₦airaland Forum

doggedfighter:
Thanks for this,Bukatyne.
Where can one get this ?

folake4u has already shared samples of EVOO.

I find it light, firming, makes the skin supple and non-darkening. That's why I prescribed EVOO and not just Olive Oil.

But again, skincare is a personal journey. For instance, upon all the rave of coconut oil for hair and skin, it has never worked for me until I discovered about ten years ago that EVOO is actually what works for my system (hair, skin, cooking etc.)

Goodluck finding out what works for you.

Samantha124:
That's his decision to make... [/b]

Toor!

What you call Bride Price sounds like 'Reception Planning' in Nigeria.

For us, BP is more of symbolic so it's a small stipulated amount in addition to the marriage list.

Puss360:
Well... They say, where your madness stop is the beginning of someone else madness ...
I am here thinking Nigerian bride price tradition is weird, not knowing somewhere else, the bride price tradition is weirder ...
Here in some cases they so manage what the guy has . But there they will dictate if it's too small....
Here parent rush the guy and the girl to quickly get married, but there the guy should hustle more and come back when he is financially buoyant ...
It's obvious parents over there aren't really concerned about grandkids... The well being of their children are their priority...
Here, both parents of the guy Nd girl will ring bell for grandkids that's why they manage anything the guy brings to the table...

As in eh!

I read the OP, was like what's this?

Then read the follow-up posts and wondered what the heck was going on.

@OP:

Your sister's boyfriend should look for more money to marry her or a girl whose family is within his budget abi?

dominique:
The way this Lori treats every guy she's with at the moment like he's the true love of her life needs to be studied. There was a time she almost made us believe she could get serial baby daddy Future to settle down. She should just call herself a professional girlfriend

Kim K has that quality too.

They have perfected the art of being present. When they are with you, you think you are the only one on earth.

doggedfighter:
Folake4u, what's your experience with your Karis body firming lotion.

Is it good ?

Will you recommend it ?

For body firming, I would recommend mixing your cream with Extra Virgin Olive Oil (EVOO)

It makes the skin supple & firm.

You could also seal moisture with (EVOO) after a body scrub.

By sealing moisture I mean after scrubbing your body, let the water dry a little then rub a little EVOO all over your skin.

pocohantas:
They are not. That is their thought process.
The anonymity brings out their true nature. Goodluck to Nigerian women!

It is well with them and their women.

GloriousGbola:
Wayward woman. Who gave you permission to post here?i am reporting you to your husband so he can seize your phone. Wasted generation of irresponsible women. No wonder all of your are raising shoulder and divorcing. You are all learning bad thing from social media. Allowing the frustrated evening newspapers to mislead you from the love and guidance of your husbands.

Ema binu sir.

Tetraozonaitera:
Many Christian wives are demonic. They are not aware they are.
Many will not make heaven for pushing their husbands out into adultery.

These idiotts are the ones you will see raising fake holy hands in the church, dancing like as if the are the most virtue.

They believe their husbands can't go out to have sex because they are supposed to be holy even if they starve them with sex.

Bro. I never patronized ashawo in my whole entire life even as a bachelor until the woman I married started misbehaving. Normally we do it once in a week but that time she kukuma closed her pussy for devil knows what.
I come vex that day. It was even on a Sunday. I didn't go to church. I just go to a brothel to patronize ashawo.
It was strange. As I never do am before.

I got there and pointed to one of the women and she stood up. Na dat day I know say all those appearance of ashawo na fake.
She collect money. ₦700 at that time. When she removed her clothes wetin I see was disgusting. Stretch marks everywhere. I'm sure her Vijay too must have stretched mark. I no look am well.

She held my thing and it stood up like a soldier ready for war. She inserted condom and lay for me to enter.
For me sex without pre-intimacy no be sex. The boobs and everything. She no even bring boobs out. She ask me say "she be my mother?" Wen I suck or even play with breast.
In a nutshell I made move to insert my thing into her. Na so the thing that was standing went down like rubber. She asked, "wetin happen" I tell am say I no know o.
Na I'm she wan rub am to make it stand again.
Na so I stood up, remove the condom and started wearing my boxer.
She asked, "you no dey do again?"
I said yes as I continued putting on my clothes.
"I no dey do this kind tin. Na my wife cause am,"
She com say, "okay o,"

Na so I commot the place.
Go my office and go plead with God make E forgive me.

