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NzogbuNzogbu:
come let me educate you.

Obaseki gave shaibu the wings to fly, shaibu wasn't doing obaseki a favor by following him to pdp.

Na obaseki even fight for shaibu to retain that deputy position in the new party, even if shaibu betrayed obaseki then it would have made people more sympathetic to obaseki.

After that obaseki gave shaibu the platform to maximize his office and even take decisions on his behalf, the man has eaten beyond fat.

This has nothing to do with it's not his district turn, obaseki is looking for his own personal greedy payback from shaibu for all he has given him.

We know what is going on, the two are just greedy thieves but naturally shaibu as a mark of respect should surrender his ambition because the loot when he make from this govt was the Greek gift obaseki used to buy that same loyalty he is demanding from

lol, u wen dey one place for east or oversea dey tell me edo state politics that I am actively involved in. My brother relax there is so much that meets the eyes in regards to edo state politics than u see or news or you hear on nairaland.. Now let me educate you for what I know and the secret I was privy to, in both of them, shaibu is the one with the guts, Na him gan gan be the back bone of the governor prior to the last election and when they were outcast from APC, if it come to election machinary and strong powerful men that nagativelt disrupt the election in their favour every since then, Na shaibu be the backbone. Obaseki never gave shaibu the position of the deputy when he was accepted into PDP, shaibu Paid for that position, he paid over 300 million of his own personal funds to be paid with obaseki, that is why when it was time to give them the SSG position(PDP member they came to meet I mean) as per the agreement, obaseki told them he owe them nothing... Shaibu has paid his dues to obaseki in blood and in loyalty... If you think obaseki is all powerful without shaibu, why does he need shaibu to forfeit his ambition and support his own candidate?? Why not use your power as leader of the party to make shaibu realise he is your boy and make him loose the primaries playing fairly and squarely?? At least that was what oshiomole did with Odubu, he told Odubu we came together and we leave together, but Odubu said he will run regardless, but oshiomole taught Odubu a hard lesson and made him waste his money while obaseki which was oshiomole candidate emerged winner.. Thats how you show your subordinate you are greater than them, not by victimising them and making them feel uncomfortable and leave the party.... So my guy relax yourself and don't be quick to say what u do not know, I know so much bcoz my wife uncle(father immediate younger brother) was a commissioner in obaseki goverment in the first term and still a commissioner in this second term but different ministry. The intention of your subordinate to run for office should not be a reason to victimise him or Disrespect his office

Ahmed0336:
If I say Edo matter no tire me I like.
If I were Philip Shuaibu, I will drop my governorship ambition and allow those from Edo Central to contest.
His bet shot would have been him contesting for HoR again instead of all this brouhaha

anybody as a son or daughter or edo origin can contest, it is an act of benevolence to agree that governorship shouldn't be zoned to edo central, it is not embedded in parties constitution, so Shuaibu if he feel he has better chance of winning I dint see why he can not contest because the governor has said so.. If I were him, I will resign as a deputy governor honorably and plan for my come back either as a fellow PDP member or going back to the party he betrayed because he felt he was doing the right thing standing by a his principal, who is a son from a notorious family of chronic betrayals..... I might not contest this time, but will contest after 8 years when it is finally the turn of the edo north, after resigning I will use this next 7 years to build bridges and fellowship with powerblocks... But because of greed they won't want to resign honorably. When respect is no long served in the table, stand up from the table and leave

Tell your wife to always dust and fold dried laundry outside as she picks it up form the line... Na cloths snake dey follow enter house.. Or drain pipes

BiafranPatriot:
HE WANTs to revoke lands of foriegn embassies also?

THIS WIkE na "drowning dundee" RIVERs STATE is not ABUJA.


NIGERIANs will SHOW the PUNK real actions soon...

Yoruba supporters of TINUBU, see UNA guy....so worthless

this one no well.. Are u aware abuja has a master plan and those people who has acquired lands especially those embassies and refuse developing it are part of the cause of under development in Abuja, so their land title can be revoked, be you anybody, or u didn't see Nigeria custom land was one of the lands? Y'all Should not always make everything about politics, it is about what is right from wrong

DaveHarry:
The eldest got married to one of the two sisters almost 5 years ago, now my immediate elder brother who was married before he divorced, wants to go on and marry the younger sister to our elder brother's wife. I've been against the decision since yesterday but my brother is telling me that there's absolutely nothing I can do about his decision.

