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Jovialjune1:
@cococa.ndy


I see your submissions and notice you were simply going in circles and beating around the bsh same MO as them

These trans people keeps forcing themselves on everyone to be accepted as norm, why should anyone accept you because of your sexuality and what you choose to identify as? You say they want to literally live in peace, there has been no record of murders of trans so who and what exactly is stopping them from living in peace?

LGB people have been in existence for ages, they mind their business and live like normal humans without disturbing anybody's space, TQVXWXY1234 bla bla bla came into existence and started causing havoc, their main target are females and children, they've distorted the xy chromosome as false, they say a woman can be defined as anything except being a female with vagina and real boobs, they say men can menstruate and even made an ad to prove that stupid point, they are attempting to take over women's sport claiming a man can be a woman and so much more, for you a feminist to accept these anomalies and see it as normal is beyond surprising, they are gradually erasing womanhood taking us to the dark ages, slowly taking away all we have fought for centuries ago to be where we are today, and these things are mainly done by men pretending to be women, a clear cut misogyny in progress, and you are cool with it? Their new stance now is renaming biological male and female as "cis", a coined out word from a sick fake scientist in the 60s that wanted sex between adults and children to be seen as normal, he actually experimented on children to figure out the psychological trauma and effects, and so many died, heck presently they already have a pedophile group with their flag,

They have gone as far as going to schools to catch them young, trans people want to imbibe their sickness into little children to confuse them on biology and the actual truth and fact of life and how they are born, desecration of what the rainbow stands for and calling it their own, they dont want the sex of new born babies to be named according to their Instruments, they are still trying to figure out what to call them, you say straight men sexualises kids, but they are found out and sent to jail, now the alphabet people are normalising the sexualisation of kids, teaching them sex in school books such as masturbation with explicit disgusting pictures, queer people want to read to kids, they want to sit half naked with a clownish face and costumes being in children's spaces, dancing explicitly and seductively with kids so as to be accepted as norm, these are people that are limited to bars and always for adults above 18, yet they are being pushed by the government as the new norm

I've seen videos of these people bullying mostly Christians, there is one association against catholics in california where they openly mock them, they call themselves sisterhood of perpetual blablabla unfortunately sanctioned by the government in the name of inclusion, I saw a video of a white man reading his bible, trans people spat at him, confronted him to his face, tore his bible, pushed and shoved him to the ground, but this man didn't flinch, he kept on reading his bible, there is a man on twitter, billboard bill or something, this man goes to different states and countries on a lone protests with billboards on his back and front saying a man cannot be a woman, yet he gets shoved and pushed at by these people yet you say they are being victimised and want peace? They mostly attack Christians and Christianity because we are the easiest to provoke without provocation, but they can never try it to Muslims, there was a protest by Muslims in one state that they cannot allow indoctrination of their ideology in their schools, I expected a fierce backlash or confrontation from alphabet people but there was none, instead all they could come up with was that the protest was not done by true Muslims, there is a county in detroit where they are majority Muslims, their mayor and politicians are all Muslims, they passed a law that there would be no display of any type of flags on public property, no transitioning of kids or sexuising them in schools, I expected Biden to cry blue murder yet nothing happened,

These people are the forceful ones and bullies that insult and give people names if they are not accepted, being forceful can never give the desired result, instead there will be fierce push back which is already happening, Matt Walsh what is a woman on twitter with millions of views is one, so many states have ban transitioning of kids because they've seen the light and more will definitely follow

What pains me the most is they are desperately trying to cancel womanhood and our achievements, they want to cancel our existence, how can you not see that? Their target and biological modifications are 100% on females, and these are mainly done by men, powerful misogynistic men that will go to any length to achieve their aim even if they loose money, you cannot be in support of these people, they want to destroy the world until it's too late.

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They can attack Christians because most of us are sitting on the fence in a bid to be woke and 'open minded'

Fortunately, God has clearly condemned all the alphabet people in the Bible. Sodom and Gomorrah was destroyed because of LGB people.

Jesus has also said He would spit out anyone who is neither hot nor cold. You are either for Him (aligning 100% with the Bible) or against Him.

Muslims speak their truth Irrespective of their surroundings. You cannot bully or modify their religion. Their holy book says A is wrong or B is right; it stays that way noni.

Good that godly Americans are waking up.

I am sure that there are people in the LGBTQ~ community who can design better websites than this lady.

