₦airaland Forum

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I hate this shiloh nonsense with passion. I'd rather listen to Gurumaraji than that arrogant man in Otta.

Your mumu na follow come. Fresh water mugu.

Una mumu ooo you people did not even play the video to listen to what he said but just talking trash, the man never said he lifted 439 million people out of poverty.
Make una dey try listen and read well before commenting like mumu when dem don remove brain �. Agabado urchins make una get sense.

Simply say agberos in lagos state to hold rally for tinubu in lagos.

Throwback:
Obidients challenging Government agencies in their lawful duties.

And una say IPOB no bi OBIParty?

Look at your foolery.mumu must everything be about Peter obi and ipop ode.

Apexmoh:
By the grace of God, this man will never smell anything presidency. Just look at how biased he is - So you'll make dialogue with blood thirsty terrorist who are agitating for the disintegration and fall of Nigeria because they're your brothers, but not Fulani herders who only took up arms -the same way your brothers did- to protect themselves against marginalisation, incessant attacks and cattle rustling.

You are mad for saying fulani herders pick up arm because they are protecting themselves against marginalization or any kind. Evil being, they have used your brain to eat Agbado and cassava mumu urging.

Nor be only blue print na green print, druggie wan take another people glory. Wetin Jakande,mobolaji Johnson, fashola, ambode, go come say them do nonsense. lagos state was already developed before the drug baron came in 1999. Please let tinubu show all his work he did for 8years except for bringing thugs and agbero in the state.

Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

At the first instance when you discovered what she did even after you have paid her dowry and she went ahead to sleep with the guy you should have ended the marriage instantly because what she has done is an abomination in God's eyes and tradition which is a no no for me, in where i came from once you know your wife had sex with another man and you still keep her in the marriage your life will be at risk the moment you ate her food unless she has gone through cleansing in the family compound, see my brother you will continue to leave with this if you don't take the necessary steps and discharge her and make sure you do a DNA test for your child to confirm if the child is yours.i can manage to accept a cheating girlfriend if it's just once but not a cheating wife the day i find out that's the day the marriage will end.so my advice for you is to end the marriage and both of you should co parent the child which with time the baby will understand why you discharge her mother. My 2cent.

This is painful and touching, i have a friend who also lost his fiancee two weeks to their marriage, it's a heart breaking thing ooo and devastated one for that matter. The good God will heal him and may her beautiful soul continue to rest in peace.

Monday60655:
My dear blood sister, whoever did this to you, will never go unpunished. Your death will be far better than their own and their entire generation. God of vengeance is still at work.
Munachi my sister as I rightly call you always, may your soul rest in the bosom of the Lord.

So sorry for your loss. May her soul rest in peace.

Happy birthday to a great and visionary leader, Peter Gregor obi. Many more fruitful years ahead and God's blessings.

Peter Gregory obi i stand with and other youth in Nigeria like me will too.

Fear who nor fear Apc.

I told y'all breakfast go reach everybody.

Breakfast served in full. .

Ben ayade nor get weight for PDP and he run go Apc still nor get weight.

Last last na everybody go chop breakfast.

Breakfast served in full.

My father taught me many things, keep your friends close and your enemies closer.

Hit me with the music men.

Good morning my neighbors.

Orlando Orlando, you want to leave without saying goodbye.

You'ill need butter,milk,flour and eggs.
The correct one.

Hunter102:
Greetings all, I'm confused on what to choose between a Masters scholarship in Germany with €850 monthly stipend or an Engineering job in Nigeria worth 230k monthly as jobs are hard to find here. Sincere advice is needed whether to leave the job and go for MSc Abroad.

Go for the msc in Germany if you want a better future for yourself and your unborn children and family.Be wise.

janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.

Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.

He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.

I feel like pouring out my heart.

You don't even know what you want in life, you have a very nice man according to you but he gets angry once or twice in a year and he has never hit you once and you are not happy with that all because he does that in presence of your kids which is why you want to leave the marriage, just tell me say ashawo still dey your eyes, if not i see nothing here because you can actually talk to him about such behavior and work things out and savage your marriage instead coming here and talking trash.
My dear make your marriage work or do you think better men are out there, them go just knack your kpekus tire...be wise.

JoyousFurnitire:
Husband: 1.05

X

Wife: 65.23

What's the odd for draw..

No buy Russia oil and you pass back go increase your supply from the same country.
Nor be juju be that.

Shuo ooo..this guy na devil in nature oh.
How can someone be this heartless, my dear please take heart everything will be alright, brace up and keep your head up the lord is your strength and a more better person will come through for you that will appreciate you and make you his number one priority.
He is going to get his breakfast too.

Do you know why we have so many broken marriage, it's because many women don't marry because of love, they marry who is ready...

Let there be peace in the world, time spent on passing judgement by the Westerners can be use to resolve the issue instead of sanctions and providing weapons for more death and mass destruction.

Drsnives:
Good morning nairaladers, pls pardon my errors.

I met this girl late last year, she's nice, godly and has most of the qualities i want in a wife. i love her, though her dad is late and her mum should be in her late thirties.

Yesterday we were chatting and she was like her dad didn't do the necessary rites on her mum and hence according to tradition i will have to pay her mum's bride price to her family before i will be allowed to start her own (my babe) marriage rites. I just weak cos have never heard of such. Where i won see the money for double bride price?

Pls nairaladers, have any of you come across such ridiculous tradition or she's making it up herself cos i feel like quiting the whole thing.
I just tire. Your opinions are welcomed

Modified: she's from obiaruku in ukuwani local government area of Delta State.

Nothing as such in obiaruku, maybe she doesn't know the traditions well, ask her mother or find out from the elderly people there.

They are going to chop your head for this, although date for good reason not for only just sex.

We get petrol plenty for here ooo nothing like petrol scarcity for south south here.

NOETHNICITY:
While thinking you a bad guy bro you are one hell of a simp

It's people like you that make women think there is something special about them

I'll never allow a woman give me half that treatment before I booth her out of my life

She will never be able to stand anywhere close to me ever again

My guy i nor be simp ooo and i nor dey quick vex cause my anger bad,so before woman go start to dey misbehave i go clear her once.you dey game or dey Waka.
Wetin i buy or do for woman i nor dey reason am that one na pass because if i do you as a person when do me wrong na your own conscience go dey judge whenever you see me no body go tell you na only you go run.

My brother i nor dey beat woman and i never beat woman once but you see this one, i go reset her brain with slap after she comes back or when both of us are together, what nonsense and ingredient is that.
Any ways just warn her, you don't want such to repeat itself again if not she will see that range of your anger.mind you no need to park her out from the shop, you are a nice guy even if you don't end up with her in the future, still don't reason that way. Lock up for her conscience to judge her.it is well with you man.

Point of correction terrorist not bandits.

More blessing.nice one.

Abeg wetin i wan understand, the tweet when the governor confirm 2 death and the ones that got injured in the hospital na wetin.
I guess him don forget say him confirm 2 death and many injured victims in the hospital. Bust meat catch hunter.