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Beuberry:
Very good idea. More is to be done for women in sports. The goal post measurements and field lenght should be different from men's own.

@bold:

Why?

Just stumbled on this and in the Sprirt of the thread decided to bring it here.

Apparently, there is a Sparkle Creed for the LGBTQ~ community in the progressive 'Church' to counter the Apostle's Creed

I follow the YouTuber (a Nigerian) and his sarcasm on issues are so on point. He said 'you either follow God who created you in His image or create another God in your image'.

https://youtube.com/shorts/R4l9fOTXsUA?feature=share4

https://washingtonstand.com/commentary/progressive-christians-can-now-confess-heresy-with-sparkle-creed

@Klass99 @Acidosis @Ishilove

CHoccolaTE:
Wow, I like you too ma, thanks

What exactly is the guy's game plan?

To have a string of women he blackmails into fending for him?

He is not exactly trying to maintain the relationship and records them in advance so it is not the case of a psychotic scorned 'lover'.

It goes without saying that women should be more careful; at that age, if you are looking for a 'permanent' relationship, then sex shouldn't take the lead. If a man doesn't take you home, know it is a red flag and you should run ASAP. Also sending nudes in this day and age? Doing nude videos? Haba!

I don't know why the OP blurred his pictures. At least, people who see him and know the kind of person he is.

Just an additional o to his name in Yoruba would explain his actions:

'Another woman's husband'.

You owe your wife, committed to paying, did not stick to the payment plan and now issued a divorce at Badagry instead of the US where you got married.

The man is a real 'a ko ran mero'.

Chee59:
I don't get these grandma's that dress like hookers. Old age is a blessing and if you want to dress it up, you can dress it up smartly.

Maybe they are still hookers? Or training upcoming ones?

@OP: She looks very good for her age.

I pray God continues to strengthen her to care for him.

I hope he lives the rest of his days as painless as possible.

Thank you sir for the gracing our screens while senile.

While growing up when there was still a bit of sanity, a man dare not reject a pregnancy when fingered and everybody knows them together.

During those semi-sane days, people stuck to their partners and dated who they could marry so once belle enters, marriage ya niyen. Or at least cohabitation so the child is raised properly and the ceremony comes later.

Today, with multiple sex partners, there is no incentive to claim a pregnancy. Also, with how sex has become casual, women get pregnant for men they can't marry if they are the last men on earth.

Men are also enjoying this 'sexual freedom' and depositing their seed about like they are about to die soon and need to leave their yeye legacies about. Due to 'civilization', they don't need to be responsible and judged to be able to cater for a baby (if it happens) before women have sex with them. Is he fine? Have game? Can do from words on the street? And frivolous reasons? Oya, let's go there.

Like they warned us; don't have sex and if you have coconut head and refuse to hear, have sex with (aka date) someone you can marry.

CHoccolaTE:
That's true, women need to withhold sex outside marriage as much as possible.

I like this Choccolate

What is her monthly income?

This only tells me she doesn't cook at all at home.

And if she doesn't, N4k per day is not a huge deal and assuming that she picks whatever she eats herself.

With delivery fee, it would be more than N4k daily.

@marriage: depends on the suitor's pockets and her ability to adapt to cooking after marriage.

Besides, there are some marriages where they buy soups and stews (thereby still eating outside).

cococandy:
Yes. As opposed to killing and torturing them to change? Or Will shaming/judging them make it change? I feel like that’s common sense.



Which is why I don’t support transition surgery in childhood. Permanent life changing decision. You really didn’t have to quote this post because it doesn’t add anything to the conversation. Expect that you are not reading what you’re quoting.
you’re the one defining them as enemies of God. God himself is probably not looking down favorably at you at the moment.

hug a wall if it displeases you that much. Cry me a river.



True Christianity . A real Jesus follower is not a fanatically crazed person who’s okay with harm happening to those who don’t share the same beliefs as them. Jesus said on the last day he will cast you away and say you never knew him. Because you worshiped for your own ego and self aggrandizing.

😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆

Coco, pick up a Bible in English or Igbo and read.

