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Imagine what going to prison for even 3 years without seeing your boys or wife would be? It is not impossible to catch you, all that is needed is external auditor.. Better stop that nonsense now before you cause your own downfall yourself.

Askmewhy:
I knew this boy 20 years ago when he was an undergraduate student in university. I was already working that time. He comes to our compound to play and he respected me becuase he knows that l was far older than him.

I was at their area yesterday and I sighted him along with others and I quickly alighted from my car to hail all of them as i used to, because those guys were very good and nice neighbours.

I greeted and shook of them with excitement and they were so happy and greeted me except this new counselor. I was shocked to see the cold way this boy reacted.

He almost ignored me as I stretched my hand to shake him.

Is it because he's a counselor now or what?

Is it not too early for him to start behaving this way?

think wetin u do am or wetin him beg you when you refuse am, coz if pride was the case here he won't be sitting among other area guys like you describe.. BTW councillors nor get level,

This is where most of you get it all wrong, nobody wants to suppass the west, they just want good and easy trade deal among themselves, they want the west sanction not to directly affect their economy when they try to sanction them just like they did to Russia. Petrol dollar is the only reason why they can sanction other country

meum:
They are some laws that should be adhered to in that book. “Never outshine your master” some masters don’t take that lightly

just leave edo politics, it is a politics of if you are doing it you are wrong but if I'm doing it I'm right.. Shaibu did not outshine Obaseki. The problem is same with what oshomole had with his then deputy, we came together and we will leave together and his deputy odubu said he was interested in being Governor, that is the exact same thing happening. Those public display of shame between them is just to put the matter in a presentable manner that can sell to the media, the real issue is what I just told you.

Amotolongbo:
Hiring him only gives him more access to hack your system to do worse.
One who could delve into my privacy to invite himself into my organisation is surely coming in to finalise the task he started.

I won’t hire him. I would make sure I tighten up the security measures of my organisation

hackers makes the best cybersecurity experts. Do with that information how you please

Nanorest:
FULL RESULTS

Ovia South West
APC: 5361
LP: 3216
PDP: 10,721

Uhunmwode Local Government
APC: 2317
LP: 1436
PDP: 15,615

Owan West Local Government
APC: 3825
LP: 2365
PDP: 13, 171

Akoko Edo Local Government
APC: 5369
LP: 2083
PDP: 21,417

Etsako East Local Government
APC: 4076
LP: 1711
PDP: 16, 428

Etsako Central Local Government
APC: 7, 896
LP: 4, 606
PDP: 30, 594

Etsako West Local Government
APC: 29, 445
LP: 23, 832
PDP: 98, 046

Ikpoba-Okha Local Government
APC: 3, 085
LP: 3, 857
PDP: 27, 768

Ovia North East Local Government
APC: 636
LP: 617
PDP: 4, 869

Igueben Local Government
APC: 636
LP: 617
PDP: 4869

Esan Central Local Government
APC: 557
LP: 660
PDP: 5262

Orhionmwon Local Government
APC: 23, 885
LP: 14, 331
PDP: 47771

Esan West Local Government
APC: 1616
LP: 1737
PDP: 14, 904

Esan South East Local Government
APC: 1344
LP: 791
PDP: 16072

Esan North East Local Government
APC: 5550
LP: 3298
PDP: 20, 702

Owan East Local Government
APC: 5550
LP: 3298
PDP: 20702

Egor Local Government
APC: 12203
LP: 7695
PDP: 35380

OREDO
APC: 8, 308
LP: 10, 188
PDP 70, 293

this was not an election this was a sham. No bvas no nothing, normal style of register for accreditation was used and numerous votes were cast by just a single person..

meum:
He should have digested the book “48 Laws of Power”. This would have saved his a$ $

we have stupid people who have digested 48laws of power and other books

TemplarLandry:
We got to stop being wasteful, these bikes should have been sold to Nigerian automobile companies like Nord and Innoson for recycling.

you don't recycle without destroying first.. Destroy them and separate tge plastic from the metal that's how is it fine bro

piswapexchange:
The only real and respected natural ruler in the South South.

king of kings.

there are only two kings in the country.. Oba Of Benin and Others.

kekakuz:
Who is a love peddler

Ashawo na be local name of love peddler

cheque:
In meet this new chick, we are getting along closely, but she dislikes underwear, she wear jean without a pant On, shirts / blouse without a bra On, please advise me on how to remedy this condition.
Shirts without bra
Trousers without pant, although she wears tite in her skirts

brooooo, no person who isn't on her period should wear jeans with a pant, especially those fitted Jeans, Infact it is even better to wear a tight as they all it, under a skirt or gown.....