Go to them; there is freedom of association.

descarado:
Fair enough if you don't label me as anti when you force me to buy a tampon you promote.
Imagine a man advertising tampon.
Telling women how to use tampon. It is well.
Or telling kids it's good to feel differently.

Gay has been around since the beginning of time. Some emperors and Kings were known gays. Society was OK.
Thailand and Japan are more gay than Yankee. We have no problem. Society assimilated them but here, they are preaching a diff story while politicians are riding on their back.
Nobody should miseducate my child. I will not spare that person

Women have finished na! Why wouldn't men start promoting Tampons?

@ bold: at the end of the day, that is the koko.

Any anti- label is fine by me. It is the nerve to call me transphobic and homophobic! Who is scared of caricatures?

I should be afraid of someone who doesn't know his/het own identity.

cococandy:
1. There is documented ongoing discrimination that they face in real life. Name it, it’s happened to them. Housing, healthcare, employment and so on and forth. yes in the so called liberal America. I can’t speak for Nigeria at the moment because I don’t know what the climate is surrounding access to amenities.

2. They have a whole month and parade and what not because they are celebrating what right they’ve been able to get. Anyone who doesn’t have to celebrate getting their rights is speaking from a place of privilege and their opinion doesn’t count when it comes to the said group.

3. You’re using bob-risky as example knowing very well that if he were to be a nobody out in public dressed like that he would be mobbed if not beaten to death. please be honest. That’s how they are free to exist? No one is stopping them? Okay.

4. Now, are they asking (not you specifically) to accept them aka make them part of your household and become one of them? Or are they asking for acceptance such that people just move on about their business and stop the incessant obsession with them. Always talking about them negatively with no provocation like in this thread? Riling up negativity towards them?

5. No gay person has ever shoved themselves down your throat. You see them existing and to you they shouldn’t exist and that’s what it means for them to shove themselves down your throat.

You see straight people get married, have kids, go out in public holding hands and loving each other and it’s not straight agenda. When LGBTQ folks do it, it’s an agenda and it’s being forced on you. again be honest. No one has ever approached you or any of these posters and asked you to become their member. And you know what, even if they did, you can easily say no. So I don’t get it.

7. Let’s say all trans people are the menace they are accused of being, the population of trans people in the world is so minuscule that most people don’t even know one trans person. I have a gay friend and gay family member but I don’t know any trans person up close and personal . I doubt you or any of these other posters do. Yet they are forcing themselves on you. How?

The reason why I jump on these topics and say my piece is because I’ve seen people read what happened to the Jews and wondered how the world watched and let it happen. And it usually starts like this.

History repeating itself starting from some no good propaganda aimed and demonizing a sect to the point that everyone turns a blind eye when they start to get killed and then wonder how it got so bad.

Saw a post on front page and someone said they deserve to be killed and no one person called them out on it. The desensitization and dehumanization is real.

8. After reading all the negativity being fed to you online, do you honestly think you can see an LGBTQ person and view them as the human person they are rather than the monster you’ve been mind trained to see them as?

9. I hope at the end of the day all y’all’s concerns are genuine and not based on “othering” of a different group because you can’t stand to see them thrive.

I’ve said my piece.

1. Everybody have the right of association. It is not discrimination to decide to service or not to service a group of people especially if you are a private business/ person. I can rent to who I will, employ who I will etc. If it is not propaganda, how do an employer or landlord know my sexual orientation?

2. They can celebrate their rights without forcing others to celebrate it too. Any reason why institutions are forced to fly their flags and dress in their colours? Any reason why the pride month has become mainstream?

3. Bobrisky rose from a nobody to the entity he has become today. I am sure there are other trans and cross dressers who are not popular because we don't know them. Infact, Bobrisky's popularity is enough to make him a target if people were inclined to mob him.

4. Again I ask, if they do not put themselves in our face, how do we know them? Can I vouch that my neighbours aren't Homosexuals? Can I confidently say all my colleagues are heterosexuals? Nope! Because it is not my business and nobody feels compelled to shove their sexuality in my face. If there is no pride month, no flag, no propaganda, I am sure a lot of people would forget they exist. Because they constantly seek validation from the general public, they always open themselves up for discussion.

5. Luckily, I am in Nigeria and everyone as at today has the good sense to keep their sexuality to themselves. I do not concern myself with them till they pop up in the news or someone comes out of the Closet like their sexuality is the world's business. The existence or not of the LGBTQ ~ is in the hands of the Christian God who has said over and over that they are an abomination to Him.

7. A little yeast spoils the dough. If they are left to continue their propaganda, they would spread their agenda slowly and surely.