God's displeasure with the alphabet people are well documented. I did not define them as the enemies of God, God did by Himself.

You still have not answered how your kids would know they are trans. How? Enlighten me? Your girl says 'I feel like a boy' and you encourage her? If she feels like a cat or a goat, does she get same support or just as a boy?

If you are truly a Christian mother and any of your child (even if she is 50yrs) tells you she is trans, you would go on your knees to God in prayers to destroy the evil seed that the devil has planted and adjust your lifestyle to bring that Child back to Christ. That is what a Christian would do.

To be honest, not really interested in how you plan to/train your kids. Just wanted to point out your confusion as regards Christianity. Christianity has some hard rules: hatred for the sin of LGBTQ~ is one of it. Just how you just see your children stealing or lying or committing adultery and support them in the guise of 'liberty'. Christianity is not a liberal religion; it has hard dos and don't.

Christianity is not begging for membership; if you cannot align with simple commandments in the Bible, don't bother. Christian means Christ-like.

GloriousGbola:
do people have the right to preach to and convert children to other religions or belief systems?

are children mature enough to be told - what your parents believe is wrong and therefore we have a divine mandate to put you to the right path?

do people have a right to disturb others in the name of religion? trans people are in your face and they should not be because they are an abomination . so - does a christian also have the right to be in my face with a megaphone preaching blasphemy at 5am in the morning in kano?

@bold: no

If you warn them prior not to preach again. Infact these days, when you meet someone, you ask: can I share the word with you? Yes, carry on; No, let them be.

cococandy:
Sex transition IN CHILDREN. Please make that distinction. I’m a firm believer that children can’t make permanent life changing decisions. Things like having sex, giving birth, gender surgeries are in my opinion things that can have life changing consequences and kids don’t have the mental maturity to decide to do it.
If I have a kid that’s trans, I’ll accept and support them without judging or shaming but I will not give them my blessing to go for sex reassignment as kids.

And not all LGBTQ people are in support of children transitioning. This is the propaganda I was talking about. Maybe you meant to say they support gender affirming healthcare care which is not always the same gender reassignment surgery .

How can a kid who you believe can't make permanent life changing decisions tell you he/she is trans and you will accept without 'judgement or shaming'?

How does your kid know he/she was born in the wrong body? In the wrong sex? A kid that wants to be a pilot today and a doctor tomorrow? Or likes Iya Biliki more than you because she gave her two pieces of meat when the rule is one in your household?

As a Christian (that you claimed), you are fine with your seed (whom God has said is for Him and for signs and wonders) to be a permanent enemy of God? Because?

I have you before that you are not a Christian. It is either you retrace your steps from your fence all is fine stances on things God has declared outright enmity on or embrace your lack of godliness. Like I said to KKins, Christianity is a hardline: you are either for or against. If you are for LGBTQ~ community, you have declared friendship with the world and enmity with God.

Ishilove:
Pierce Morgan said if you can identify as any gender or anything ,he chooses to identify as a black female lesbian. The pro-trans lady on his program was speechless

I watched that clip. Lady wanted to say it's not possible but realised she would sound stupid.

kkins25:
I am a fan of Matt. Although not a Christian, I agree with the quote. As already said, the so called LGBTQ people who claim to champion human right only seem to have power when it comes to Christians. Infact, I've seen vile and disturbing stuff done by the said group just to ridicule chrisitianity. However, when Christians retaliate, Christians lose their job. Get called homophobes, and so on.

It is not even a function of 'retaliation'; it is a function of realising that Christians have been silent for too long and they are standing up to say 'no to this abomination. You can do your stuff in private, don't do it in public. Don't drag the rest of the world down in your madness.'

As a Christian, you are either for or against LGBTQ~ community. There is no middle ground. Again Christianity is not the only religion against it; I actually do not know any religion that supports LGBTQ~.

Finally, Christians know why we are ones getting the attacks and ridicules; it is clearly stated in the Bible. The World (human/demonic system) from time has been at spiritual war against the Church. It is not new and the Bible has warned that you cannot be aligned with the world and Christ at the same time. Friendship with the world means you have declared yourself as an enemy of Christ and His principles. There is no middle ground with Christianity.

