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Venture out, take risks. Your ideas will either work or at the very least leave you with a satisfied conscience knowing you did all you could. No one is ever too young to start. If you keep waiting for approval, you may wake up one morning at 50 and find the years have flown from you, taking with them your dreams. Do not disrespect your parents however. Be firm, be bold, but be polite. I wish you the best.

The solution is simple. Break up with the lady in question. She neither loves you nor sees a future with you. When you mentioned plans to initiate marriage proceedings to her and she stalled, you should have read the writing on the wall. You were simply a buffer to be used until someone 'better' happens along. I suspect the change in attitude which you noticed sometime ago happened about the same time she lost interest in you.

Move on, with no hard feelings. I know it'll be hard because you sound like you really love this lady, but everyone deserves to be respected and loved in return. You'll find a girl who treasures you in future, and you may actually end up thanking God you broke up with this particular girl.

I don't like it when people toy with other people's emotions and string them along for selfish reasons. Your so-called girlfriend is heartless and I pity the man who will end up marrying her.

That is not a 2002 Camry.

Egbola944:
I met her few months ago, we started as friends and I later fell in love with her so deeply that I can't go a day without seeing or talking to her. She is everything I want in a woman, but the hand. My mum has seen her with me and she does not like the idea of me dating or marrying her. He reason is that she would be a liability to me. I thought about it too. But I still love her so much and I wish I have the money to take care of her,as she
may need assistance most of the time because of her disability. Please I need advice

If you really love her, then this shouldn't be much of a problem. Both of you can save towards buying her a very good prosthetic limb.

nyerovwo04:
Nigeria is cursed

Really? What are Italy, the US and the UK? Super cursed? Our leaders are inept, but we are by no means cursed. On the contrary, we are blessed to have withstood the pandemic this well regardless of our lack of preparation.

MJBOLT:

what's the difference between kill and slaughter?just asking

You took the words right out of my keyboard.

Francisduckman:
please read. I beg you guys to read, go to YouTube and find the deaths of the victims.

why dont they post how these victims die?
man it's terribly disgusting because they melt away gradually. This is not coronavirus.

this is something else!!!!

Is there actual evidence to prove COVID victims in Wuhan died the gory way portrayed by the article? I got this article on WhatsApp and read it. Frankly, it sounds too fantastic. The events described sound like something straight out of a Crichton or Stephen King novel. In fact, it gave me ideas for a book.

Again, the writer starts by saying he will not give out personal information to avoid detection and then goes ahead to describe events that will definitely lead back to him.

Many conspiracy theories, prophecies and conjectures have trailed the Corona virus pandemic. Most don't have an iota of truth in them.

iLegendd:
My camera was 15% when I took that picture, so there was no flash to get the real color of the meal.

Below are two pictures. One has flash when I was snapping while one has no flash. The one with flash looks better and it's the real picture.

So, I couldn't get the real picture, of the egg, at the time because I didn't charge my phone. With 15%, my flash doesn't work.

Ok. Enjoy your dinner.

iLegendd:
THIS Is What I Ate This Afternoon Because of No Money Caused By Covid-19

Poverty makes me eat nonsense. Fried egg, bread, and coconut.

God, abeg butter my bread.

The fruits, nuts and milk you posted the last time looked nice and actually gave me some ideas for breakfast for my family, but this one? Not very appealing.

iLegendd:
You're right, but I prefer giving my fans lots of fun and my haters lots of options to argue and cry blood.

I see your point. Life is an interesting mix of all sorts of people. Like we say here, carry go.

iLegendd:
I wish I have money to buy Sango's kinds of food. Poverty won't allow me. I pray God will give me money to eat like them. I heard Sango can eat one full goat.

I know you mean to be funny and to trend. Everyone here seems to be looking for an angle that will make them stand out and be noticed, but be careful what you say. It might turn around on you. Less is more.

Vocalist Kenny Rogers, who dominated the pop and country charts in the 1970s and 1980s with a string of sleekly tailored hits and won three Grammys, has died. He was 81. Rogers “passed away peacefully at home from natural causes under the care of hospice and surrounded by his family,” a representative for the singer said in a statement. Due to the national COVID-19 emergency, the family is planning a small private service at this time with a public memorial planned for a later date.

