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orohbiro:
DID YOU KNOW❓

Quinn, has become the first out transgender player to play at a FIFA World Cup. He featured for Canada against Nigeria 🇳🇬.

Last we checked there are only two genders male and female!

#FIFAWWC

I love the fact that you still identified the trans as a He

Skyview01:
I have seen situations where the wife is very wealthy and there are kids in the family. My question is, can you as a man, leave your job to become a full time house-husband, taking care of the kids and the home while your wife works at her very lucrative job?

lol I take care of my boy like drop him off to school and bring him back home, helping with his assignment, taking him out etc, because I'm at home 24/7 except I'm going out for a meeting or emergency. MY wife On the other hand always going to her business place from 9am till 4pm, she does everthing a woman should eg cooking, laundry and making the house a livable home, I also assist when I observe the work is getting too much for her.. But I make more money a day sitting at home 24/7 compared to what she makes in a year, And I carry 100% financial responsibility of the family, which is so satisfying to do. This right here is the luxury FOREX TRADING BRINGS!!!!!! Maybe if I was an extrovert I would have been leaving the house always but the opposite is the case... I can't ask her to stop her business even tho I have the capacity but then I opened it for her coz she on the other hand isn't an inside loving person.. YOU SEE IN MARRIAGE EHEN, YOU MUST FIND COMMON GROUND, IF YOU CAN A HELP YOUR WIFE, PLEASE DO, BUT IT IS IMPORTANT EVERYBODY KNOWS THEIR ROLE VERY WELL SPELT OUT, EVEN IF WE HELP EACH OTHER IN EACH OTHERS ROLE SOME TIMES.... there are days I do laundry, cook, clean and do all that stuff, but then the appreciation is endless from my wife coz she know that wasn't mine role but I did anyway. It is all about UNDERSTANDING and knowing marriage is a PARTNERSHIP

E no suppose better for tinubu supporters... Thor Hammer no suppose miss them

GanagiBitrus:
I know.
Coming from his mouth, it's now official.
Just like Etiko, everybody most people knew she was not a Virgin, but the rumour forced her to officially reveal her status.

that one u mention her name na mumu Virgin my foot.

When them never pay the last winner her money..

GanagiBitrus:
Sometimes if you want to extract the truth, deliberately come up with a false & damning accusation.
That was how Destiny Etiko was accused of being a Virgin, & she quickly came out to reveal her sexual status.

this is different.. Nobody can keep his wife and children not one child but 4children hidden forever.. It is like lighting a candle and putting it under your bed and hope no one sees the light

yarimo:
thank you, alot of people here in nairaland never read history of who is PUTIN . but quick in typing it's over for Putin

lol that man Putin has paid his due over the year, he didn't just wake up one day & seize power, he has risen from almost nothing as a regular Russia armed force who became a colonel, joined FSB, then KSB until he became the KSB boss, served, to secretary of security council etc, that man has a very beautiful CV to behold, he knows almost at least a dozen persons from any of Russia power establishment from any and very walks of life in the Russia system. A civil war can not unseat that man, best Believe.

vibrant40:
Okay. I met this girl in an exam hall, we were both writing exams, so we did the student things, she asked me a maths question which she was kind of afraid of and me being a maths person answered her question and moved on with with my exams. After the exams she search for me to say her gratitude and we moved on. I think after the results was released and she got an A in the exams was when she had to find me and got me on Facebook. She chatted me and introduced herself, so we began chatting from there and that was how I got to know she is my kind of woman.

I asked her out, we started dating or lemme say I started dating her because at a pint she told me we were only friends during the time, be she do come to my side, we do touch and kiss but no s*x. Down the lane I got to know she had a guy whom she was dating but she could not marry because she has so many revelations and dreams that he is not the one and according to her, the guy had so many red flags. At a point I put it to her she should choose what she wanted on time, the guy or myself.


According to her she choose me. Along the line, she told me about another guy disturbing her for romantic relationship, because no matter what she will tell me anything even if she knows I am gonna hurt by that, although I do take it that she is trying to literally tell me to do quick and pop the question if I really want to marry her. All of a sudden I observe she was receiving a Seyi call till like 12midnight, and I would want to call her only for her to be busy on another call for a lengthy period.


