₦airaland Forum

naptu2:
Why do some people on Nairaland like doing things that make no sense at all.

Like this one here.

He claims that I have banned him. This is not the first time that he is making that weird claim. How could I have banned him when I am not a moderator? Does that make any kind of sense at all?

He has been trying to get my attention for a long time, but I have not had anything to do with him for many months, yet he claims that I banned some moniker or account. How does that make any sense??

Now I am wondering if there's some kind of spiritual possession or illness involved.

@bold

Tallesty1:
You are not mourning, yet no part of your brain is working.

If you have lost someone close to you, you would know that you could be shaking hands with people and yet not seeing who they are.

This lady lost both parents and a sibling. Her presence there is proof that she is stronger than all you braindead respect mongers.

@bold:

Absolutely

Omoluabi16:
Omo. People are mean oh. Running their mouth anyhow. They even have time to attack this grieving soul?

Like!

They don't feel sympathy for a person who became an orphan and lost a sibling in one day.

Her father was in his 50s so I assume the lady is in her 20s.

Some people are evil.

flokii:
She is a stvpid girl.. that she is mourning her family members doesn't mean she should not have regard and respect for authority.

Sense is very far from you.

Goodnewsforlife:
so being bereaved shut down a part of d brain right?

The way some of you think

Thank you very much Folake4u for the honorable mention

Belated Happy women's day to you and everyone of us also 😘

Acidosis:
Sis, where you hiding these days?

In the sky

How are you and family?

bal4real:
The guy is right. Not that I'm justifying cheating in men.

Sex means different things to both men and women.

A man can cheat/have sex with another woman and still love his wife.
Sex, to men, means pleasure, a means to satisfy his sexual urges. Their might be no bond or emotional attachment with the said woman. Just to 4uck, ejaculate, and zip your trouser and go.

But to women, sex means a totally different thing to them. Women easily bond with the guy they have sex with, so on.

I am not asking for the meaning of sex to men.

I asked for the definition of love.

noCAP:
That's the fact. For men, it's just sex, pleasure, nothing more

I am not disputing what sex is for men.

I am asking for the definition/your definition of love in a relationship/marriage context.

Niyi4321:
Identifying and doing my responsibilities at home and be there when she needs me.

What are your responsibilities?
'Be there when she needs me' - beautiful. Don you think she needs sexual fidelity/faithfulness from you?

Jashub:
Men do the loving ...we are the romantic gender. Women on the other hand will only love a man on the premise he provides value. Which is why women date up and men date down . So you're greatly mistaken on the subject and definition of love .

You did not answer my question and assumed my definition of love.

I am not talking of romance either.

I asked you 'what is love'?

Jashub:
Cheating for a man isnt the same for a woman . A man can cheat and still love his wife (it's been proven statistically). A woman on the other hand bonds with whoever she cheats on. It's a fact

A man can cheat and still love his wife?....

What is your definition of love?

otomatic:
Anybody staying beyond 5pm is not adding value but very inefficient.
When you consider the cost of powering the office with diesel, then one should efficiently make use of the hours between 8am and 5pm.

I am sure the organisation has done the cost-benefit analysis of their employees staying late and judge it to be worth it.

While staying late should be frowned upon, stating that it doesn't add value or people staying late are unproductive reeks of ignorance 🙃

NoToPile:
Been there won't ever do it again.

Olorun maje.

You took this personal ke

Darkandhandsom:
I watch my colleagues stay extra 3 hours after closing by 5pm and in their mind, they are the best staff. Lol. Me immediately it is 5pm, I begin to back and latest 5:10pm, I'm off

Also depends on the role and workload.

amnesty7:
What you cannot achieve from 8-5, you cannot achieve it in the night.

Not true

HeatSeeker:
You never see anything. Quiet quiting has now become a serious offence in the corporate world. All employees are expected to go above and beyond; this includes working extra hours. All for the sake of adding value.

Very well said.

Especially in the service industry.

And your management still expects and 'preach' work life balance

Pojomojo:
When would you have time for your family?

Would you like services to be very fast?

When you have issues with your bank, SIm card, equipment at home and other services, do you want them resolved as quickly as possible?

HeatSeeker:
it's all part of adding value as an employee. Your family can use the money from the job, so they will understand.

Sadly true

DaytonaAries:
Really? That is the only advice she can give women. She can't advice women that no one should be assaulting them most especially their husbands. She can't educate women that if their husband beats them up for an argument they should consider leaving their marriages. Why should women be the ones to shut up and remain in silence for the fear that their husband would beat them up? That is making a mockery of women that have gone through domestic violence. A man that would beat his wife up during an argument would beat the wife up if he isn't satisfied with something else.


Instead of her to educate women that domestic violence shouldn't be tolerated and end this "dictator and servant" mindset. She is in all facts asking women who are dissatisfied to keep quiet so their husband won't beat them up! How is that a sane thing to say.


Educate women on their rights. Assault and battery are crinimal offences that if any person commits needs to be held accountable.


