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Family › Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by cedricksly: 3:01pm On Oct 19, 2023
xin5:
Pressure from mother to carry her grandchildren
u need deliverance if u never really marry or at least have child or children out of wedlock... This is far from ordinary.. Incase u want me to interpret it well, u are 3 away from 50(golden jubilee)
Politics › Re: Stop Wishing Nigeria Fails Because Your Candidate Is Not President – Laycon by cedricksly: 11:12am On Oct 18, 2023
Kuginzi:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2023/10/stop-wishing-nigeria-fail-because-your-candidate-is-not-president-laycon/amp/
this f00! Doesn't know wishes are not what policies and decisions crippling the economy is made from.... No matter how bad Democrats wish America downfall because a republican is president, america will ever fall.. Ill Wishes doesn't mean anything when people know what they are doing
Travel › Re: Should I Stay and Complete My PhD Or Accept a 30 NZD Per Hour Job In New Zealand by cedricksly: 4:27pm On Oct 17, 2023
Middleborn:
Part of the reason for asking is that I don't know this country that much other than it is really down the earth. I've dug up details about it. But is it a nice place to live in? I would appreciate real experiences from Nairalanders.
will be one of the best decision you will make... Yes new Zealand is very far but the standard of living is way too good, can't even compare it with the US. first talk to your supervisor and discuss with him if it is possible to present your thesis in absential... I have just one question for you. After PHD what next?? Lecturing job? That the pay is nothing before now, and even gone worse compared to the recent standard of living...
Career › Re: House, I Am Confused by cedricksly: 6:02pm On Oct 12, 2023
Saviourplease:
The office option will not work.

How do I keep costs low?
look for a shared apartment.. Maybe a two or 3 room flat, where u will be given a room from it and Y'all use the living room and kitchen together and you split the rent 3 way.. Don't fall for that trap of marriage yet when u haven't found your fit.
Crime › Re: ASP Vandi: Police Officer Who Shot Bolanle Raheem Sentenced To death by cedricksly: 6:25pm On Oct 09, 2023
Arizoner:
are they scared to execute criminals?
majority of the time most governors do not find it easy to give consent for the execution, they will always push it and push it till they leave office.. U know what is means to be a Governor that consent to people children to be hanged or fired to death ? Even if truly they deserve every bit of the judgement... Bro it is hard for most governors, but no Be for person like me. cheesy grin grin blood debt must be paid with blood, not blood tonic. God can forgive them, but not me as Governor
Crime › Re: ASP Vandi: Police Officer Who Shot Bolanle Raheem Sentenced To death by cedricksly: 1:09pm On Oct 09, 2023
fergie001:
SOURCE

Previous Threads:
https://www.nairaland.com/7527796/how-colleague-killed-bolanle-raheem#120094826

https://www.nairaland.com/7498793/bolanle-raheem-seven-things-know#119473432

https://www.nairaland.com/7527292/bolanle-raheem-asp-vandi-pleads#120085690

https://www.nairaland.com/7502785/bolanle-raheem-officer-drambi-vandi#119548500
it is not about sentencing him to death by hanging, which Governor would sign off the bill to really have him hangedhuh? Sanwu olu will definitely not sign that executive order, that's how he will be in prison while goverment keep on wasting money on his head via feeding etc..
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Jehovah's Witnesses "Hate" Christian Songs But Sing Secular Songs? by cedricksly: 12:08pm On Oct 02, 2023
HISSCRIBE1995:
THAT IS NOT TRUE!
TRINITY IS SCRIPTURAL .
IT WOULD BE WRONG FOR THE BIBLE TO RECORD THAT JESUS WAS BEING WORSHIPED IF JESUS IS NOT EQUAL WITH THE FATHER ,AND JESUS WOULD HAVE BEEN CALLED THE CHILD OF THE HOLY SPIRIT IF THE SPIRIT IS NOT EQUAL WITH THE FATHER ALSO.

