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Lina2020:
I just gotta manage
Leg self don't dey pain me coupled with my pregnancy and everything
I go just manage

Oh you're even pregnant?
They didn't see baby bump and realise they are inconveniencing a pregnant woman?
Anyway sorry.
Safe journey.

Lina2020:
Thank you very much...you understand my plight,we are 7 in back seat of three
A journey of 8hrs or more

If the bus hasn't moved then go out to complain to park owners or driver. Why didn't they pay for seats for the kids instead?
When you tell Nigerians to birth only the number of kids they can adequately provide for, they will start uttering nonsense about 'God will provide'.

Lalasticlala, mynd44, or even seun I don't know why this story was not verified before it hit from page now the reputation of an innocent woman is being tarnished

This isn't obehi the second wife neither did the woman in the picture sleep with any gateman,

Please and please verify such sensitive info before posting on front page because little things like this have gotten bloggers sued or arrested


What was the point of rushing to post lies on front page? Is it for traffic or because of women bashing reasons?

Obehi Kor, Gateman nii

Ifyjos:
I was 14 and very matured , i almost 21 in March . It’s not a pedophile because age it’s just a number, if it was a pedophile why he is not in prison then? You can say whatever you like about him , am not bothered because I still love him and your words is making me loving even more. I can sense jealousy because u don’t even have a guy in your life and konji and ulcer has been killing you that’s why you are talking rubbish

You be mumu oo

You be real mumu pikin
See person that nairaland has been advising for 2 days
Unrepentant blockhead

Ifyjos:
She doesn’t need your stupid wish and keep it to yourself , I have never live a wayward life , I have been with my guy ( my crown) for almost 7 years now and he is the only man in my life and by God grace we will grow old together. So I don’t care about what you think because it doesn’t affect me at all

So he started sleeping with you when you were 13?

Egbelegbele

And this irresponsible pedophile is the person you place over your family and let him beat your sister?
That your sister has really suffered in your hand.

CorGier:
Lol, you really cracked me up there darl. Thanks for getting me in a lighter mood.

Okay, that aside Uyail; See the key to any healthy heterosexual relationship is the ability of the man to successfully manipulate his woman for his selfish interests. This is because in his happiness lies her happiness.

I mean why do you think our mothers stayed married to our over-bearing fathers for so long? These men knew the secret to keeping their women on their toes, our mothers in turn - in their quest for true contentment - advertently submitted themselves to the wimps and caprices of their men. Therein lies true happiness in total submission. Girl, that in itself is a virtue.

That was my point. You got all carried away getting your panties in a twist over the side-talk.

Lmao, this has to be a troll post

You're correct. You manage people because no one is perfect. Just do your part by not deliberately causing harm to others.

ffo:
this your thread is 32 pages and you claim you have not seen any good advise, lots of people have been telling you to make amends, confess to your sister fiancee. You will need to go to another planet to seek for advise. or maybe you want somebody to tell you to kill her, then it will be good enough for you.

Can you imagine her stupidity?
She hasn't seen any good advice ke?


I now understand how frustrated her sister must have been while living with a stubborn and selfish blockhead like her.

I see that op has dropped another series of bombs.

1. Her sister is 32 years old, in Nigeria women like that are mocked for not being married at her age but madam op went ahead to end her long term engagement

2. Her sister is probably having infertility issues according to op and these things worsen with age only God knows when the poor lady will be able to get married and start trying for kids.

3. Her and her jobless at 29 boyfriend beat up the same sister that has been financially supporting them

Nawa o
I fear who no fear this op.

It doesn't look like this is the first time the little girl is going on that ledge
She was too fast and not cautious at all as if she is used to the route.

MetaPhysical:
Thank God there is a ledge to support that baby. Can you imagine.

Where is the mother? That apt is not child proof. This cant happen in Nigeria. Many many episodes before we got here this child would have acquired lessons learnt through abara, iko, atori and igbadi Tier I, igbadi Tier II and igbadi Developer Stage.

Lol
I don't even know their meanings but it made me laugh

bukatyne:
Apparently, it is on FB. I think the OP just copies the proposals and/or he is the Francis guy.

A winner has even been picked, a pastor's wife. She has deactivated her husband's and her Facebook profile.

Search Francis Van-Lare

I knew about the previous challenge from before. This is a copy cat thread.

PerfectMatchNG:
A winner has been picked. They sure did messaged me.

Even if you got messaged (which I doubt) what makes you so sure you weren't scammed like you were decieved on single mother thread?

You jobless lot just keep thinking up ways to run women down instead of doing productive things with your life.

Na men get wahala pass for this world but you don't call each other out on the scamming and criminal behaviours of males. Na women be your problem.

