₦airaland Forum

HeartlessMan:
Nobody dey open eye korokoro go Morocco so either OP go deliver cocaine or na shit-eating househelp parole.

It’s actually a nice vacation spot for many Americans

First mistake is flying frontier

Explain the connection to this topic

hammerT:
Woman attacks herself with Hammer and claims she was raped.


In the second clip she was actually caught on CCTV buying hammer, she used to injure herself.


The men only saving grace is they were no where near her in all the cctv evidence and were complete strangers. Now imagine if a mumu guy took this one home, nothing can save him from jail, everybody go just they call am rapist.

juman:
Bigamy in Nigeria?
It's only one time the law was used.
It's contradict our values.
Our customs and traditions allow us to marry more than one wife.

Bigamy in the modern country that you mentioned. You forgot what you said that I responded to?

How did you compare to incomparable things and thought that made sense?
Any woman who gets with Nick after he’s displayed his unwillingness to settle obviously knows and expects that.

How’s that comparable to getting married to someone without explicitly agreeing to being polygamous and the end up marrying someone else and just assume it’s okay?

Because the religion permits it means the it’s mandatory or every woman agrees? Are the couple not supposed to verify that each other is okay with it before assuming?

Luckysbab:
There are men who practise the religion, yet vowed never to marry more than one wife.

There's no compulsion in that matter. At the same time, it is not abominable to marry more than one wife.

If you chose a man who clearly favors marrying more than one wife, perhaps cos of his wealth or whatever other attraction, it's your call and your responsibility to live with that.

There are men who will decide not to have many kids, while some will want to have as many as possible (Nick Cannon isn't a Muslim, before you make it a religious thing). It's your choice to go with the one you are compatible with.

Imagine the latest Nick Cannon's babe starting a fight with the next one he hooks, will she be justified, knowing prior the kind of personality she CHOSE to mingle with?

juman:
In a modern country the first wife can be prosecuted for the attack.

True. But only right after he’s tossed in jail for bigamy

SIONKPO1:
Every Man is Polygamous in Mature,my advice for Ladies are Be Prayerful,Have Good Character,Be Economically Viable,Love your In-laws,Work on your beauty

Someone will be economically viable, beautiful with good character and still need prayers in order to get and even share a crusty dusty fellow like some of you?

The unmitigated gall is actually admirable. I doff my hat to you and your ilk. May the well of deluded audacity you drink from never dry up.

SIONKPO1:
Madam,dont beat your chest,if it happens there is nothing you can do .Just be of good character and pray

it seems like you people don’t know you can get beat up, divorced, manhandled or even killed.

The delusions enveloping a lot of you astound me. It’s seriously astonishing

Oh shut up

Yeye

Luckysbab:
Do you refuse another child simply cos you love the first one and have become fond of him/her?

My point is it is legitimate to have more than one wife in Islam, just as it is legitimate to have more than one child.

As long as you are in good accord with your husband, your place in his heart will remain safe, even if he marries two more.

But if you mean little to him, you will just be married but living single.

Marrying another wife isn't what primarily affects how dearly a man holds his wife.

We were supposed to assume they are all okay with polygamy because their religion says so?
I don’t think so

codemaniacs:
Ethnicity was considered before the 1966 coup.

It was Igbos that truncated the system that protected ethnic economic interests due to the fact that they wanted all the revenue and resources from other regions to themselves only and also wanted to govern the other regions and this was because other regions were better than their region.

What ignorant crockshit

But let me indulge you and say you’re correct. So then a split country is best don’t you think so?
Because last I checked igbos aren’t ruling. Who are the ones ruling now and refuse to give other regions a fair chance. Igbos?

Because y’all project your crimes onto us doesn’t make it true. The facts speak otherwise. But I doubt your bigotry will let you see it

codemaniacs:
Nigeria is a bri:tish map which groups indigenous African nations/tribes into the location known as Nigeria so someone from a different tribe can never ever have equal stake in another part of Nigeria because that is not the person's ethnic territory.

Okay.