1TIMOTHY 3VS16 CALLED JESUS GOD WHO MANIFESTED IN THE FLESH .
CHECK IT 4 YOURSELF AND SEE.
the trinity doctrine was smuggled into christiandom through cloak and dagger means, it never existed from the very first original bible translation.. Deuteronomy 6:4 said it and was said again in Mark 12:29, God is one, forget the trinity fallacy that came about from deliberate mistranslation of the bible original text by long James and Co. The bible refer to jesus christ as the first born of all creation, and jesus never spoke neither did he teach about the trinity Gospel, the trinity Gospel is rooted in Falsehood. The only spirit in itself is the power of God(Zechariah 4:6, Micah 3:cool the TRINITY GOSPEL IS UNBLIBLICAL. U can choose to argue, but this is the truth and in time you will know.
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Jehovah's Witnesses "Hate" Christian Songs But Sing Secular Songs? by cedricksly: 11:36am On Oct 01, 2023
HISSCRIBE1995:
They don't believe in trinity.
. Trinity doctrine is the most useless and baseless kind of doctrine that has been sold to gullible People over the longest time ever, courtesy king James one sided translation.
Politics › Re: See White Elephant Projects By Nigerian Politicians Which You Clap About by cedricksly: 11:32am On Oct 01, 2023
MTNnews:
Of course ask the fool why he did not add the brewery the Pandora criminal wasted million of Anambra money on ?

At least Soludo already expose the investment is now worth next to nothing hopefully your Igbotic foolish head can comprehend that is what white elephant project truly is.

Why did the fool not add the Onitsha Monorail rail by the Pandora criminal or those ain't white elephant enough for you miserable lot ?

Why did he not mention the Onitsha monorail or that is not a white elephant project ? You fools think we can't see Tru your hypocrisy, wailt make pant de wear your papa.


An Igbo fool talking about delivery, is your pathetic hate filled soul delivered in the first instant ?
lol u are so Pained that u had to start crying., wailer .. U are a dog, oya go back to your cage. No more reply to you.
Politics › Re: See White Elephant Projects By Nigerian Politicians Which You Clap About by cedricksly:
MTNnews:
Hate will not kill you igbos.
To the well meaning Nigerians that think Igbos only hate Fulani Hausa Yoruba you can see that Delta n Akwa ibom weren't spared in this clown bigoted criticism.

If I list abandoned project in Igboland I will still be listing till Jesus return but I rather not be consumed with endemic n irredeemable hate like the OP.

The Eko Atlantic you badmouth tomorrow igbos will claim they built it that is how low a despicable pig like the OP can go.
lol are u deliberately playing blind or you are just blatantly stupid?? He spoke against projects in igbo land than any other region, the 3 project he listed in ebonyi, shey ebonyi na state for west abi? The statutes of 500 million in owerri and the international airport in abi state u no see am abi? Small write up him don mention more than 6 from the east, yet you are only concerned about just 1 he mentioned in lagos. I don't know why some of you people are so useless that you still have not left this your hate and dislike for our igbo brothers and sisters. All These he has listed are verifiable and he was objectively neutral as much as possible, how you conclude so fast he is igbo baffles me. You need alot of mental healing to do trust me.
Politics › Re: See White Elephant Projects By Nigerian Politicians Which You Clap About by cedricksly: 10:41pm On Sep 30, 2023
MTNnews:
Hate will not kill you igbos.
To the well meaning Nigerians that think Igbos only hate Fulani Hausa Yoruba you can see that Delta n Akwa ibom weren't spared in this clown bigoted criticism.

If I list abandoned project in Igboland I will still be listing till Jesus return but I rather not be consumed with endemic n irredeemable hate like the OP.