8. If I see an LGBTQ ~ person, I would see a lost human being and feel immense pity.

9. They are co-existing in other countries without making a nuisance of themselves or shoving their agenda down people's throats. And as a Christian, I do not want to see them thrive I do not want to see evil of any sort thrive.

descarado:
My dear, I don't know o.
See those that follow the movement mostly can't defend what they believe in.
Females have suffered.
And u see its mostly males that's fighting this war for us while we are promoting it.

We really don't understand what's going on.

@bold:

The irony of the whole movement. The irony! That a man (the supposed oppressor) would stand up and say 'No! You can't debased womanhood like that' while women in a bid to be 'open minded' are fine with it.

Truly, men build societies.

What is going on is clear to see for those who have eyes to see.

lsepower:
There are only two genders

Are you 💯 sure?

pappy4real:
I swear to God I wouldn't. She's totally changed and become a burden to my life. She's lost the life and vibrance and the romance in her, she's just pale, clueless and unwilling

@bold:

Might be saying same thing about you.

descarado:
No cure my sis.
Thailand has been gay capital of the world since the 80s. The country is peaceful. Everybody minds his business.
Their lakorn( drama series) is incomplete without gay and real trans people having a major role in it. As a matter of fact, BL is very popular in Thailand, but Thailand don't officially recognise gay or trans couple and you don't see them shoving that on people's faces. Maybe, they will later but they are taking it one step at a time, preparing the people slowly but you see the West especially Yankee, I don't know what to say.
Matt Walsh did a documentary the other day on what is a woman sin e womanhood has so many definitions now by transgender people and the woke system ganged up against him but thanks to Elon that gave him free publicity to reach out to millions through twitter. Its getting so crazy. Some parents are withdrawing their kids from public schools in USA. In uk, children want to be identified as so many things, thanks to the systematic employment of advocates by sadists masquerading as politicians to go and catch them when they are young.



I watched a video on YouTube where a mum was reading an extract from school library for 10 yrs old kids. Sexually explicit and with pictures. The school board interrupted her at a point cos they were very uncomfortable but kids take those books home to read!
An approved book by the education board.

Even if you don't have kid, unless you hate kids, nobody will be comfortable with what is going on.

I'm Liberal minded person but this is a no no for me.

Matt Walsh is God sent.

I always chuckle whenever I listen to his shorts on 'who is a woman'?

How did we get to this point that we cannot define who a woman is anymore?

Klass99:
I stumbled on a YouTube short video on trans regret, then followed the channel out of interest. Some transgendered folks are in pain, misery and full of regrets over their choice to transition from one gender to another. I suspect many others will get to that point soon.

You literally feel their pain/regrets through those videos, that you can't even criticise or judge them. You mourn with them over this trans nonsense, one said this was a mistake that never should have happened. Her body is so mutilated and scarred from multiple surgeries that she dresses in clothing to cover herself from the neck downwards.

It is madness from the pit of hell.

@bold:

It is indeed.

I think the assuming people are the ones that tell you we have 100 genders

Then ask: why do trans people only get to choose from male and female?

Crazy, sick lots.

cococandy:
I can’t believe you would mentioned Candace owens as someone worth listening to. Candace Owens?

Also about gay people making noise. Notice how THEY HAVE NEVER EVER come on nairaland to great a thread to force themselves on anyone? EVER?

It’s always the straight people creating thread after thread talking about them. Lamenting about them. How they are forcing themselves on us. Meanwhile they just want freedom to exist in peace. Literally

@bold:

Who is stopping the LGBTQ~ community from living in peace?

In Nigeria, we have Bobrisky & James Brown; we have a number of Homosexuals in the media; the Northerners are rumoured to be highly Homosexual.

I even heard there is a swingers club at Ibadan how much more Lagos. In Lekki Phase 1, some ladies are pimps for gays. You think she is an olosho while she is just a connector providing a rendezvous and collects her cash.

The above is in Nigeria you would agree is more 'close minded' than the US and UK.

Is there a heterosexual month or day or flag? Ideally, what is my business what two or more people decide to do sexually with themselves if I am not a party to it or committed to any of them?

The LGBTQ~ community are the ones who have shoved their sexuality in our faces over & over and demanded that we accept them.