So referendum and a split sound okay? Otherwise I don’t see another solution. Can’t force a marriage you don’t really believe in because it favors you even though you loathe your partner. That’s what y’all sound like when you hate iPobs for wanting a separate country but refuse to acknowledge igbo people as fellow and equal citizens. Can’t eat your cake and have it.

There’s no way you’re taking resources from other parts of the country to develop another part and then tell them they have no stake in it because of their ethnicity. Their ethnicity should have been considered before they became improved with the collective commonwealth.

This is so strange

They are acting.

For they’re gullible women-hating olodos to eat up and come to the internet to abuse women as usual.

The end goal? The get views on their TikTok account.
Trust the misogyny and jealousy to blind the idiots on the internet space

etrange:
Sad to watch.

Let's assume it's not a skit. What did he do? His actions here are very calculated. He's not angry or even emotional. He's recording her and saying exactly what he wants the people watching the video to hear. That's not the typical reaction of an innocent black man. If someone is kicking you out of your own house, all you have to do is to call the police. The law is not arbitrary, so they won't support her blindly. But he didn't do that. He made a video saying things like "honey", "let me settle", etc. without addressing the reason he's being kicked out. He clearly seeks the sympathy of the biased African demography. The lady on the other is very upset and couldn't care less about sounding nice or pleasing anyone at the moment. That's someone who's been hurt.

Before y'all come for me, please know that no woman has the right to wake up and kick her partner out of thier house just like that. They pay the rent/mortgage together, and the lady has just as much right as the man (it's not like Africa where the man is the only source of income in many homes). To kick one partner out of the house, you must obtain a legal permission for that. Such permissions are given on the ground of abuse, cheating, etc. So whenever you see a man leaving the house for a woman without making a fuss, he must have done something that he wouldn't want to get to court. So they just give in at the moment and resort to reasoning afterwards or, like in this case, appeal to public sympathy.

I see how this video can be triggering to Nigerians who are used to having it the other way round. Y'all forget that men throw women out of the house everyday in Nigeria and nobody makes a big deal about it. The logic is, it is his house. So going by that same logic, when it is not just his house anymore, it makes sense that he becomes just as accountable as the woman.

I wish them peace!

ribbit:
bullshit.

Can you compare the way igbos are encroaching other lands to how other tribes are doing in their own land?

Do you know how ridiculous hard it is to buy land in south east?

Dey play o.

Have you tried and failed?

kiddkash:
It makes no difference to them.
If you lick their balls you are Ibo. If not, you are ipob

thank you

GeneralPula:
It means Yoruba should make their liberalism selective..

Be liberal to those who are giving you peace.
Change it for those who are not giving you peace.

Enough of radarada..

That’s a vague way of actually saying nothing. But thanks

GboyegaD:
Dinner:

Rice with the remaining Banga from yesterday.

I love rice and banga die

ribbit:
you are very stupid.

Igbos prevents other tribes from owing same properties in south east but go to every other region to own properties

But Yoruba are the tribalist according to your foolishness.


You no go die well.

I don’t know where you get your news from but growing up in the south east there was no shortage of people from other tribes especially northerners. They conduct their businesses free of harassment. They even have their own villages that are recognized as such due to high their high population density in such areas.

Ignorance is ugly

GeneralPula:
I’m telling you yoruba should act accordingly..

It does matter how many you met if you’re going to be making ignorant generalizations.

Explain what you mean by the above

demanuel:
It's not my stereotype.
Anything virginity, sexual purity, chastity, etc are attributed to women. Naturally.
Not that it doesn't concern men, but technically it isn't a man's thing.

Just like issues in regards to vision, leadership purpose, direction, provision, war, competitiveness , etc are almost always a man's thing.
Not that it can't be attributed to women, but it's majorly a man's thing. Naturally.

Just talking nonsense

She can be anything she wants to be

Ishilove:
The hard truth is it is majorly non-indigenes that developed Lagos. They can argue with their keypads all they want, it won't change the hard, cold facts

If I were born in Lagos , I’d actually be proud of having a city that everyone wants to identify with.