She will not stop talking about this guy whenever we are together, how good the guy is to her, she even was like we have the same character but only that the guy is taller than I am and she had also never shy away from talking about the physically height of her dream children.


I saw all these as competition and keep letting her know how much I love and want to marry her. One afternoon, she just rang me and said just a sentence, 'I will marry you'. Well that gave me the assurance I needed, I met her mother (dad is late) and I must confess she has a very good mother, the mom checks on me everyday (infact she did while I was typing this epistle). I popped the questions and she said yes. We had our introduction and currently planing on getting married.


The problem now is, she would still not stop talking about this Seyi guy. She even called me one to tell me she went to his house, that the guy called home to come, I confronted her so many times to tell her how I felt about it, she kept saying sorry and keep repeating the same thing of no cutting loose from the guy, she even claimed that at least she is not having s*x with now that they are just talking..


Some days ago we had a serious argument about this matter and she was like maybe we should even end the relationship if I don't trust her (and this has always been her anthem whenever we have serious arguments, she would say maybe we are not compatible). She later apologized and promised not to let that happen again that she would cut loose of the guy, only for us to be talking via whatsapp last night around 11:40 for to receive this guys call and they spoke for like 10mins. I ended my call, she called back later and was like it was just an innocent talk they had....


Seriously, I am tired and confused, what should I do? Please help me with your candid advice. So sorry for the long epistle and some bad grammar.

you are a simp and you are getting married to a person that will give you another man's children to train giving you the illusion they are urs.. Take it from me SHE IS F*CKING THE SEYI GUY... if you marry her make sure you always have DNA Money ready whenever she tells you she had delivered you child..

Natural2Heal:
The service chiefs are more bigger than NSA.

stop saying what u don't know abeg & stop misleading people with so much confidence.

cole19:
kingkong

una dey let film dey device una... Grizzly bear will be the sole survivor.. Even a lion would not want to face it, except caught from behind which is unlikly

Donsheddy:
I will try my best boss 🙏

I have observed you take your trade off the 1hour Timeframe

morikee:
Automatically

oooh thanks bro... I assume nipost takes the longest time, please how long can it take for nipost delivery, worse case scenario

morikee:
Speedaf is fast again i got my item odered on the 4th today and it took 1 day for Custom to clear it kudos

do you select the delivery that will be used or it is automatically selected?? I honetsly want to know.

Encitee3991:
Picked up two items today from the post office
Carrier was Sing POST, for the first, while the other, Post NL
At the time of notification to pickup, both tracking number were still showing in transit.
The first accumulated 17 days in transit(notified to pick up yesterday) , while the other 24 days (notified to pick up last week Thursday)

No custom fee for pic 1, even though the seller boldly wrote PHONE in the item description

why do you think there was no custom duty attached Any idea??

ganie:
All my packages have arrived ooo....both Speedaf and Nipost.

I just picked up the Nipost today and I can say it was very fast if we go by what people have been saying here. I was called to come pick up and it's the Nipost office inside my estate. So I was even happy to give the woman the 2k she requested for (2pcs of phone) because they came separately.

how long did it take?? Also how do I know if it will be shopped via nipost or Speedaf? Also did it Incure custom duty of any kind?

TermuxDarkWeb:
Nonsense. This man is crossing his bandry, first it was the innocent CBN Governor Godwin Emefiele and is EFCC chairman. He's creating Lifetime enemies, but it will surely hit him hard. Am not surprised it's government of Yourba he wants to fix only Yourba Muslims in higher positions. NONSENSE

you are totally stupid.. I'm not a tinubu supporter, but this move is a very good one.. A Man that has been accused on national TV of corruption by a Governor, you expect him to remain in office when investigation about him and his office is being carried out right? You are so stupid, the hatred you have for tinubu has Blinded you to the point that nothing good he does or would do will ever sit well with you, go and heal you are sick...

uzomakanaki:
Fellow nairalanders, please I need advice from matured minds in this group.