At this rate, they should let us breeet and I am happy that concerned men & women in those places are rising up that the madness is enough.

descarado:
I watched one and was traumatised for days.
They allow kids to start transitioning without reaching puberty. They tell small boys in school it's OK to be a girl and behave like one. In female sports, they have taken over and glorified as the beat up women and take female sports.
Now, they are telling us that woman can be anybody. Have never seen them question who a man is. Can you see where this is going. Observe without emotion and you will see its male sadists and narcissists that are promoting this. Those that hate women with passion. Those that have very sore background with women and there fore vowed to deal with womanhood.

You are only good as breeding machine and nothing more.
Imagine a trans advertising female Tampons. The height of it.
And if you say you don't care, they label you and shove it right down your throat.

And females support this?
Total shame.

I was once on the category of live and let live until I started seeing the political and psychological angle this is going and the suppression of women all over again. This is where I hoped feminists should rise up and condemn but feminists are supporting them.
They clearly didn't know what early feminists fought against.

@bold:



I have realised that there is really no position called 'live and let's live'. You are either for or against. The position of sitting on the fence is also for.

😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 @ feminists rising up to condemn the trans agenda. I think there is a group of feminists called TERFs against the trans movement.

But really, the trans movement is a graduation of feminism. We have a saying in Yoruba land: 'a child that lies will eventually steal'.

Humans do not have brakes and would always graduate in whatever they choose to do.

Albertone:
The list of what a father can provide is endless, but the prominent one is finance, that's why it gets mentioned all the time.
When I withdraw finances, I'm automatically withdrawing other contributions.

I don't know how y'all were raised, but I was trained to give cognizance to my parents even if they were irresponsible and on the wrong side.
You don't wanna get cursed by your biological parents.
Even the bible says "honour thy father and thy mother so that thy days may be long".

And the next bible verse says 'Father's, do not aggravate your children so they would not be frustrated'.

There is the responsibility for both parties.

No sir, fatherhood doesn't stop when there is no finance.

Albertone:
What the father did was totally wrong. But in Africa, there are some untold rules you must abide by. The daughter refused to abide by the rules(courtesy of her mother).
No matter what your parents do, you can't scold them.

If my daughter says this to me, she had better started to feed, house, clothe and sponsor herself. Cos I will prove to be a further disappointment to her.

@bold:

Of course, what else does the average African man provide apart from money which wouldn't be enough considering the minimum wage and level of poverty?

That's why your children and wives don't remember you exist once they can fend for themselves.

You cannot provide morals, leadership by example, sense of direction and identity, encouragement, support or spiritual direction amongst other things a father & husband should provide.

Don't worry about disappointing her further, she has probably reached her wits end when it comes to you disappointing her

I like the tone of the thread.

When the alfa mails (to borrow the term) behin to reap the consequences of their recklessness, people (usually males) would open another thread on how men don't reap what they sowed in their families and how fathers are not taken care of in old age.

Now it is time to marry another wife on 'business trips', you remember this is Africa (a phrase almost never used for something positive). When the white man thinks this is Africa hence inferior to him, you start to wail.

Anyways, this is Africa.... where the men who should build working societies only think with their pen!s and how to satisfy their bellies like underdeveloped beings.

This is truly Africa, we see it!


P.S.: I am always against peeps washing their dirty linen in public so the girl could have rebuked her father privately.

Adakintroy:
Being man is something.

If you fail its your fault.

If you succeed, give all glory to God. If any ever is left, give to your wife. Cuz behind every successful man there is a woman.


Pay the bills all the bills you a man. Pay the children intuition, food medicals clothes everything. But when the time of celebration comes, well..mother is supreme.

Give to the woman. Love her unconditionally even though she love you condition base on what you can provide. The hand that gives is the blessed and loving hand. the woman receives regularly. But somehow she is the more loving hand.

Men love to be with pretty women, women with rich successful men. But men invent polygamy.

Men don't cry don't mean men don't feel pain.

The day women learn to give men their dues is the day the world will return to its actual state

@bold:

Daddy wa, in this story, the husband married a second wife.

I think you mean that men should give women their dues.

Angelfrost:
Don't mind them... That's like someone addressing his own sibling/sister as "My Brother's Sister"!

Is polygamy an antidote for promiscuity?

Angelfrost:
Just say "Cousin" please! Or female cousin if the other cousin is a guy!

Your 'cousin's sister' is also your cousin!

I wonder who started this poor grammar!

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I guess they have a favorite cousin and use him/her as the point of reference for the other siblings.

Else how would children with same father and mother have different relationships with you?

May God console her family members.

Thank you mama for gracing our screen all these years.

Skyview01:
Thanks for the advice.

