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JONNYSPUTE:
.. In as much as I don't agree to most of your comments,I think you are very correct on this particular one.Some women dey try.

victorian:
News reaching me an hour ago

A young married lady who has the been carrying the family responsibilities for the past three years, when she collects her money clients pay her for her interior decorating biz, she usually give her jobless husband 70% while she keeps 30% for herself. All to make the man feel he's in control and still the head. Food, clothes, shoes, house rent, baby naming all on her neck.

Just last weekend, the husband has quietly parked out of their home in banana island, which she rented with her money not too long ago. He left his wife with his two kids and also cleared her 15million naira, which she has been keeping account of, everytime she gives him money from her business proceeds.
The plan was to build their dream home with it.

The husband is nowhere to be found with a his clothes, shoes and passport with her 15 million naira!!!

He don ja!

God abeg o!

Funmmyastic:
Op you sha like trouble like this,they are coming for your head.

Ginaz:
this place gonna turn bloody in a second

Mindfulness:
This thread addresses ladies. If there is a thread addre...............

Mindfulness:
In They didn't plan it from the beginning. They developed and changed so OP's message to ladies to have something going on for themselves instead of waiting for a man to make a difference in their lives is a good message since we have too many ladies thinking that marriage is the ultimate and only goal in their lives not realizing that there is more to life than marriage and that a good relationship consists of two people willing to grow independently and together. If a lady wants a high quality man, she must be high quality too. It's not enough to look pretty and often men do not even go for the prettiest ladies but women who add value to their lives, more value than a maid could add.

eyefordetails:
Dont mind the OP he's not good at writing but prefers an Engr and refers to Engrs only as "the intelligent" ones.
He feels anyone that can calculate is intelligent. He doesn't know that for those of us that "do English " if u can't do the simplest spellings of words with accuracy, you are regarded as unintelligent! I'm fuming already

CastingCrowns:
'heat' it off? Are u sure u ready for ur spec..? Just an honest question.

Jammyudom:
. Can we heat it off

Jammyudom:
Dear you are so right... Problem is I can't compromise.. this is just a basic requirements, I need a peaceful home else I can live without Marriage...I am surprised that all those feminist doesn't have what it takes to make a good home.

Jammyudom:
Age b/w 24-36yrs
Single no kid
Medical or engineering Field.
Good in mathematics
God fearing
Willing to relocate
Sense of humor
Working
Versatile on world event and politics
From a family that have values
Have a great deal of humanity
Love romance
Chocolate or light skin
Have zero tolerance for tribalism and nepotism
Have a good eating habits
If you have above qualities as a lady, contact me, else I go foreign,I can't come and kill myself

Fountainofyouth:
You are a very irritating human, so because he isn't hitting and cheating, she shouldn't wail abi? All other abuses and psychological, emotional trauma is allowed like the one Op complained about right? Pdp left government with your sense abi? Nonsense.

Fountainofyouth:
You are a very irritating human, so because he isn't hitting and cheating, she shouldn't wail abi? All other abuses and psychological, emotional trauma is allowed like the one Op complained about right? Pdp left government with your sense abi? Nonsense.

IcraveLove:
@poster,
Please I am on my knees begging you, find a way to convince your husband to let you work.
I lost my dad and my mom was/is a house wife and life is very difficult for us. I don't even know what to call a man that won't let his wife work.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I swear, I'm tired of this marriage bullocks! I fear for this thing called marriage seriously. Everywhere, rules and regulations just to keep these sets of overgrown urchins called 'men'. In the end, we're not favored.

Ehn, be submissive, watch war room, don't let his food go stale, always be punctual to make a hot bath for him, I've been in marriage for 47 years and I served my husband all through. Wo! I don't like what I hate o!

This attitude of insecurity, immaturity, insensitivity and a seeming need to be controlling from the male folks is seriously nauseating. Imagine that one who said men are big babies, and should be pampered. Chai, I no fit laugh. Thunder from above!

24kmagic:
God help me never to find my self in that kinda situation, cos I'm scared of what I will do.

If my partner slaps me first, I think I will kill her.

I will so beat her to the point that she'll lose consciousness.

But I pray never to be in that kind of awkward position

Kennedyiheme:
first of it doesn't matter the race... lol a men created ot all, even black men have contributed, it really doesn't matter what race though lol, are you saying only white men go to war to keep you safe?.. or are you saying only white men construct roads...psst please spear me... wars are caused by either radical believes, economic interest or dominance... it only proves men are advanced , our brains are like 1000%, you wonna talk about men causing problems, go on youtube and watch a documentary called "female killers" go there and see the amount of women who are violent, women are as violent as men, the only difference is women get violent for senseless reason, you don't channel your anger for a greater cause, its always for senseless things....

Women are suppressed, read about the work of "marie currie" she won a nobel prize for physics and chemistry around 1880s or so .. at that time she still broke boundaries.. smart woman, the truth is you women love that word "suppression " thats like your anthem, you just can't wait to play the victim, your gender hasn't contributed to evolution because you're just not capable, you don't have the balls to take on challenges, all you're good at is whining and complaining..social media trials.... the real work is done out there, the society we are today gives women alot of privileges than men, you're far from suppressed.... you have everything you need you're just not capable. The fact that 98% of all female billionaires got their wealth from their father or husbands says alot..... i know alot of A+ female students who didn't pursue career, they weren't made to believe they are meant to take care of family, its just a natural instinct that you women have... no one forces anyone to do anything, you have a mind of your own, if you want to build a career path, go for it, just know there are consequences if you go down that path for too long

Kennedyiheme:
its easy, look at the world today, what do you do by yourself, the car you drive or the bus you take to work, was made by a man, the job you have, a man probably employed you... how can you still ask these questions... haven't you feminist realised its a mans world?

sassysure:
Babe, I'm not gonna argue with you pls.
If u like to deny such exist, that's your cup of tea.
Not dragging female/ male nairaland war with anybody.
I say it as I see it irrespective of gender.

sassysure:
It can be fabricated but this happens a lot.

dokyOloye:
Will the wife also write an agreement she will never harangue him with her mouth again?
You know how maddening it can be when a woman is dissecting you with her mouth and following you everywhere even when you leave the each place for her?

dokyOloye:
Will the wife also write an agreement she will never harangue him with her mouth again or you think its perfectly normal for her to subject the man to verbal harrassment?
You know how maddening it can be when a woman is dissecting you with her mouth and following you everywhere even when you leave the each place for her?
Do you know ppl kill each other just b/c of words of the mouth?
I don't support men keeping late nights regularly but its perfectly normal to hang out late once in a while,say twice in a month.I'm married, I do that, my wife doesn't complain.
In face,we sit together and gist about my waka d following day,d runs girls in d club,who took who home,etc.
I hate it when you ppl think you can say or do whatever you like and there will be no repercussions,that verbal harrassment or misyarn is what makes males fight and kill themselves sometimes but somehow you ppl believe you can talk and abuse your husband the way you like without consequences ever