My other siblings are also insisting that it doesn't matter so I'm the only one on my side. So here's me asking if it's okay for them to get married or I'm overreacting (like a friend said) to the matter?

u never see twin brother marry twin sisters before Talkless when they aren't twin.. Nothing is wrong except you know something you aren't telling your siblings

Jennyclay:
Nobody is above mistake.

Biko, just forgive and leave everything and move on. Can’t you see how catastrophic the economy is How do you expect a nursing mother to pay you back when she also has a baby to cater for

Learn to forgive!!

May God help us.

mistake you say, I'm not Suprised it is coming from a girl...

Nobody unveiled him or told him to run, he choose himself to run, all those are PR, and he would not even win primaries Talkless run on a platform..

Standstrong:
I picked up the gate man job ending of last month out of no other better options at the moment and seeing what economic hardship was making me pass through, especially waking up with no hope of where food is going to come from, make i no go steal, God abeg.

I have been doing the job well. Yesterday, while strolling around the area, I heard one man saying he is looking for someone to cut grasses in his compound. Being something I can do to collect the money to help myself as i was hungry and peniless, I met the man and told him i can do the work and we agreed on N15k.

So as my oga went to work, i rushed down to do the work. While I was on it, i dont know what brought my oga back to the house and he didnt see me at the post.

He called me and asked me where i am. I rushed down to the house. I told him i got a small contract of 15k to cut grass for someone in the neighbourhood.

The man got so angry on why I left his duty post to go do another job. Worse was that the person i did the job for was more like his enemy, as i later learnt they've not been in good terms.

He sacked me instantly. I begged this man as a human being to please forgive but he refused to consider me again. He even said, "go before you go and collect poison from my enemy to come and kill me".

Please what is my business with whatever fight the two of them are fighting?

That was how I lost the small job i just got 3 weeks ago and now back with nothing. He should have paid me for the 3 weeks right away but he didnt, rather he said i will find a way to pay you for the services so far.

Please, the country is already very hard and all I needed was something that could give me immediate money to survive on first.

Sad how struggling citizens are being badly treated everyday even while legitimately hustling for survival. How he will pay me for the 3 weeks, he didn't say it.

It's painful but it is not the end of the world.

I will make it too. Amen.

It shall never be well with hunger, agent of poverty.

he did well by sacking you... As his Gate a, you afw his chief security officer, and you left your only duty post of which you are paid for, it means he is not safe with you being the gate an of his property.. You deserved the sack..... Nobody will tolerate that nonsense Atitude..

Nice2023:
Big boy indeed!...did u the read the story at all?

They say he died poor that he couldn't even take care of the new born.

lol na lie, big lie... Mohbad died a big boy, forget all the nonsense u heard online. He might not be a billionaire but nigga was comfortable than an average Nigerian..

illicit:
Is there Mercury in the hunchback? Or it's just a hunch?

No pun intended

there is no mercury, just that they say that hunch is good for money ritual, 12years ago some men were arrested who kidnapped a hunchback and killed him and removed his hunched, they confessed to what I just said to you now.

HRprof:
Singapore is the most beautiful country in the world. The safest and cleanest . I thought Paris is heaven until I visited Singapore

lol it isn't the safest. It is Iceland. Iceland doesn't have prisons, the few they have is empty. And police here doesn't even carry gun. Lol. Many Year ago they did a survey and identified what made their prison so full and crime people were committing, then they addressed it, Boom prison are empty till date.. Na boredom dey kill anybody when find himself for prison

Nonywendy:
I have been dating this my girl friend since 2017. She made me fall and believe in love, she ticked all the qualities I desire in a woman. When I we started dating she was in her 200L, and everything was going on smoothly. Now this is where the issue lies,
When she went for service in another state, I started noticing some changes, wen she comes back home during holidays I used to go through her phone.(note: she has access to my phone and I too).
So one of those period I realised she is seeing another guy in the state where she is serving. I confronted her and she opened up to me and confessed. I forgave her.

Then after like 4months again, I later noticed she is also seeing another guy different from the initial one I noticed, she denied that but I had to do my deep investigation and got an evidence, she opened up again, at this point I broke up with her and moved on. After like one month she came back begging for forgiveness, It took me time to heal and I forgave her.

