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Education / Re: How To Achieve High Scores On The GRE by CptCharlesVane: 3:27am On Nov 03, 2023 |
You wait for your WES evaluation. It takes about 4 to 6 weeks if I remember correctly. trilacos: |
Education / Re: How To Achieve High Scores On The GRE by CptCharlesVane: 5:27am On Oct 25, 2023 |
Wow! This was me mixing my excitement over my offer with my disappointment from Buhari’s re-election. It’s crazy how things have degenerated in Nigeria. So many significant life events and milestones years later, it’s almost incredible looking back but I dreamed about this! and life is much better over here. I want to encourage anyone left on this thread to keep at it, don’t get discouraged, and keep dreaming and believing. CptCharlesVane: 1 Like |
Travel / Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by CptCharlesVane: 3:51am On May 09, 2022 |
How can I get someone to pay the visa fee? |
Travel / Re: USA Visit Visa Part 4 by CptCharlesVane: 10:22pm On May 07, 2022 |
Please how long did it take (processing time), 2 months? Kween2014: |
Travel / Re: USA Visit Visa Part 4 by CptCharlesVane: 10:14pm On May 07, 2022 |
How long did it take (processing time), 2 months? Somandla: |
Travel / Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 15 by CptCharlesVane: 6:28pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Take the GRE, if you can afford it. Join the GRE thread. Prepare for Fall 22 admissions, contact your referees about you intention, get transcripts and keep up with graduate admissions on social media. babajide107: 4 Likes |
Crime / Re: Soldier Advising Youth In Kubwa, Abuja Against Looting Food Items Meant For NYSC by CptCharlesVane: 7:30pm On Oct 27, 2020 |
It is never the ‘Kai! Walahi!’ soldiers explaining and being civil. |
Politics / Re: Kadaria Ahmed Asked To Condemn Kano Death Sentence As She Criticized Ibiyeomie by CptCharlesVane: 2:25pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Nigerians too carry religion for head � |
Business / Re: Obinna Ukwuani Appointed Chief Digital Officer Of Bank Of Kigali by CptCharlesVane: 11:31pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
Every laudable feat outside Nigeria we hardly hear about Buhari’s tribesmen and siblings up north but when it comes to destruction, bloodshed, Sharia, death they’re overly represented. Referendum? No o! Says the Yorubas. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Regina Daniels Dances With Her Co-Wives At Their Son & Daughter's Birthday by CptCharlesVane: 9:50pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
When the money is right even the wives will rejoice with the side chicks |
Politics / Re: Akpata, Sans Kick As Northern Lawyers Form Parallel NBA by CptCharlesVane: 1:40am On Aug 30, 2020 |
Gradually, everyone goes their own way. |
Politics / Re: Muslim Lawyers Association Of Nigeria Endorses Death Penalty For Kano Blasphemer by CptCharlesVane: 1:32am On Aug 30, 2020 |
I blame Yoruba people for this useless union. It is clear the north are not compatible with progressive societal norms but referendum is Haram to the sophisticated idiots of the South West. Bastards!! All of them. Supported a useless illiterate and have a professor of law who still hasn’t resigned with all these rubbish. Fuckers!!!! 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Muslim Lawyers Association Of Nigeria Endorses Death Penalty For Kano Blasphemer by CptCharlesVane: 1:28am On Aug 30, 2020 |
Religion and stupidity! 5 & 6. Bloody idiots killing themselves for a dead Arab. Nigerians just carry religion on top head like fools 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Luxury Buses Banned In Kano State As Traders Lament by CptCharlesVane: 3:22pm On Aug 28, 2020 |
It always beats me how in spite of all these antics from the backward Islamist North fools still want ‘one Nigeria’ I blame Yoruba people if not wetin concern rat with foreign exchange. |
Politics / Re: El-rufai: 100 Muslim Kaduna Lawyers Threaten To Boycott NBA Conference by CptCharlesVane: 10:45pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Religion for the stupid |
Politics / Re: The House Malami Built For Abdulaziz, His Son In Pictures - Sahara Reporters by CptCharlesVane: 6:16pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
Malami is rich and can afford this for his son. The attorney responsible for securing hundreds of millions of Abacha dollars, legal fees alone would make him a multimillionaire in dollars. Ever wondered the percentage cut the attorney gets for each Abacha post-Morten donation? It’s not 1% btw 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Buhari Signs Bill On Financial Autonomy Of State Legislature, Judiciary by CptCharlesVane: 10:09pm On May 22, 2020 |
He’s done well this time |
Romance / Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by CptCharlesVane: 11:52am On May 22, 2020 |
First, you write really well. I thought I should chime in to share my experience in a similar situation. I’m like you but a guy, quite ambitious and love information about everything and opportunities. So, I kind of understand how disappointing it is when a partner has no desire to do the bare minimum even for their own best interest. Sometimes, it gets overbearing and demoralizing, but Love is mysterious. With time/age, I’ve come to understand that people are not the same and even if they become who you think you’d like them to be, the process of becoming often makes them lose the essence about them that made you like/love them in the first place. With my SO, I’ve never met anyone so kind and charming, always listens to me with grace, respectful and outright adores me. Even in my critical analysis I have yet to discover the special things that I do or that I am to deserve all of these. She will go to the ends of the world if it will make me happy, but she still has a mind of her own and can walk away from it all. Her peace of mind is paramount. This I