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micellgevity:
Amen, thanks. Anyway, this is the tenth year of trying and waiting. I pray for successful delivery.

Just an innocent question o, please don't take it too personal. Have you considered adoption?

When Nigerians do philanthropic work, it has to be because a voice is muttering in their head. Never because they actually felt it or thought it was important, bar God or church. Bill Gates is there giving millions of dollars away each year, but he's not making cring posts about voices and God.

You will see relationships like this and think that people leaving in you happiness and love and care, without realising it's only for the gram or for tikotok. Wake up people and stop saying God when

GooodHardDick:
What's the name of this movie?

You are stupid and dumb

Odoziaku1:
Haaaaa! Wahala o. Nemesis don catch up
Pls, 4 someone without driving licence (FRSC) pls, any hope?

When dem dey tell una to get driving licence, una gree?

Dominion791:
I've been seeing this girl for the last few months, since early January of this year. Not an official relationship and we haven't really talked about what we are. Not sure exactly how to describe her so I'm just going to use her as a friend in benefit as the description.

There was some emotion in our relationship but it was mostly sexual. I've always been really, really good about using condoms and this is the first time I've ever been in this pregnancy situation.

I'm pretty unsure if I am the father. We had sex about twice a week for the last three months. So I have no clue who she saw or was with nor do I really care to be honest. There is more than a little doubt in my mind if I am the father.

For what its worth she insists I am the father but I don't know. She learned she was pregnant on March 22nd. She Told me on 24th. I immediately encouraged her to get an abortion I've offered to cover it all cost . She said she would think about. Its been almost 2 weeks and no abortion.

I spoke to her this morning and its becoming kind of clear that an abortion probably isn't happening. She is starting to get kind of tired of me pushing the abortion. I don't know what else to do. I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford to raise a child right now and I certainly don't want a family right now. I'm thinking of telling her to reconsider the abortion or take care of the baby alone.

What do I do now?

Shouldn't you be more concerned that you could catch a life threatening STD? Na wa o

RaniOpe:
Thank you ma'am

It's almost certain you won't find a man with all that spec here. The chances are zero to nil. You will have to make a compromise. You don't just get to sit wherever you are and hope that nairaland drops a fortune on your laps. Go out into the sun.

Bola146:
I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford to raise a child right now


Kikikikikikikikikikiki.... aku oriire o, safe delivery

Don't ever try to start what you can't continue

weyrey lol

This guy no even sabi how much introducing verification on nairaland can help this website. If people have a very visible presence here, verify them with a badge. Make it exclusive and watch as your users increase. Also let people's number of likes and mention show on their bio

Even down to the blood group lmao

When Nigerians want someone who they expect to be a well-behaved person, they require you to believe in God, not in the fanatic kind of way o, but just enough to not be a nuisance about it. Ah! Naija people. That's our way of measuring someone's morality, but still ensuring that the person can be crazy in bed and not be a religion police.

politicoNG:
Previous Thread;
https://www.nairaland.com/5823690/police-arrest-mubarak-bala-blasphemy#88973597



https://dailynigerian.com/breaking-kano-atheist-mubarak/



https://dailynigerian.com/breaking-kano-atheist-mubaraks/

Today is Day 707 Bala was arrested.

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Nigeria is just a terrible place to live. They can sentence this guy to 24 years for so-called blasphemy. But they can't even sentence one politician or corrupt public office to 1 or 2 years for corruption? What kind of joke is this?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Blacks..

Racist

Everything just tells you this man is a brave man. His country is at war and he is not in hiding. He is out there, walking among his people and acting fearless. You can't say the same thing for Jubril in aso rock.

