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Romance › Re: The Alarming Rate Of Paternity Fraud Going On In The Society by CHoccolaTE: 8:00pm On Jan 18, 2020
vincentjk:
Can I see some of it?
Someone already posted it
Romance › Re: The Alarming Rate Of Paternity Fraud Going On In The Society by CHoccolaTE: 7:59pm On Jan 18, 2020
Michellekabod2:
Martinez39, you missed a lot...they said you are a virgin grin
grin
So no be only me save the thread sef, Choi
Romance › Re: The Alarming Rate Of Paternity Fraud Going On In The Society by CHoccolaTE: 7:58pm On Jan 18, 2020
Kennedyiheme:
i dont get how does where he lives bring any light to this topic.. you see why women are below men.. you always think like fishes.. the average woman is a dunce
Mr man carry your frustration and bitterness from my front, I didn't address you.
Romance › Re: The Alarming Rate Of Paternity Fraud Going On In The Society by CHoccolaTE: 7:56pm On Jan 18, 2020
Dande55:
Lol. I heard they deleted the thread. grin
Bahahaha

I screen capped every every
Plus address and house picture and him gigantic forehead picture. grin

Incase he wan lie say na Zimbabwe he for come next time
Romance › Re: The Alarming Rate Of Paternity Fraud Going On In The Society by CHoccolaTE: 7:23pm On Jan 18, 2020
Dande55:
And the men breeding children outside nko?

What of women that pay child support?
Funny thing is how a man living in ajegunle and competing with mosquitoes will always be on nl crying about what's happening in a developed country; People who do not give a rat ass about their disgusting existence
His house is actually in Ojota grin
Romance › Re: Nairalanders Come Let's Play A Romantic Game by CHoccolaTE: 6:31pm On Jan 18, 2020
AlphaLion:
There are two category of men who shape the world: Simps and Alphas


Places they frequent:
Romance and family section.
Always on Nairaland front-page.
Sometimes celebrity section to call some women olosho.


Places they will never visit:
Business, career and investment section. If you mistakenly see them there, it is because free money is being shared.
@bold, grin lwkmdfh

Either they are there to collect free money or to scam others of their hard earned cash. You can also find the alpha males posting sure odds and fixed match betting slips on front page topics.

Na simp I chose o grin
Especially simp like Jeff bezos.
Romance › Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by CHoccolaTE: 4:44pm On Jan 16, 2020
Those of you against marriage in this thread, oya claim it,
In Jesus name/in the name of Allah,
You will never find wives and never be married for the rest of your lives. You will all die as bachelors, with no marriage or wives.
Amiinnn grin

So be it in your lives cool
Family › Re: Why Are Other Tribes So Concerned About The Expensive Igbo Bride Price Issue by CHoccolaTE: 6:08am On Jan 16, 2020
Jaubdu:
. You are wrong, the men are complaining now because women no more what they used to be (virgin). My dad married my mom a virgin but two of my sisters already date someone,I am tempted to believe they have body count. They are married though but I do used it to get to them that their husbands didn't get to see the hymen,they always want to kill me for reminding them their mistake. Point is stay virgin avoid we the men then we can break bank to have your hands in marriage. I am even prepare to pay double if I can get my hands on a proper (Character wise), smart and God fearing lady who is a virgin.
Men are also not virgins these days, they now sleep around before and after marriage and act irresponsibly, neglect their children, fail to provide and protect their families etc. That's not how men of old acted.
They can't have shit character then start looking for high quality brides for marriage
Romance › Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by CHoccolaTE: 10:14pm On Jan 15, 2020
So many hopeless men on nairaland walahi
See their annoyance first, just because women said they want to marry quality men that treat them well.

OP next time you want to write a thread nairaland men support then write things like
1. Marry a man you will submit to completely and also be joint provider with
2. Be his sex slave that fulfils all his sexual desires regardless of the fact that male and female sex drives differ
3. Overlook his cheating and realise men are naturally polygamous
4. Place his welfare and happiness before your own and allow him boss you around to his satisfaction.
And so on,

Just basically sound like a mindless robot desperate for male validation if you want useless nairaland men to support your thread.

Thank me later
Romance › Re: Help Nairalander !!!! Has She Given Birth Before by CHoccolaTE: 9:42pm On Jan 15, 2020
Its hormonal issues
Not abortion, breasts produce milk in late pregnancy around 7to 9 months where its already too late to do abortion so it can't be abortion.

