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sexylassie2:
almost all the redpill science is pseudoscience but our african mumu boys take it as the gospel truth

That's because they don't have sense.

They face multitudes of problems every day in their corrupt underdeveloped countries but they will rather focus on attacking and insulting women online instead of making their lives better.

funmisticqueen2:
you think they will listen? That article was probably incel propaganda

It was a complete joke of an article but it's really telling how so many men were eager to believe that nonsense
They really desperately want a world where they can sleep around as they like and then demand chastity from women because, DNA.

ubunja:
then stay on your thread. You don't see me coming to it.

Lol
Nairaland is free for all.
I can go anywhere I like

Alfather:
you have no fear of man.

God forbid that I will start having that kind of irrational useless fear.

ubunja:
that's all you know. Complaining about our threads but can't open threads of your own. Smh.

Focus,
Focus and pay attention stop typing just to type.

I asked you to stop spreading the lie about women retaining dna yet you kept parroting about my starting my own threads to spread my truth.

I can tell you to stop spreading lies without starting any thread first, those two actions are not connected.
I dunno if the heat in ojota is now affecting the way you understand posts.

Secondly I already made a thread before quoting you.

Alfather:
you people know the day the men eyes are open women in this current day will suffer rejection. Women are always angry with the fact that, why should God subject them to just one dick, While a man is entitle to marry as many wives as he want. forget the bla bla bla you wrote up there. If only virgin girls agree to get married to a suitor who comes for her hand immediate, many of you who have hore around will grey single. Then u wil see when keeping of virginity becomes a competition among young girls, but virgins refuse to marry. That why you get courage to come defend whoredomite women. If am to believe the scrap you wrote up there, it must not be from a woman. You should be more consetrated on how women should stop premiscuing, instead of covering the truth.
any way, virgin on my mind cause am allergic to slack pussies.
thanks, no offence

You cannot even spell correctly, you are clearly an illiterate and uneducated fellow.

The time you spend looking for ways to bash women online why not spend it studying brighter grammar or primary one English reader to improve your terrible English?

ubunja:
make a thread and spread your truth.

Unnecessary advice.

ubunja:
make threads and spread your truth.

As how?
Stop spreading lies about women retaining Dna of men they sleep with.
Any one that has even the most basic knowledge of science would know why that theory is completely ridiculous.

Alfather:
nor fear, you go see man wey go marry u.

Hahhaha
O my gosh, you Nigerian men really think you are a prize

No be only no fear.

ubunja:
yep. High Value in a woman means young fresh dependent with an extremely low body count and minimally educated.

Young - before bad habits form and nasty views of men develop. After a woman has grown older and been heartbroken dozens of times that "men are dogs" attitude develops in her mind. At that point as a lover she's worthless because she'll be ever suspicious and cynical.

Fresh - sex destroys a woman's body. That's the fact. The lower a woman's body count the fresher she'll be and healthier. Let's all remember that the DNA of all a woman's past lovers stay in her body all her life. And some STIs are transmittable from mother to child.


Nice one my man

STOP SPREADING LIES


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f0sfo0XStP0

http://www.dscribe.net.au/2018/05/07/faking-news-are-women-full-of-dna-from-past-lovers/

GeneralPula:
Really bro?

No, that information is false.

Since its publication on the 28th of April 2018, this “news story” has been sweeping through the vast digital plains of Facebook and Twitter:


If those stats are accurate, the awkwardly titled article has been shared more than 115,000 times
The title proclaims itself as a straight-up fact. And the article it leads to bases this bold claim on genuine scientific studies, which it provides links to. In the spirit of all works of fiction, the (unspecified) author brings the story to a dramatic climax:

“Sperm is alive. It is living cells. When it is injected into you it swims and swims until it crashes headlong into a wall, and then it attaches and burrows into your flesh. If it’s in your mouth it swims and climbs into your nasal passages, inner ear, and behind your eyes. Then it digs in. It enters your blood stream and collects in your brain and spine.”

Male DNA crossing the blood-brain barrier
When art meets fake news: male DNA crossing the blood-brain barrier
Posts of this theme have been circulating since mid-2017, spurred by the discovery (and spurious interpretation) of a study conducted way back in 2012. The first dubious exposition, published by YourNewsWire, inspired a wave of click-batey articles from fact-checking-averse bloggers and pseudo-news sites. These have been thoroughly discredited by publications like Snopes and Forbes. However, the internet is the kind of place where news about brain-burrowing sperm spreads faster and further than reports based on the boring old truth.