I'm in a two year relationship with my woman, we're both working. I'm 34 while she's 27. My montly salary and commision is over 200k with other side hustle i do that bring in funds for me, i also just got a car i want to register with bolt/uber to still bring in funds in my free time.

My fiancee on the other hand is earning 75k monthly. I take good care of her needs and makes sure she doesn't lack anything I can afford.

We both plan to settle down by December.

Sometimes last month she missed her period, after the test we discovered she's 5 weeks pregnant.

I'm against abortion because of the dangers involved in the aftermath, i suggested she keep the baby while I come and see her family and do some necessary things before the main wedding. But she insisted in aborting the baby, reason being that she can't be pregnant and be working. Unless I place her on a monthly salary.

She has aborted the baby and had complications because of the quack nurse that performed the abortion. I spent a lot to make her back on her feet

I'm gradually losing interest in the relationship cos that single act of her. I've kept this to myself.

I just need advice on how to handle this. Cos I'm already fed up with her with her recent disrespect and the way she talks to me anyhow even in public.

to have aborted against your wish I s bug RED FLAG. what if you were not the father? And she saved Y'all the shame of making you care for a potential bastard? Na sign God dey give u so ooo, better run and look for someone who is more serious with you and listens to you.. Abortion is suppose to be a consesus agreement between the man and the woman, no a decision of one person.

Prayfortheworld:
He wan pocket 12m as middle man🤣

almost 50% of actual price... These people don't seize to amaze me...

oikirodah:
Edo 2024: Loud Calls For E J Agbonayinma's Candidature Shake Up Edo State Politics


https://ireporteronline.com.ng/blog/edo-2024-loud-calls-for-e-j-agbonayinmas-candidature-shake-up-edo-state-politics/

Source iReporteronline.

lol they want to eat his money, they know he will not win even primaries, I can bet my left balls

AroOkigbo:
Price will be determined by the seller? So who prepared the template for prices across the countey that's currently in use?

NNPCL(monopolistic idiots)

lhordspy:
Kudos to Seyi makinde for checkmating his excesses before it spiral beyond control. I think now, Auxilliary is back to default setting, and suing for peace.

Unlike other region (especially down east) , In the Southwest we don't condone lawlessness. We nip the bud at early stage. We dont encourage and cheer on criminality, neither do our governors use every available TV interviews and press releases to beg for the release of a terrorist kept in detention by the government so as to prevent him from further havoc.

We must all quit deceiving ourselves and take responsibilities. Tribal sentiment in the face of criminality must be set aside

nonsense, who gave him the power in the first place It is hightime governors starts doing this park and park revenue thing the right way which will be technology inclined. If graduate in the states are being employed to get a 100k monthly as revenue collector or park managements I'm sure they will be grateful, but these governors(seyi makinde exempted) uses these touts to win and rug elections and then give them parks to control as a repayment for their loyalty during election, now when they grow out of proportion you start complaining..

thelords4u:
I no dey whine you, it's the truth... I have both offer of employment as I dey. I am 41yrs old married with kids but lost my job about 2-3yrs ago ran into debts and many financial problems. So I have been living a terrible life with children until God now gave me these two offers. But I just want to get things right this time, I can't afford to make any mistake this time

me and u know say na the 500k job dey ur eye, and it is reasonable and very good. No let anybody deceive u to tell u Federal government kin, I b security blah blah blah. U are 45years and u can't get to the highest point before retirement kicks in... In your years of working for the government job, you might never make up to 30 million accumulated savings, but with the 500k job, few months u will clear ur debt and be able to save up for an investment that will set you up for life even after retirement...

Nazgul:
N300 is too much biko. With dangote refinery fully operational, I'm expecting it to be way cheaper than that.

una dey sleep.. That 300 naira is because they heard that subsidy gas been removed, the selfish nature of Nigeria kicks in even tho they still have old stock they are selling, that's how wicked Nigerias are.. Let me tell u that fuel will be more than 300 per litre. It is from 400 and above to 600 per liter when the effect of subsidy removal kicks in.