I had a friend like that whose nipples used to bring out whitish substance if she pressed them. She was quite busty though lipsrsealed
Romance › Re: A Cheating Wife by CHoccolaTE: 6:32pm On Jan 15, 2020
ericsmith:
So am still a 2man,lol ! women n there subjective reasonin. i shuld av ignore buh i just feel like bursting ur head till you realize you know nada, men don't banter or trade insult so don't stress .. the world as evolve beyond superiority & inferiority balderdash ... its all about what yu carry & what you av to offer.
You said nigeria men invented nothing, i gave u facts you can research, i expect you to also drop a list of inventions by naija women asides d nigeria jollof. you can't sway me to a subjective reasoning,i am proud to be a black man, cos martin luther king, mohammed ali, nelson mandela,fela naa course,they go down in history as great men in d world, these are men d almighty whites don't av a match for. sho mor A.J stil doing us proud grin
That women strive n hustle to earn a living is a norm every human must go thru, why shuld men be giving women grammy or headies 4 hustling .. @the end of d month there money is there money. listen to lilmissfavy buh don't emulate her cos she stands 4 acrimony grin i av her drugs
Look at this boy undecided
Where did I say Nigerian men invented nothing?
See statement first, he wants to burst my head till I realize I know nothing, lol.
Yes, of course you will list the Martin Luther and fela and so on and claim that because they were revolutionaries then their achievements should spread round to all black men.
Do you also know about renowned black criminals like Clifford orji or Lawrence anini or Derico nwa mama grin
I can also say all men are more dangerous and destructive and sociopathic because the most renowned criminals and killers are men.
Men create the most death and destruction and crime in the world but you want to be hailed and praised and treated as superior.
You want me to bring list of Nigerian women inventions when you know very well that until recently a womans place was in the kitchen and even till now a woman in Nigeria is supposed to put her family and marriage before her academics and ambitions. Nigerian men have all the time in the world to pursue their degrees and studies till old age but a woman has to put marriage and kids and home first before thinking of further studies because they will be mocked if they have not gotten married and have kids at a certain age. Check out countries where women are treated like equals where they are not pressured into marriage and can pursue their dreams you will see so many inventions by the females there unlike Nigeria where women are only respected if they have a husband and children.
Lastly I mentioned women contributing financially because you started the whole thing by saying men are providers so women should retaliate by paying rent so I had to let you know women are also providers like men and they contribute to rent and feeding and other bills.

Lilmissfavvy is a cool chic, I will emulate her if I feel like, don't tell me what to do tongue
Family › Re: Why Are Other Tribes So Concerned About The Expensive Igbo Bride Price Issue by CHoccolaTE: 6:12pm On Jan 15, 2020
cococandy:
Bride price is a male culture. Enforced by men ( as are most regressive cultures) “we are in Africa yen yen yen”. Then turn around and blame women for the foolishness. Watch them grow into men who perpetrate the culture while also griping about it. A father can decide he won’t collect bride price and nothing will happen.

The confusion is making me dizzy embarassed .
Bride price laws were created because men saw women as less than human and wanted to treat them as mere commodities that can be exchanged for property or money.
But men are now the ones blaming women and complaining of bride price laws because Buhari economy is holding their necks and dealing with their bank accounts. If it was in an era when there were still many jobs and the economy was good I can bet my last kobo that the same men complaining of bride price will be vehemently insisting that it should be paid because they like the idea of buying and selling women like cows.
Romance › Re: A Cheating Wife by CHoccolaTE: 4:14pm On Jan 15, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Don't even try to engage ericsmith, he's a nonentityyyy, one of the most dead brainedd fellows you can ever encounter, ignore him. Ericsmith, I am not a product of a single mum, I am a product of two successful couples who raised me in a monogamous family. The day you upgrade your IQ we gonna talk, I just had to correct that impression.
grin noted
Romance › Re: A Cheating Wife by CHoccolaTE: 4:08pm On Jan 15, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Exactly. I am used to such confrontations from some females, I know them. I try to avoid them, yet they can't let me drop my opinion and exit peacefully. smiley
I wonder what sweet words nairaland guys tell them in DMs to make them act the way they do. Nairaland guys for that matter wey majority of them no get sense.
Its baffling.
Romance › Re: A Cheating Wife by CHoccolaTE: 4:00pm On Jan 15, 2020
Michellekabod2:
@CHoccolaTE you weren't bold enough to mention me without misspelling my name?you read right ?and you yet made a post ignorantly of what I stand for because I didn't accept the fact the husband was cheating since there was no proof provided!So if someone doesn't share the same ideology with your cohorts you start making silly assumptions about the person? Did you read where I told the OP to mind his business? My entire point in this whole thread have being summarized into two: the op should mind his business and stay clear of someone marital home and since no proof has been made that the man is cheating,assuming he is doing so is wrong.
How is that hard for your cohorts that are calling me impostors and pickmesha to comprehend?