I know you are not a Christian; I am just using this post (since you honestly noticed the hostility against Christians) to address my fellow Christians not to be surprised.

Matt Walsh is definitely not surprised by the backlash. He knows that his words would be twisted the moment he stood up to speak out against the LGBTQ~ community.

P.S.: I used real Christians and later removed the real. You are either a Christian (Christ-like and following Biblical principles or not). Real, genuinely born again and other adjectives used before Christians makes people comfortable with one leg in and one leg out. You are either for or against, it is a hardline.

P.S.S.: The right word should be anti-homosexual, anti-trans etc. We are not afraid of them, we are against them.

Ladyhippolyta88:
1. Bukatyne has no problem with arresting LGBTQ people for doing what exactly?

2. It is very stupid to compare drag Queens to paedophiles when they don't even perform for kids or have any history of child abuse. Drag queens have existed for years in many cultures but agenda must agend for bigots.

How very Christ like of you to lie on people and defend such lies.

3. I remember you defending marital rape here years back.

4. So this is not new thank God secular laws are not gotten from Religion. The World would have been a worse hellhole.

1. You obviously lack comprehension. I summarised the article you posted to prove he is a pedophile and I said according to the article he is anti-LGBTQ (as he should) and called for their arrests. Can you point anywhere I 'supported' the call for their arrests? Did the article state why he called for their arrests? LGB has existed prior to now and he didn't call for their arrests. The logical thing would be to say MW, what changed?

2. Drag Queens don't perform for children when there is news that they go to schools with parents Complaining? The LGBTQ~ community don't try to incorporate children into their nonsense? Or it is OK because you see nothing wrong with them? Desc. arado showed a pride shirt for a 2yr old; what should a 2yr old know about transgender or even sex? She complained that her kids were forced in school to wear pink and other stuffs. Those don't count as pedophilia?

3. I said and I will keep saying it that there is nothing like marital rape in a Christian marriage. Rape is defined as sex without consent. A marital couple give each other consent to their bodies upon marriage so sex/access to each others bodies is a right in a Christian marriage. Is it possible that one person is unable to perform their duties? Yes, then both parties evaluate and determine next steps. Is sexual abuse (injuring someone intentionally, withholding sex, deliberately not satisfying the other party, using sex as a bargaining chip etc) possible? Yes. But you have a choice not to marry under Biblical laws since you don't believe in them.

4. Which God are you thanking? Yes, laws based on the ten commandments, no fornication, work hard, be honest, love your neighbours as yourselves, LGBTQ~ is an abomination etc. would have made the world a worse hellhole; I agree

Ladyhippolyta88:
1. Bukatyne dey carry microphone for Matt Walsh defending teenage pregnancy oo.

If Matt Walsh is a Christain or Christian icon now I see why many young people are leaving religion.
This man says they are paedophiles and rapist and that is a lie(facts).

2. He justifies teenage pregnancy and throws hateful comments of death and all sorts on LGBTQ people but somehow you think these statements are not hateful.
A Christian can condemn LGBTQ without lying that they are paedophiles and rapist or wishing them deaths and abuse like Matt Walsh does. There is nothing Christ-like there. I have never heard him say pray for LGBTQ people and all sorts of Christian virtues against sin.

3. If hateful comments like what Matt Walsh spews is considered Christian then something must be wrong with those Christians. The man is actively spreading hate and grifting idiots who are bigots like him but you consider him Christian.

LMAO
All of you must be serious clowns. This man has justified abuse but somehow he is an ambassador of Christ. Lol.

You should really take your own advice. You can hate MW without lying. If the video you shared is the evidence you have, then you need English 101. The antecode to teenage pregnancy is marriage for late teens (who are ready/interested) and abstinence (none of which the wild left agrees with).

Is there anywhere MW wished the alphabet people death? If yes, in what context? If you can watch the video you posted and keep insisting that he is supporting teenage pregnancy (when I am sure he preaches abstinence and is against sex outside marriage), I am sorry I can't trust your information and intentions.

