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Acidosis:
No, that's for daughters of Jezebel. Daughters who were raised by people like me cannot date or sleep with multiple partners.

Amen.

God forbids such in my linage.

Who would they take after? Me or their father?

crackhaus:
Yes, the little lady who hates marriage so much and sees no point in it, yet when I offered her a deal to become someone's baby mama, she fled.
Like the rest of your colleagues in mediocrity, always preaching what you can't practice.

By the way, you are yet to respond to this on the other thread:


This comment still applies here..
Always take several seats at the back when you see me around.

Now this would be odd except if she doesn't want kids.

KanwuliaExtra:
I did not click on the original thread o. Twa!!
I only saw the title and it was an instant TURN OFF! I just waka pass jeje. I was NOT interested.

What I am dragging is that the “madam bukky” opened another thread to ask the mod/s why the original “copy and paste” thread was deleted. They did not even BOTHER to reply. Small wonder HE was not banned. If na me, hiaaaaaaahn! I for dey register 50 IDs to post on NL ke!


I only found the second thread yesterday when I was searching for other topics HE had started in the past. Just to make sure the ID was for real. I never really followed HIS threads. I love diverse topics.


I was draaaagggging the thread because some respectable female and MALE posters tried to make her see reason. For whiaaaaa! She kept arguing pointlessly. I ask myself: Is this a human or spambot or pyguru cutting and pasting all these rubbish threads. Come to find out the “Bukky ID” has been in existence for at least 5 years. I was shocked.


When I saw this thread, I was like: Finally, something good to read. Only to find the same “cut and paste” brain-killer!

Read for yourself. This cannot be a female for sure. Arguing BLINDLY.


https://www.nairaland.com/5222572/reason-why-thread-marital-rape


The screenshot below convinced me I was dealing with a dangerous, first-grade misogynist. Kai!!!!

I am not female because I am objective?

You can really do better than this KanwuliaExtra.

I would have to assume this is one of those days.

Let me ask you the same question:

If a married women has a terrible schedule, wakes up by 4am, does everything till 11pm...

Is not having sex with her husband the solution to her problem?

desvi:
let our reproductive rights be our issue, we have access to birth control and we decide about life and death (abortion)
you don't have this choice
so make sure you don't have hungry bàstards all over the place
will serve society a great deal

thanks

Does this make sense to you?

Women have rights to their bodies, men don't have rights to their money

And it sounds like equality?

Are you willing to take responsibility for your poor decisions?

CHoccolaTE:
Kikikikiki
You are really good with words though

I don't understand what Op is doing these days with her funny topics. I used to think she is a female rights activist kind of person.
I was clearly wrong

Is there any of my posts or threads that I denied women their rights?

Or is telling women to be decent with decorum an infringement of their rights?

If I tell men the same thing, would I be infringing on their rights?

KanwuliaExtra:
Gossssh!
I have a lot of demons I swear.
They are never after me o. We are very good friends and we PARTY a lot. IN PEACE.

Your OP keeps fighting with hers and constantly opens some disturbing threads to unleash them on some unsuspecting “gullibles” who don’t know their lefts from their centers or rights.

I had the misfortune of going through her list of threads TODAY. . . for the first time. Boy! I was quite entertained.

You on the other hand . . . . . I will dissect at another time. One PSYCHO at a time please!

Light and darkness has no concord.

KanwuliaExtra:
I rest my “basket case”!
Please, up your game on your next “copy and paste” thread.

Just make sure the title is as “catchy” as this one, so it does not offend your audience. At least you have improved your format from “the joyous morals and ritualistic raptures of marital rape”.

Kudos!

Copy and paste would mean I attributed someone's work to myself. I do not do 'copy and paste'; I reference people's works as all articles not originally mine are

I stumble on articles, read, like it and post here. People not interested are free to walk.

Other times, I observe some things and write about them.

liberalchick:
I always find your delusions very amusing. Anyone that has to announce or brag to strangers on the internet on how smart or worldly they are, usually has no substance. You don’t even know what double standards mean, I don’t even know where to start from. I know you get off from all this back and forth, this has probably been the highlight of your day, the opportunity to flex your big brain. Flex away, let me not get in your way.

@Bold:

I see alot of people talk about double standards on this thread.

Nowhere did the author say this type of behaviour is ok in men nor did she encourage it.

Infact to prove this, she said quality men are attracted to quality girls.

crackhaus:


A mass outbreak of Dunning-Kruger's effect as evidenced on this topic, makes it hard for any forward movement mehn.

Funny.

A lot of people on this thread would not behave like the girls in the cinema in the first place.

They instinctively know it is wrong.

There is also a reason most people hide their body count when it is high: they are instinctively ashamed.