Anyways,
Going to your pastor on such issue is shameful. Me, I no fit do am o.
My advice is.
Call her and talk to her for the last time. If she continues the nonsense. Go find a clean girl as a friend.

The Bible says "If you cant hold your self, go marry,"
Now you no fit hold yourself you go marry the demonic wife they close yansh.

Na so these women dey kill themselves. The husband goes out to contact HIV and come and give them at home.
They think God will punish the man only. Not knowing they will be blamed too.
It is well.

While I think this deserves a topic on its own, it has no bearing on the thread.

I would advise you open a thread to discuss this.

Myer:
Passion is every thing for a human being.
The source of her passion is dead. For many (male and female), that's money.
A dead-beat husband can kill a woman's passion fast.

Most Nigerian women were raised to believe their husband will be the sole provider in the marriage. And some men actially promised and assured their wives this. And words mean a lot to a woman.
So when for whatever reason tables turn and the Man isn't providing and she finds herself having to provide, the lady feels cheated, frustrated and out of her comfort zone.

If this festers for long beyond the threshold she can handle, the passion dies.
She may begin to reconsider her loyalty and might seek sex elsewhere especially in this generation where the fear of God is just a religious statement to so many.
We really need to take this weight and load off men. Parents need to train their daughters to be prepared to work. The irony is how you spend so much to send your daughters to school only to inculcate the virus of not working or providing in marriage.

God will continue to expose and deliver Nigerians from some of our cultural and societal norms that are negative and teach us the better and appropriate way.

The claim that 'most Nigerian women are trained to believe their husbands would be sole providers in marriage' if assumed true is only half of the equation.

Most Nigerian women are also trained to believe that they are solely responsible for housework.

So if you want the weight of sole provision taken off men, I also hope you want the weight of sole domestic chores taken off women.

Myer:
Passion is every thing for a human being.
The source of her passion is dead. For many (male and female), that's money.
A dead-beat husband can kill a woman's passion fast.

Most Nigerian women were raised to believe their husband will be the sole provider in the marriage. And some men actially promised and assured their wives this. And words mean a lot to a woman.
So when for whatever reason tables turn and the Man isn't providing and she finds herself having to provide, the lady feels cheated, frustrated and out of her comfort zone.

If this festers for long beyond the threshold she can handle, the passion dies.
She may begin to reconsider her loyalty and might seek sex elsewhere especially in this generation where the fear of God is just a religious statement to so many.
We really need to take this weight and load off men. Parents need to train their daughters to be prepared to work. The irony is how you spend so much to send your daughters to school only to inculcate the virus of not working or providing in marriage.

God will continue to expose and deliver Nigerians from some of our cultural and societal norms that are negative and teach us the better and appropriate way.

The claim that 'most Nigerian women are trained to believe their husbands would be sole providers in marriage' if assumed true is only half of the equation.

Most Nigerian women are also trained to believe that they are solely responsible for housework.

So if you want the weight of sole provision taken off men, I also hope you want the weight of sole domestic chores taken off women.

nototribalist:
una go dey talk rubbish with mumuu confident.

but a man( maybe a brick layer or mechanic) that is working all day should also provide food and he is still expected to have sex whether he has strength left or not. you see how ridiculous it is to think like that

Is this bricklayer also the one doing house chores?

I read some posts on NL and I am flabbergasted at the thought process behind it.

I want to believe most of them are catching cruise because....

Na wa!

FriendsAndFans:
That's a family issue

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Sonnobax15:

Some will come here and say what the man did was wrong but every sensible man knows that the demerits of a married woman being on social media platforms exceeds it's merits by far...


Abi no be the same social media wey I take disguise just to ask my most trusted banny if she get BF...But to my greatest surprise,the kind heart break wey the NO wey she take reply me give me still get foot prints for my kidney till today..

And the demerits don't exist for married men?