What do you know about Christian virtues of sin? God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah for LGB. They had not even added T and Co then. God has also repeatedly spoken about His disdain for the alphabet people. Again, there is a difference between I know this is wrong however I find myself attracted to it yada yada and it is my right, my body and there is nothing wrong it with.

What hate is he spreading? In what context did he spread the hate? What was he reacting to? Again, LGB is not new. If he didn't 'spread' the hate before, what is the trigger now?


I not interested in any debate on this topic; there is nothing for me to debate. I responded to your mention because of Matt Walsh accusations and I said 'let's see if this is genuine or a propaganda as usual.'

Goodluck with your LGBTQ~ community.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Matt Walsh that has no problem with teenage pregnancy and advocating for abuse of minors cannot be "God sent".

Matt Walsh advocates for the impregnation of girls as young as 16 because it's "technically when they're at their most fertile" in a newly unearthed rant about how teenage pregnancy isn't "the problem it's unwed pregnancy that's the problem in society" pic.twitter.com/SSoKLkfR3f

— The Serfs (youtube.com/theserftimes) (@theserfstv) October 5, 2022

https://pkbnews.in/matt-walsh-pedophile-controversy/

Truly bigotry does have allies. If you want to critically call out transpeople do it the way JK. Rowling does not by thinking men who are hateful like Matt Walsh are "God sent".
The joke writes itself. LMAO.

Everybody knows what a woman is
The famous line is using came from the confirmation hearing of Justice Ketanji Brown Jackson to the Supreme Court who ignored the question a Republican senator asked her on what a woman was because it was a political question that had no basis in law that she was questioned hence the reply she gave because she didn't want to be caught up in the bigotry, the question "What is a Woman?" was actually aimed at poking to the Republican base.
Everyone knows what a woman is. The definition has not changed.

I wanted to be disappointed that this is not a left propaganda and read the article & the twitter video.

I know that anyone who is against the LGBTQ~ community from a Christian POV would be labelled all sorts, not surprising.

For anyone to watch the Twitter video & call Matt Walsh a pedophile must be a clown. Even the thumbnail of the video doesn't correlate with he said and I am sure that video was carefully curated to prove their point.

First the article:
1. Matt Walsh was quoted to equate drag Queens as pedophiles and should be treated as such. He was alleged to be against the LGBTQ~ community (as he should) and asks for their arrests. This makes Matt Walsh anti-LGBTQ~ and not a pedophile (except the meaning has changed).

Secondly the video:
1. I assume the discussion was around teenage pregnancy.
2. Matt Walsh brought facts to the table that:
a. Teenage girls have always been getting pregnant and cited the apex as 1957. Hence, teenage pregnancy is not a new phenomenon because peeps married much younger in older times. This occurred everywhere.
b. According to science, 17 - 24 yr old women are the most fertile for childbirth
c. About 30 years ago, society decided that teens are too young to get married.

The problem with teenage pregnancy is that the pregnancy is not in a marriage which is a fact. If an 17yr old girl marries a 19yr old guy and gives birth at 18, have the right resources to support them. What is the problem? Perhaps they are not done with school, perhaps we think if they are older, they would have chosen better yada yada but what is the problem and how is this pedophilia? Our dear Omotola married and had her first kid at 18yrs; I don't see anyone screaming pedophilia.

In that short clip, he did not even prescribe teenage marriage; he stated the facts on ground and rightly started that teenage pregnancy became an issue when it was outside wedlock.

I have not seen any hate from Matt Walsh although I understand that anyone who makes his/her Christian stance known especially against the LGBTQ~ is automatically labelled.

pocohantas:
I know some ladies would rather not wear at all, but I think it adds some carriage and poise to outfits and walk when done right.

So, ladies, what is your ideal heel height?
And what kinda heels would you rather wear. Stiletto, wedge, block...etc

3' stilettos.

Used to do 4' block heels with platform.