I will let this pass though,at least you didnt quote me.


Not every lady must agree with you ,I have a mind of my own,neither gods,or humans can compel me.

From your topics and posts I understand you write from a place of pain and bitterness.
My dear I misspelt your name on purpose,
Not bold enough to quote you ke? grin

I wanted to misspell it because I can't be bothered to learn your real name. I no send you, like I mentioned in my other post.

For the rest of your post; whatever I don't care what you think.
Romance › Re: A Cheating Wife by CHoccolaTE: 3:57pm On Jan 15, 2020
ericsmith:
Alol !! from ur paragarph one i got two know there two types of men ... ( i ) black (ii )white...i hope these applies to women as well. beyond d joke the arguement you put up is so lame i don't even know how to descend n answer it.
I am an extrovert av bin to visually 21 states out of 36 states in nigeria even ghana, cotonou for fun tho, in ur home whu is d breadwinner.
Back to the objective, i am proud to be a nigeria man n these is why we deserve respect; white or no white

https://www.nairaland.com/2994514/16-nigerian-iventors-remarkable-inventions
Mr man if you want to use inventions to determine superiority then you should not complain when white people insult you and say you are lesser than them.
There are two types of men fine, but what are the black types known for? How many black nations are actually outstanding or actual world powers compared to white nations?
You can claim there are two types of men but fact remains that the very vast majority of innovations and advanced technology were invented by white men.
It's like my saying there are two types of humans, males and females so we can all claim responsibility for human inventions grin

Women are breadwinners in a lot of homes. While that may not be so in majority of cases, it's still a fact that women contribute financially to running the home in 90% of cases. You will leave your house and see female hawkers, female market women, hair dressers, tailors, restaurant owners, even cleaners, petty traders, receptionists, nurses and all the ones in big institutions and companies then how can anyone still argue that women don't contribute financially? The same women have to be in the homefront getting pregnant and taking care of children and keeping the household net and running smoothly and still assisting the man with breadwinning but they never get any acknowledgement. The only time Nigerian men will agree that a woman is contributing to the house is when she is fully the breadwinner and also carrying housework squarely on her head.
Romance › Re: A Cheating Wife by CHoccolaTE: 3:39pm On Jan 15, 2020
Saintmary:
Do you need me to remind you that you were the one who quoted LilMissFavvy first, she asked you to face front, then you heaped such horrible insults on her on top wetin?
You said she was not fit to live among humans all because she stuck to her opinions.
How evil are you to wish such on someone who has done you no wronghuh
I don't know any of these ladies including funmisticqueen2, CHocolaTE and Margy, but they have showen LilMissFavvy support which suggests that they are truly females. You on the other hand seem to be a male imposter, who would go to the extent of wishing evil on someone who called out males for their unbridled and unscrupulous cheating.
Once again kudos to LilMissFavvy for holding her own against such vicious, hateful opponents.
Some women write like that Michelecarbide because they want male approval, I understand where people like that are coming from so I no even send them. There is one such woman in family section too.
Just ignore her, na male validation she dey find.
Romance › Re: A Cheating Wife by CHoccolaTE: 1:46pm On Jan 15, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
you obviously don't know what a pickmesha is.
Please ignore the pained men on this thread quoting you.
That's their tactics to make women shut up while they go around bashing females.
Everything you wrote is very correct and indisputable.
Romance › Re: A Cheating Wife by CHoccolaTE: 12:55pm On Jan 15, 2020
ericsmith:
Its strangely funny how humans tends to emulate bad deeds buh no one want to copy good deeds. Of all the things men do in the world, the only thing that interests women to copy is cheating grin 90% of the inventions in the world today are from men.
Men are providers, a man's money is our money why can't women also copy these from men.
we all av our lives to live n whatever choice or decisions we make we must be ready to take responsibility without passing d blame to one gender or the other. he paid rent 2019 why can't a wife retailate n pay 2020 rent. ashewos naa only sex dem wan retailate grin leave dem reality is waiting for everybody
@ bold,
White men are the major inventors, black men like yourself are not part of major male inventors. I don't know why black men like lumping themselves with white men when it comes to this inventions issue.

Secondly, go out and see how things really are in Nigeria, many women are working to put food on the table and paying rent. It's not something only men do. There is no company or organisation you won't find women so I don't know why men think women are not making money.