realize is truly rare, and must admit that I’m so grateful for her and us, because with her I’ve realized that many times, all one needs is support and loyalty from being in love. Yet, she is so unlike me in terms of dreams, aspirations, how children should be raised, investments etc etc and I’ve also come to understand that her life experience has been different; as our experiences are what largely shapes us and many of our aspirations and ambition. Not acknowledging this usually leads people to project their insecurities (eg. fear of poverty) on others in relationships, and this is not the best way to approach relationships. So, I have come to use such motivational speeches for myself, towards my development. I have also improved my communication to make her understand my POV without making her feel inadequate while acknowledging her free will to either take or reject counsel without me becoming salty over it. I love the support I get from her anyway so it’s all good. I also decided to engage in specialized or otherwise intellectually demanding conversations with my colleagues or other friends as I’ve stopped looking to derive all my interests in a single individual, because it is just self-centered. Perhaps, these discussions are not so important in the grand scheme of things, like we’ve believed them to be. The nature of my profession leaves me mostly around highly intelligent people, but I’m not oblivious that such people can be big trouble to convince, and many times one needs to make an argument to have them do something, even mundane things. They can be very difficult when misunderstood. Thinking of myself, if roles were reversed, best believe I will and can never approach a relationship the same way my SO does. But I think it’s beautiful now when I think about it. Before we met, I would have preferred ‘someone intelligent, ambitious, hardworking etc ‘ but now, if this ideal person comes along I’ll gladly pass up on the offer, again and again. Love is powerful, and I think knowledge of building spaceships and nuclear warheads pales in comparison to kindness and honesty in relationships, even as I like learning about such things. It’s been many years now and, honestly, I wouldn’t have it anyway else. Should you call off your relationship? It’s your decision to make. If it is an intelligent and ambitious person you truly want, you should know that they also come with their bag of chips, worse is when you find yourself as the less intelligent and ambitious one. They also can in turn can project their insecurities. It’s hard to find intelligent people already, but genuinely honest and kind people are even more rare. Ginger yourself to become what you think your boyfriend should do for himself to be respected by your parents. They are your parents, not his. Besides, It becomes a win-win situation, in the event that your relationship goes south. Acmepreneur: 1 Like |
Travel / Re: 160 Nigerians Evacuated From United States Arrive Abuja by CptCharlesVane: 4:45pm On May 10, 2020 |
I doubt money can be made in the midst of a contagion with no place to stay. Besides, they paid for the flight so they are not exactly poor haryorbarmie83: |
Travel / Re: 160 Nigerians Evacuated From United States Arrive Abuja by CptCharlesVane: 1:31pm On May 10, 2020 |
Because they’re illegals or maybe being together woth family is more important haryorbarmie83: |
Politics / Re: Mutari Dauda Is Dead! Buhari's Nephew Dies by CptCharlesVane: 7:10pm On May 08, 2020 |
The president, Garba Shehu |
Travel / Re: My Monthly Savings In Canada by CptCharlesVane: 7:05pm On May 08, 2020 |
Didn’t he post his tax return? Nnamz: |
Family / Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by CptCharlesVane: 12:27am On Apr 28, 2020 |
tonididdy: |
Family / Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by CptCharlesVane: 12:12am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Many African women are victims of FGM including some here giving advice. All non-mutilated women would grow to love sex and pleasure from clitoral stimulation naturally but how e no go taya person dem cut the whole clitoris comot for small pikin? and how would a woman without one understand a foreign woman with one or better yet advise them? OP didn’t even read like she enjoys or has ever enjoyed sex, just married the guy as a bestie for only gist ; no dīcking innobarca: |
Family / Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by CptCharlesVane: 11:46pm On Apr 27, 2020 |
Leave her, she’ll soon join ‘all men cheat and men are scum’ gang. I think the perception in Africa that women don’t like sex and are not supposed to like sex cannot be unrelated to the high rate of female genital mutilation and religion. For all we know, OP must have been a victim of FGM and have been raised to see sex as a duty to create children. Even sounds like she never ever enjoyed sex with her husband and doesn’t even have a clue that women love sex naturally and love feeling sexy especially by men who really desire them. djon78: |
Family / Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by CptCharlesVane: 11:39pm On Apr 27, 2020 |