The Eko Atlantic you badmouth tomorrow igbos will claim they built it that is how low a despicable pig like the OP can go.
lol u are u just playing blind or you are just blatantly stupid?? He spoke against projects in igbo land than any other region, the 3 project he listed in ebonyi, shey ebonyi na state for west? The status of 500 million of owerri and the international airport u no see am abi? I don't know why you people are so useless that you still have not left this your hate and dislike for our igbo brother. All These he has listed are verifiable and he was objective as much as possible, how you conclude so fast he is igbo baffles me. You need alot of gelaing to do trust me.
Family › Re: My Sister Married An Efulefu. What Should She Do? by cedricksly: 10:26pm On Sep 30, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Right now she needs advice on what to do and I'm also going to be sharing what I have advised her so far.

This man has used his foolishness to implicate my sister and their lovely kids. Before I go into details of what happened recently, I'll like to give a quick backstory of how all these came to be and how she even got herself into this mess

Backtrack to 2014 when she broke the news that someone was coming to see the family for her hand, I asked her who the person was but she refused to tell me saying I'll meet him when he comes. I was now like ha... This one you're hiding it. I never knew it was one useless guy that was living in our former area in the early 2000s that all he does then was stand at junctions disturbing girls. He also disturbed me one period like that and I so much dislike him because of his behavior plus he's fair and I dont fancy fair guys.

The day came and we started cooking. Already I had gotten a hint from my eldest sister that it's the guy and I said was that why she was hiding it? What's my own there. We move. As the day was approaching, my idowus husband called and told me to warn my sister that that guy she's pulling with is not it. That if she's trying to have something serious with him she'll be making a big mistake. I said, she's an adult and can make choices for herself.


He came with his people and we did everything and she moved in with him. Now, this guy doesn't do anything. He claims he's a lawyer but never goes to work. Most times he'll go for early morning training by 6am and after everyone has gone to work, he'll come home and be sleeping. initially my sister was covering him up that he's doing something but anytime I visit after school, I'll always meet him at home sleeping. I knew my sis was just covering him.

Before they married my sister owned a school that was doing well. After her first child the school was still doing well but they started having issues because she was the one bearing most of the financial burden in the house. Sometimes she would come to school with bruises on her face. Since she refused to talk, me I didn't bother asking because if I do she'll bark at me.it continue like that until she could no longer bear it and started opening up to me that the guy doesn't do anything. Just goes about from one junction to the other.

She took in for her second child and fell sick. The school suffered mismanagement and folded up. That was when the guy showed her his true color. They fought to the extent she left her kids and went to my sister's house. My elder sisters husband settled them and she went back.

She had her third child and the guy started his madness again. This time he would leave them and go for hours without food. When he's coming at night he'll buy food and call his children to come eat and leave my sister hungry. So anytime I go there I'll just find her something to eat. Sometimes not always.
The day I said enough is enough and decided to pull her out of that nonsense was the day she called me, I was in a bus and she said for two days now she has not eaten anything and she's having headache. That the guy said he'll deal with her. I told her to hold on and sent her the little I could that I'll come and see her.

I got there and told her she can't continue like this . I told her to start following me to school to learn how to do what I'm doing and I'll be giving her small small daily pay any day she goes with me and later she can start sourcing for her own schools and be making her own money. I put her through and took her to a school immediately and assigned her to some classes after watching me for a few mins.

We did that for a few weeks and I was giving her the small thing I could after each day. She started going out to look for schools and two schools called her. She now said she can't be following me again , I said no problem. God helped her, She now got more schools and started selling books too and making money.
When this guy saw it, he left feeding and only buys food for the children once in a while. Meanwhile their fighting continued.

Fast-forward to last year, the landlord called my sister that he has given the husband quit notice, not because he was owing but because he was always disrespecting the landlord. My sister tried to plead but he said it's not because of my sister but the husband. Now this guy's is so troublesome and brags a lot. He quarrels with the landlord a lot and always goes against the rules of the compound. I on the other hand have been telling my twin now that she has the money to get her own apartment and leave the lazy thing but she remained there.


