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snthesis:
egg, sperm are products of sex, so in essence surrogacy, artificial insemination can be classed under adultery if a third party is involved, however if its consenting is it still adultery?

Semen (containing sperm) is ejaculated during sex; sperm can also be extracted from the Penis in the lab (without sex)

Egg is not a product of sex; it is in the ovaries of women and one of the materials required to form a baby. If an egg is not fertilised, it is shed as blood that month called menstruation.

Adultery is a married person (man/woman) having sex with another person who is not their spouse.

Surrogacy (depending on what is rented) is renting someone to be a part of the reproduction process without sex. Someone could donate sperm, eggs or womb.

Artificial Insemination is the act of fertilising an egg by a sperm outside the womb I.e. in a laboratory. It could be donor eggs/sperm or that of the couple.

I have painstakingly explained these concepts to you to stop this thought process of yours.

snthesis:
exactly, only women get stoned when caught in the act of adultery

Where did you get this from?

snthesis:
this is a reverse case, its the man that is impotent, so is that adultery

You mean only women commit adultery?

snthesis:
By definition Adultery is having sex with a married person, in short "sex outside marriage". My question however is when a consenting Couple (Husband and Wife) together invites a Third party for consensual sex with the wife towards having a Child in their union, can this be termed as Adultery? especially when the couple have been trying to have a child for so so long...

If another sperm, egg or womb is required to get a couple pregnant, they do not need to commit adultery before getting it.

Mama Rainbow is forever young.

God bless her.

SmartyPants:
This matter is simple. Who are those in the senate that appeared before her?

Its also exagerrated because Court of Appeal justices do not preside over cases alone. Theres alwaýs a panel.

In this life we must marry reasonable people sha. Imagine yiur entire life's work undone by a single statement

@bold:

As in very big prayer.

The senator is an example of old age does not necessarily mean wisdom. Even if the wife compromised, was it from his mouth we should hear it?

There is something called 'sisesise' in Yoruba that makes people make blunders such as this.

If not that the senator was under a spell or karma caught up with him, why would you utter such a statement in public? Even if you want to frustrate your wife or ruin her career, there are ways to go about it without this nonsense.

Abeg, dig out all the cases the wife has presided over for scrutiny.

Happy Father's Day to him.

Hope they have more kids so the wife can have morenikeji

Happy Wedding Anniversary to the Taiwos.

Cassandraloius:
Why is it always about women?

But the OP read virgin couples and another intelligent poster asked how the virginity would be confirmed?

Most people are reading the OP with their own biases.

Do I support the OP? That's another kettle of fish.

Ebus12:
Where Is the Simi of 2014-2019?



When I asked a similar question about a year ago, a certain lady did not only stop at countering, insulting, and calling me all sorts of unprintable names; she also badgered into my DM and called me a "male witch", for airing an observation. Well, I’m sure her conscience should have given her a hint as to who the real witch is now. Me, who observed and didn’t hide my fears about an artist’s decline, or her, a fake fan, who is more interested in giveaways than helping Simi redress her falling career.

Oh yes, even if we are all afraid to spit this raw truth out, we all know that the Simi of Simisola and Omo Charlie Champagne are probably chilling off somewhere around a hotel in Zonkwa, Kaduna State.

If we will be honest, we will confess that the Simi that gave us hits on a back-to-back basis is probably in national exile and, hopefully, might only return together with DJ Switch when the federal government grants Switch amnesty. If we are true music fans, we must have missed that charming Simi-Falz combo, whose only comparison is a scrumptious rice and gbegiri combo prepared by a 49-year-old Urhobo woman.

That Simi was always anticipated.

That Simi that these new generational Tems and Ayrra Starr can’t match.

That Simi gave Tiwa Savage and Yemi Alade a run for their money.

That Simi, whose songs were relatable and whose videos were educative,

That extra-ordinary, super-talented, and extremely creative Simi

WHAT HAPPENED TO THAT SIMI AFTER HER MARRIAGE TO ADEKUNLE?

WHAT HAPPENED TO THAT SIMI AFTER THE BIRTH OF DEJA?

WHAT HAPPENED TO THAT SIMI AFTER DUDUKE?