Flangelo12:
How?

There is nothing anybody would accuse Uzodinma of that isn't happening in Anambra state.

has two wrongs ever make a right??

Flangelo12:
Hope Uzodinma deserves the award.

wow!!! Guy u Bleep up for this talk...

SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?

do you brother, forget what any naysayers would have to say, if you are doing well for yourself or have your life planned out well here, then stay rather than be a visitor in another man's land.. That doesn't mean u can't go on vacation to enjoy life Iver there when on holiday, but I get that you don't want to stay in the UK as a resident

Karleb:
Because she knows you will regret it in the future.

You are like that lady that chose a polytechnic over a university. Give it time, the regret will hit ya.

nonsense talk... He will not regret nothing if his way and life is well planned in Nigeria.. Forget that useless syndrome of I can only make it when I move oversea. If he is doing well for himself as a man I don't see what use the UK would be for him really.

naijabetlee:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2023/05/keyamo-to-buhari-its-unconstitutional-to-appoint-minister-of-state-2/amp/

this man really has no shame.. After collecting all the benefits in monetary terms and privileges, it is now you want to identify that it was unconstitutional.. If you are really a just man, you would reject it given reason that it was unconstitutional. But after eating all the salaries, allowances, budget padding, blue diplomatic passport etc, now u want to say it is unconstitutional.. No honor among thieves really..

EyenIbibio1:
Her past doesn't matter, so long she doesn't go back

past matters alright, stop all these hypocrisy.... At times past makes the present unlivable.. I know u must be a lazy to say this. Imagine your brother bringing a girl home for marriage and you discovered she was ur roommate that was doing runs at one time and aborted more than half a dozen pregnancies that you knew of, and ur father & 4 uncles discovered they've carried and slept with her at one point of her life when she was doing the nonsense, now because she is a decent girl in ur own estimation, you will tell me it doesn't matter abi Please quit all these hypocrisy sentiment

DownTime44:
https://www.nairaland.com/7686172/been-restless-having-chat-elder


All thanks to everyone for their immense contributions towards my elder brother predicament. This place is truly home away from home. For those getting to know or who just come across this thread, you can read through the link posted above to get a grasp of where I'm coming from.


Someone sent me a mail having gone through my post and we both shared contact. He works on the island and he was willing to absorb my elder brother into his organisation. It's an organisation where one learn a skills and get paid monthly. Then after being certified in your skills, you can be employed as a full staff into the organisation. He would be given #20,000 monthly as stipend while learning as an apprentice but the man promised to be adding #10,000 to it making a total of #30,000 monthly. This person didn't know me from Adam but was touched by my brother's condition and he developed interest in helping him in his own little way. He asked me to inform my elder brother and get back to him.


I discussed everything to my brother verbally. Infact, i relate everything to him in my mother's tongue for ease of communication. I asked him if he has any interest in the offer and he said yes. He has interest. He's very much interested. He said he'd specialised in plumbing. I reached out to the man and we both finalise everything. He asked my brother when would he love to resume and he said month end. After the call, i asked him why month end and he said he doesn't have anything. He needs to get some few clothes, toiletries and some money for upkeep. I asked him where would he get money from less than 2 weeks to month end. He claimed if he can see any bus to work with. I told him you've been out of job going to a year, you didn't get any bus. Why do you think you'd get a bus within a short space of time? I asked him what if i rally round for him, is he willing to resume before the month end, he said yes with happy face. I borrowed #10,000 from a friend, i had #5,000 left with me, making a total of #15,000. I gave him 2 pairs of trousers and shirt i had. He bought a small school bag of #3,000 to put his clothes and he left in two days time. That was last week Wednesday. Oh! God, i was the happiest man on earth that very day.. I was so happy for him believing that he would become somebody from there. I called him to know if he has gotten there and how the work was. He said everything was fine.