Curse777:



I wonder what he is planning to contest for

Edo State is PDP vs Labour Party show down

2024.. in Edo would be intresting..

Oshiomole is also cooking


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the last statement is baseless, oshiomole would not do shit, else he would fail woefully again... He better remove himself from the equation this time around because he was the cause of their failure the last time, if this failure is linked to him the second time that might be the last nail in his political coffin... Go and write this down. He is a wise man and knows better than impose another candidate

Everything in fancy packets must go, as well as the wine filled wiuth sugar....

Any pepper soup you like you eat, just know cat fish is a very unclean animal.... Avoid it if you can. Crocker fish and the rest are better

RockHard:
Make dem no try am. E get why I talk so. If Simon is extradited, his supporters will also start committing terrorist acts in SE to blackmail the FG and then his people will start begging that he also be released like they're asking for Kanu. And the cycle will continue. This is a family matter that Ndigbo knows how to resolve if they really want to. My two cents.

what they are doing right now of disrupting businesses, killing people and forming a parallel goverment within a government, what do you all that if not Terrorism?

Cassandraloius:
Hollandia yogurt is a very healthy drink, but on other hand, too much of everything is bad.

The common side effects of are diarrhoea , flatulence, abdominal cramps, bloating, etc

Hollandia is no healthy drink, let's not deceive ourselves. No non alcoholic drink that can stay up for months without getting bad or has that much sugar is a healthy drink...

Mhistasaints:
I've been married for four years now, and it seems my wife has become a stranger.

We've been having issues from the first year, mostly on different styles of life.
I am a guy who loves managing resources and very focused on achievements because I was born with a silver spoon but lost it due to the death of my father, I never wanted to experience the same thing as I did when he died.
She on the other hand is comfortable and okay with what she has, not too bothered about achievements.

I've been calling for management of resources for a while but she's the type that grew up in a very comfortable home and knows not how to manage resources.

Another issue on my part is that, she does not really care about how she looks and that's one of the things I care about.

I lost, or should I say resigned from my first job due to pressure and things became hard. I had to sell some of my landed properties so we could survive.

I got another Job and in six months, I made millions. We lived well until I wanted to chase my passion in banking again.

Got back into banking and to cut the story short, I met one lady where I was sent to. I loved her. I wish I had met her first honestly. In a year, she showed me a lot in the kind of woman I wanted. Then I lost my job again, this time because I wanted to go for youth service.

I got back home and I told my wife the game plan. I bought foodstuffs for at least two months and went for camp. In less than a week, my mother called me and was angry why I left my wife and two kids hungry. I exeated camp immediately and came back home. After investigating, I found out she sent the food to her mother who is an associate professor, without telling me and while she knows out conditions.

I got so angry. I wanted her out.
I considered things because my second child which she had by force is just 5months. She had the baby because she stopped taking contraceptives because of advice from people that if she has a male child for me, I'll stay.
After much, she can't leave, because who will take care of the boy?

Yesterday, she read my messages and discovered I was having an affair and wants to leave. I told the lady off this morning but, I still loved her.

I can't allow that. Even if she does, she has to wait for the boy to be at least a year old. Remember she was the one that wanted this baby, not me. Now she wants to leave the liability for me?
And I can't allow my kids to grow with her because I don't want them to learn such lifestyle.

What should I do?

you are a confused man... Which man tests the management of resources skill of a woman after marriage?? I guess you weren't blind to these things when you both were dating, now that you are married it is now you want excellent resource management skill... You are just bringing all these up right now because you already have an affair with who u feel or have an illusion that u love... I'M A MAN AND I CAN TELL YOU FOR FREE THAT YOU ARE THE PROBLEM IN YOUR HOME.

Humblelion1987:
Good morning nairaland family, please I have a serious issue which I need your advice.
I met my fiancee 1st March 2022 and everything clicked, within few weeks, we are like people who have been together for years because we share many things in common, we are birthday mates, we like the same food, we are practically like twins. I work as a Key account manager in charge of my region in one of the leading multinational company here in Nigeria, why she works as an RN(registered nurse) in one of the top private hospital in the state I base too. I will be 33yrs by September while she will be 25years the same date and month. We are supposed to get married by May this year because am ready and she is ready too, but the parents have been frustrating me, one that am not from there state, we passed through that phase and fixed our traditional wedding next month, the mum and her people now came up with another issue that she must travel abroad before getting married, even when I have tried convincing them that I can't prevent there daughter from traveling even after marriage because I have been nursing same ambition too.