The present Simi is a complete shadow of herself. This present Simi, who used to be a hitmaker, is now more of a noisemaker and troublemaker, fighting innocent male fans on Twitter over women's rights and whatnot.

The present Simi, who was an exceptional songstress, has now been reduced—or rather, she has now reduced herself—to an in-house songwriter for her husband, Adekunle Gold.

Her songs, which were topping charts and getting over all airplay, are now hardly played in Calabar beer parlors.

The Simi that many once rated equal to or sometimes above Tiwa Savage is now scarily present in any music conversation.

The Simi that could effortlessly bag seven mega hits in a year is struggling for one average hit since "Duduke."

The energetic Simi we all knew and loved now sings as if she is entertaining only demotivated refugees seeking asylum in Guinea-Bissau.

What has happened to the Simi of Simisola and Omo Charlie Champagne?

Simo has released a new single 'Stranger'.

Saw the thread on front page and thought of this your thread.

Musicians don hear am for your hand.

Lovely song

Thought provoking question, great answers.

Happy Father's Day.

Emmaxx:
God just blessed me with a big baby boy some moments ago . Happy Father's Day to me and all diligent & passionate fathers!

Congratulations 🎊 👏 💐 🥳 🎊 👏 💐 🥳 🎊

God would give you the wisdom and all resources required to bring him up. Amen.

If your story is as stated, your wife doesn't seem interested in the marriage anymore. She is also very ungrateful and doesn't see you both as one.

Do you have kids?

Happy wedding anniversary to you both. More of God's grace, blessings, love, joy and peace in your home, amen.

Nice marriage tips BTW.

Congratulations Alhaja!

Omolafe, iwelabi

Congratulations to the lady best in college of medicine in the next year, Prof Dapo Asaju and Dr. D. K. Olukoya.

baralatie:
Not Sharia law
Adultery is a criminal offence under the Penal Code of Northern Nigeria. Section 387 and 388 stipulate imprisonment for two years, and/or with a fine for adultery.

Southern Nigeria (SE, SS and SW) has a different penal Code from Northern Nigeria?

Is this like US system where each state are autonomous to have state laws or Nigeria has a Criminal Code and the North decided to have theirs?

Does the Nigerian constitution apply in the North?

folake4u:
The law governing Southern Nigeria (Criminal Code) provides that Adultery is NOT a crime.

However, the Penal Code predominantly used in Northern Nigeria makes Adultery a crime in their parts.

Interesting.

You mean Sharia law supercedes the Criminal Code in Northern Nigeria?

finallybusy:
Most marriage contracts are signed in court. Why isn’t infidelity a crime?

Does the marriage contract criminalize adultery? Don't think so.

While it tells you to forsake all others, it doesn't stipulate a punishment if you don't.

You want to vex for the OP but you end up reading the tread and laughing when you see his categorization of good soups, bad soups and clone soups.

Well, most soups derive their differentiation from the leaves and spices used so there would be a lot of 'clone' soups.

I wish you a hearty appetite with your five 'good' soups.

P.S: I daresay that lack of money was the reason you were stuck with bread&akara in Lagos and dror soup in the North.

If you have the money to explore, you will get whatever you want to eat especially in a state like Lagos.

The chargers are most likely fake.

Once you lose the follow come charger or ear piece of your phone, e don done.

Pele.

franchasofficia:
The ever merciful God that I serve will never let my son be like you.


I pray everyday against this attitude in my son. My son will forever be loyal and Obidient to me no matter his financial or economic status tomorrow just as I have been to my parents despite my little success in life, and God will answer my sincere prayers, AMEN.


Dear Lord, please may I never witness a better yesterday till I join you after I have clocked 90yrs in good health.



May I continue to have more than enough to take full responsibility of my fatherly responsibilities to my biological and adopted children, husband responsibilities to my wife, sibling responsibilities to my siblings, uncle responsibilities to my nieces, nephews, son's responsibilities to my amazing parents, to my fathers in the Lord, to you my able God and to the house of God, my neighbors, to my community, employees, business partners and to everyone I come across.


Listen, I made my first millions before I turned 18 and I submitted the whole of it to my elder sibling to manage.