Latest in the proliferation of male-DNA-fearing articles, the April 28 story, published on a site called Bimber, makes some pretty out-there claims and plays fast-and-loose with the findings of each of the studies cited. Scroll to the bottom of the article, though, and you’ll find this:

Disclaimer

Here’s their contact form:

Contact us

The fake news article isn’t even pretending to be real news. In fact, it is a word-for-word copy of the original YourNewsWire story (published on the 23rd of June 2017 by Baxter Dmitry). The Bimber article is quite open about the fact that it is merely an advertisement for a website theme. Hosted by Themeforest, Bimber is targeted at people wishing to create a viral content website. It markets itself as the “#1 selling viral theme” and is full of similarly click-batey articles designed to show potential buyers how well the package works. Seems it’s doing a good job. Before I’d even finished this article, the counter on the Bimber story had shot up by another 10,000 shares.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f0sfo0XStP0



In Summary, the 'article' stating that women retain DNA from sperm is nothing but fake news and it was clearly stated in a disclaimer in the website but men have consistently passed it off as truth because of their sick need to run women down.

Watch the video for more details of why its false

http://www.dscribe.net.au/2018/05/07/faking-news-are-women-full-of-dna-from-past-lovers/

sexylassie:
that one is a confirmed Pinocchio and a scammer, he claim he is white, from Zimbabwe and now living in South Africa, to legit his claim, he decided to buy a south african number to deceive people. i wonder when he starts demanding money for his courses, where will the sender send their money to, is it through a Nigerian bank account or South african one. i am sure a Nigerian bank account.

the man is a Nigerian living in Nigeria, he can deny it as many times as possible, to make his claims legit, he join topics about south africa and talk about south africa women and nigerian men with XhosaNostra, he even go to the extend of asking questions about Nigerian slangs like he doesnt know them,that man knows the truth, so he should stop lying and face the consequences.

for example he claim he is the one below, that his name is Ubunja Richard a relationship expert based in South Africa, ( what a Pinocchio)

if we search that image, thousands of that image are online

Is it not funny and hypocritical that he us always talking about how women are manipulative and liars and pretenders meanwhile he is the king of lying and pretending.

Many of those accounts that come online to praise him and his red pill topics belong to himself, he is just an all round dishonest fellow.

Fountainofyouth:
Lmao continue crying till oblivion, you will be fine.

They are looking for respect from random women just because they are males not because they have even achieved anything with their lives.
Foolish entitled fools.

Nobody will show you men respect. Get over yourselves.

Look at these dirty pigs
Nobody is going to clean your messy house for you.
Nobody

Do it yourselves.

Dupalmer:
A 50 year old Nigerian man can lay and even marry girls in their 20s with small effort but a lady in her 30 waiting to get laid by a guy in his 20s has a 99percent likelyhood of being abused.

But waitoo before you break my head. No be my fault.

That's how they keep lying to themselves that they can handle 20 yr olds then later police will see their dead bodies in one room with twenty packets of sildenafil tablets and one ugly illiterate ashawo using pidgin English to explain that he just slumped and died after dem fvck once.
By the way if you are an old man in ur 50s and you want to marry a twenty something girl without being filthy rich then sorry is your name. Better have enough cash to buy her loyalty because thats basically the only thing that is attractive about men at that age. Their financial secirity.

Then something happened. This in itself helped me conclude that indeed for a marriage to be successful a woman had 99% of the hard work to do and this is also guiding my conclusion in this write up.

This OP is clearly in search of a husband from Nairaland.
Look at the unabashed craving of Male validation.
99% ko, 100% ni
This is the type of nonsense nairaland boys get excited for, two people are in a relationship but the responsibility of sustaining the relationship is on only one persons head.
Complete bullshit

Michellekabod2:
To a man,a good wife is one that submits to him,tolerate him,compromise for him. Just he,himself and him.

What men call good in a woman is what benefits them not the woman themselves.
You can never see a man praise his wife saying "she is a strong woman,pursued her dreams and goal,made a name for himself. I admire her confidence,her diligence and how she takes Care of herself". It always has to be "I love her so much,she sacrificed for ME,made compromises for ME, stood by ME and endured MY excesses"

A woman's need is never in a man's agenda.

