₦airaland Forum

caye:
Pls don't watch justdustythings things again o.

She's a coded racist, colonialist and half she says doesn't even believe it herself. She calls it ( mere) entertainment. And she is dence ( an odenson!)
Just imagine the amount of things oshay Duke Jackson has against her, which I didn't believe at first, but while watching her words carefully and her body language, I can now read her to a reasonable extent.

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First, I don't know Oshay Duke Jackson so I don't know his case against her.

Second, I don't know about her racism, colonialism and other isms.

Third, she is not a role model (don't really have one) so I am not invested in her life outside her discussions which I think the point of men not needing women is scrap and tells me something about her.

Your 'please' cracked me up. Don't worry, she is just for edutainment.

ednut1:
it fooled me too. I didn’t notice the date and that it was still tuition free. But lets wait for the revised list because that subsidy on tuition is likely gone.

It is well.

Acidosis:
Nope, 400k +


Any difference between 190k and 400k? 🤭😄

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Just 210k more to hit the mark.

We were brought up to always cater to guests first.

How can people come from afar for a wedding and my MIL asks for some for the guests and I say no? If I am not sure, I would request to ask my mother over the phone.

My mother would be so disappointed in me hearing that such issue degenerated to a swapping of slaps in the hall.

As for brother, make he give her another chance. Everything no bi gra gra.

And the most important question is: is this story real?

Who would have thought we would see the day when women who claimed to be oppressed by men (feminists) and fight tooth and nail for their freedom would support same men to desecrate their essence and spaces.

Trans women have constantly trampled on womanhood (now defining a woman is like further maths), trampled on their spaces (sports, rest rooms and prisons).

Why have trans men never 'fought' to compete in men's sports, go to men's prisons or use men's restrooms?

Imagine a man (who changed to a woman) winning 'woman of the year' award?

I guess if someone is 'superior' to you, even if he/she hands over 'freedom' on a platter, you will hand over that freedom back to the person.

JennyJossie:
Your advice pls at 29 to 30 some one is ready to marry you and also promise to train you in school, but you are not sure. And one of your relative said he will train you in school, and you are sure about it but on the conditions that you must let go of marriage issues. Which one will you go for

1. What do you want?
2. Why are you just making this decision at 29? What happened from 20 - 29? Did you learn any handiwork, go to school partially e.g. NCE, OND etc?
3. The man 'interested' in marrying you and sending you to school after marriage, what kind of man is he?
4. I understand your uncle halting the training plans upon marriage. Once you are married, you become your husband's responsibility.

Since you asked the one we would go for:

At your age, I would learn an handiwork well for about a year or two from a professional (tailoring, hairdressing, baking, etc) and open a shop.

As the business is growing, I would be taking relevant short courses to improve myself and grow my business.

If you are so keen on a degree, you can do part time/ online schooling alongside your business and do an MBA after.

TemplarLandry:
Yes that's what I'm saying. No water.

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Shokoloko:
I assume you live in the diaspora, have you ever been visited by the police.
Before you know it you will start to sweat and you will tell them everything the history of your family beginning from your ancestry.
I have been wrongly held up at the US Canadian border. Even though I knew I had done no wrong, I was scared and did not even remember that I had my driver's license with me when I was asked for it. And over here you cannot drive without your drivers license. My sister searched my bag and pulled out my license.
Not everyone has the ability to be calm and think strategically when the police is all over you

Kobojunkie:
Over here, checking your text history with those related to the case is done as part of the investigation. They contact the Phone company for such things if you delete it from your phone. Abroad police no be Nigeria police at all.

Thanks for the clarifications, the man was doomed anyways.



I have

CartelKenneth:
They are doing yahoo
besides guys don’t really give a crap about the education of the thing it’s only you girls that do competition in all this kind of trash like if you see all the best graduating students they have come out this year mostly female and they’re always ugly girls anyway guys don’t compete for useless things like this if it’s something like sports or business or something manly like that then that’s where you see guys, but insignificant things like school or all this education we don’t really give a Bleep we’ll just do the best we can

and if you check the course that she did, it’s probably one Useless course like tha's that cannot even make her somebody in this life

This is wizardry spirit.

