Nairaland General › Re: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by bukatyne(f): 5:49pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
Black Kenichi: Not everybody can be billionaires. You used the Billionaire example not me  |
Family › Re: Hope Her Fantasy Wont Destroy Her Marriage by bukatyne(f): 5:46pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
biolabee: now you are exhibiting revisionism.//// where is the post that does not tally
assuming the op is not even the bride...
A chick comes up to me and says she wants to be banged by 2 men,,.. And suddenly its about she was unfortunate to be born a woman...
You feminists...lol
Ok.. she wants it... equality says she goes for it since everymans fantasy is to bang 2 chics Stop being sentimental and muddling things up |
Family › Re: Hope Her Fantasy Wont Destroy Her Marriage by bukatyne(f): 5:25pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
biolabee: bro.. u are getting it wrong
In conventional terms a 3zome is 1 guy banging 2 chicks... this her own is very exclusive..// dont u get?
exactly my point...something core runzers only fdo with cold hard cash.. is what this minted bride wants to do?..
interesting Did the 'minted' bride say she wanted to do it? Do you know what fantasy is all about? I am sure if I said I fantasize I am the Queen of England, You will hint Queen Elizabeth of an assaination plot |
Family › Re: Hope Her Fantasy Wont Destroy Her Marriage by bukatyne(f): 5:21pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
[email][/email] biolabee: I dont get u...i said a 3zome is conventionally frowned upon Moreover its rare for even runz girl to engage in it... with another girl.... with 1 man
Its weirder if it is one girl and 2 men
Read my posts pls...
we all know feminism is all about sexxual license...if thats what u want to discuss...maybe i will spare a few minutes Lol! So all feminists fight for is sexual license while male chauvinism is all about sexual suppression and oppression! Nobody is bringing feminism here yet  You know that your previous posts and this does not tally. I guess men wan.king of Omotola's(another man's wife) or Kim's pictures are ok |
Nairaland General › Re: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by bukatyne(f): 5:17pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
Black Kenichi: BS! Hasn't Nigeria got a couple of female billionaires? How has Nigerian male chauvinism destroyed them? Couple out of how many women? Remember that a lot of this 'couple' got the billions from their hubbies |
Family › Re: Hope Her Fantasy Wont Destroy Her Marriage by bukatyne(f): 5:15pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
yellowpawpaw: I'm bored lately. Even NL that used to entertain me is equally boring to me. Don't know o. I hope it will pass. A lot on my mind anyway. Sorry, it is well Talk to Oga YPP or the ultimate Baba |
Family › Re: Hope Her Fantasy Wont Destroy Her Marriage by bukatyne(f): 5:13pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
biolabee: bro.. u are getting it wrong
In conventional terms a 3zome is 1 guy banging 2 chicks... this her own is very exclusive..// dony u get?
exactly my point...something core runzers only fdo with cold hard cash.. is what this minted bride wants to do?..
interesting You see, I have caught you! It is 'conventional' for one man to sleep with two men but 'strange' for one woman to bang two men nice  I was right! Ileoba has lent me some of her powers  bukatyne: Nobody said it is.
She said she fantasizes not she 'sl.eeps with'
I don't see how one fantasy (if it is sinful i.e. thinking of sleeping with someone apart from your spouse) is better than the other.
Besides, your main grouse is that 'she is married'; 'she was a virgin' etc. me thinks your major problem is that she is a woman and married!
The ultimate combo!  |
Family › Re: Hope Her Fantasy Wont Destroy Her Marriage by bukatyne(f): 5:10pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
coogar: i am sure core runz girls care more about the money than the act itself. 3some is very prevalent even in naija universities amongst regular babes that are not runz girls. if she's got a huge appetite for sex, it's natural for her to be that inclined.
personally, i don't see anything wrong with this woman. A lot of men who patronize runs babes even slee.p with two at a time sef. Some peoples' fantasy are others' reality  |
Family › Re: Hope Her Fantasy Wont Destroy Her Marriage by bukatyne(f): 5:09pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
wonlasewonimi: She can introduce her husband to swinging. Lol! Now that is going to another dimension. She doesn't have to act her fantasies... We are humans and can keep ourselves in check. |
Family › Re: Hope Her Fantasy Wont Destroy Her Marriage by bukatyne(f): 5:07pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
biolabee: Anyhow u want it.. single oh, married oh....
for me.. its d thots... but since that is not an issue here.... no issue
You are assuming... a married woman being gangbanged,... wow..a normal day in the life of.... The issue here is that it's her fantasy Lucky her. I will not crucify her because we do not have the same fantasy or because she is unfortunate to be a woman or a married one at that. What I call the ultimate combo! |
Nairaland General › Re: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by bukatyne(f): 4:50pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
Black Kenichi: Yep! Lol! just how we can claim that male chauvinism has destroyed the dreams of women in Nigeria |
Family › Re: Hope Her Fantasy Wont Destroy Her Marriage by bukatyne(f): 4:43pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
biolabee: As we agreed.. everyone has fantasies,, it whats you do that matters
Hence the statement for her to recognise and refrain from this course of thoughts as time will soon give form to those thoughts.