MS247:



That's just a man protecting his family the best way he can

There is one foolish Ibo Boy here on Nairaland who copied my Facebook page from my profile, went to search for my mum and started trolling here on Nairaland

Funny enough both my Parents are here on Nairaland and see his foolishness and we all laugh about it


In his foolishness he thinks he can troll a Retired Police Officer in her 70s🤣🤣




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You people take NL this seriously

Eziokwu!

Or is this post cruise?

Testiebobo:
It is true that some elderly couples are more concerned about their partners even than the younger ones.
" I dont want to see you on social media! But why? Dont you know that when you are on social media you get more exposed to the world, and your privacy might be tampered with by the public. But you can only join whatsapp, so that i can get in touch with you whenever i am absent from home." hmm i laugh in spanish!

Is your father on social media?

Does your mother have a history of divulging more family information than she should?

1stGenAmerican:
How can he get them deported? He can try being petty he doesn’t have any credibility with the British authorities because he is the one who had his visa cancelled due to a documented history of abuse. If he did succeed, it would still backfire because the wife can say that she fears retaliation from him and his family if they are sent back to Nigeria.
The wife worked and got money from her family to travel. The wife also seems to have it all together because she anticipated this—in the other thread Ednut posted receipts with wifey saying husband had been trying to get her to send nude pictures to later blackmail her. I see you said you don’t like the blindsiding but he was definitely trying to find a way to blindside her sooner or later. While he pretended to be smart, the wife kept quiet until the time came to show who was really the smart person in the marriage.

The wife hustled alone to travel; the husband sold all his properties to sponsor his wife.....

Please where can I read the 'truest' version of events?

Would make for a good weekend read.

The North with their complex ethnoreligious crisis.

If not the North, what is Hisbah Police? Are they a legitimate arm of the The Nigerian Police Force?

Who gave them the right to community policing?

The little I watched, the HP look more like an arm of Boko Haram.

Ideally, anyone breaking into someone's apartment without an official warrant is a burglar with the aim to steal, maim, rape, kill or a combo of crimes.

Throwback:
This is why our refineries never worked, electricity supply was never constant, and Ajaokuta Steel Complex never produced for a day.

We have been mapped by some gl9bal cartels as a market for their own products, so they have ensured with the connivance of local actors, that we remain hooked to foreign supply of our fuels and steel.

Just Imagine that all the Steel used in Oil Wells and Pipelines both on Surface and Subsea, and all the steel used in the construction industry, are all foreign imports when we could have produced them locally.

Yes we are a large market for those products, but a market that is catered for by a refinery or steel mill somewhere in Europe or US.

Who will break this economic colonization?

The question is 'why are our rulers allowing economic colonisation'?

'What is holding them hostage'?

What does 'Igbo Jews' mean?

Like African Americans?

Nice view by the way. Wouldn't have guessed it was Nigerian if it wasn't stated.

MuMuOnBail:
Na wa ooo


If this is true, I hope he don't regret this in the nearest future, when his popularity expires and he is left with No Fame, No wealth, No Popularity, No H*oes.

I mean left with total Nothing!

Then he will sit back and start regretting things he did foolishly and stupidly now.


Remember: Na person were hunger catch the remember and regret food he refuse to chop for occasion 10 years ago because of pride

You believe Burna Boy forfeited $5m i.e. ~#5b for weed?

seborrhic:
But how did she expect to collect the money since he wouldn't have made her the beneficiary on his death,as she is only a girlfriend?

That is the question.

Or was the relationship while not 'official' more than a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship?

caye:
Sorry, J.K Rowlings is a woman , who wrote the book, "Harry potter series".

Are you talking about Jerry Rawlings of Ghana?

Thank you for the correction.

Yes, Jerry Rawlings of Ghana.

You killed tax evaders, how do you get the tax owed and generate more revenue?

I guess sucking human blood is more important than making more money.

Holluwhakemmy:
Jagaban is planning his re election again small small. The game planner God Bless You Sir

What is God supposed to bless about him?

Make me understand.

Peejayz:
I started teaching at this private school in September. My salary is 10k per month ( I had no choice than to take the job due to alot of challenges I'm facing). My first salary, the man sent 5k (no joke) , I thought it was a mistake from his side , so I went to meet him in his office, he told it wasn't mistake....