Same with other immoral behaviours.

truthsayer009:
No one is going back to any drawing board except there is Catastrophic event which totally removes the Internet from existence. Including this platform you're on RN.

People are going back to the drawing board silently, it has always been a part of life. Some would call it repentance.

Ever wondered why a lot of people who play the field suddenly become born-again and insist on no-sex relationships when looking for marriage?

desvi:
someone has asked bukatyne recently if she was going to a new church
to my mind came the words radicalized and fundamentalist
ISIS-Bukatyne

just joking
sorry oo

If telling people (women in this case) to be moral is been radicalized, I will own that badge.

If you have gone through my threads in the past, this one should not surprise you.

And no, I have not changed Church.

cococandy:
Me and you often agree on many things and disagree on many others.
But I won’t also shy away from telling you the truth when necessary. I understand you’re a conservative Christian and I respect that for you.
The problem is that recently you’ve been trying to convince everyone else to be. That’s impossible and you know it.
What happened choice?

I interestingly do not see myself as a conservative Christian because I do not even agree with some things in 'conservative Christianity'.

Everyone has the choice to do as they well; they should just be ready to face the consequences.

Once in a while, I discuss those choices with their consequences in my threads. I think it is the sexual choices that is causing an uproar. I have discussed quota system, working wives, over emphasis on the girl child, beauty in previous threads etc.

Is a woman free to be a slut? Yes. She can however not force me to see her otherwise or accept her slutty behaviour.

I find it funny that most of the people here would agree with the choices in my threads yet come here to promote negative choices without the consequences.

doitforyou:
lol no don't go inventing your own language. "I like it" to most rational people is "I like it" it does not mean encouragement to do anything. People might like something doesn't mean they want to do it. Humans are capable of handling many emotions and wants.

If I tell you that I like the way you talk, I am encouraging you to continue talking that way.

Understand?

cococandy:
Imagine a plate of soup that comprises of two cow meat and a single fish tail....
I was watching her, no permission was requested from me before she took the first meat, yet I ignored, before I knew it, she's about dividing the fish tail into two so as to take it

He did say she was trying to take half. Which implies that she was aiming to share it equally. I don’t see greed there.
She just assumed since there’s two of them, splitting in half would be appropriate.
She failed to ask him what his opinion is. You know that in many Nigerian homes, the older party (or in this case ‘superior’ party) decides who gets what and how much they get.

.

That's why I said she lacked tact and was inconsiderate.

She had not known the guy well and asking jokingly would have solved the whole issue.

The guy is bad news to me anyways.

Someone who can tell you to stand up while eating because you ate fish without his permission would slap the person if she disagreed with him.

LordKO:
Good judgement, even though it's a mere compensation. He's a thoughtless man, so he deserves severe punishment also.

I agree.

Spouses like this make others not to invest their all in the marriage.

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A bright young girl just died.

Can you please take your advert to another thread?

After all, she did not due to contaminated water.

thatigboman:
Is the game won by grammar? That Frank's response is very poor. Even if he, Frank, himself sits on the hot seat, he wount win more than N5,000.
And I hate the guy so much because he is a wife beater. The programme 'Who Wants To Be A Millionaire' was yanked off because of how he, Frank, terribly beat and divorced his wife (a lovely lady that was also a TV presenter). So he should go and sit down and cover his face in shame.

Heard the story.

One would wonder why such a polished man like Frank with huge exposure would beat his wife.

Men, nor bi by suit.

MariaLavina:
Well was rather inconsiderate of her to descend on the second fish. That's a sign of self-centeredness and yes little things matter, sometimes they serves as clues to bigger flaws. However, the man should have been more focused on the possible greedy/ selfish character possessed by the lady other than his ego/ respect.

But the lady ate the first meat and descended on half of the fish.

Asking the OP what he wanted since that was their first time eating together and he was the host wouldn't hurt.

I agree that very little things are a manifestation of bigger ones.

Girl: lacks tact and inconsiderate
Guy: Egoistic and 'typical Nigerian man'

Both bad news in my opinion.

runwaymodel:
Yup. Bet it's his "friends" here who like Sanchez and J's posts. Life! Don't see anything wrong with Sanchez or J's posts. Chasers posts for likes, no be lie. He alone has back to back posts on 1341 and 1342, like dang can someone else post? You get 30, 40, 50, 60 likes, shares on all your posts. One post you could take for constructive criticism you deactivate. Boy bye. Others here show off as well. Cococandy is another , this one likes to announce and showcase everything it's just hilarious to me...lemme stop there

I love seeing beautiful things and Chasers and Cococandy brings me here a lot.

They post for likes according to you and feed our eyes.

A very good deal if you ask me.

If you don't like their posts, you can skip.

Tread about to take a new twist

cococandy:
Well cheating on your spouse (if you both agreed to be monogamous) and infecting them with an std is a totally different issue isn't it?