I am approaching 40yrs now, I am married with kids, I am an employer of labor, a lot of people work for me both at home and at my offices. I can say I have tried in my own little way at my age but guess what? I am still loyal and obedient to my father's counsel even though he doesn't live with me and he is above 80yrs and now residing in the village.


Whenever I travel home, I dare not leave my own house after 6pm without telling my aged father where I was going cos he will be worried.


Even at my level and status in life, I don't keep late night, and if for any reason I have to, I must call my wife and inform her.


This your unruly attitude is one of the things that scares me about sending my kids abroad soon, though I trust the God I serve to help me train them while I do my best. Your action towards your father was so so bad and unruly I must tell you. Even well trained white kids don't do this to their parents, its only common among black kids abroad, especially those born in US and UK.


Young man, go back to your father and kneel down and apologize to him today, don't let another night pass before you do that or else, you maybe tampering with your future growth and lifespan.

Amen!

This is how we were brought up.

And why is the 18yr old son the one paying the rent? What is he doing to earn that the father can't do?

I firmly believe that parents should be responsible for their children till they are adults and branch out to fend for themselves through jobs/business/handiwork.

mariahAngel:
Hahahahahahahahahahaha
I like to know how things end.

Mbok quote me when it happens

Oxfordgrade:
1. it's obvious you read, but no comprehension! Because I clearly stated that, my source is from the STORIES OF PEOPLE ON THIS FORUM and MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE.

2. Here, you will hardly hear any OP complaining of his cheating wife having those listed characteristic; while on the contrary, you will read something like: she's lazy, can't dress well, can't satisfy me... etc.

3. Personal experience: I married my wife as a virgin. For the first 2yrs, she couldn't satisfied me on bed, but ok nw.

1. Anyone who goes through our posts who realise who lacks comprehension. It is your personal experience.

2. I haven't noticed such. My experience of complaints is different.

3. This is my major interest in your post. While marrying a virgin, you should have known that her sexuality would be based on the following:

a. Her mentality towards sex: prior to marriage, did she have hangups about sex? What was she taught about sex while young? Was it painted as dirty and a compulsory 'duty' in marriage?

b. Her experience: after marriage, what was the first experience like? What has subsequent experiences been like for her?

c. Knowledge of her body: does she know what turns her on? Has she studied herself to know what she doesn't like?

d. Knowledge of your body: does she know what turns you on?

e. Your tutorship: you are her 1st lover and have the duty to tutor her. Note if she has hangups and guide her out of it (if you are Christians, the Bible has a number of passages to do so), teach her about her body & yours through experimentation, create a safe space for her to express herself sexually (not that she moans or says she likes a certain act and you behave like a village man). Your framing of that sentence tells me you are/were a bad tutor; 👎 She is not the one to satisfy you as a virgin until she is well taught.

P.S. have you ever asked her if she is satisfied with you?

P.S.S. Are you insinuating that only virginity make faithful wives? Because your thread talks of faithful wives and you are giving example of your virginity wife. And does your wife have any of the other characteristics that you listed in the OP?

BATified2023:
they will take to crime

Prophet BAT

mariahAngel:
It shouldn't be the last o.
Me, I would want to know what eventually happened.

Did they suddenly become successful, and surprisingly showed up in their fathers compound with big big cars?
You know, as par Nollywood.

tatafo FM.

Senate Pres. Akpabio looks so different. I wouldn't have recognised him without the introduction.

I hope this is the last we would hear of this saga.

Since the boys have decided not to come back to Nigeria, I hope they understand that OPM is no longer responsible for them.

I also hope that they have gotten sudden clarity on how to care for themselves considering they were unable to do so for the last six months.

Nice one.

Oxfordgrade:
reread the two last paragraph again before your insult thanks

I read the whole post.

My wonder is how you came up with those characteristics for faithful wives because it means you haven't seen any different around you or all the wives with opposite characters around you I.e. Well dressed, not religious fanatics, goal oriented/ working/ have a source of income, are creative etc. are not faithful to their husbands.

Do you now understand why I am wondering the type of women around you?

N.B.: I did not insult you in the post you quoted.