When I met my fiancee, she has been doing bad in her ihealth exams not until I came into her life. I have purchased the form three times in a space of 6 months plus her form for CBT and I do practically everything for my woman. Since we met, she doesn't touch her salary, she doesn't stress herself much about house duties, both washing, cooking and other things because as a bachelor, those are the things I enjoyed doing. I love her so much and she love me too, but am totally confused on what to do as the parents have said point blank that she can only get married when she travels to UK.

She had a serious fight with the parents last night and the mum even called me and told me that if I can't abide by there rules, I should forget about there daughter. Am the only son and my parents are not aware of the situation.

I don't know there problem because as a young man, I leave in a comfortable bungalow, drives good car outside my official car and equally employed one of her siblings on a temporary project am running for my office, which they both earn 60k monthly.

Please I need advise on how to go about this as I have two options in my mind. Should I move on and forget all the money I have spent so far or should I stand by my fiancee who loves me so much and finish the fight?

forget all that she fought with her parents yesterday, you weren't there. I have only one thing to say to you, IF YOU WILL MARRY HER OR NOT, IT IS IN THE HANDS OF THE LADY, WHEN SHE IS NOT COMFORTABLE WITH THE DEMANDS OF THE PARENTS OR SHE IS NOT I SUPPORT, SHE KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT TO DO.

Battlefield2:
The charges sef weak abeg

it was deliberate, coz they know the Terrorism Financing won't fly without evidence, so they had to find a bailable suit that can let him off the hook easily, else if he was released to go like that, it will simply means the DSS was witch hunting.

helinues:
Yes, Peter Obi can be arrested and nothing, I repeat nothing will happen afterwards. He can't continue to be making reckless statements threatening the unity of the country just because he loss as election.

If he can't advise his supporters to stop wishing evil for the country, he can be tamed in order to silence his supporters.

oya na, make una go arrest am, at least you start with a petition to the dss stating why he is a national threat so that he can be arrested, u go just open mouth wa dey vomit trash. OYA GO AND ARREST HIM, MAYBE YOU THINK SAY OBI NA SOWORE, THE NIGERIA UNA DEY FRAUDULENTLY DEY RULE NEVER REACH UNA, E BE LIKE UNA WAN RULE NIGERIA WITH LAW AND ORDER SUSPENDED. GO AND TRY IT, you can only oppress people for so long, until everyone is willing to die and take to the street.

orohbiro:
DID YOU KNOW❓

Quinn, has become the first out transgender player to play at a FIFA World Cup. He featured for Canada against Nigeria 🇳🇬.

Last we checked there are only two genders male and female!

#FIFAWWC

I love the fact that you still identified the trans as a He

Skyview01:
I have seen situations where the wife is very wealthy and there are kids in the family. My question is, can you as a man, leave your job to become a full time house-husband, taking care of the kids and the home while your wife works at her very lucrative job?

lol I take care of my boy like drop him off to school and bring him back home, helping with his assignment, taking him out etc, because I'm at home 24/7 except I'm going out for a meeting or emergency. MY wife On the other hand always going to her business place from 9am till 4pm, she does everthing a woman should eg cooking, laundry and making the house a livable home, I also assist when I observe the work is getting too much for her.. But I make more money a day sitting at home 24/7 compared to what she makes in a year, And I carry 100% financial responsibility of the family, which is so satisfying to do. This right here is the luxury FOREX TRADING BRINGS!!!!!! Maybe if I was an extrovert I would have been leaving the house always but the opposite is the case... I can't ask her to stop her business even tho I have the capacity but then I opened it for her coz she on the other hand isn't an inside loving person.. YOU SEE IN MARRIAGE EHEN, YOU MUST FIND COMMON GROUND, IF YOU CAN A HELP YOUR WIFE, PLEASE DO, BUT IT IS IMPORTANT EVERYBODY KNOWS THEIR ROLE VERY WELL SPELT OUT, EVEN IF WE HELP EACH OTHER IN EACH OTHERS ROLE SOME TIMES.... there are days I do laundry, cook, clean and do all that stuff, but then the appreciation is endless from my wife coz she know that wasn't mine role but I did anyway. It is all about UNDERSTANDING and knowing marriage is a PARTNERSHIP

E no suppose better for tinubu supporters... Thor Hammer no suppose miss them

GanagiBitrus:
I know.
Coming from his mouth, it's now official.
Just like Etiko, everybody most people knew she was not a Virgin, but the rumour forced her to officially reveal her status.

that one u mention her name na mumu Virgin my foot.