Rogers had announced a farewell tour in 2015 and was able to keep it going through December 2017. In April 2018, shortly before he was to spend a few months finishing out the tour after a break, he announced that he was having to call off the remaining dates (including a planned appearance at the Stagecoach Festival in California), due to unspecified “health challenges.” “I didn’t want to take forever to retire,” Rogers said his April 2018 statement. “I’ve thoroughly enjoyed this opportunity to say farewell to the fans over the course of the past two years on ‘The Gambler’s Last Deal’ tour. I could never properly thank them for the encouragement and support they’ve given me throughout my career and the happiness I’ve experienced as a result of that.”

RichBoy247:
So, I should start research on Idemili Snakes. Don't let Buhari see this, this is why he said Nigerian youths are lazy.

The major problem of the Nigerian youth isn't laziness. It is ignorance. I'm going to ask you with utmost respect not to mention me further. Thanks for understanding and a lovely evening to you

GreatResearcher:
Where exactly?

I am from

RichBoy247:
Snake worshippers, I sight you. I did my NYSC in Oba, Idemili. But, I know that Christ never worshipped Snakes. It then baffles me that Idemili Snake Worshippers also claim that they are Christians.

Idemili indigenes do not worship snakes, and even if they do, the mere fact that I am from that region does not mean I believe in practices prevalent there. A little research will do you some good.

Iamrespected1:
Sorry about the picture quality, I did not want to get close to it so that I will not hear story that hurts

Pythons are not venomous so you were in no danger. I'm also from Idemili.

I am not familiar with The Big Yellow House. The rest of them are classics, especially Koku Baboni.

gurunlocker:
We already read that in a novel

You read my mind. Mr. Pastor is just echoing Dean Koontz's words.

AccessME:
This is the Best talk from the lower Chamber this year

Let's hope corruption does not ruin the effort. Multichoice may offer key government officials a tidy sum to make them look the other way, and we all know how the plot will unfold from thereon.

Great. Covid 19 seems to have an affinity for the upper class including politicians and celebrities, so let them go right ahead and throw our borders wide open. When the s.hit hits the fan, they'll be first to go.

Stay strong and hope for the best. Every storm cloud has a silver lining. May God lead you to find yours.

Congratulations. The sty looks clean too.

I strongly disagree with the person that opined that jealousy portrays love. It is simply not true. Jealousy is dangerous and jealous people are as impulsive as they are deadly. They are the sort of people who make headlines when they snap and go berserk, most times committing murder.

Please do not marry that girl. If you do, you will be in emotional bondage for the entire duration of the marriage. She will wear you down physically and mentally and reduce your productivity and general quality of life. She needs to work on her insecurities before committing to a relationship of any kind. Don't allow yourself be stifled unnecessarily and don't become a statistic.

Ikinternational:
Bros, I'm honestly starting to suspect some of these people are sponsored here just to cause problems between yorubas n igbos

When I'm in Lagos, I definitely don't feel this energy I see on nairaland

OR is it that people are only brave online?

Beats me. The Yoruba/Igbo animosity on this forum is disheartening. Most people here are quick to disparage other tribes, and yet when they are in dire straits and help comes from the 'enemy' tribe, they quickly suspend their hatred. The ethnic prejudice is mostly indulged in by the unlearned.

Where is your location?

Looking for total strangers here to accommodate you is just as bad as going to the gay man's house. The only people who will risk doing that are people who have no concerns for their safety or people who have ulterior motives. I think what you should concentrate on doing is generating funds to pay for a hotel room during your visit. Stay safe.

Slightly off topic- there is a brand of cereal that does that too. It come in coloured rings. Fed it to my toddler years ago and her poop was bright blue/green. Once, I arrived to pick her up in school and her teacher told me in a shaky voice that my daughter's poop was blue. The poor woman was scared.

ewizard1:
Thought it was a bomb blast. The vibration shook my building at Ago.

My heart goes out to all who are affected.

Omakraid:
How did she pee all along?

You do not pee through your vagina. Peeing has nothing to do with the reproductive organs in a female.

slimjohn2k5:
No more intelligent ladies these days.
All they have to show is breast or bum.
What future do we have for our children?

It's very worrisome.