₦airaland Forum

Jamean:
Nne ehn... The matter wear skirt and blouse. I just heard of one that insists the woman turn his Eba with eating spoon and not turning stick

Flux of traditional men.

Btw... how are you doing. I miss you

EfemenaXY:
Can't relate with / to those surgery enhanced Caucasian barbie dolls.

Post pics of our black sisters jare who've had 4+ kids and still managed to keep in shape.

Now that, would be inspirational.

Kimoni:
Efe, you're right on the money.

These girls do all the surgeries in the world and come tell the world "it's natural", "I work my ass out"

When I hear all these Kathrashian sisters ati Amber Rose, Nikki Minaj come out to say the shape is all natural, I just dey laugh

Do they really think anybody believe them

cococandy:
Cc waxdude

I followed this recipe from simplyrecipes.com.
Exactly. Step by step.
Only difference is that I added dried raisins and a pinch of pure grated nutmeg to mine.

I used two bananas and 2/3 cups of sugar instead of a whole cup of cup.
It wasn't overly sweet. Just right.
But you can add the whole cup of you like it sweeter.

SAMBARRY:
we are fine o.wura ti lo si school. Which parti again o?


laro twizday

SAMBARRY:
bukooollaaaaa you nor dey taya



osharo o

cococandy:
Good morning

Phema:
Oh well, i was taught that only the woman builds a home. The longevity of a marriage/home solely lies with the woman. Yea, we are supernatural like that.

Chidoks:
I do think you should read all i wrote before singling that out.what you quoted is the by-the-way conclusion of my opinion on the matter.thanks
what did you do when you found out he cheated?

Truckpusher:
Gerrout from that relationship though you've not told us what you said to her too.

Women do say things that will hurt your ego and pride when you try to muscle them psychologically and emotionally while still flexing physical strength to hoodwink them into believing that you're the lord here and they can't breath without you. Women don't say hurtful things for no reasons bro.
If you know that you screwed up by saying painful things to her too then apologize because she is human and she has pride and ego too.
You don't say bullshiit to a woman that deep inside your heart you can't tolerate from anyone and expect respect in its entirety.

cococandy:
lol. So the woman has a business or trade of some sorts right? Yet somehow the we believe the fathers alone provide fianacncial support for the family.

You said you don't mind as long as it doesn't become a norm for you? So what if it does and you have to do that many times a week.

You people better repent of this unnecessary and destructive pride that doesn't benefit anyone.

I was in the clinic on Friday. Come see fathers who accompany their wives for prenatal checkups signing up for classes in baby care. Learning to change diapers, feed them, bathe them and what have you. Some who learned a long time ago teach others. They have the infants to themselves anyday the mom has to work or isn't around or just for the heck of it. It's their baby too. And they aren't jobless. They all have jobs too but manage to balance child care with their wives.

Na for "face me I face you" in one slum in ajegunle you will see a father forming king of jungle towards his own little baby.
Where's the love?

Better repent y'all.

Phema:
I will go shopping and buy me some red Victoria Secret underwears, improve on my bedmatic and kitchen skills. Because I know I must have done something wrong for him to cheat on me. It just must be my fault, somehow.

I'll also get closer to God. Seek His face and fast and pray fervently for God to turn him over to me while also secretly stocking his car and suit pocket with CDs.

If all fails, I'll just wait it out. Till he is old and feeble and can no longer get it up talk more go looking out.

What can I say? I'm a virtuous woman.

naijababe:
Sister, I want you to be lepa but na sexy lepa I want o. Please go by dress size as her ladyship has said.

MMotimo:
Most? On the wedding day? That's news to me
Before or after the million dollar makeup and hair session?
Before or after they crash into bed on their wedding night?
Before or after being distracted with all the stress?
Where is the time?

ladygudhead:
my dear just wait n see how some persons will blast u for dis ur comment... yea the feminists.

mutter:
Please is the baby safe to fly? Can it stand the flight in this condition. Secondly would you be willing to send pictures and medical report to me if I make a headway? I stay in Europe and can Contact some Ngos here. How much time do we have to organise this.
Please I cannot promise results but I am willing to try.

ApexTitan:
I believe a woman's highest vocation does not lie in marriage, and neither does it lie in a professional career. It is something that is to be found when she makes use of that ennobling power which her Creator has endowed her with - it is spiritual.

That this idea sounds strange to people today is an indication of how limited the sphere of our understandings have become.

I think all these efforts to find total validation for the woman in marriage or worse still in a professional career is a disservice to her true essence. Marriage and motherhood are all sacred canons, it is completely foolish to deride them or deem them irrelevant in place of a career, but the woman's highest function is on a much higher level.

funlord:


I wonder who even told this women that "even with a man" they are anything? Whether single or married you are all just plain old beings like the men themselves! Your impact on the lives of others as well as the world you live in is what shows your quality and "makes you something", not some useless ring or some highly publicised display of vanity called a wedding! Stop trying to live your lives based on the perceptions of nobodies! Kai!

thelish:
UPDATE: House, my husband has gotten a nice job ooo. Though still look like am dreaming, but its true. We have conquered. Years of suffering are over. This is a new journey all together. Can't really express my gratitude to God enough and to the good people of this section. God bless u guys for ur words of encouragement and support.
Cc: ayotoyin, tearoses, kimoni, cococandy,marvellousGod, Acidiosis, enyijuege, mamaflex. .................. Can I really list everyone? nooo, But the truth is, I appreciate everyone here. #ilovethisfeeling# Its not been easy for the past 7yrs of unemployment. God bless my home.

freecocoa:
Please can you explain these? I find it interesting but can't quite tell qhy yet.

ApexTitan:
Hmmm, did you mean wayward/loose when you said


Because that's what I was responding to.

Usually I find that it is people (mostly women) who do not measure up to the perceived archetypes of physical attraction that downplay the importance of sexuality. Not saying you do o, but any man true to himself will admit that those specific attributes he finds attractive in women as a whole is what he wants in his wife.

PS: who is Iya Silifa?

ApexTitan:
Interesting.

I maintain that any man who does not consider his wife's sexual availability and desirability as a primary factor is being dishonest with himself. It is not the only factor but it is one of the important ones.

Kimoni:
Like poles repel, unlike poles attract. It's a universal law that applies to humans as well.

It's very natural to attract to yourself one who has those qualities that you do not possess and it's doesn't apply to women alone, same law applies to men. The good guys often end up with bad girls and vice versa. It is what it is.

Timbuktou:
When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and,
trust me, over time, nothing is sexier. ----Sheryl Sanberg.

Shymme3x, the quote above is the conclusion of the whole matter. Women will fvck bad boys but marry nice guys. Pepa is only regretting her Will Smith experience because he'd have made a great husband not that he's such a great guy that it would be logical to be with him, same with Vivica.

mutter:
No pressure but focused and praying for the things that matter
Most women in Nigeria are even ready to marry half a man. When they don't find one they talk marriage down .

mutter:
Married to the Lord.. No comparison.