When them never pay the last winner her money..

GanagiBitrus:
Sometimes if you want to extract the truth, deliberately come up with a false & damning accusation.
That was how Destiny Etiko was accused of being a Virgin, & she quickly came out to reveal her sexual status.

this is different.. Nobody can keep his wife and children not one child but 4children hidden forever.. It is like lighting a candle and putting it under your bed and hope no one sees the light

yarimo:
thank you, alot of people here in nairaland never read history of who is PUTIN . but quick in typing it's over for Putin

lol that man Putin has paid his due over the year, he didn't just wake up one day & seize power, he has risen from almost nothing as a regular Russia armed force who became a colonel, joined FSB, then KSB until he became the KSB boss, served, to secretary of security council etc, that man has a very beautiful CV to behold, he knows almost at least a dozen persons from any of Russia power establishment from any and very walks of life in the Russia system. A civil war can not unseat that man, best Believe.

vibrant40:
Okay. I met this girl in an exam hall, we were both writing exams, so we did the student things, she asked me a maths question which she was kind of afraid of and me being a maths person answered her question and moved on with with my exams. After the exams she search for me to say her gratitude and we moved on. I think after the results was released and she got an A in the exams was when she had to find me and got me on Facebook. She chatted me and introduced herself, so we began chatting from there and that was how I got to know she is my kind of woman.

I asked her out, we started dating or lemme say I started dating her because at a pint she told me we were only friends during the time, be she do come to my side, we do touch and kiss but no s*x. Down the lane I got to know she had a guy whom she was dating but she could not marry because she has so many revelations and dreams that he is not the one and according to her, the guy had so many red flags. At a point I put it to her she should choose what she wanted on time, the guy or myself.


According to her she choose me. Along the line, she told me about another guy disturbing her for romantic relationship, because no matter what she will tell me anything even if she knows I am gonna hurt by that, although I do take it that she is trying to literally tell me to do quick and pop the question if I really want to marry her. All of a sudden I observe she was receiving a Seyi call till like 12midnight, and I would want to call her only for her to be busy on another call for a lengthy period.


She will not stop talking about this guy whenever we are together, how good the guy is to her, she even was like we have the same character but only that the guy is taller than I am and she had also never shy away from talking about the physically height of her dream children.


I saw all these as competition and keep letting her know how much I love and want to marry her. One afternoon, she just rang me and said just a sentence, 'I will marry you'. Well that gave me the assurance I needed, I met her mother (dad is late) and I must confess she has a very good mother, the mom checks on me everyday (infact she did while I was typing this epistle). I popped the questions and she said yes. We had our introduction and currently planing on getting married.


The problem now is, she would still not stop talking about this Seyi guy. She even called me one to tell me she went to his house, that the guy called home to come, I confronted her so many times to tell her how I felt about it, she kept saying sorry and keep repeating the same thing of no cutting loose from the guy, she even claimed that at least she is not having s*x with now that they are just talking..


Some days ago we had a serious argument about this matter and she was like maybe we should even end the relationship if I don't trust her (and this has always been her anthem whenever we have serious arguments, she would say maybe we are not compatible). She later apologized and promised not to let that happen again that she would cut loose of the guy, only for us to be talking via whatsapp last night around 11:40 for to receive this guys call and they spoke for like 10mins. I ended my call, she called back later and was like it was just an innocent talk they had....


Seriously, I am tired and confused, what should I do? Please help me with your candid advice. So sorry for the long epistle and some bad grammar.

you are a simp and you are getting married to a person that will give you another man's children to train giving you the illusion they are urs.. Take it from me SHE IS F*CKING THE SEYI GUY... if you marry her make sure you always have DNA Money ready whenever she tells you she had delivered you child..

Natural2Heal:
The service chiefs are more bigger than NSA.

stop saying what u don't know abeg & stop misleading people with so much confidence.

cole19:
kingkong

una dey let film dey device una... Grizzly bear will be the sole survivor.. Even a lion would not want to face it, except caught from behind which is unlikly

Donsheddy:
I will try my best boss 🙏

I have observed you take your trade off the 1hour Timeframe

morikee:
Automatically

oooh thanks bro... I assume nipost takes the longest time, please how long can it take for nipost delivery, worse case scenario