Last two weeks Tuesday. during that heavy downpour, the landlord came with some police men and threw their things out in the rain as she was preparing her children for school. It was one of the police men that now had pity on her and said they should leave the things in the compound instead of throwing outside in the rain and helped my sister to bring then inside the gate. The husband ran away. After everything he called my sister to bring the children somewhere. When she got there it was a friend's house. He begged them to let his family stay the night and till now he's still there. I told my sister, shey I've been warning you about this guy. Bett look for a place and move in before this one's change their mind. Could you believe this man continued his laziness there? When everyone has gone out he'll go there and start sleeping till they come back from work and meet him. My sister said he has started quarrelling the man's wife . Someone who's squatting you you're challenging them.

he's talking about moving them to Mowe but my sister is not buying the idea and says she wants to get an apartment here on the mainland because of her job and move with only her children but I'm of the opinion that she should leave the children with him because if she goes with the children he'll run from his responsibility and never pay their school fees again.

What should she do because the guy travelled for his brothers burial now and the owner of the house was heard asking the wife why the guy and my sister are still in their house and said let him come back first . Meaning they are tired.

I've told her to get an apartment now o.
you are of the opinion he should leave his children for a man you describe how useless he is, if that isn't selfishness on your path I wonder what is.. So you think it is easy abi?? First born your own first make you leave am. See Mohbad mama now shebi she dey cry now? Incase you don't know, any decision you sister would be taking going forward would center around the children primarily and her self secondary.
Politics › Re: Obaseki To Shaibu: Dropping Your Guber Ambition, Only Pathway To Reconciliation by cedricksly: 8:44pm On Sep 27, 2023
NzogbuNzogbu:
grin me wey dey Benin here na him you dey yarn opata to?

Where shaibu see the 300 million to negotiate, you no Sabi anything so sit-down look

Even those not in Edo already know say obaseki negotiated both him position and shaibu together with pdp, pdp was already set to zone it to Edo central.

Who be shaibu, the one when oshomole dey dismantle for Edo north left and right?

Where he see backbone, abi na because men dey hype am unnecessary since, ok where the backbone now when he dey crawl for ground begging obaseki?

No put mouth for what you don't know
lol were Shaibu see 300 million, lol I laugh you.... Na now I just really confirm say u no know anything about edo politics na news wen dem dey show for mainstream media u take dey know about happenings. So a majority leader as a member of the edo state house of assembly no fit get 300million even after doing a whole 4years in office as deputy governor, lol.. I have any many tinx I for disclose to you, that are off the books but no need, let me just tell you one na shaibu get 60% of the conoil Franchise in edo state , u fit no know but I dey tell you, close people to edo state government knows this, ask somebody u feel is close to the sir of power... Anyway talk anything u feel say u know, but I'm telling u point blank u no know what's up for this same edo....
Autos › Re: Can The Iphone 15 Pro Max Price Buy Any Car In Nigeria? - Carmart.ng by cedricksly: 6:55pm On Sep 27, 2023
Kestolove:
Poor man speaking, if you get money evn if it is sold for 5m...you go buy
u never know anything... Since I bough my iPhone 12 pro Max, I have not seen an active reason to upgrade, until 6months ago I lost the phone and I bought a 14 pro max in replacement.. Most times it is not about the money or cost, it is a thing of Is there a major upgrade? If yes is it worth it?
Politics › Re: Obaseki To Shaibu: Dropping Your Guber Ambition, Only Pathway To Reconciliation by cedricksly: 6:51pm On Sep 27, 2023
NzogbuNzogbu:
come let me educate you.

Obaseki gave shaibu the wings to fly, shaibu wasn't doing obaseki a favor by following him to pdp.

Na obaseki even fight for shaibu to retain that deputy position in the new party, even if shaibu betrayed obaseki then it would have made people more sympathetic to obaseki.

After that obaseki gave shaibu the platform to maximize his office and even take decisions on his behalf, the man has eaten beyond fat.