@coogar, that is the main issue.. even core runz girls dont like this ish, and its a newly minted bride that is breeding these thoughts,,... could be dangerous....
@les... carry go jaawe
@buka.. a woman's life does not end when she gets married I dont see how being banged by 2 men classifies as a life enriching experience Nobody said it is. She said she fantasizes not she 'sl.eeps with' I don't see how one fantasy (if it is sinful i.e. thinking of sleeping with someone apart from your spouse) is better than the other. Besides, your main grouse is that 'she is married'; 'she was a virgin' etc. me thinks your major problem is that she is a woman and married! The ultimate combo!  |
Nairaland General › Re: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by bukatyne(f): 4:31pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
Black Kenichi: At the bolded - Feminism has practically destroyed the family unit in the west! You think so? |
Family › Re: Hope Her Fantasy Wont Destroy Her Marriage by bukatyne(f): 4:26pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
Ujujoan: I'll blame her if she continues to dwell on these fantasies and even decide to act on them . . But if it's just a dirty little fantasy she sometimes imagines herself doing, then I see nothing wrong in it . .
The fact that she was a virgin before she got married is probably the real reason while she fantasizes about sex with other men . . .
Please, you guys should stop thinking that being married ends a woman's life cos it doesn't . . .
Someone opened a thread the other day about how women can dress up to fufill their men's fantasies and you guys were enjoying it. Why should it be different for women? Welcome to Nigeria! |
Family › Re: Hope Her Fantasy Wont Destroy Her Marriage by bukatyne(f): 4:25pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
biolabee: @baby123
i get that... and that is why the responses so far are funny to me....
Seems its a normal fantasy around married older women,.... lol
Thats why they are wondering why the friend go telled on her? lol
@buka
everyone has fantasies... Is that an answer to my question? Does your fantasy affect your duties as a father or husband? So a woman is married and her life and ended abi? |
Family › Re: Hope Her Fantasy Wont Destroy Her Marriage by bukatyne(f): 4:15pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
biolabee: a fantasy with 2 men banging her and that is now therapeutic?
ok o...
anyhow polyandry or polyamory is soon gonna be a reality ,, so nothing to see there... Did you get that from my post? I want a sincere answer: Do you have your fantasies or not? |
Family › Re: Women (especially married), their age and Skinny Jeans by bukatyne(f): 3:39pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
jennykadry: I have nothing against feminist, if you use your tongue to count your teeth, you will get where I tried to come from with that line I just did and still can't get it  |
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Great Illusion Pictures by bukatyne(f): 3:37pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
Cool  The 5 people in acrobatics is wow! The horses/ land flowing with milk  |
Family › Re: Women (especially married), their age and Skinny Jeans by bukatyne(f): 3:24pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
jennykadry: Nothing I asked based on the bolded below jennykadry: Okay so recently I visited my country Nigeria and had the best and worst time of my life, no thanks to mosquito, gossips, diarrhea, cough and catarrh and NEPA. I never knew that married women on skinny body fitting jeans are the controllers of their homes and can't take "orders" from their men as wearing skinny jeans equates to being in charge of the home . Well according to some people it is a crime for a woman under a man to wear such disgusting bottom wear. To make matters worse, the educated driver we hired in the east is completely against women over 30 wearing skinny jeans.
please note that these people have no issues with women wearing pants or free styled/cut jean, their issue is that skinny jean-stating that it is too tight and body fitting for a woman "under" a man to wear outside. I never knew a woman above 30 is not allowed rock skin tight jean again. Women and men in the house both married, single, asheriwos like dayokanu my brother should please help me out here, cos hubby has no issue whatsoever with skinny jean but obviously some men do, what do call it? Insecurity? I don't want to sound like a feminist but the men I me toned above are the reason why women push for feminism with their nonsense....under a man and taking orders line.
Do you think these people lack exposure or they are just insecure? |
Family › Re: Women (especially married), their age and Skinny Jeans by bukatyne(f): 3:18pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
What do you have against feminists?
Welcome to Naija
A married woman must not
Chew gum Look too good Laugh too much Have friends etc.