Today a man opened a thread praising his wife, all I saw was celebrating self centeredness and encouraging women to settle for the less(when men aren't willing to settle for less).



Self duty is the best form of sacrifice.

I read the first post of that thread and was too nauseated to continue reading. The selfishness and entitled nature of the husband was so glaring but people came to praise their marriage because in Nigeria a happy home entails the woman facing all sorts of inconveniences and sacrificing sacrificing sacrificing to please the husband.
I didn't want to spoil the womans birthday thread so I didn't comment.


Men are just selfish and self centered creatures. The worst part of it is that they don't see anything wrong with their behaviour so they can't change.

Lol
This thread is still alive?

Princesschi:
Do you have space in your relationship or maybe another branch

Because you don see moni abi? Better not send any pm

Most comment will be quick to suggest a woman leave a marriage without considering the influence it has on the kids (both in academics and societal relationship) when they grow up.

I think the opposite is the case here, women who want to leave abusive marriages are threatened with loneliness and told that no other man will want them unless something is wrong with him so she should stay and bear nonsense like disrespect, insults and infidelity and exposure to STDs because all men are polygamous and the next man will be worse.

Op must be trolling with this statement.

Women have reduced their frequency of both visiting this site and writing about their personal issues because of the abuse and hate for females here and the fact that they hardly get any sympathy unless it's a really really bad case but a guy will start a topic about how he provoked a girl into getting epileptic fits and nairaland men will praise him and tell him she is just pretending.

I don't know why you men like playing victim. You want to be superior and also be helpless victims at the same time.

Let's hear the wife's side of the story first.
I remember one thread where an eight month pregnant woman came to complain that her husband is mistreating her and not giving her any money for sustenance, people were asking for the husband side of the story

For all we know OP came to paint his wife black, maybe he was treating her like crap when he still had a job, maybe despite the fact that his wife is supporting the family he still doesn't show appreciation or disrespects her or cheats on her. There are two sides to every story.

Dear Op..
Welcome to the real world of marriage ..
Tears are for Nollywood cry babies Biko dry up that tears and map out Your next life plan.

If You were a widow with 4kids won't You survive?
Your MIL seems like a good woman but unfortunately most mum will always choose their blood

@ bold,

Just what I was thinking, I knew a girl that was raised by a single mom with five kids because they lost their dad. A whole five kids, and the last one has graduated.
Just assume you have no choice but to raise the kid on your own, being depressed will not help anything, it will only make it harder to properly love and care for your child.
Try and reconcile with your MIL and don't be angry she didn't admonish her son because the truth is that majority of MILs will put their sons happiness first. For her to care for both you and the child for the past eight months shows that she had good intentions and meant you well.
You self go out and get a job, tell your story and financial issues to as many people as possible, let them know you are desperate for work and money and trust me, you will find someone to help you. Many Nigerians love helping poor people with sob stories.

Veryfoolishboy:
hello

Good day

Inconsiderate behavior from man. Not caring for her, incompatibility, infidelity etc. Just disrespect and disregard for her feelings

bukatyne:
@Bold:

Funny you don't realize that she is hurting herself more.

Forgiveness is for you and not for the offender.

And forgiveness doesn't mean she reconciles with him romantically.

Personally I don't feel hurt when I bear grudges against those that wronged me. Infact I feel better because I know I will get back at them eventually since I haven't forgiven. Not everyone is the same.
OP is free to do whatever makes her happy, I no force am to follow my advice.

Its unfortunate that the man left you all these years when you needed him and then comes back like a typical entitled brat Nigerian man to demand forgiveness.
Ignore people telling you it's solely your fault for having your kid out of wedlock. First of all, it's both your faults. Yes
Sorry but it's true, although that is not important now.
Secondly don't feel obligated to forgive him, feel free to continue being angry with him doing let sentiments make you believe you must forgive. You can relate with him with all the hatred and anger intact inside your heart but make sure he takes care of his son, make sure he provides very well and is emotionally available, this could be a bit difficult but the truth is that if you try to separate both of them, the boy will still find a way to locate his father in future and might hate you for keeping them apart.

You can exact little acts of revenge now he has come back into your life like misplacing his car keys or other vital items etc. I know that's what I'd do.

Or you can follow your conscience and keep trying to forgive. Na you sabi