This has nothing to do with it's not his district turn, obaseki is looking for his own personal greedy payback from shaibu for all he has given him.

We know what is going on, the two are just greedy thieves but naturally shaibu as a mark of respect should surrender his ambition because the loot when he make from this govt was the Greek gift obaseki used to buy that same loyalty he is demanding from
lol, u wen dey one place for east or oversea dey tell me edo state politics that I am actively involved in. My brother relax there is so much that meets the eyes in regards to edo state politics than u see or news or you hear on nairaland.. Now let me educate you for what I know and the secret I was privy to, in both of them, shaibu is the one with the guts, Na him gan gan be the back bone of the governor prior to the last election and when they were outcast from APC, if it come to election machinary and strong powerful men that nagativelt disrupt the election in their favour every since then, Na shaibu be the backbone. Obaseki never gave shaibu the position of the deputy when he was accepted into PDP, shaibu Paid for that position, he paid over 300 million of his own personal funds to be paid with obaseki, that is why when it was time to give them the SSG position(PDP member they came to meet I mean) as per the agreement, obaseki told them he owe them nothing... Shaibu has paid his dues to obaseki in blood and in loyalty... If you think obaseki is all powerful without shaibu, why does he need shaibu to forfeit his ambition and support his own candidate?? Why not use your power as leader of the party to make shaibu realise he is your boy and make him loose the primaries playing fairly and squarely?? At least that was what oshiomole did with Odubu, he told Odubu we came together and we leave together, but Odubu said he will run regardless, but oshiomole taught Odubu a hard lesson and made him waste his money while obaseki which was oshiomole candidate emerged winner.. Thats how you show your subordinate you are greater than them, not by victimising them and making them feel uncomfortable and leave the party.... So my guy relax yourself and don't be quick to say what u do not know, I know so much bcoz my wife uncle(father immediate younger brother) was a commissioner in obaseki goverment in the first term and still a commissioner in this second term but different ministry. The intention of your subordinate to run for office should not be a reason to victimise him or Disrespect his office
Politics › Re: Obaseki To Shaibu: Dropping Your Guber Ambition, Only Pathway To Reconciliation by cedricksly: 4:39pm On Sep 27, 2023
Ahmed0336:
If I say Edo matter no tire me I like.
If I were Philip Shuaibu, I will drop my governorship ambition and allow those from Edo Central to contest.
His bet shot would have been him contesting for HoR again instead of all this brouhaha
anybody as a son or daughter or edo origin can contest, it is an act of benevolence to agree that governorship shouldn't be zoned to edo central, it is not embedded in parties constitution, so Shuaibu if he feel he has better chance of winning I dint see why he can not contest because the governor has said so.. If I were him, I will resign as a deputy governor honorably and plan for my come back either as a fellow PDP member or going back to the party he betrayed because he felt he was doing the right thing standing by a his principal, who is a son from a notorious family of chronic betrayals..... I might not contest this time, but will contest after 8 years when it is finally the turn of the edo north, after resigning I will use this next 7 years to build bridges and fellowship with powerblocks... But because of greed they won't want to resign honorably. When respect is no long served in the table, stand up from the table and leave
Family › Re: Look At The Snake I Killed In My Living Room Just Now by cedricksly: 9:56am On Sep 27, 2023
Tell your wife to always dust and fold dried laundry outside as she picks it up form the line... Na cloths snake dey follow enter house.. Or drain pipes
Politics › Re: Wike Revokes 22 Allocations, Gives 3-month Grace To 21 Embassies, 168 Others by cedricksly: 10:41pm On Sep 24, 2023
BiafranPatriot:
HE WANTs to revoke lands of foriegn embassies also?

THIS WIkE na "drowning dundee" RIVERs STATE is not ABUJA.


NIGERIANs will SHOW the PUNK real actions soon...