Honestly, I’m not much of a cheating type but if my wife believes and does so much as you say up to recommending a sex timetable, I’ll ensure she regrets that decision for the rest of the marriage. She will beg for attention until we dissolve the marriage. You think you’re doing your faithful husband a favour by making him beg for sex? Sex is meant to be enjoyed, more so by women if not during this pandemic it wouldn’t be women all over the internet dancing naked and talking about sex all the time. if the woman doesn’t enjoy it then maybe she needs to check her history. Many women in Africa have been genitally mutilated so that may be one of the reasons and that’s why I really take opinions of women on such less seriously because nobody knows who has a full clitoris and those without yet every woman’s advice should hold the same weight. Don’t come and spoil somebody’s groove with duty duty sex. It isn’t attractive to healthy men with active sex drives. Again monogamy is very unnatural but it is just one of the many things that distinguishes us from other primates so we do it anyway especially as it is good for raising children, but no man with low libido married many wives even then for mere achievement what about poor people? Don’t they take many wives? Or they also think achievements, why are they selective then if they don’t intend to sleep with them as much as they desire? Pound for pound no man with excessively high libido can match his equivalent in a woman but monogamy, marriage, relationships often is about compromise. Personally, I avoid girls who see sex as something only a man wants that’s why I never signed up for the ‘no sex before marriage’ clause. We’ve been enjoying sex with other people before we got married so don’t come and dull my life and expect faithfulness for lifeless negotiated sex. It takes tremendous discipline to remain faithful to one woman, especially as an attractive and desirable man and trust me comments like yours would make many seemingly good men laugh because you really don’t know what you’re asking for. Some people are sex addicts, while some are too busy to have sex all the time, but every healthy straight man loves sex and would want it as much as possible with the woman he’s attracted to. so please be guided. LilMissFavvy: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Health / Re: Rabiu Kwankwaso Donates Hospital To Kano COVID-19 Committee by CptCharlesVane: 4:54pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Oh they’re now donating their constituency projects |
Politics / Re: Wike To Buhari: I Don’t Take Orders From Abuja But Rivers People by CptCharlesVane: 10:27pm On Apr 17, 2020 |
But he suspends elected local govt chairmen and want them to come beg him. It’s apparent we are just confused about what kind of country we really want. People just want power to fulfil their childhood fantasies. Nwodosis: 1 Like |
Health / Re: Coronavirus: Northern Nigeria At High Risk — Gates Foundation by CptCharlesVane: 9:20pm On Apr 17, 2020 |
Yes, leave them alone so that you’ll feed them and sponsor the WHO that’s providing test kits and support for your country and also you’ll start providing anti-HIV drugs for free for Africa. Yes, you and family have been doing so he shouldn’t interfere. Ijaycool: |
Celebrities / Re: P. Diddy: Coronavirus Killing A Lot Of Blacks In The U.S. by CptCharlesVane: 7:03pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
What about the black doctors, you ask? When the black Nigerian doctor thinks like you (highlighted) that would be the same reason he would take the ventilator off you to die in order to save a white patient or the same reason he would not respond to emergencies of ‘pant sagging thug’ black teenagers that look the same as your children and nephews. You guys are really pathetic, honestly. What has Nigeria contributed to the world? Who are the role models in Nigeria? Would you be in the US (if you are, anyway) if these people you despise didn’t stay and fight for the liberties you seem to enjoy? LESS OPPRESSION IS NOT THE SAME AS NO OPPRESSION. The struggle for equal rights is not over and AAs are still fighting for it. What is changing in Nigeria? Is Nigeria better off than it was twenty years ago, in terms of civil rights and liberties. Nigeria was well past independence when Jim Crow was still a thing in the US. At this point, ignorance is a choice, you can choose to remain stupid. And if you attended any university in the US why don’t you check when black people were allowed to attend them. Or you really think you look any different? Hanks0000: 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: P. Diddy: Coronavirus Killing A Lot Of Blacks In The U.S. by CptCharlesVane: 6:48pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
Your problem is that you have been oppressed for so long in Nigeria such that you think less systematic oppression = no systematic oppression. Do people even have or know basic human rights in Nigeria? Can you even speak to a government official in Nigeria the way the Nigerian ambassador spoke to Chinese officials in communist China, without any consequences? You lot even despise and frustrate people who make the effort to fight for decent rights in Nigeria Instead of you to learn about what you do not understand, you are talking about fairness. Your type are the loud mouths making all of us in diaspora seem like ungrateful idîots. Why do you know more about the US if Nigeria is eldorado? America is not fair, No, it isn’t BUT AFRICAN AMERICANS ARE SPEAKING UP AND FIGHTING FOR THOSE RIGHTS AND ARE ALSO NOT RUNNING AWAY TO NIGERIA OR AFRICA, NEVER HAD AND NEVER WILL. THAT IS THE DIFFERENCE You pathetic bunch. Abeg this thread don dey vex me this afternoon Necksonnel: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: P. Diddy: Coronavirus Killing A Lot Of Blacks In The U.S. by CptCharlesVane: 6:22pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
Please, that flea does not represent many of us. I’m sure if there was a dislike option we might have got a more representative opinion poll. The reason nigerians even have somewhere to run to, like the US, is because of the sweat and blood of AAs who fought for their basic human rights, which is still elusive in Nigeria and nobody is even fighting for it. We cannot all run away, honestly, many are and have given up and leaving - at least they have where to run to. I still haven’t seen the reason for chest beating anywhere. Nigeria is just a pathetic nation on all fronts, a disappointment is a gross understatement such that even the president of Nigeria runs away to these other countries at the slightest discomfort. The guy is ignorant and his parents never told him why they also ran away. safarigirl: |
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