Women are human beings too. They have feelings. Not all women are perfect but that doesn't mean that they should be keep num when they find things unfavourable to them just becuase their husband would beat them up during an argument.


This Minister could have done better please!

You first need to understand her goal before advising what she can do and can't do.

The minister's goal isn't a happy marriage or a healthy marriage; it is not her business and outside her jurisdiction.

Her goal is to ensure that the number of women who show up in her office due to physical domestic violence reduces.

The next thing is for her to determine the resources she has to do so: a 'Nigerian' husband and his wife.

Then she maximises her resources: it is easier and more productive to tell wives to keep shut to avoid been beaten than to tell husbands not to beat their wives. Just how you tell people to keep their valuables and not flaunt themselves online than tell thieves and kidnappers not to rob.

You don't appeal to a thief not to steal; that is his nature just how you don't appeal to a 'Nigerian' husband not to physically abuse his wife. You only put penalties in place when they do according to their nature. The PDV is a bit different because the wife has to report and be willing to leave the marriage. And telling women to leave their homes due to PDV hasn't yielded much fruit. They leave when they want to leave.

Again, there is a difference between physical domestic violence and two fighting.....

So the minister's advice would honestly reduce 'two fighting' scenarios which is similar to the advice of men walk out when the argument starts to degenerate.

SenatePresdo:
High cost of fuel, epileptic power supply.

Federal Government should reserve any advice for themselves.


For over 200 years, Nigeria can't have stable power supply.

Every State that Generates electricity should not transmit it via National grid.

Reserve it for your own State only.

Nigeria can not have a stable supply until those of them benefitting from the sale of generators are stopped.

EyeCumInPiece:
Always quick to rush & issue advisory on how to endure & adjust to suffering, instead of doing the right thing by providing steady electricity.

The advisory was by the ministry of environment piggybacking on the advisory by NiMET, none of them responsible for electricity in this country.

Mansa6:
And where did this woman you are hating UNFOUNDEDLY say anything about marriage being a dictatorship

Are you actually this BLAND and DENSE upstairs!?

Jesus Christ!

And you don’t realise that it is only dictators that you always keep quiet for whether they are right or wrong?

Kobojunkie:
You spoke my mind on this!

That woman should be tossed out of that position — not just removed —with immediate effect for harboring, talk less of making public, such a view regarding women and marriage. What stewpidity and disconnect, this in 2024!

Why should she be tossed out of the position?

She is doing the best with the resources handed to her: a 'Nigerian' husband and his wife.

It is not her duty to train men for marriage or tell women to pick right or tell both parties to work towards creating a harmonious marriage.

She is only advising women to avoid becoming a stats in her office because like she said, if a woman is not ready to leave the marriage and gets beaten, it is the same apology she gets for keeping quiet she gets for injuries sometimes irreparable.

Even if the husband is punished, the injuries are irreparable. Or what sort of punishment would bring back a damaged eye or broken leg?

Stephen0mozzy:
Bought this same size for #200 yesterday with tears in my eyes. Your own even fill your palm.


The werey quoting santana at £1 🤬🤬🤬. What is the minimum wage per hour in UK?
What's the minimum wage per hour in Nigeria?

30k / 30days == 1k / day
1k / 8hrs == #125

The average worker's 1hour of work can't even buy one santana

Thank you for doing your analysis solely in Naira.

Thank you.

Pascal9:
i pity these country, anyway a typical yorubas is afraid of competition, even America hire foreigners, Google is headed by an Indian.

Do you understand the policy sir?

It sounds good. Hopefully, would be properly implemented, evaluated and non-compliance punished.

Acidosis:
That woman's birthday will cause more damage than anticipated. A very very tactless, insensitive, anti Christ, and needless fun fair.

💯

Offpoint1:
You've not learned anything bro because you're dating Amaka, when you meet Amara you'll get my point.

Amara is a beautiful name.... Beauty

It seems you have met Amara?

Offpoint1:
When it comes to love, only experience can teach people sense.
Your advice is useless to any individual that has never fell victim and dumped.

If you can't do it for Amaka, Amara will sweet you off your feet and you'll do it for her.

Don't waste your time, experiences will do the trick.

And if he heals properly without trauma, he will just choose better and do it again

KINGBEN1:
Nigeria was to be named Goldesia after Sir George Taubman Goldie (the British imperialist who sold Nigeria to Britain for £865,000 in 1899), but he 'tastefully declined' the offer.

Flora Shaw, who would later become the wife of Lord Frederick Lugard, then popularised the name "Nigeria" and successfully campaigned for the adoption of the name via the publication of five separate articles in 1897. #HistoryVille

How did Goldie own 'Nigeria' that he had the right to 'sell' it?

makemoneywbsite:
Yeah, apples are not in the same class as rotten onions. LP, even PDP are angels compared to APC.

As in!

APC came to show us how it is done.

PDP thought they could wreck Nigeria; APC said 'hold my wine'.

It is well.