Then this last one that broke the camel's back, I noticed she traveled to the state where she did her youth service for something and all this while I thought she was staying with her sister, not knowing she was staying with the first guy she dated while serving whch she apologised. She stayed with her for three good weeks. How I realized was, I called her line one early morning arnd 3am and a guy picked the call asking me who I am. At first, I froze cos I haven't been in that kind of situation, I calmed down and explained everything to the guy, and the guy also told me she has been with her for the past three weeks and that's the girl friend too. I was shocked. I have broken up with her finally cos I don't think forgiving a cheating partner is worth it.
The first time she cheated, 90% of my friends advised me to dump her ass and move on but I had to forgive on the basis of nobody is perfect, but this third time is a no no.
Now she has been begging and asking for forgiveness that she has really learnt her lessons. At this point I'm just so mad that I don't want to forgive her.
Now the big problem is that I'm always seeing her in my dream, I have not really moved on cos it's not easy for me. I have loved her for solid 6 yrs plus.
Note: all the family members from my side and her side are fully aware of our relationship and have approved but they are not aware that I have broken up. If you are my shoes will you forgive her for this very last time or will her cheating continues?
Your advise and suggestions will be well appreciated. Thank you

you don't forgive a cheating partner, You Either Learn Or you Perish..

Imagine what going to prison for even 3 years without seeing your boys or wife would be? It is not impossible to catch you, all that is needed is external auditor.. Better stop that nonsense now before you cause your own downfall yourself.

Askmewhy:
I knew this boy 20 years ago when he was an undergraduate student in university. I was already working that time. He comes to our compound to play and he respected me becuase he knows that l was far older than him.

I was at their area yesterday and I sighted him along with others and I quickly alighted from my car to hail all of them as i used to, because those guys were very good and nice neighbours.

I greeted and shook of them with excitement and they were so happy and greeted me except this new counselor. I was shocked to see the cold way this boy reacted.

He almost ignored me as I stretched my hand to shake him.

Is it because he's a counselor now or what?

Is it not too early for him to start behaving this way?

think wetin u do am or wetin him beg you when you refuse am, coz if pride was the case here he won't be sitting among other area guys like you describe.. BTW councillors nor get level,

This is where most of you get it all wrong, nobody wants to suppass the west, they just want good and easy trade deal among themselves, they want the west sanction not to directly affect their economy when they try to sanction them just like they did to Russia. Petrol dollar is the only reason why they can sanction other country

meum:
They are some laws that should be adhered to in that book. “Never outshine your master” some masters don’t take that lightly

just leave edo politics, it is a politics of if you are doing it you are wrong but if I'm doing it I'm right.. Shaibu did not outshine Obaseki. The problem is same with what oshomole had with his then deputy, we came together and we will leave together and his deputy odubu said he was interested in being Governor, that is the exact same thing happening. Those public display of shame between them is just to put the matter in a presentable manner that can sell to the media, the real issue is what I just told you.

Amotolongbo:
Hiring him only gives him more access to hack your system to do worse.
One who could delve into my privacy to invite himself into my organisation is surely coming in to finalise the task he started.

I won’t hire him. I would make sure I tighten up the security measures of my organisation

hackers makes the best cybersecurity experts. Do with that information how you please

