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Pretty big woman

Strange she thought we would not be married @ 40yrs when she was much more younger.

Crazy ceremony

Miami11:
The comments are real we are sick of the Nigerians double standard, we will give same advice a woman gets when the husband cheats.
it is a new dawn my dear.

LOL!

Females are already getting those advices when their hubby cheat; ladies are just playing 'catch up'

juman:
The wife can encourage the husband to go alone to his choice medical laboratory for a fertility test.

Are we talking of husbands and wives? or colleagues?

Herzumpther:
Breakfast...Fried yam, my ugly looking over ripe plantain and egg. The smell of egg can be very disgusting. I can't wait for my sister to come take it out of my plate.

Can you please send me the plantain?

Thanks in advance

I have faith... infact, I be Fathina

bennyrazz:
pluto or mars, your pick

Sorry ladies from Mars/pluto

If the issue is miscarriage and the hubby is reluctant to run tests, I might understand however no issue and the man feels slighted going for fert tests?

Should he even wait to be asked before going for tests?

When some women are willing to marry anything in trousers, why won't such situations arise

Funny pretty lady

You say security is more important than certificates... on face value, yes but here; no

Your father listening to his party members and showing us his certificate or telling us What really happened would go a long way in proving he is a leader.

A leader listens and If your father cannot listen while he is not yet in power, What hope do We have that he will listen when he becomes number one...

Security... I remember 2011 elections and the number of corpers who lost their lives in the North. We still remember the terror your dad and supporters or distractors unleashed then.

GEJ might not be capable to rule Nigeria however GMB is definitely not the change We need.

Your dad should have groomed someone capable to rule with his ideals (If it is his passion that makes he keep contesting) and be competing with fellow godfathers on whose godson would rule.

bennyrazz:
some men consider masturbation as dirty while some religious women consider BJ as ungodly, do you know the psychological trauma men go through when you label a man incapable to father a child by suggesting he goes for test with you to a fertility center? if you look at it very well you will discover that the problem of infertility lies majorly on women. They are the ones with the womb, they are the ones with eggs, they are the ones who do abortion etc

And women don't go through psychological trauma?

I ask again, where do they breed These men from?

bennyrazz:
have you ever been to a fertility center before to see how they collect sperm?? they give you a small glass bottle, you take it to the toilet and fill it with sperm. I mean, how do you do that? that's why most men don't go.

Do you know the kind of tests women go through?
Do you know the pain they endure (sometimes)?

A man can masturbate or get his wife to do a Mouth Action for him to release sperm

I wonder where these end time husbands come from

crackhaus:
You obviously have no idea how the mind of such guys work.

How does it?

Maybe he wants to go Kim's route... don't know if the America can accommodate another one... a Janitor @ that.

Emaprince:
it won't do nothing to him!...I'm sure if it was a man exposed,you and your groups will be singing and dancing by now..last time a chinese woman,cut off her hubby's d1ck for sleeping around,all y'all were celebrating but here y'all are blaming the janitor who the woman was using..some even blaming the hubby..smh.

Can you produce a post of me celebrating?

Can you quote any of my posts I blamed the husband?

If you can't, don't quote me next time.

By the way, you and your groups (Lord knows how many) disgusts me.

If you have a problem with any of my posts in future, please quote me to address whatever issues you have with MINE post (s).

tolutweety:
Yes ma'am !
Glad we 'r on the same page now.



If i dont defend ma ladies ,who will ?!

Nope We are not on the same page

However the important thing is for us to advice the OP well

tolutweety:
'cos she is a lady shouldn't stop her from stating the obvious.What law prohibits you from that ?
Everyone knows 'most' ladies love flashy things and comfort more than any other thing.

She wasn't deriding her gender for personal reasons, neither was she doing it to score cheap points.She stated with conviction her points from her own point of view .

Nice POV .

OK advocate

Dear OP,

Please give specific examples

ohaleoghene:
chai! women and flashy things. op buy a land first ,if you can build on it and put it up for rent. use the money gotten from rent and invest it again into something else. when u have a good stream of ever flowing income then your interest on investment will buy u a good car. to be rich you have to put luxurious life aside first. build your assets first . a car is a liability and social show off. even if u can't build on the land yet ,put it up for rent still . maybe church People or for party use. make sure the land is not left bare. to be an assets it has to generate income. u can always rent it or sell it again . a beg join danfo. hustle now and think of investments. it is poor people who think owning a car makes u rich ,but we the rich know that is not true . shalom !

You could have made your point without the bolded

From a guy, not concerned... from a lady, it is a no no

Deriding fellow women doesnot make your points 'sweeter'

Nice POV...

@ OP; Land first

akinsadeez:
But I don't understand all these comments about the woman not being satisfied sexually by her husband. Why is that people automatically assume that it is sexual frustration that drives people to cheat? Some people(both male and female) just cheat for the thrill of doing forbidden. Some just cheat for d sake of cheating without any tangible reason. Some people are already so used to having multiple sex partners that they find it guard to restrict themselves to one person in marriage regardless of their partner's sexual performance.

The woman is very irresponsible for cheating and I don't think sexual frustration is d issue. If the man could not perform would she have stayed with him to the extent of having four children?