A short while ago, an Igbo boy was the valedictorian in UK or US.

MC Oluomo's son was a valedictorian in his high school and got a scholarship to MIT. I think he has finished now.

Several boys have made Nigeria proud academically outside the country.

Besides, students don't compete to have the highest scores; in an ideal system, you don't even know you have the beat grades.

If you are incapable of getting high grades in school or have no flair for education; don’t make it a boy issue. Understand that it is solely your issue.

Like Russia cares.

Hope Ukraine is joining the list soon.

And hope the US is at the top of the list.

I am wondering if the court is really punishing the father for excessively beating his son or they want to meet their quota of one less family together

If their issue was really the excessive beating and their findings showed the kids were properly cared for and the father was not in the habit of beating them excessively, then they would have explored other means of resolving the issue.

They could have used a two pronged approach: punitive and corrective:

1. Punitive: mandatory anger management classes (paid by him) and community service. Also put the family through therapy (if required and funded by the husband). Could also report him to his employer so they are also on the watch during a stipulated period.

2. Corrective: teach him how to handle the issue of his son not doing his homework/ joining online classes and general child upbringing. Report the son to his school, tell him the corresponding punishment for missing classes/not doing his assignments and waiving it because of the beating he has received.

Shokoloko:
Why will she treat bruises at home? Why didnt the man treat the bruises at home?
You are taxed heavily for healthcare. So why will you pay taxes for healthcare and still pay privately for healthcare?
Isn't it dumb to pay for one product twice? By the way, the woman did not report that man. The hospital did

She added fuel to the fire by showing the authorities the text messages he sent to her to 'cover the case/cause of injury'.

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Then the jokers would scream that men are sexually objectifying them when they are doing a fine job of it themselves.

I agree with a poster here who said she went out nude because she knows that some foolish men would give her attention.

If the pedicurist had smiled and told her they don't attend to mad people, she would have a teeny weeny bit of inflection (if she is capable of doing so) and move to the next shop.

Same response from about ten shops, she would go back home in defeat.

But men that should rebuff her are the ones gawking and strategizing on how to sleep with her thenturn around to say she is 'cheap' forgetting that anyone who sleeps with a prostitute or a mad person is 'one' with the person.

Going through the thread, you realise a lot of the posters' moms had horrible marriages so they become pseudo-husbands to compensate.

Which boy who saw love between his parents grow up into a man who thinks his wife is a stranger to him?

Which mother who enjoyed her husband's love compete with her son's wife for his attention? Even if the husband is dead, she wants to preserve their memories and gingering her son to be good to his wife like her husband was good to her.

If you do not understand that you & your wife are one and tasked with building a new branch out of your extended family, don’t bother with marriage or marry your perfect mom.

Your concerns are valid and married couples should live together or make plans to live together as quickly as possible. Hence, your suggestion of resigning at your school after marriage is not out of place.

However, I have a number of reservations:

1. This is a very short long distance relationship. Do you know him well enough to vouch he doesn't have another family or a secret life at Kwara? In most cases like this, the husband either wants the wife to join him or he wants to join his wife (if her location presents better opportunities). When they unfortunately can't stay together, the wife's location is the family's base so the husband does the travelling.

2. How is the economic situation in Kwara? Have you been to Kwara before? Any idea of life there?

3. Piggybacking on point 2, do you know his financial capability? Do you know the kind of life he lives in Kwara? How viable are his businesses? Do you understand the basics of his business and how he makes money from them? E.g. Dangote produces goods and sell at a profit kind of base knowledge?

4. Are you convinced that this man is for you or you are desperate to marry due to age, his perceived wealth or any other reason?

I would advise you get to really know him more, his thought process and why he is eager for you to remain in Ibadan and come visit him in Kwara.

After you are convinced he is the one, research life in Kwara and if there are commensurate 'big schools' you can work in. Your school might even have a branch or sister school you can transfer to.

If you guys go along with this long distance marriage, what is the timeline for the family to consolidate and at where?

As for adultery, men with multiple wives still have side chicks. While I am not saying a wife shouldn't play her part, a husband who is inclined to commit adultery would do so 99% of the time.

Goodluck.