This is a different issue.

doitforyou:
Yea. I am happy just saw it too. It's funny you are happy, women were not allowed to play football it was not considered lady like.

Women were not allowed to do a lot of things abi?

Well the French girls have perfected playing ball while looking sexy.

Our girls?

I sha love them like that

desvi:
go and visit the said thread and see how your attempts to save society are futile without the other half of the population
drink some wine before you do that
it's the place of no shame whatsoever

Any reason why I should do so?

doitforyou:
She is not encouraging anything, she doesn't care one way or the other because it's not her skin, she was being polite saying she liked it. In which language does "I like it" mean "do it"

Why the need to be polite if she wasn't asked and the person wasn't even there?

I like it is an encouragement to do it.

doitforyou:
She is not encouraging anything, she doesn't care one way or the other because it's not her skin, she was being polite saying she liked it. In which language does "I like it" mean "do it"

Yeah! Our girls qualified.

I feel sorry for the Chile girls especially the one who lost the penalty.

desvi:
again!
it was an example!

@bold
yes!
because this is a choice everyone must make for themselves
we are all different and that's a strength and not a weakness
yet you act like you are morally superior
and come off as mrs-know-it-all
you have even just compared yourself to Jesus you see

I compared myself to Jesus really?

desvi:
nobody said so

Good.

So forget about the porn industry been male dominated.

No one is held hostage.

doitforyou:
Comprehension and context. Sense: synonyms - awareness, feeling, perception etc. I would hope he would have sense (ability to identify) to make a decision that is best for him. Best is the key word, I don't know what is best for him. The girl that sleeps around might be best for him who knows? There are men that married former prostitutes (best for them) and went on to have a happy marriage. As I said a virgin wife can still be unfaithful.

Yea it might blow your mind but the world is that huge to accommodate the diversity of women without triggering Armageddon. Just do you and leave other women.

You brought virginity into this discussion and a virgin wife can cheat.

desvi:
is there some unwritten law that states that you can't address them?
they are all over the place here preaching to us too so what stops you?
since your mission is a better society, you should consider the other 50%.
it would also lend you more credibility among the female folk
there is a thread here in the séxuality section, the contents quite shocking, I must say and I am not easily impressed
men share all kind of sexual escapades and what STDs they have already had but I have never seen you there



I know it is en vogue to be not politically correct though people understand different thing when they use these words but that's a different topic
I do not consider you objective at all, you are very much influenced by personal feelings and beliefs



see, this is why you are not objective
but it's good you give only advice you believe in and I am sure you try to give people the advice you would give a sister
the problem is that you give a lot of unsolicited advice in a rather disrespectful way
there are better ways for sure



true, even me




are you comparing yourself to Jesus now?



let's not go there

You see, the fact that a lot of men open threads about women doesn't I should open a thread about guys even though I have one or two addressed to them.

Rather, tell the men to open a thread about themselves.

The question you should ask yourself is that 'how many times does bukatyne visit the sexuality section? Did bukatyne comment on the thread in question without correcting the OP' ? Objectivity.

The fact that I am influenced by my beliefs and religion offline should tell you that I am me.

If I stopped you on the way and told you to be decent in a rude manner, I would agree I am giving unsolicited advice.

A thread you read the OP, didn't like and still engaged this much? You are enjoying yourself. You are enjoying this unsolicited advise on your own volition and you have the liberty and freedom to jump and pass.

I wouldn't dare compare myself.

KanwuliaExtra:
Hmmmmm!
Homework for the class.
Question of da day:
What would Lucifer say to the world.

Answer : I am not a DEVIL.

100% pass mark!

I actually chuckled reading this.

KanwuliaExtra:
Great!
Your tithes can only grow from PSYCHOS!
That is why we have so many ofege-pastors all over Africa.

Please, let me find the BEST REPLY I got from that your “deleted thread rebuttal”.

Baby-doll? You are NO FRIEND to any free-thinking woman. I could write pages, but do not wish to make this personal. Especially as you are now felling real “fly”.

It practically summed up what I feel like writing.

If by 'free thinking' you mean people with lose morals, you are very right.

I am no friend to any man or woman who equates liberation and freedom to a life without morals.

dingbang:
very true. But I these days, society tends to have a higher power in influencing children. Remember that the Bible says in the latter days, son will rise against father, etc. So to me I feel its more like what is happening now is trying to fulfill what is written in the bible. People no longer care about morals, they just do whatever they like and all that. Its just scriptural and there is nothing that we can do that will fight it. If you try to cage a child , you will see that the child will spoil more than a child that is set free.

Caging kids never works, they will mingle with the kids of parents who don't care.

Actively teaching them and practicing in their presence would work better.