Nice2023:
I have a side income that pays ten times of this,I only pity those who don't have anything apart from normal salary.

Oh! It is all good then 👍

descarado:
Buky, pls

Is it bad to be my neighbours keeper.?

descarado:
Sam Smith, right
Can you see where this is going.

The face behind the mask is what matters.

You understood perfectly what's going on.
Majority of us women thought its all about live and let live. All romance novel writers have abandoned male female romance stories and writing only about them. You wanna sell, write any rubbish as long as its about them, you will sell.
Some YouTube content creators are forced to market them subtly for acceptance especially people from the state.
All female adverts are proudly taken over by them.
Because they don't want to identify as male anymore and assigning female to god look somehow, god is now non gender.
You see what's going on.
I rest my case.

It's been long I dwelled so much on a topic like this here.
I'm tired.

I pray those of you against this abomination would stand firm, win thereby saving your children and their children.

Amen.

What kind of monstrous act is this?

Drive over a criminal because he was unruly even after you handcuffed him?

If he was ruly, would he be a criminal in the first place?

Nice2023:
I remembered when this dude was campaigning,he said " I will continue from where Buhari stops" all of u were shouting " on ur mandate we shall stand " now leg don they pain una.

That is my salary per month vs fuel per month.

Is this not what we called rat race in economics?

Starting from tomorrow,fuel price might go up.I may not be getting salary for the month of July if does go up.

But if u think I will suffer,that is a question for another day,i only pity those who are earning less than this or more with multiple mouths to feed.

To say the truth,it is not getting better...this is the worst time in our history as a nation.

This is so sad o!

What do you want to do? How do you intend to resolve the issue?

descarado:
Yes, he is menstruating from his bum.
It is well.
Don't laugh o.

We have abused the word freedom so much.

From his bum ke?

Doesn't he have kind neighbours to rush him to the hospital?

There is nothing like absolute freedom.

cococandy:
If said place is a publicly funded place, then they have a right as well as anyone else to receive service and employment there. They pay taxes and are entitled to the amenities they pay into. If such discriminations are allowed, I can say it’s against my belief to serve or associate with Muslims and then my belief has to be respected and then Muslim wants his beliefs to be respected and the Hindu wants to not associate with the Jew and his beliefs have to respected as well.


this is what I mean by propaganda. Literally no one. Not one institution, company or organization is forced to celebrate pride. What people who don’t live in America don’t realize is the hyper capitalist nature of this country. The driving factor behind every decision is money. So companies celebrate and identify with marginalized groups not out of the goodness of their heart but just to garner good will and thus attract more clients. No one will even be fined or punished for not celebrating. I can’t believe you actually believe people are forced to celebrate pride. They can chose to keep mum throughout the whole month and no one will blink in their direction. The propaganda is too much and y’all are lapping it up.

I beg to differ so let’s agree to disagree on that.

and again I ask you what does putting themselves in your face actually look like in practice? Is it that a woman mentions her husband and a man mentions his husband and suddenly that man is forcing his lifestyle on you whereas the woman who said the same thing wasn’t forcing herself? Y’all know the truth.

OMG. You know what? Same here. It’s exactly the same in America. Everyone lives their lives and minds their business. It’s only on nairaland that I come and hear how America is a land running amok with trans people. Imagine if I come online and tell you how Nigeria is depraved. full of trans people going to schools grooming children and teaching them to change their genders. Won’t you look at me like I’ve lost my marbles. That’s EXACTLY how these internet conversations are from my perspective. Because I currently live in the what has been consistently voted one of the most diverse cities in the world and not one LGBTQ person has constituted a nuisance of themselves to anyone around them. Yet on nairaland they are forcing themselves on far away individuals who have never met one in real life.




That’s your opinion. God does not create abominations.

out of curiosity what’s the solution? Not that I see a problem but since you think it is, what’s a solution in your opinion. Kill them?

they might feel the same way about you: so y’all just pity each other and pass on by. No harm no foul



Refer to my earlier paragraph where I told you comments like these from someone who doesn’t live next them and has no way of knowing except through online propaganda has me befuddled.
I’m sure they have nothing against you and won’t mind if you thrive. You’re the one overly concerned about them and claiming it’s being shoved on you..