Ladycewhy:
reading her responses shows the girl is evil. I went through her replies and i fear for her elder sister. Even in the future this girl will still be capable of doing alot of damage to her family members out of jealousy.Its this kind of people that can arrange to kidnap and kill their siblings because their sibling didn't give them the money they asked for.

Just imagine.
What kind of cold blooded person is this?
1. She believes she is not responsible for her sisters joblessness because all she did was end her relationship.
2. She feels entitled to her sisters money, asking why the sister hasn't started business for her
3. She is still here fantasizing that her boyfriend will one day be richer than her sisters ex fiance even after what she did.

OP is a very selfish and foolish person and I cast and blind such people from ever coming into my life.

I don't believe any married woman messaged Op abeg let's try and use common sense sometimes even though bashing women is the reigning thing.
If he received any DMs it's most definitely from scammers trying to finesse him because he made a post posing as a rich person.
This same Op started a thread for giving money to single mothers and different fake alt accounts belonging to males came in to start fabricating tales about their single motherhood because they wanted the money.

Modified

Modified

I wanted to believe this story is tales by moonlight but after seeing the different idiotic responses by Op in this thread I am convinced that she is actually so stupid to do the things she said she did. And worst part is that she thinks she is so smart and mature for her age maybe because her boyfriend used that lie to get into her pants.

Ifyjos:
Have talked and talked with her but she wasn’t not interested . She just wanted me to break up with him so I can become a single mother something I don’t want in my life. My guy currently situation is not permanent and I have faith some day he will be richer than my sister ex fiancé and we will live happy

Part of your problem is that you are jealous of your sister's progress in life. Even if you don't agree. You are jealous. After spoiling your own life with your foolishness and bad decisions you are now angry to see her marrying a rich man that is not responsible for your NFA Marlian boyfriend. Problem is that when you were making plans to destroy her life you didn't know that your conscience will not let you rest.

Ifyjos:
. It’s almost 4am and my mind is not at peace

Oh you wanted peace of mind after taking another person's peace and happiness? Continue to dey find am. Yeye pikin

Homeboiy:
Most of these girls tried trapping the men with pregnancy but it backfired

it has happened to me

So did she give birth and where is the child if she did?

So none of your relatives there? None at all, even distant ones? You can borrow money and rent a small cheap house in any satellite town in abuja like Dutse, the rent there for some BQs are around 80k a year, sorry I know it's still costly but this is abuja we are talking about here. You might even get cheaper if you check or ask well. This is something you should have started working on since.
If your church can let you sleep in it for a few days it might also help your situation.
I don't understand how anyone can be comfortable with living with a complete stranger for 2months.

Why are nairaland men so obsessed with women issues?
You people have mental problems

Leave old spinsters alone, it's their life not yours, no need to remind them that they have expired or whatever you call it, face your life, leave them

pocohantas:
It has been long and I really do not have that time or grace to dig it out. Seems he partners with females, they own the numbers - he handles the NL account/posting.

Two of his alternates have been exposed and he deactivated them, only to resurrect another.

I think I read a thread like that too on sexuality section although I didn't take note of the fake monikers mentioned but the guy was outed as being Male and soliciting clients for other women. Let me think if I can remember his main name.......

baby124:
Somewhere within me I knew he would not be a good partner, maybe a good father. As he never had a good father figure(be very careful of these types). Having both qualities in a man is very important, please ask questions, observe and get to know his family... it is for your own good!

Honestly this cannot be emphasized enough, though there are few exceptions of men who still behave decently even without a responsible father figure.

Even your psychopathic female friends will tell you that you are too uptight and, should loosen up that it’s love. Even your sibling can give funny advice, but stand firm. A child deserves to be loved and brought into a world where there is love. Be watchful and careful, know what you want and who you imagine you can spend the rest of your life with in peace! Peace of mind trumps all. The one for you who you feel at peace with will find you!

Peace of mind trumps all

Even if the man you will have this peace with comes at old age, even if he comes in the form of widower or divorcee or single dad,
Ladies, please and please don't compromise and settle for a person who will frustrate you because you want to get married by all means. At least you can die happy and with peace of mind with a person you are friends with and have love for instead of dying from hypertension or incurable STDs

Honestly the level of scamming in nairaland is getting out of hand, too many criminals abound on this site.

Tufia

pocohantas:
@Choccolate, I am just seeing this thread for the first time. Those monikers are being run by a man. I only see it in Romance section, so I look the other way. Never knew he reaches here.

Na wa o, just look at the level of madness being displayed by these Nairaland men

And the same person told three different stories with all three of his alternate monikers about how he is a single mother.

Can you post the link to where he was exposed? Thanks