Nanorest:
FULL RESULTS

Ovia South West
APC: 5361
LP: 3216
PDP: 10,721

Uhunmwode Local Government
APC: 2317
LP: 1436
PDP: 15,615

Owan West Local Government
APC: 3825
LP: 2365
PDP: 13, 171

Akoko Edo Local Government
APC: 5369
LP: 2083
PDP: 21,417

Etsako East Local Government
APC: 4076
LP: 1711
PDP: 16, 428

Etsako Central Local Government
APC: 7, 896
LP: 4, 606
PDP: 30, 594

Etsako West Local Government
APC: 29, 445
LP: 23, 832
PDP: 98, 046

Ikpoba-Okha Local Government
APC: 3, 085
LP: 3, 857
PDP: 27, 768

Ovia North East Local Government
APC: 636
LP: 617
PDP: 4, 869

Igueben Local Government
APC: 636
LP: 617
PDP: 4869

Esan Central Local Government
APC: 557
LP: 660
PDP: 5262

Orhionmwon Local Government
APC: 23, 885
LP: 14, 331
PDP: 47771

Esan West Local Government
APC: 1616
LP: 1737
PDP: 14, 904

Esan South East Local Government
APC: 1344
LP: 791
PDP: 16072

Esan North East Local Government
APC: 5550
LP: 3298
PDP: 20, 702

Owan East Local Government
APC: 5550
LP: 3298
PDP: 20702

Egor Local Government
APC: 12203
LP: 7695
PDP: 35380

OREDO
APC: 8, 308
LP: 10, 188
PDP 70, 293

this was not an election this was a sham. No bvas no nothing, normal style of register for accreditation was used and numerous votes were cast by just a single person..

meum:
He should have digested the book “48 Laws of Power”. This would have saved his a$ $

we have stupid people who have digested 48laws of power and other books

TemplarLandry:
We got to stop being wasteful, these bikes should have been sold to Nigerian automobile companies like Nord and Innoson for recycling.

you don't recycle without destroying first.. Destroy them and separate tge plastic from the metal that's how is it fine bro

piswapexchange:
The only real and respected natural ruler in the South South.

king of kings.

there are only two kings in the country.. Oba Of Benin and Others.

kekakuz:
Who is a love peddler

Ashawo na be local name of love peddler

cheque:
In meet this new chick, we are getting along closely, but she dislikes underwear, she wear jean without a pant On, shirts / blouse without a bra On, please advise me on how to remedy this condition.
Shirts without bra
Trousers without pant, although she wears tite in her skirts

brooooo, no person who isn't on her period should wear jeans with a pant, especially those fitted Jeans, Infact it is even better to wear a tight as they all it, under a skirt or gown.....

Curse777:



I wonder what he is planning to contest for

Edo State is PDP vs Labour Party show down

2024.. in Edo would be intresting..

Oshiomole is also cooking


.

the last statement is baseless, oshiomole would not do shit, else he would fail woefully again... He better remove himself from the equation this time around because he was the cause of their failure the last time, if this failure is linked to him the second time that might be the last nail in his political coffin... Go and write this down. He is a wise man and knows better than impose another candidate

Everything in fancy packets must go, as well as the wine filled wiuth sugar....

Any pepper soup you like you eat, just know cat fish is a very unclean animal.... Avoid it if you can. Crocker fish and the rest are better

RockHard:
Make dem no try am. E get why I talk so. If Simon is extradited, his supporters will also start committing terrorist acts in SE to blackmail the FG and then his people will start begging that he also be released like they're asking for Kanu. And the cycle will continue. This is a family matter that Ndigbo knows how to resolve if they really want to. My two cents.

what they are doing right now of disrupting businesses, killing people and forming a parallel goverment within a government, what do you all that if not Terrorism?

Cassandraloius:
Hollandia yogurt is a very healthy drink, but on other hand, too much of everything is bad.

The common side effects of are diarrhoea , flatulence, abdominal cramps, bloating, etc

Hollandia is no healthy drink, let's not deceive ourselves. No non alcoholic drink that can stay up for months without getting bad or has that much sugar is a healthy drink...

Mhistasaints:
I've been married for four years now, and it seems my wife has become a stranger.

We've been having issues from the first year, mostly on different styles of life.
I am a guy who loves managing resources and very focused on achievements because I was born with a silver spoon but lost it due to the death of my father, I never wanted to experience the same thing as I did when he died.
She on the other hand is comfortable and okay with what she has, not too bothered about achievements.

I've been calling for management of resources for a while but she's the type that grew up in a very comfortable home and knows not how to manage resources.

Another issue on my part is that, she does not really care about how she looks and that's one of the things I care about.

I lost, or should I say resigned from my first job due to pressure and things became hard. I had to sell some of my landed properties so we could survive.

I got another Job and in six months, I made millions. We lived well until I wanted to chase my passion in banking again.

Got back into banking and to cut the story short, I met one lady where I was sent to. I loved her. I wish I had met her first honestly. In a year, she showed me a lot in the kind of woman I wanted. Then I lost my job again, this time because I wanted to go for youth service.

I got back home and I told my wife the game plan. I bought foodstuffs for at least two months and went for camp. In less than a week, my mother called me and was angry why I left my wife and two kids hungry. I exeated camp immediately and came back home. After investigating, I found out she sent the food to her mother who is an associate professor, without telling me and while she knows out conditions.