YorubaSamurai:
we support biafra that is the reason we dont want igbos here

well at least you’re consistent. That’s good

GeneralPula:
The nonsense is what the Igbos said that’s bringing up issues..

Kano is also a Major city..
Delta is a Major city..
Rivers is a Major city..

Yet Igbos have never called those city a No Man’s land. It’s not really their fault tho. It’s due to the Yoruba liberalism..

Explain Yoruba liberalism.

And how many igbo people have you met and how many of them told you Lagos is a no man’s land?
Let me indulge you and assume that every igbo person you’ve ever met said that to you, you’re telling me Yoruba should be offended by that because Lagos belongs to them.

So then do you support Biafra?

GeneralPula:
So Lagos is a No Man’s land?

There’s no place on earth that’s no man’s land. That’s just nonsense. Lagos is a major city in Nigeria so belongs to Nigerians.

Remember it used to be the capital of Nigeria. And was obviously developed with resources sourced from the
collective wealth of the country. The international sea ports and airports in Lagos were not built by one single tribe’s income only. You can’t expect to be built up by collective wealth and then tell those whose wealth have been invested in the development that they have no stake in it.

I don’t know if that makes sense to you or not.

Obviously no one is going to come to your personal house and tell you it belongs to them. So I’m not seeing what the issue is.

Pleasant01:
Strangers who think they can impose their wish and have their way in Yorubaland

Strangers? Is there a name for these strangers?

Pleasant01:
Anyone who isn't Yoruba isn't Yoruba

okay. I didn’t realize that was under debate. Which people who aren’t Yoruba want to identify as Yoruba?

thesicilian:
You don't go to a man's house and start telling him his household is a no man's land. If you do that he has every right to walk you out. If you want to be respected in a foreign land, you first have to respect yourself and behave respectfully. And if someday the throne manages to get to you for one reason or the other, you still should never forget your place and the need to remain humble to your hosts.

So Lagos is a foreign land?
That’s means you must believe anyone who’s isn’t Yoruba is not a Nigerian? Correct?

How wonderful

shaybebaby:
And I dey always look themwith their delusions of how life dey be for women if women reject them but do not want to talk lest it seems like bragging.

But let me audio some little snippets, my man loves my son like his own pikin, my son's dad and him get along, as the boy dey collect from im papa, he dey collect from his step-dad. Minimum of two holidays a year, one with papa and another with mama and step papa.

I have a child from a previous marriage, yes! But my man moved away from his family, re-arranged work so he could be with me and my child ( and he earns more than I do before dem talk say he is after money).

So sis, all that single mama talk no dey worry me but it's worth stating my experience so other chicks know that there are men out there that will worship the ground you walk on, provide to the best of their ability, spoil you with all they have AND remain monogamous, share your burdens with you, contribute financially and emotionally, be all hands on deck both on the home front and beyond.

Well they say they want traditional women. What’s more traditional in contemporary Nigerian marriage than a stay home wife and a man who provides 100%

Summary is they don’t really know what they want.

Bullythebully:
Can you see the way men are crying on a thread a lady said she can't be with a man that can't provide her needs?

They suddenly remember that "reality" that rich men can't go round.

For almost half a decade men have ranted daily on how they will never marry non virgins, single moms,evening newspapers,etc. They forgot the reality that this women will still get spouses.

She how emotional they are. Like the lady struck a nerve.even the staunch redpillers that have vowed not to mention or engage women have crawled out of their rabbithole to wail.

Dem never see anything.

Farfalla:
That's why gold-diggers are their worst nightmares when they're broke, but their favourite species once they acquire a semblance of wealth. Let him acquire just a little money and see him change his spec from "homely" to "glamorous".

The picture below summarises their self-serving nature.

That’s why I don’t judge ladies who smarten up early in life and play their games better than them.

pocohantas:
I would never understand this part! Here on Nairaland, they are so good at spotting bad women like me. Leave me for my man and face your good woman na! No way!! God abeg.🤣

Have you heard of Pearl? She’s an international pick me on tiktok. Always talking down on her fellow women in favor of men.

Still not picked yet