@bold:

Most of them are just sarcastic...

That's what a number of male posters say when it is the man cheating

AJOT99:
Here is the story of a couple that who said their wedding vows two times because of a tragedy
On the night of November 24, 1993, Kim and Krickitt were on their way to visit Krickitt’s parent when they were involved in a terrible automobile accident that almost killed them both. Krickitt , however, was in a coma for two weeks, and when she awoke, she had no short term memory. When she was able to talk to Kim, who recovered more quickly, she looked at him and said, “I don’t know you. I don’t want you; go back to where you came from and she kept talking about Todd, her boyfriend of some four years before
She knew her parents and remembered everything clearly that had happened years ago; but she could not recognize her husband. For Kim, it was like being married to a living dead. To revitalise her love for him, Kim stood by her, helped her in rehabilitation, brought flowers for her, and the storybook ending to this near fatal tragedy is that eventually Kim and Krickitt (wearing the same dress that she had worn when she first took her vows) had another ceremony – just like the first one- reaffirming their love and commitment to each other. Love was born the second time in her heart for this man.
Love is more than an emotion; it’s a deep meaningful commitmenth. Remembering this all the time will make our marriage stand in the face of challenging circumstances.

https://mbasic.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=430763063743295&id=424555717697363&refid=17

Lovely story

Krickitt was lucky to have a wonderful husband like Kim....

May their love continue to wax stronger

jadelyn007:
lol, don't tell me you haven't heard it from nairaland guys before its their national anthem. Especially when a woman wants to dump a serial cheat you start hearing kids need father figure, mother figure, grandparent figure, figurine even.

LOL!

It just sounded so so funny

You should know that a number of people cannot take what they dish out

It's NL human nature

jadelyn007:
abi o my sister. Divorce will affect the kids. They need both their mother figure and father figure together in one house.

This sentence is sooooooooooooo funny!

Forgive me

akinsadeez:
Okay, after uploading it now, what has the janitor gained?

He didn't get the promise the woman purportedly gave him,

He will no longer be sleeping with her so he has lost the free sex

He no longer has the ego boost of banging the head nurse in the hospital despite being a janitor

He will most likely lose his job as the hospital will not keep employing him knowing what he did.

So what exactly is his gain by uploading the video simply baffling.

I am wondering too

The guy might gain street cred, but I am sure it has affected his prospects probably forever.

IMHO, giving the tape to hubby alone would have been better. What he did is overkill and will bite him in his ass

Tstone1:
In the context of working I think 'YES'

Your wife is an housewife and you tell her you are working for your unborn kids and wonder why she is 'angry'?

Why is your wife an housewife?

IF YOU TOLD her to resign and 'take care' of the family and cannot 'work' for her, please let her WORK for herself!

IF SHE DECIDED on her own to be a house wife, she better dust her certificates and get a job or start up a business.

Tstone1:
What I think most ladies are missing here is the point that working because of one's children doesn't stop the fact that the wife is automatically included. Making it a 'personal' thing by any woman to his man is quite uncalled for!
You hear most women after giving birth to say two children saying they are staying in their husband's house cos of the children
#weird but the fact#

@Bold:

It means their marriages have issues

Working for family = wife + kids
Working for unborn kids = unborn kids.

blank:
Seems the original post was modified. I still have no issues with "strangers" cooking in my kitchen as long as she is okay and is feeling comfortable. Hopefully, she would make enough for everyone.

As for going to someone's house to cook, my experiences have thought me to ask if it is okay? Cos if you leave me, i will hardly cook/eat so no need to stress yourself to cook on my behalf. That will make me have to eat and probably waste your food.

Thanks

The OP was never modified.

Have a blest week ahead

Terrible story

To give the husband the video is one thing; to upload it on YouTube is another...

Was the woman's promise on a world wide scale?

The Janitor disgraced the woman's entire family (THE woman ruined her family herself anyways)

Terrible

I find her first dress (round neck + skirt) really lovely

Dear OP,

Your point is?

Funny thread

@OP: Is your wife a house wife?

Bridgetown:
If you could insult a guy like this I wonder if you would ever be able to talk to your hubby nicely.
Poorly brought up.

Lols

Guys are exempted from insults when they provoke?

Lols again

creamylicious:
nope..... She just kept dusting our faces with a supposed sweet marriage when most of us know what a true marriage is..... She hasn't even gone thru d refining process of marriage she was just blabbing

You mean a marriage cannot be as sweet as she painted

brito:
I know, I'm really sad right now. I wish I can walk out of it .

What is the issue
Might be something salvageable

I doubt This story

Thought they had a child a while back?

65 or 42

Timbuktou:
If I remember correctly, nobody sided with the guest. If anything, they flayed the hostess for being aggressive, which doesn't equate to absolving the rude guest. Just that a host has responsibilities that shouldn't be compromised . In fact, the crazier your guest, the saner you should be as a host. I think that was the general idea on the other thread.

Nope

Few people saw What the guest did as rude

That was one of the reasons I opened This thread.

If posters agreed the guest was rude, We could discussion What the madam did wrong and ways to handle it.

Would like to see your reaction when your guest drives your car without permission

Want to learn to be the perfect host from you