I was surprised to see my brother at home on Friday, two days after he left. I asked him hope all is well? He said yes. I asked him why did he came back home so soon considering the cost of transportation to island. He was given a room he'd put up with. I expected him to stay there and focus on his job, whenever i have any money i would send to him. The man that helped him with the job called me later in the day. He narrated the gross misconduct of my brother. My brother left the job on Friday during working hours. The work is Monday to Saturday. Though Saturday is half day. He explained every details of the job to my brother before he resumed work. My brother was assigned to someone else to work with, not directly the man that helped him. The man only came to check up on him daily to know how he's fairing. The man was there when my brother took his bag, headed outside with the claim that he was going home. The man told him he can't go home now till after work, which is on Saturday. My brother didn't listen to the boss he was assigned with nor the man that helped him. He left right in their presence.


They do give daily report, and the man he was assigned with reported that he doesn't have anyone to work with, particularly on Saturday. The management asked him about my brother assigned to him and he said he has left on Friday. My brother was dismissed for his attitude. I pleaded to give him a second chance, but the man said it was beyond his power. The management has decided. I asked him to report there today and apologise for his gross misconduct. He went but apology wasn't accepted. If i was the man that helped my brother with this job or if i was among the management. I would do the same thing. I'd gladly lay him off without thinking twice.


My mother had been crying having heard the outcome of everything. I myself had cry my eyes out, all because of this my elder brother. I am fed up. The burden is too much. I might be tempted to harm him living under the same roof with him. I had been trying to console my mum but she wouldn't listen. Landlord came to harass her last week, the very day my elder brother left, because of house rent. I had 3 younger siblings to look after. Here comes my elder brother problem again. I am responsible for all of these with my meagre pay. I don't know what else to do for this guy. I don't think i can put up with him anymore. I am tired. Why is this life full of problems? I am losing my mind completely.

ignore him, you brother's problem is pride, for himself working under someone he might be older than.. And that pride will ruin him.......... The time of regret for him will be too late by then... Just ignore him.

udemzyudex:
2go opened your eyes?

You no use Nimbuzz?

that one dey play, like Eskimi was a joke to him😂😂😂😂

Winner90:
You are a pure ignorant clown. Lion heart produced by the same Asaba axis is the first nollywood Netflix movie and the most profitable movie in nollywood.

Many Netflix movies are also produced by in Asaba axis.

Overwhelming majority of nollywood fans don't have Netflix account. It's money spinning but not a popular platform in the continent.

Most movies shown there are crappy too. The reason they resort to extreme nudity to attract viewership.

Blood sisters, Anikulakpo etc are Netflix originals, meaning they are Netflix funded projects. If the bulk of the movie in that area is a product of backward integration of a foreign online distribution platform, it means movie production there is not self sustaining in the long run.

by asaba I wasn't referring to the area, this you know very well but you have chosen to be ignorant.. Lion heart by genevieve was a first of its kind in 2018 and did you by chance get to see the budget allocated to it? Of cause u are blind to that. You mentioned other movies which are Netflix funded, what happened to the asaba movie that Netflix has refused to fund? Because it is bad for business as it will be a bad investment, wacky storyline and a movie totally predictable from the beginning. You are not truthful to yourself if you encourage the nonsense those director and producers in onitsha and asaba still produce, those movie type died with the era of vcd and dvd, when these movie could be rented or sold in traffic, it is the time of Internet streaming platform, Netflix and Co, as well as cinema, how many asaba wood movie would any cinema want to buy viewing franchise? Because they will loose money... Asaba wood should incline with the upgrade before tham and people like you should stop supporting and aiding mediocre and backwardness.... They reason why they don't grow is because they have failed to move with the trend, they are still stock in 2004 to 2011 movie type.. Have you seen the story lines of those Netflix orignal? King of boy, gang of Lagos, shanty town, anikulapo, brotherhood, etc? And u are still supporting and magnifying asaba wood mediocre.. The wise ones among them arw starting to move and getting supporting role on those latest movies, people like zuby Micheal, etc, but you see etiko and Co, she is a local champion and she will remain so... Stop supporting nonsense.. How does a movie that doesn't vebe meet standard in form of camera quality be nominated for any award in this life