You are welcome 😊

Skyview01:
Responsibilities no dey end.
Also, when i go out, i get lots of phonecalls, daddy where are you? When are you coming back.

Sometimes i like to travel and vacation alone which i will start this year.

Do.you think marrying later would have changed the required responsibilities?

Even if you married at 40yrs after 'enjoying your bachelorhood', you would be faced with same or more responsibilities, more pressure and less energy.

Good you have identified an hobby; you can start with solo weekend trips to recharge. Also ensure madam's hobbies are factored in and done so she doesn't also feel burnt out.

Goodluck.

@ Topic: Yes.

The tragedy would have been not marrying him. Then that would have been my worst mistake in life.

Skyview01:
Yes but i would not have married at 27. I felt i did not have enough of my bachelorhood.

What felt missing?

What is marriage stopping you from enjoying?

Patdgreat001:
Updated

I was waiting for the updated story before commenting as I suspected it was something in this line when you started.

I don't know what stage of life you both are however, I believe moulding or 'tweaking' as I call it is best done at younger years for both parties before they become unbending.

I also like to look at the root cause of the undesirable trait which would guide in the solution of such problems. It would also be great to know why she is that way: lack of a father figure? Irresponsible/henpecked father? Feminism? Disappointments from men she relied on in the past? Upbringing not to 'rely' on anyone? No one has ever taken initiative or responsibility for her in the past?

You need to dig into the why before you can begin the work of moulding her into your woman which is a loooot of work and patience.

If you intend to marry her, you need to ensure her worldview is shifted before you both go to the altar. You don't start to make such tweaks after marriage. You also need to ensure you are very reliable and also open to tweaking (for whatever issues she might have as long as it doesn't undermine your role of leadership, protection and provision [not just money]). You also need to ensure you are trustworthy such that if there is going to be a difference in opinion and you decide to take the lead, it is not out of your selfishness, ego or benefit; it is because that is the best direction for the team (you & her). That is not to say you would always know the best direction for the team (you are not omniscient) which means that sometimes you would defer to her also.

She must also see that my man loves me very much. That is key to this leadership/submission man/woman masculine/feminine dance you have started. A woman who knows she is loved and respects you wouldn't over time feel the need to 'challenge you' or fight for her 'rights' in defence.

I think I like the maturity and self-awareness of this thread hence my epistle

I wish you goodluck in your relationship and hope you invite us to eat Semo after buying Ankara 😋

The attached pictures shows that the OP likes vawlence

Na wa o!

When she dragged Sarkodie into her mess, what was she expecting?

What exactly inspired this book?

Where did the teaching of peeps not washing their dirty linen and having public decorum go?

He forced you to have an abortion... did he stick the instruments inside you? Didn't you know he had a 'serious relationship' before sleeping with him?

No shame, no accountability, no emotional intelligence!

Anyways she is 38, she still has two years to get sense.

Kingson28:
A boy grew up in Chicago, home and headquarters of irresponsible and 'irredeemable' Black Americans, and you want him to be sensible and sane?
He is just being himself.
Go and find out how Black guys in America treat women they claim to love.
Chioma is only reaping the harvest of her foolishness and ungodliness.
How could a girl raised in a religious Christian home end up with Davido, how?
She is just starting to reap the dividends of Demon-Crazy.
By the time Davido is through with her, she will curse the first day she set her eyes on him.
When covetousness lures you into ungodliness, be prepared to endure whatever results you see. Smh

@bold:

Words on marble

Jogs1900:
Its unfortunate Davido is not giving Chioma any respect at all.
He is just playing her.
I guess the wedding they did was because of ifeanyis death.Because in igbo tradition which Davidos family is aware of they can't claim the boy if Davido didn't marry Chioma.

And what does claiming Ifeanyi or not add to Chioma or her family?

Using bigger problems to solve a problem doesn't end well.

Chioma & her family knew Davido is for the streets; same Davido had publicly claimed Ifeanyi while alive. Why couldn't they bury him in somewhere neutral like Lagos? Even they insist on burying him in her hometown, couldn't Davido visit whenever he wanted? Couldn't he build a monument in his honour in his own hometown?

Or is whatever tradition they are trying to follow worth this nonsense?

Several studies have given same age range so no surprise there.

Study said 'the BEST time to get pregnant', not 'the ONLY time a woman can/should get pregnant'.

The best case scenario. The prime time.

All the stories of women in their 40s and 50s having healthy children doesn't negate the research.

Chioma needs to reach out to Anita Idibia for coping lessons.

Though I doubt Anita is coping well herself.