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LordCenturion: All this girls no come to school to study, they are just here to destroy the school, actually They are all lecturer's bound, am very sure that VC must be thirsty as well.......by the way,,


OP must be igbo, so nah igbo dominate the school?

Sagamite: Chrisland produced Shollypopz and she ended up in Fisk University.

And older friend of mine that moved back to Nigeria and sends his kids to one of the top 2 there (I am not sure which), said as best as they (the British school) are in Nigeria, what they offer that he is paying for is what he would get for free if he was living in an average upper-middle class neighbourhood in the UK.

pickabeau1: ok.. interesting perspective....

bennyrazz: Let me explain somethings to you, in the old statement and New testament, anywhere you see "LORD" that is God directly and anywhere you see "Lord" that is Jesus Christ. Now in the new Testament, in some Bibles, were Jesus Christ spoke directly, the letters are always red not black and if he was quoted, it is always red. The Bible is God's word, no doubt about it but you need to understand that for we that believed that Jesus christ as come to earth, we have the New Testament, we are no longer under the law but under his grace. But to some certain Jews out there that practice Judaism, the only Bible they have is the Old testament. For us that have the new testament, we are called Christians because we are followers of Christ. Now we don't practice christianity because it is not a religion; it is a way of life. While Judaism is been practiced by some Jews. Now you need to understand the History of the bible my point as and will always be Wives do your part, husbands do your part not Husband do your part, Wives do your part. The wife as to do her part first before husband does his own part.

Chillisauce: And they got married.

Chillisauce: This was her topic, I'm sure she was the one involved .


Some of the comments




So my dear, this is the best I can do. Go ahead and give her the answer she wants

choicehome: WIVES, RULE YOUR MARRIAGE

Submission sustains marriage. Submission is a major key to winning your husband’s heart. A woman, who is submissive to her husband, will always have whatever she desires if she knows how to play her game very well.

The only way I am guaranteed of my husband’s love, care and support at all time, is through submission. In fact, I get whatever I desire from him through this simple key and as you do same, you will have a fulfilling relationship in your marriage.

laura@choicehome-ng.org
www.choicehome-ng.org

MizzD: My sister, it is very shameful. "Win his heart", "pack condoms", "don't offend him" "why did you snoop".

Ball is in Op's court.

simplyOJ: Marriage as an Institution is filled with land mines and the ability of both couples to understand and agree to work together to maneuver these land mines, and even managing the rife that may result from detonating of any of the mines is essential. It is always not an easy situation as married couple, but when you make up you mind to want to make it work, the home would be better off for it.I believe the man has a huge role to play and in most cases are the ones that triggers most of the mines at home. Trust me, a woman that has decided to get married to you and you treat her right; you are guaranteed long life to an extent and a peaceful home. I do know of few instances of craz.y situations of irrespective of what the man does, the woman still look out, that not withstanding, they are few in number. This may not be pleasant to the hearing of some, but women are in most cases loyal and more faithful to their marriages, hence are able to remain steadfast (I dont know of boyfriend/girlfriend, but on married couples).

NOTE: This is no battle of the sexes .

Onilaiscool: if u want girls believe she aint doing a favour

the world wld be a better place for us ladies

if u guys stop bragging to the whole world that you slept with her or dumping a girl without acting like u have a heart

bennyrazz: this woman don start again this are the kind of women that twist bible upside down to promote their selfish agenda

pickabeau1: cool... but if say one had a spouse who consistenty ruffled the wardrobe, would you see that as an imperfection or a persistent irritation

pickabeau1: ok.. do you think pressing toothpaste from the top as against the bottom is an imperfection or an irritation

Your example of wardrobe untidyness do you think its an irritation or an imperfection

Amya: Reverence. . . That word. Well I think it's wronng in this context. Reverence is not 'submitting', mind you. Using that word for God is okay but using that for a fellow man though your husband, and one that upset you at that is just pushing it.

I'm up for couples resolving whatever issue they maybe having in a mature and respective way. It's only natural though that the upset party get it off their chest even if it means yelling.

Godmystrength: The speaker was invited on sunday and it was during the main sunday service. So she was the one that more or less preached that day.

Godmystrength: You are right. We had our women's convention the weekend in my church and the speaker that was invited on Sunday was just talking about women this women that bla bla bla. With all the men in attendance o. Saying things like what's in the OP and only one line for the men begging them to love their wives. You can imagine an irresponsible man in the congregation who will now go home and be trying to enforce what the speaker has said without any plan of changing his ways. he will now see the wife as not submissive. Whereas, when the men have their programmes, for the ones they manage to invite us(women), you will not hear things like that. Only success preachings on how to make it and be successful in life etc.

As if the woman is not a human being too.

onirugbon1: Hmmm. That kind of love the bible talks about is not these watery type we find around the world today.

Here: I COR 13 vs

1.If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.

2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing.

3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.

6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.

9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part,

10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears.

babyoku1: "LOVE, Even When Angry"?
MADAM Poster, I don't agree with u AT ALL
Ask yourself and tell yourself the truth.
Will you continue to love 100% even if that man u adore and care for soooo much is cheating on you??
I need u to answer me sincerely.

moca: See Buky don become marriage consilor
All her threads these days na marriage this, husband and wife that
Marriage good o!

Abeg I dey look for my own true loff.
I only like usher, abeg who go connect us?

Tenk u in advance

Well done buky.
Obanye, pm me for omugwo special

Chillisauce: eyah, church things

i no sabi any bible verse again.

only #Jesus wept#

matt 3, 8



Hit me up when you have the quran version.

Lol!

Na wa for you o!

adanduka: I thought it is husbands 'love your wives'

flyca: No man should be given any paternity leave except with endorsement from the wife!

The wife should decide if the man is useful at home based on his previous records of home and child care

Otherwise no need to keep an lazy man at home and create more work for the woman sef

Bootybuttchic: tot i was d only one who noticed....d showing began after d marriage...dat man must be a nice man

matify: I am a married man and a christian at that but I am a rational being and I will not for any privilege it confers on me subscribe to those teachings and advise which impose what I cannot give on my wife because" it is written" .

When s*ex is not given consentually but begrudgingly when one party is upset still defines as RAPE.

Lawyers in the house, am I right or RIGHT?