Yoruba supporters of TINUBU, see UNA guy....so worthless
cheesy
this one no well.. Are u aware abuja has a master plan and those people who has acquired lands especially those embassies and refuse developing it are part of the cause of under development in Abuja, so their land title can be revoked, be you anybody, or u didn't see Nigeria custom land was one of the lands? Y'all Should not always make everything about politics, it is about what is right from wrong
Family › Re: Is It Okay For My Two Brothers To Marry Women From The Same Family? by cedricksly: 7:28am On Sep 23, 2023
DaveHarry:
The eldest got married to one of the two sisters almost 5 years ago, now my immediate elder brother who was married before he divorced, wants to go on and marry the younger sister to our elder brother's wife. I've been against the decision since yesterday but my brother is telling me that there's absolutely nothing I can do about his decision.

My other siblings are also insisting that it doesn't matter so I'm the only one on my side. So here's me asking if it's okay for them to get married or I'm overreacting (like a friend said) to the matter?
u never see twin brother marry twin sisters beforehuh Talkless when they aren't twin.. Nothing is wrong except you know something you aren't telling your siblings
Family › Re: After Dna The Child Is Not His. by cedricksly: 7:26am On Sep 23, 2023
Jennyclay:
Nobody is above mistake.

Biko, just forgive and leave everything and move on. Can’t you see how catastrophic the economy ishuh How do you expect a nursing mother to pay you back when she also has a baby to cater forhuh

Learn to forgive!!

May God help us.
mistake you say, I'm not Suprised it is coming from a girl...
Politics › Re: Talk Edo Initiative Unveils Agba, Urges Him To Run For Edo Governor In 2024 by cedricksly: 7:21am On Sep 23, 2023
Nobody unveiled him or told him to run, he choose himself to run, all those are PR, and he would not even win primaries Talkless run on a platform..
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: See Why My Oga Sacked Me This Morning. Did I Do Wrong? by cedricksly: 12:17pm On Sep 18, 2023
Standstrong:
I picked up the gate man job ending of last month out of no other better options at the moment and seeing what economic hardship was making me pass through, especially waking up with no hope of where food is going to come from, make i no go steal, God abeg.

I have been doing the job well. Yesterday, while strolling around the area, I heard one man saying he is looking for someone to cut grasses in his compound. Being something I can do to collect the money to help myself as i was hungry and peniless, I met the man and told him i can do the work and we agreed on N15k.

So as my oga went to work, i rushed down to do the work. While I was on it, i dont know what brought my oga back to the house and he didnt see me at the post.

He called me and asked me where i am. I rushed down to the house. I told him i got a small contract of 15k to cut grass for someone in the neighbourhood.

The man got so angry on why I left his duty post to go do another job. Worse was that the person i did the job for was more like his enemy, as i later learnt they've not been in good terms.

He sacked me instantly. I begged this man as a human being to please forgive but he refused to consider me again. He even said, "go before you go and collect poison from my enemy to come and kill me".

Please what is my business with whatever fight the two of them are fighting?

That was how I lost the small job i just got 3 weeks ago and now back with nothing. He should have paid me for the 3 weeks right away but he didnt, rather he said i will find a way to pay you for the services so far.

Please, the country is already very hard and all I needed was something that could give me immediate money to survive on first.

Sad how struggling citizens are being badly treated everyday even while legitimately hustling for survival. How he will pay me for the 3 weeks, he didn't say it.

It's painful but it is not the end of the world.

I will make it too. Amen.

It shall never be well with hunger, agent of poverty.
he did well by sacking you... As his Gate a, you afw his chief security officer, and you left your only duty post of which you are paid for, it means he is not safe with you being the gate an of his property.. You deserved the sack..... Nobody will tolerate that nonsense Atitude..
Celebrities › Re: Mohbad Buried With Neck & Head Bent Inside A Small Coffin by cedricksly: 8:11pm On Sep 14, 2023
Nice2023:
Big boy indeed!...did u the read the story at all?