Sunofgod:
Forgive me Sir....but you are wrong. People have no intention of returning. Foreign countries benefit from the taxes these people pay and use the money to better their society.....only recently Ghana realised they no longer had enough nurses for their own population because of Japa syndrome.

Also anything Bill Gates says is good.....know that it's bad for Africans.

So many Africans are cleaning old Oyibo people's Ynash and paying them tax for the privilege.

@bold:

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RTID:
Many female lawyers have turned to hookup and being Instagram baddies, because lawyer work no dey pay.

And what do their men turn to?

Acidosis:
Ahh.. Nawao. Better to take that money to a private university.

Private university N190k?

ednut1:
Dated 24 may 2023. This was before Tinubu or the student loan

While our rulers are evil, Nigerians also thrive on propaganda.

mariahAngel:
A mo won.
Awa gan, small hailing bayi, our head will be bigging.

Two ge four nu.

There is a seller & there is a buyer

@topic:

Toor, omo ologo.

mariahAngel:
Enticing words.
When they want to penetrate Africa, they use enticing words to make Africans feel good and relevant.

I won't even be surprised to know that he and his daughter never discussed about Burna and Rema.

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You sabi dem.

Hmmmmmmm

snthesis:
My childhood friend invited me to his home, he is been married for 8yrs now, with no children, we stay in different states but kept in touch, he has been suggesting a meet-up but i've been busy, finally made out time to travel (tickets on him ) during this Democracy day holiday break.

we ate, drank, gisted late through the night and caught up on old times, with his wife in company, actively engaging, and then he asked if i could get his wife pregnant , and it would be between us, his wifey was also ok with it then she stripped..., and i could see the despair in both their faces (they been through all medical procedures and its pointing towards my friend being impotent), i was the only person they could confide in and sure of keeping their secret...

Is this adultery on their part or not, especially since it is consenting from all parties. Adultery i.e "sex outside marriage", or can this be classified under surrogacy? is surrogacy Adultery?

Oh, is this what birthed the other thread?

This is not the traditional surrogacy known.

Your friend could beg you for your semen containing your sperm instead without you sleeping with his wife.

You accepting or declining is another kettle of fish.

NoToPile:
You saw that right?

I read it and shook my head

Are you minding these demonic men who think emotional blackmail works?

Danger ko, live wire ni.

dapadawee:
I have not read two line I have seen pride in you. God help your husband. Any woman that can open her mouth to say she is the one providing for the house are dangerous women. That line was not necessary you can make your point without it. Well I couldn't read beyond that line because I might find words more irritating than that.

Yet, the husband did not decide to avert the danger by providing for the house.

De play!

A man who would
1. Hide the fact that he was previously married with two kids;
2. Ignore his kids when they need financial help
3. Amongst other undiscovered vices

Is not a boyfriend material talk more of a husband material.

However, if your sister in her desperation to 'right the wrong' creates a bigger problem for herself by getting married to him, goodluck.

Beverlyjean:
I get my motivation from Roma Army and Justpearlythings .... go and Google them first

I watch a lot of YouTube shorts from Justpearlythings. While she is doing good showing those ridiculous women on her shows their foolishness, I think she has low self-esteem herself.

When a woman says 'women need men, men don't need women', it screams an identity issue in addition to other things to me. 🙄

I love Amala's shorts also (can't pronounce/spell her surname ).

Well well, let's wait and see.

N500 billion or million monthly?

N500 billion??

As in billion (million X million)?

Or na old school maths sense I dey use reason am?

carl90:
Nice !
However, Chivita 's Hollandia range of evaporated milk products is giving Freisland's peak milk a run for the money.
We need more brands in the dairy industry.
The more,the merrier.
Meanwhile,I am reasoning what life will be without milk in my breakfast.
Milk in my tea.
Milk in my coffee.
Milk in my pap.
Milk in my custard.

Wow !

Milk is Life.

That Hollandia milk seems to have 'fake' in abundance or the quality has dropped in this current economic situation.

Especially the biggest pack.

TemplarLandry:
One of the best milk brands ever.
My secret recipe=Powdered Peak Milk+Proportionate Volume of Garri.
OMG. 💙
Pure bliss.

Tried chewing it raw with lirru sugar?