I agree that a public funded place has to provide service to all bona-fide citizens/ tax payers. The institution can now align their workforce to cater for the population in line with their beliefs. If a trans/ gay couple wants to wed in a state registry, I am sure they can get someone who digs their shenanigans to wed them. If the alphabet people are not asking for a service against the faith of the medical personnel and need general treatment, they should surely get it etc.

If they are not shoving themselves in people's faces, the western media/podcasts would not be agog with them. In Nigeria today, every podcaster and YouTube channel is ten things to note when you get to YouKay; Canada is not what I thought it was; Japa is ruining marriages; Nigerian women/men are lonely in [insert preferred location]; Yorubas/Igbos are bigots; yada yada because those are the things trending in our society. There was no buzz about the alphabet people four years ago or even two years ago. What brought about the buzz today? Why are more capitalist corporations trying to identify with them today?

Solution: they should return to the Closet where they belong; build communities for themselves; create content for themselves. If I want to watch gay/trans content, let me seek it out. If I want to watch a Christian movie today, I would have to look for it. Kill ke? Anyone who kills anyone apart from during an official duty or self-defence is culpable of murder. All human beings including the two weeks foetus in the womb has a right to life.

Thankfully you know that God in the Bible doesn't create abominations. In the beginning, He made them male and female and all through the Bible stated His disgust for all the alphabet people. It is basic Christianity 101. Does it mean that if an alphabet people repents, He wouldn't forgive? Of course not. He doesn't want any sinner to perish.

descarado:
This one advertised Tampons and how to use it.
We will conquer
After undergoing gender reassignment and going viral on tiktok, he is now the face of trans.
Women font have identity anymore.
Nothing like woman.

Cos anybody, thing can be a woman.

Is he menstruating?

Or he put tomato sauce in the hole that his surgeon created for him (which he needs to inflate regularly so it doesn't close up) to stimulate periods?

PrimadonnaO:
The clarity and truth is this makes me happy.

God bless you for the umpteenth time.

You are welcome dear 😘

Bigplatoon:
As for the woman, her waiting period is decisively established in the Qur’an. Allah Most High says, “Divorced women must wait for three monthly periods before remarrying” [Quran chapter 2 verse 228]. And “If any of you die and leave widows, the widows should wait for four months and ten nights before remarrying.” [Quran chapter 2 verse 234]

The explanations given above by God in his holy book are for divorced women and the widow respectively.

God's guidance is the real guidance. I hope your question has been answered.

My questions have been answered, thank you.

descarado:
They beat the hell out of one who entered a female locker room.
These females know that they should not wait on the authorities anymore and descended on the guy.
You have your balls and third leg and have the gut to call yourself a lady.

Many have been raping women.


In a female sports in Australia, a transgender joined and won.
The females don't compete equally and fair anymore. They have to compete against a man in a female dominated sports.

In wrestling, I saw a trans beat the hell out of one lady that dare to fight him in boxing.
I cried. Blood was oozing out from her mouth while the idiot was smiling away saying it has been his long time desire. Desire to beat up a woman in a competitive sport?
Commentators were praising him.

And we are here justifying this insanity?

Let trans compete against trans.

Their agenda is to overpower women and relegate them to incubators that they were in the olden days.
Yep, this is well orchestrated move by some group of people.

@bold:

I think these women should start walking away. I know there is the publicised case of a swimmer who competed with a trans woman and came second.

She dragged them to thine kingdom come.

Like you said, they can create a category for trans sports. Their fans and supporters would watch them.

descarado:
See the one that recently modelled female bikini.
Chei, we have suffered

I feel for you guys who are unwillingly bombarded by this insanity.

And it is funny that these trans women keep shrinking the space for women. Now they take up women's slots in adverts, sports, awards, locker rooms, prisons.

Imagine a musician who won best musician in the male category clamouring that they cancel gender based categories because he can no longer decide if he is male or female

Ndo.