It is well |
Nairaland General › Re: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by bukatyne(f): 3:14pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
Black Kenichi: The facebook page that I just posted is about exposing the hypocrisy of feminism. Feminism has ran it's course and now it must be layed to rest. The problem with us is that we expect them to be perfect. I will agree that some of their ideas might be hypocritical but the important thing is to understand what they are trying to achieve and achieve it via the right way. I believe we should now face the families squarely. |
Nairaland General › Re: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by bukatyne(f): 2:55pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by bukatyne(f): 2:41pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
Black Kenichi: Kinda. More muscle to your hustle |
Family › Re: Family Accountability by bukatyne(f): 1:16pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
taryour: Una no go kill person with laugh this morning. Are you kidding me as in you actually give her a breakdown of how spent the money on you Ok just this question,does she do a breakdown on how she spent for you as well If no then what you are doing is totally wrong,even if you don't have a job and she is the one providing the money.
Abeg you are a man na and the husband please ack like one. You no be house boy oo. So him being accountable means he is an houseboy? Please define who a husband is to you I guess if the wife is doing same, she is also an housegirl? |
Family › Re: Hope Her Fantasy Wont Destroy Her Marriage by bukatyne(f): 12:00pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
biolabee: Abeg make we address the fantasy
Which one be friend or aproko again
Menage?? Wickid girl..lol
If she's truly your friend tell her to get that thing out of her mind, enjoy your hubby and focus on parenting
She for no kuku marry sef Can't a woman have her fantasies? Don't people fantasize sleeping with actors and actresses? How does her fantasy affect her parenting skills? |
Family › Re: Must A Man Change His Wife Phone Number After Wedding, & Why? by bukatyne(f): 11:53am On Aug 22, 2013 |
I would suggest a woman goes for surgery after marriage so that she can no longer be recognized by those who knew her before. She would be able to live a new life after marriage. Behold... old things have passed away, all things have become new  |
Nairaland General › Re: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by bukatyne(f): 11:45am On Aug 22, 2013 |
This thread is still alive? |
Family › Re: Do Women Want Equality Or Superiority by bukatyne(f): 11:41am On Aug 22, 2013 |
tintingz: Have never seen or read where women agrees on child support in courts, its always the man even if it was the woman that file a divorce case 
And mind you woman equality has to do with physical strength as well if ya'll ladies are fighting for gender equality  That means that men are not even equal to start with A 28yr old guy is superior to a 70yr old papa  |
Family › Re: Do Women Want Equality Or Superiority by bukatyne(f): 11:39am On Aug 22, 2013 |
Sissie: I think what women want is equity, not necessarily equality, and not superiority. What is equity and what is equality? |
Family › Re: Do Women Want Equality Or Superiority by bukatyne(f): 11:38am On Aug 22, 2013 |
@OP:
Men and women were created equal by God. Anyone who feels otherwise is on his or her own.
Generally, Men are physically stronger hence women are called the 'weaker' sex (physically) while women are stronger emotionally. However, there are exceptions.
Everyone esp. women should be allowed to be who they are than conforming them to the standards of their society. Currently, almost all spheres except marriage relatively treat both genders equally (With force sha)
If you are talking marriage, that is another ball game |
Family › Re: Do Women Want Equality Or Superiority by bukatyne(f): 10:22am On Aug 22, 2013 |
Ochiban: i think we want whatever we can get away with. same as men. if men could run their mouth without consequences, men would. havent you noticed that the loudest men are often the biggest? equality should not mean being treated exactly the same, it means they should have the same rights. it is a weak man that resolves to physical violence when being abused. that is why men fight less as they grow older, they become wiser mentally and are smart enough to find other ways to deal with stupid people.
50 years ago, children were alwyas given to the fathers in a custody battle because the men could financially support the children better. it is because of how poorly men have fared in childcare that the courts now give custody to women
i agree there are situations where women put themselves in situations to get hit. one of them is pointing a gun at you. or kicking the shit out of you. yelling at you is NOT a situation to ask to get hit. more power gives more responsibility. men are physically stronger than women therefore they have to be more responsible with it. trained boxers go to jail if they fight with people because their fist are considered weapons and they need to be more responsible than a regular man.
long and short...if you gave women dominion over men, we sure as hell would take it. just as if men were given dominion over women, they would take it. that is why God was smart enough to give NO ONE dominion over anyone. He made men leaders and heads but did not give dominion. No matter who your boss is at work, there are somethings he can not do (unless you let him). same with husbands, there are somethings that are not within his rights. and by the way, he is only the head of HIS household...not head of every random woman he sees on the street You must be a good Bible student. Keep it up. Posters like you give me hope |
Islam › Re: A Muslim Girl's Heart Desires by bukatyne(f): 8:47am On Aug 22, 2013 |
onegig: oh! So you are saying indigenous followers are allowed to marry more than one wife if its a culture being practised by the indigenous people. I believe the bolded below answers your question bukatyne: Christianity is a way of life and we still lead our lives as Nigerians.
Typical Yoruba Christian, Igbo Christian, Hausa Christian, English Christian, American Christian, Indian Christian etc. would be different from each other but their core values would still be the same.
As for the bolded, How can speaking in tongues or monogamy be African or un-African? Do you know another tribe that speak in tongues? |