They say he died poor that he couldn't even take care of the new born.
lol na lie, big lie... Mohbad died a big boy, forget all the nonsense u heard online. He might not be a billionaire but nigga was comfortable than an average Nigerian..
Crime › Re: Disabled Man Dies As Father, Pastors Attempt To Sell Hunchback ‘mercury’ by cedricksly: 9:37pm On Sep 10, 2023
illicit:
Is there Mercury in the hunchback? Or it's just a hunch?

No pun intended
there is no mercury, just that they say that hunch is good for money ritual, 12years ago some men were arrested who kidnapped a hunchback and killed him and removed his hunched, they confessed to what I just said to you now.
Travel › Re: My Trip To Singapore - Detailed Info About Singapore by cedricksly: 8:55pm On Sep 08, 2023
HRprof:
Singapore is the most beautiful country in the world. The safest and cleanest . I thought Paris is heaven until I visited Singaporewink
lol it isn't the safest. It is Iceland. Iceland doesn't have prisons, the few they have is empty. And police here doesn't even carry gun. Lol. Many Year ago they did a survey and identified what made their prison so full and crime people were committing, then they addressed it, Boom prison are empty till date.. Na boredom dey kill anybody when find himself for prison
Romance › Re: In A Dilemma Right Now, Please Advise by cedricksly: 5:21pm On Sep 08, 2023
Nonywendy:
I have been dating this my girl friend since 2017. She made me fall and believe in love, she ticked all the qualities I desire in a woman. When I we started dating she was in her 200L, and everything was going on smoothly. Now this is where the issue lies,
When she went for service in another state, I started noticing some changes, wen she comes back home during holidays I used to go through her phone.(note: she has access to my phone and I too).
So one of those period I realised she is seeing another guy in the state where she is serving. I confronted her and she opened up to me and confessed. I forgave her.

Then after like 4months again, I later noticed she is also seeing another guy different from the initial one I noticed, she denied that but I had to do my deep investigation and got an evidence, she opened up again, at this point I broke up with her and moved on. After like one month she came back begging for forgiveness, It took me time to heal and I forgave her.

Then this last one that broke the camel's back, I noticed she traveled to the state where she did her youth service for something and all this while I thought she was staying with her sister, not knowing she was staying with the first guy she dated while serving whch she apologised. She stayed with her for three good weeks. How I realized was, I called her line one early morning arnd 3am and a guy picked the call asking me who I am. At first, I froze cos I haven't been in that kind of situation, I calmed down and explained everything to the guy, and the guy also told me she has been with her for the past three weeks and that's the girl friend too. I was shocked. I have broken up with her finally cos I don't think forgiving a cheating partner is worth it.
The first time she cheated, 90% of my friends advised me to dump her ass and move on but I had to forgive on the basis of nobody is perfect, but this third time is a no no.
Now she has been begging and asking for forgiveness that she has really learnt her lessons. At this point I'm just so mad that I don't want to forgive her.
Now the big problem is that I'm always seeing her in my dream, I have not really moved on cos it's not easy for me. I have loved her for solid 6 yrs plus.
Note: all the family members from my side and her side are fully aware of our relationship and have approved but they are not aware that I have broken up. If you are my shoes will you forgive her for this very last time or will her cheating continues?
Your advise and suggestions will be well appreciated. Thank you
you don't forgive a cheating partner, You Either Learn Or you Perish..
Career › Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by cedricksly: 11:09am On Sep 08, 2023
Imagine what going to prison for even 3 years without seeing your boys or wife would be? It is not impossible to catch you, all that is needed is external auditor.. Better stop that nonsense now before you cause your own downfall yourself.
Politics › Re: He Was Not Like That Before, Could It Be Because He Won Counselorship Election? by cedricksly: 10:45am On Sep 06, 2023
Askmewhy:
I knew this boy 20 years ago when he was an undergraduate student in university. I was already working that time. He comes to our compound to play and he respected me becuase he knows that l was far older than him.