SlyDev:
Fun idagbasoke ile Yoruba

God bless Tinubu
God bless sanwo olu
God bless Yoruba land

Thunder fire your nyash

You mean, Jubril?
Know that you have disaster in your hands when you have a president who is praying instead of actually working

If there is one person in the history of Nigerian politics that really disappointed me to no lengths, it has to be Adams Oshiomole. From his days as a thorn in Obasanjo's flesh, you would think this guy stood for the masses. He called himself a comrade and as a leader who championed the needs of millions of Nigerian workers, he stood opposed to Obasanjo's policies which were not in the general interest of the public. In his simple Khaki outfit, he felt like every other commoner who was experiencing the biting impact of a failing Nigerian economy. Anyone may have claimed at that time that he was the hope Nigeria needed. Squarely because of his activism,

Alas! He too had a price. He became a governor and things changed. He started rigging like every other stupid Nigerian governor and wanted to become political godfather. Who would have believed the Adams Oshiomole of the early 2000's would turn into such a corrupt politician with a trophy wife? Adams is a disaster and a clear evidence that Nigerian activisits have no honor. He is a shining indication that people like Omojuwa, Tolu Ogunlesi, and every other Twitter warrior are just waiting for their turn to eat in the national cake. Nigeria is finished! I wonder how much good can come out of that country every again.

It should be an insult by now to Africans in general that the Oscar academy cannot see beyond Angelique Kidjo in its awarding for Best Global Music. Is she the only one doing music in the whole of Africa? Or in the rest of the world?

jjohndoe83:
What is the correlation between pissing your unsolicited opinion over people's experience and this being a public forum. Is that an excuse to be a jerk in your commentary?

okay

Bola146:
sir, what do you want people to say? Pamper her and let it go? Or you should keep quiet? and this one will call himself a husband or a man Seriously, to be a husband is not moimoi and pap. Some couples still need more orientation about marriage.

Shut up! If you can't offer advice, move on.

Another day in zoogeria.

Crafteck1:
Learn to say no, reduction in monthly income due to economy and government policy made me realise some things, from income of about 1.5~2m monthly to 400~600, aside from your responsibilities to your immediate family learn to put people into groups or people that would help if reverse was to get some people that walk away 90% of so-called friends or people you know along the way would walk away, concentrate on people that would be there or likely to be there.There are people ive paid rents and school fees for nothing and yet for me to ask them to help stay in the store for few hours or basic tasks, they wont, i have a friend with my millions in his business that sank due to covid but i dont regret it, he would do thesame for me if the case was reverse.

Learn to use some punctuation, please.

jjohndoe83:
Should have just left it at "Congrats!"

Wake up! It's a public forum

Didijiji:
Hello all,

A relationship was started in November last year with the guy planning to marry the lady Easter this year. Suddenly the lady said the age difference is much and she won’t be continuing.

Please is the age difference for a man, 41 and woman 28 much?

What is a 41 year old doing with a 28 year old?

Xscape1993:
And so? If the company in question can handle the project, why not give it to them? Besides, the governor of Kano state awarded some contracts to his son's company. Party of complains, terrorists sympathizer, blames and corruption.

Ode

Totilopussylick:
So far as it went successfully.

Such should not be repeated.

People perish for lack of unforseen circumstances.

So far it went successfully?? Na una type dey kill Nigeria

Happy New day

Afolavid:
The easiest and fastest route to get an additional degree is through a Pre-HND program from Kings Polytechnic, it cost about 250k altogether and would be ready within a month (according to them).

When I was in your shoes, I opted for BCS cert in IT because I have an IT background and I didn't want to spend that much, at the end of the day, I didn't pass BCS, as a matter of fact, none of all the people that I know personally and wrote with pass all the 3 papers at once. I lost interest in BCS and fell back on the PreHND.

To cut long story short, if you're ready to study well and wait a few months, opt in for BCS, CIMA and the likes. But If you're after a certificate that will be ready asap, try this route. Refer to the screenshot attached, visit their website and write to their official email to get started. Cheers!

Una don dey basterdize this process, going to get a one month certificate. Na Nigeria go make Canada cancel this thing last last. As una make dem cancel Nigeria for DV loterry. Una wahala too much. Always trying to game the system.

The only thing that can help stop this menace is to send these boys to firing squad strrraaaaiiight! Shoot them off. Reduce their numbers. That will teach prospective yahoo boys a lesson. Instead, dem go just dey give them slap on the wrist. When we were growing up then, the thing that deterred us from doing bad was the regular bar beach firing squad that wiped away dem hardened criminals. As a kid, when you remember those scenes, and your mama warn you, you stay away from stealing. Today, everybody just dey steal anyhow. Shior!