/

Not surprised.

The North like their Oligarchy system.

The wider the margin between the elite and poor, the better for them.

God console her family and all she left behind.

So sad.

ornicus:
thats my job pls. i have to test and sample to ensure the meat comes out to everyone's satisfaction. quality assurance husband dept.

Hahahaha

armyofone:
She has to be smart and eat as much during the boiling, frying and sauce making process- like taste, like taste you eat to your satisfaction! Whatever you dish out during the eating period, let him eat it alone . Say thanks babes I'm going vegan if offered some.

If he doesn't catch her and use turning stick to hit her head.

Acidosis:
You have a point, but class as you have defined it is not limited to finance. Class could also mean culture, religion, moral beliefs, family values, and education.

A feminist should not marry a cultural or traditional partner.
An atheist should not marry a religious person.
A polygamous person should not marry a monogamous partner.


The above is what it means to marry within your class. Wealth may not change a person's religious or cultural beliefs. We have seen wives of Governors, Presidents, Vice Presidents, MOGs, Prime Ministers, Lawmakers, go on their knees to greet their partners/elders. Yet, a broke and frustrated nonentity who is grossly misinformed about feminism will find that gesture offensive.

Not everyone losses their senses, religion or culture for a few millions.

Was going to type till I saw this.

People should marry within their class.

I remember someone asking me if it was a sin to go to the cinema and internally, I was like don’t marry a woman from the city, just go to the village.

Let them work towards coming back for good.

desvi:
it's not about the woman
it's about the child
who they should be taking care of
by taking responsibility
like decent people do

but you would not know what class and decency are even if it hit you in the face

If the women are truly interested in the welfare of the children,

Why don't they insist on the fathers' presence?

Why don't they live together to be a condusive environment to train the child?

Why do some of them deny the father visiting rights?

Or it is only money that is used to care for a child?