I asked him how can I cope with 5k for a month, he said when student pay school fee, he will pay me my balance, I agreed with him ....

Then the next salary came in today , still 5k, I'm so angry and tired at this point... Alot of debt on my head .... 5k can't even clear them , not to talk of what I will use to feed myself.... This is unfair..... I plan to resign... But at this moment, I don't know where I will see money to feed .....

I'm confused at this point, I don't even know what I'm going to do at this point

Sometimes, we make wrong decisions out of desperation which is understandable.

In Nigeria of today, except you live with your parents (no rent, feeding, clothing, or any bills) and the job is trekkable to your house (zero transport), a job of N10k is a terrible decision.

The first thing you should do is resign.

Even if it is only garri & water you have at home, lock up and think long and hard on what you can do to earn a living.

Look around you, there must be something you can start with zero capital to survive till something else comes up.

Some of the things I can think of is washing cars at a fee maybe N1k (look around for neighbours who can afford it. All you need is a bucket, towel and satchet of detergent), going to market for people, joining a bricklayer team (if you live in a new site), helping people sweep their compound/houses, joining a canteen or buka (wash plates, fetch water, join cooking/serving) etc.

It is well with you.

Tallesty1:
Obi may not be a saint but he will not be this wasteful

I know Obi is not a Saint but like you said, this level of greed and waste wouldn't have happened under his watch.

That and the fact that I believe SE should have this shot (not turn because equal opportunities, not equal results) at the presidency were the reasons I supported him.

Let's see what 2027 brings.

Hopefully, he has learnt some lessons and would have built more/better alliances.

I am yet to decipher who cursed Nigeria and extention Africa with greed and waste.

Isn't seizing a property supposed to be a penalty to the forfeiters and a gain to the Government?

How in the world do they need more money to 'renovate' seizures than the actual worth?

Sometimes, I think we need Jerry Rawlings style for political cleansing after which we start afresh.

fawaz050:
You asked why does he feel pained? If I say something vile about Jesus (which any well guided Muslim would't) would you not feel pained? If you don't, how can you claim to follow Christ?

The Islamophobia is really at an all-time high .

We luckily serve a God that has told us to relax and watch Him fight for us.

We don't need to fight, kill, maim or destroy for our God.

What a flex!

P.S.: Let's assume I feel pained that something vile was said about Jesus, what am I supposed to do about it?

Guidedee:
For Seun and his mods to allow this kind of comment to even remain till this time since it was posted speaks volumes of their notions towards Muslims on nairaland and by extension Nigeria and the whole world. If you allow these acts of terrorism on your site all in the name of traffic, will you be able to continue enjoying the "traffic" on your site if they cause things to escalate into religious war? Do you people have any respect for Muslims? My post is for people with sense and conscience.

If not that your medula oblangata is leaking, how would random posts on NL escalate to a 'religious war'?

Are you crazy?

You are not even ashamed to type with your putrid fingers that a random post on NL can cause a 'religious war'.

What respect for Muslims are you talking about? Do people have respect for other religion? Do you as a Muslim even have respect for human life?

Hasn't Seun pandered to you guys enough? In your little corner on NL, posters must swear that they believe in Allah before commenting on Muslim posts. Anyone is free to comment in the non-Muslim section with Christianity taking the heat yet the regular commenters there show up day in day out to engage themselves till they tire and start all over again.

If not that this is an anonymous site that people are catching cruise, DSS should pick you up.

You are a potential terrorist and should be on a watch list.

Anuofia!

kolanpas:
Majority of people on Nairaland are spewing rubbish on the religion the know nothing about. Do yourself some good and do research about Islam instead of following media propaganda blindly

Media propaganda?

Even if a Nigerian has no access to foreign media, your reign of terrorism in the Northern part of Nigeria will never be forgotten.

All the non-Muslims who have been killed/kidnapped/mained for the silliest reasons by Muslims up Northern Nigeria remain fresh in our memories.

The millions of children you guys have scarred for life don't need CNN or BBC to remember them.