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Darling, do not leave that house.stay put.a friend will be worse.tomorrow morning go and search for a job no matter how low.get something doing .forget all the dstv.move it.don't move in with any friend.they will be worse.you ain't seen nothing yet.just hold on.be respectful and sweet.plant a smile on your face.do not compare yourself to his gf.make friends with her.chanel your demands through her or live without them.your siblings may be going through financial stress but you may not know.be positive, be happy, be productive my darling life is beautiful

It's funny how one person is saying two different things at the same time.the writer has one wife yet he justifies and makes excuses as to why polygamy is more natural than monogamy.if polygamy is so fantastic, why hasn't he indulged? the fact that people do one bad thing repeatedly doesn't make it right.

Reception is not necessary! please go ahead and contract the marriage.I salute your decision not to abort your children
However i think you should do the traditional marriage.not the accompanying party but the necessary items plus bride price.it's a way to honour your parents and your roots.let your folks give you out to him.i wish you the best

i think i agree.come to think of it, if you say nothing after finding out that your partner is cheating on you; two things are involved.1: it's either you are cheating or2: you once cheated and lack the moral justification to raise the necessary dust.

never asked him.asked mum and she told me every...

Royver:
I agree with Chidoks in this. I always make sure everyone else has gone to bed then I make my rounds, gas off, cooked food goes in the freezer, dustbin emptied, doors properly locked, all the electrical gadgets switched off before I go to bed. Usually Ma'm wakes up before me though to make breakfast and get the kids ready for school and then we drop them off.

Good husband detected!!

Goodcare:
I do let client understand that no one can care for there loved one like they do except trained carer.

like seriously??

wrong section!! !

i agree with the first part. with the second part, i beg to disagree.from what i see a good husband even when exhausted from the day's work may doze off but must wake later to make sure the gadjets are turned of and check all doors to ensure they are locked.he peeps from room to room, turns of lights, ensures the gas cylinder is turned off before finally retiring.
As for waking up, the woman even wake as early as 4am while his majesty is still in a wonder land to start the day

wait o.a doctor indulged in home birth, fled in the face of complications and death, the police knows where he works,yet have not arrested him. oh so the police is ready to deny justice because the family is not forth coming? isin't that a crime? aren't they supposed to arrest and prosecute him to deter him from continuing such unprofessional act.kai! police will never change.that's why the doctor has the guts to mention lawyer. no be only lawyer..the family sef!!

that's a huge one.she should tell her husband all that hapened.she cannot pretend that nothing happened.she made a grave mistake.how will you even start to tell this story...
on the othet hand, if you refuse to tell, don't you think the child's father may come to claim his offspring later in life or did you pick a random guy to sleep with.even if he didn't know you , he may start digging up information about you, put 2 and 2 together to know the child is his.what if the child looks like the father?? there are so many wahala attached to this act of yours.do yourself a favour, , let him know.and get ready to face whatever that comes up.some actions are irredeemable!

oh dear, it's a pity you found yourself in such an unpleasant situation.i suspect you considered cheating out of frustration but do you think that is the best. infidelity has never solved any problem,rather it's capable of wrecking the home.
think about it if you do it to be caught, you wouldn't like the outcome.the whole world will blame you .adultary is very bad.it's not acceptable! it's home breaker.
have you tried dialogue.loh yes pour yourmind out to him.let him know how you feel, how badly he's hurting you..remind him of those days..if there is anyother thing that may put him off , address them.pray too.continous prayers.may God see you through( amen)

OP!! someone told you this fake story and instead of discussing with your wife you ran to your sister.ok what if she's not possessed? that means you are the one spreading fake news about your own wife.what if she is sef?? you will abandon her right haba.the first you should have done was to have discussed it with her.
op but wait o, don't you know that most of them are fake.you should have rejected all he said.if not openly, you should have been saying " back to sender" silently na..don't allow any of them scatter your home o.there may not be anything wrong with your wife.

honey is also good.i always use it for my baby. someone once recomended onion juice, i tried it but discarded it cos i didn't see any significant improvement.honey on the other hand works like magic

good one.men ah think una don hear? don't be a criminal, focus on your own...

it's wrong in my opinion.no child should be subjected to the mighty task of providing for the family.i'm even against sending them out to hawk in order to contrbute to the home.parents should team up and make ends meet in their home not imposong their responsibilities on growing children.prostitutuon is way out of it!