I was at their area yesterday and I sighted him along with others and I quickly alighted from my car to hail all of them as i used to, because those guys were very good and nice neighbours.

I greeted and shook of them with excitement and they were so happy and greeted me except this new counselor. I was shocked to see the cold way this boy reacted.

He almost ignored me as I stretched my hand to shake him.

Is it because he's a counselor now or what?

Is it not too early for him to start behaving this way?
think wetin u do am or wetin him beg you when you refuse am, coz if pride was the case here he won't be sitting among other area guys like you describe.. BTW councillors nor get level,
Foreign Affairs › Re: BRICS Is A Joke. They Will Never Surpass The West. by cedricksly: 6:41am On Sep 04, 2023
This is where most of you get it all wrong, nobody wants to suppass the west, they just want good and easy trade deal among themselves, they want the west sanction not to directly affect their economy when they try to sanction them just like they did to Russia. Petrol dollar is the only reason why they can sanction other country
Politics › Re: Obaseki/shaibu Rift: Deputy Gov To Get New Office Outside Govt House Next Week by cedricksly: 9:47pm On Sep 03, 2023
meum:
They are some laws that should be adhered to in that book. “Never outshine your master” some masters don’t take that lightly
just leave edo politics, it is a politics of if you are doing it you are wrong but if I'm doing it I'm right.. Shaibu did not outshine Obaseki. The problem is same with what oshomole had with his then deputy, we came together and we will leave together and his deputy odubu said he was interested in being Governor, that is the exact same thing happening. Those public display of shame between them is just to put the matter in a presentable manner that can sell to the media, the real issue is what I just told you.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Will You Hire Him? by cedricksly: 9:42pm On Sep 03, 2023
Amotolongbo:
Hiring him only gives him more access to hack your system to do worse.
One who could delve into my privacy to invite himself into my organisation is surely coming in to finalise the task he started.

I won’t hire him. I would make sure I tighten up the security measures of my organisation
hackers makes the best cybersecurity experts. Do with that information how you please
Politics › Re: PDP Wins All 18 LGAs In Edo Local Government Election by cedricksly: 5:56pm On Sep 03, 2023
Nanorest:
FULL RESULTS

Ovia South West
APC: 5361
LP: 3216
PDP: 10,721

Uhunmwode Local Government
APC: 2317
LP: 1436
PDP: 15,615

Owan West Local Government
APC: 3825
LP: 2365
PDP: 13, 171

Akoko Edo Local Government
APC: 5369
LP: 2083
PDP: 21,417

Etsako East Local Government
APC: 4076
LP: 1711
PDP: 16, 428

Etsako Central Local Government
APC: 7, 896
LP: 4, 606
PDP: 30, 594

Etsako West Local Government
APC: 29, 445
LP: 23, 832
PDP: 98, 046

Ikpoba-Okha Local Government
APC: 3, 085
LP: 3, 857
PDP: 27, 768

Ovia North East Local Government
APC: 636
LP: 617
PDP: 4, 869

Igueben Local Government
APC: 636
LP: 617
PDP: 4869

Esan Central Local Government
APC: 557
LP: 660
PDP: 5262

Orhionmwon Local Government
APC: 23, 885
LP: 14, 331
PDP: 47771

Esan West Local Government
APC: 1616
LP: 1737
PDP: 14, 904

Esan South East Local Government
APC: 1344
LP: 791
PDP: 16072

Esan North East Local Government
APC: 5550
LP: 3298
PDP: 20, 702

Owan East Local Government
APC: 5550
LP: 3298
PDP: 20702

Egor Local Government
APC: 12203
LP: 7695
PDP: 35380

OREDO
APC: 8, 308
LP: 10, 188
PDP 70, 293
this was not an election this was a sham. No bvas no nothing, normal style of register for accreditation was used and numerous votes were cast by just a single person..

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