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Yadoctora:
This is like the best thread I'v read in a long while.
I have had to love and love babyosisi more over time. Efemenaxy, alutacontinua, bukatyne, cococandy, bellong and many other people av done really well on this thread. Will stay tuned and learn more.

This ghost guest mode really pays.

Rapmoney:
So many things are luxury as regards marriage, but even family members make it worse. In some tribes, u have to cook for the community youths! Common!!! Are my getting married to the youths of the community?

dre11:
You made some good points over there..... Because he who wants something worthwhile must also make herself worthwhile for the other half

You can give what you don't have like wise you can't the other person can't appreciate you unless you given out something in equal proportions to what you did desire for

Evina:

The original post is a great piece.
I really do not understand the fuss about the post being directed to ladies. I mean, the writer is a woman and if she wants to share some words of wisdom with mankind, it only makes sense for her to start with the women folk.

Besides, the bible talks about a WOMAN being responsible for either building her home or tearing it apart. So, if the women can get it right, the majority of the problem is solved.

To topic: a woman with 1, 5, 7 and 8 is awesome

EreluY:
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bukatyne:
@OP:

Sad story

The heart of man/woman is desperately wicked. How did she feign love for all those years when she was just interested in travelling out?

Like Yorubas would say 'It is better to have a bad wife than bad inlaws'

Evina:


Well, I don't believe cheating is the exclusive right of men. I don't believe it is an intrinsic trait and definitely don't believe it is ineradicable.

You'd be amazed how many people actually believe that silly line of thought. They say men are polygamous in nature.

You cheat because you lack discipline, period!
Besides, I personally know men with very high morals, so that excuse is just lame.

dre11:
On your post or your online personality

Evina:
Lol. Sis. Don't you just find his assertion amazingly ridiculous?

Tallesty1:
That's why i said that goes around

xynerise:
The world is round

fuzzywuzzy:
What he is trying to tell you is that men cannot be faithful after marriage. Don't expect fidelity from them because they are barely capable of it.
The 'faithful' are either too poor to keep a girlfriend/clean prostitute or have embarrassingly small joysticks they are ashamed to work with.

Tallesty1:
That heartless guy was used and dumped by a badass lady. It revolves dear.

SAMBARRY:
to me and I am entitled to my opinion

MizMyColi:

Okay, that'd be cool.

It's just the way we see "Ladies" topic everywhere.

Ladies, five thing you must do to keep a man.
Ladies, 10 things to show he is/is not the man for you.
Ladies, before you give up on that relationship
Ladies, how clean and modest are you.

It begins to give some of us who don't know any better the feeling that we're supposed to labour and slave for our relationships to work, while the guys have little or nothing to contribute.

It is even more annoying because the guys don't pay attention to "guys' " thread the way we ladies pay attention to "ladies' " thread.

I stand to be corrected though

Lol.

carefreewannabe:
Who says so?

keppyy:
Are you Igbo?

SAMBARRY:
not again with all this long long meaningless lists of dos and donts.anyway you don talk am finish sha

MizMyColi:


It would be good to make it ladies and gentlemen y'know.....

That way, I won't feel like I killed Jesu Christi
Hence the burden of the world on my shoulders.

keppyy:
A question for the married women..


Do you still admire men apart from your husbands?

What will you advice a girl that's not a virgin but does not want to "test drive" on how to keep a Relationship?

Sometimes, I feel like lying that I'm a virgin niiiii...

MercyMercy:
Ok. I really appreciate ur response,thanks.

laykhorn:
Blessed is the day Nairaland was born!
Blessed is the day I find this website!
Blessed is the day I stumbled upon this thread!
God bless Seun!
God Bless Babyosisi!
God Bless Bukatyne!
God Bless Moca!
God Bless EfemenaXY!
God Bless myself too!
And most of all, God Bless the Internet!
Thank God for Technology!

dre11:




When is the OP gonna have her own Valentine when we had our a just this last weekend

PrettyClare7:
your post is filled with words of wisdom. Most girls seem to be chasing shadows instead life forgetting that we have just one life to live. No one who died ever came back we should make the best out of ourselves for ourself, our man and the world.

pickabeau1:
You, a nigerian woman married to a nigerian man coming here to say that nigerian marriages are sham
HAHA.. i laff in spanish
If that is not confusion.. i wonder what it is


You are the one that mentioned fallacy here... i just mentioned one of the fallacies you propagate

MercyMercy:
Unfavorable to our communication esp cos we update each other abt almost everything.
He used to be in Lagos before he relocated to Benin. it's not easy for him coming down here cos he's d boss of his own.
Funny enuf, we aren't in a rush. Rush in d sense of bringing up children(we aren't ready in dat aspect). We want to achieve our plan for the future together not just as close friends but as a couple. He is one of the ministers in his church and I also have a calling in d ministry.

pickabeau1:
glad you know you are a fallacist
Every idle word....

I noticed that was missing from your thread

pickabeau1:
You also propagate one of these fallacies
That nigerian marriages are shams

MarvellousGod:
Nawa ooo, all these abuse stories

Just try separation and see how it goes... Has anyone talked to him about his character before?

Thought they said only women verbally abuse their partner