Thirdly, men also make up majority of criminals and killers in society but women are not emulating them grin
so it's not all the bad things women emulate, you're wrong.
Family › Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by CHoccolaTE: 5:41am On Jan 15, 2020
jy2kbeyond:
When you are ready to face the reality of the world. Eternal peace won't be a far-fetched commodity.

Awon set Equal right.

undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
No be only reality of the world.

To Nigerian men reality means women should swallow crap and infidelity while men are free to do as they please.
Romance › Re: A Cheating Wife by CHoccolaTE: 5:37am On Jan 15, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
grin......from bitter to hornnny, these SOGs are sicckkk. Oga i believe in love, I am soft natured, I love the opposite sex, I am not anti men, I am simply anti wicked men,, you are an example. Tell the iduott whom you say is correcting me, to open a thread and correct men to be faithful, and change from their notion that they are polygamous in nature. Until then, you can never make sense to me.
I really like your feistiness on this thread grin
. Don't mind these wicked hypocrites.
I can't count how many times I have seen threads that people report they caught a husband cheating and they want to tell his wife. Nairaland males will tell the person to mind their business and not say anything but let the tables be turned you will see them crying like children and demanding that the woman should be exposed and kicked out.
Celebrities › Re: Why Are You Obessed With Me - Mercy Eke Asks Tacha, Addresses Death Threat by CHoccolaTE: 7:24am On Jan 14, 2020
Ladyhippolyta88:
Let Messy warn her own first call a spade a spade.They will shade and insult Tacha the yeye girl will follow, like and even retweet insults directed at Tacha by her mumunary fans.
For every action there is an equal and oppositre reaction before any Titan comes for you you must have come for Tacha first.
Its all good, really.
Let's not argue abeg.

I don't beef with my fellow feminist compatriots.
Celebrities › Re: Why Are You Obessed With Me - Mercy Eke Asks Tacha, Addresses Death Threat by CHoccolaTE: 5:08am On Jan 14, 2020
OKorowanta:
Why do you think its Tacha's fans?
Dat Mercy girl look like who nor get enemies full ground before Bbn?
Wen she was confessing on national tv about the popular married guys she dated,you think some of such wives who felt hurt can't throw shades at her?
You never can tell.
And why do you think it's not tacha fans?
Are they not the ones that always behave like agbero, afterall they robbed sir Dee and they support tacha who has psychological problems and also sleeps with married men.
Celebrities › Re: Why Are You Obessed With Me - Mercy Eke Asks Tacha, Addresses Death Threat by CHoccolaTE: 3:46am On Jan 14, 2020
Tacha agbero fans need to learn where to draw the line.
Their troublesome tacha was disqualified end of story. Wishing death on mercy family will not give tacha bbn victory.
Family › Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by CHoccolaTE: 10:34pm On Jan 13, 2020
MusaChukwudi:
Shut up ma! Men are born free!
I guess this is why men fear feminism

They don't want equality because they don't want to be recipients of the shitty treatment they dish to women.
Family › Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by CHoccolaTE: 10:29pm On Jan 13, 2020
cococandy:
But he can bring aids and co home

I’m guessing being married is a price and such disrespect is nothing as long as she’s married.
Disgusting
Actually cheating and sleeping around starts from flirting and that's where the husband is likely headed but people want her to keep quiet and bear crap until he infects her with an incurable STD.
Family › Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by CHoccolaTE: 10:27pm On Jan 13, 2020
cococandy:
That’s why I don’t pity Nigerian men who get cheated on. In one way or another many of them support cheating when it’s a man.
A typical Nigerian man has PhD in hypocrisy

If it was the man who was sick he would have been the one saying she should do all the work at home and support and pray for her sick husband like a good wife
Family › Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by CHoccolaTE: 10:11pm On Jan 13, 2020
Nigerian women are really suffering in marriages o.
Just imagine if a man fell sick and couldn't provide or sexually satisfy his wife and she decided to flirt around because she needs attention. Nobody will ever advice the man to ignore her and focus on his health instead

Irony is that adultery is forbidden to both men and women but men are hypocrites that think cheating is their birthright. Why the hell must he flirt with another woman when he has a wife? Instead of being there for her and helping to nurse her back to health he is looking for love elsewhere.
Crime › Re: 2-Year-Old Strangled To Death By Housemaid For Refusing To Wear Her Clothes by CHoccolaTE: 12:59pm On Jan 13, 2020
Men need to understand that taking care of children should be a joint duty of both parents. That is why you as the father are also a parent. Parent is not mama alone.
The era of mothers carrying childcare on their heads alone ended the moment you men started demanding that women should also provide money and be breadwinners.

If the father applies himself to assisting with housework and childcare along with his wife then there would be no need for maids.

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