I got so angry. I wanted her out.
I considered things because my second child which she had by force is just 5months. She had the baby because she stopped taking contraceptives because of advice from people that if she has a male child for me, I'll stay.
After much, she can't leave, because who will take care of the boy?

Yesterday, she read my messages and discovered I was having an affair and wants to leave. I told the lady off this morning but, I still loved her.

I can't allow that. Even if she does, she has to wait for the boy to be at least a year old. Remember she was the one that wanted this baby, not me. Now she wants to leave the liability for me?
And I can't allow my kids to grow with her because I don't want them to learn such lifestyle.

What should I do?

you are a confused man... Which man tests the management of resources skill of a woman after marriage?? I guess you weren't blind to these things when you both were dating, now that you are married it is now you want excellent resource management skill... You are just bringing all these up right now because you already have an affair with who u feel or have an illusion that u love... I'M A MAN AND I CAN TELL YOU FOR FREE THAT YOU ARE THE PROBLEM IN YOUR HOME.

Humblelion1987:
Good morning nairaland family, please I have a serious issue which I need your advice.
I met my fiancee 1st March 2022 and everything clicked, within few weeks, we are like people who have been together for years because we share many things in common, we are birthday mates, we like the same food, we are practically like twins. I work as a Key account manager in charge of my region in one of the leading multinational company here in Nigeria, why she works as an RN(registered nurse) in one of the top private hospital in the state I base too. I will be 33yrs by September while she will be 25years the same date and month. We are supposed to get married by May this year because am ready and she is ready too, but the parents have been frustrating me, one that am not from there state, we passed through that phase and fixed our traditional wedding next month, the mum and her people now came up with another issue that she must travel abroad before getting married, even when I have tried convincing them that I can't prevent there daughter from traveling even after marriage because I have been nursing same ambition too.

When I met my fiancee, she has been doing bad in her ihealth exams not until I came into her life. I have purchased the form three times in a space of 6 months plus her form for CBT and I do practically everything for my woman. Since we met, she doesn't touch her salary, she doesn't stress herself much about house duties, both washing, cooking and other things because as a bachelor, those are the things I enjoyed doing. I love her so much and she love me too, but am totally confused on what to do as the parents have said point blank that she can only get married when she travels to UK.

She had a serious fight with the parents last night and the mum even called me and told me that if I can't abide by there rules, I should forget about there daughter. Am the only son and my parents are not aware of the situation.

I don't know there problem because as a young man, I leave in a comfortable bungalow, drives good car outside my official car and equally employed one of her siblings on a temporary project am running for my office, which they both earn 60k monthly.

Please I need advise on how to go about this as I have two options in my mind. Should I move on and forget all the money I have spent so far or should I stand by my fiancee who loves me so much and finish the fight?

forget all that she fought with her parents yesterday, you weren't there. I have only one thing to say to you, IF YOU WILL MARRY HER OR NOT, IT IS IN THE HANDS OF THE LADY, WHEN SHE IS NOT COMFORTABLE WITH THE DEMANDS OF THE PARENTS OR SHE IS NOT I SUPPORT, SHE KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT TO DO.

Battlefield2:
The charges sef weak abeg

it was deliberate, coz they know the Terrorism Financing won't fly without evidence, so they had to find a bailable suit that can let him off the hook easily, else if he was released to go like that, it will simply means the DSS was witch hunting.

helinues:
Yes, Peter Obi can be arrested and nothing, I repeat nothing will happen afterwards. He can't continue to be making reckless statements threatening the unity of the country just because he loss as election.

If he can't advise his supporters to stop wishing evil for the country, he can be tamed in order to silence his supporters.

oya na, make una go arrest am, at least you start with a petition to the dss stating why he is a national threat so that he can be arrested, u go just open mouth wa dey vomit trash. OYA GO AND ARREST HIM, MAYBE YOU THINK SAY OBI NA SOWORE, THE NIGERIA UNA DEY FRAUDULENTLY DEY RULE NEVER REACH UNA, E BE LIKE UNA WAN RULE NIGERIA WITH LAW AND ORDER SUSPENDED. GO AND TRY IT, you can only oppress people for so long, until everyone is willing to die and take to the street.