why did you even accomodate her the first day.she thinks it's okay by you, and that you stopped cos mamma said so.
i'm sure she would have understood if it was your decision.
but you sef, you get mind o.infact both of you.una get mind! una never marry o.your mumsie is too permissive sef.
talk to your babe.ask her how she would feel if she's at the other side of the table.
on the other hand if you want to spend countless nights with her, marry her asap

what a read!! i checked over and over again just to make sure my eyes saw well.yes you are a female.i disagree with most of your opinion.you seem to think we are totally badd but when you search well you are bound to realize how wrong you are.
You generalized and that is wrong.granted some women may be real bad , so also some men.in life you come across the good, the good, the bad, the beautiful and the ugly from both gender.
The question is has someone hurt you? a she you trusted, stuffs like that happen.that is why one has to be vigilant in friendships.i've seen people that don't keep back anything for thenselves as secrets while in friendship.they expose their family life and personal issues to friends. that's not friendship, that's carelessness and irresponsibility.
The self evaluation aspect applies to both gender.the moment you don't look inwards and judge your action, you are bound to hurt people and appear ungodly.

you don't understand.they choose to seek for attention when you want to peep into nairaland...

hmnnn no be small thing o.the power of red!! *runsofftothemarket

IamforGod:
I love my privacy!!!

When I get married i'll av my room even with a big closet and a big bathroom and toilet yes!!! That's what I want by God's grace!

where do you hope to spend your nights? his or yours?

Woman, your husband is not talking.emulate him and keep shut.every marriage has it's challenges.if your way out is divorce, go ahead and enjoy it but please stop being lousy about it.keep it to yourself.

mutter:
The man had a right to divorce her. The purpose of marriage is procreation.
It was really evil to tie a man up so long and waste his money. .

the purpose of marriage is procreation??

happy happy birthday.may God bless, preserve,prosper you.may he take you to the next and higher level.( amen)

Op if your story is true tell us which state and tribe. i know some cultures were originally repugnant but most of them have long been stopped. this is extremely absurd therefore i find it difficult to believe.

First of all, where are the stairs?

i remember this gadjet o though i can't remember how old i was.my elder brother no even allow any other person touch the thing sef!

nedu2000:
his intention wasn't to kill anyone,if this was 2003 all over again,i would've told him something different,its 12 yrs!!!old wounds shouldn't be reopened.His confession will be of no help to anyone

His intention was not to kill anyone right?? why did he turn deaf ears when his friends asked him not to embark on that journey.do you know the pain, anguish his actions caused the innocent family that did nothing wrong to him? can't you think of the pain that the mother of that child must have gone through beholding her future hope in such a lifeless state, crushed to death beyoun recognitiona.a 300 level undergraduate is not a kid..if he must not tell the police nor the family, he should at least try and trace the family and make an inpact in their life before nemesis catches up with him.driving while drunk is one of the most irresponsible act, and this guy was forewarned...

this question is not as simple as it seems.

I almost ignored this topic( afterall it's for men only) but on a second thought i decided to peep.i'm glad i did.the answers are simply insightful and it has made start evaluating myself.questions popping in my head
** why did he really marry me?
** Is that reason sustained??
hmnnn e be like say Oga go answer questions tonigt.( how will even raise the topic? no i will just let sleeping dogs lie joor)
But guys, are those reasons sustained? are there changes ?be it + or - .

it's unfortunate that the person that committed this crime may not read our opinion but he should trace the place where the accident took place.he should ask of the families of the affected persons( people seldom forget such occouraces)that is where your atonement should start from.
You may not tell them what you did but you should find a way of making inpact in that family so that they will bless you with the same mouth with which they cursed you or do you think they didn't curse you? oh yes they heaped a trailer load on your future!
pay for someone's education, adopt some one, do somethong to redeem your self.asking God for forgiveness is a start but it's not enough..cocacandy suggested charity ; that's good but let them benefit mostly if you can trace them.( you lived in that town for like4 yrars)

nedu2000:
don't destroy your life by confessing to the police or someone else,you just need to beg God for forgiveness afterall it wasn't pre-meditated murder....the best you can do now is to live a life of responsibility and goodness. The Lord will bless you.
You are only bothered because you have a good heart

It wasn't premeditated?? he was drunk, he knew it, he knew the consequencies of drinking and driving, that was obviously not the first time he drove in that state.he was literate so he must have heard or read of road saftey YET he indulged and terminated a life that had not really started.if terminating a life is such a good thing why didn't he wait to face the approaching persons why did he flee.he didn't want to take responsibility for his actions right?
I know people make mistake YET i know that there is a big difference between irresponsibility and honest mistake..if he was in the secondary school , you may make excuses for him but an under graduate in 300 level.no sire, that's an adult!
did you think of the parents of that little child, do you know the pains in burying your child instead of the child burying you or don't you know that burying a child is synonymous with burying your future?c'mmon how could you say such?? if he drove on a good day and hit a person i may understand but driving while drunk?? even when his friends warned him ?? please please.what happened to conscience??