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bukatyne:
I will modify to say they loved someone else and for a myraid of reasons, did not marry them.

So they are stuck with someone else for convenience and soon enough, the center no longer holds.

There w is a difference because someone who has never loved and just picked any partner with someone in love once, never resolved or got closure and marrying someone else.

They forever subconsciously pine for what only their lover can give.

bullabong:
So young lady,did you ask him where he poured the sperm since you were aware he wasn't wearing a condom and he said he didn't pour it into you?

Depressed101:
I am.. I feel pain, cos I go through alot just for them, my savings is nothing to right home about...

Depressed101:
she knows this, I don't know why they are doing this... In fact I called my mum immediately that incidence happened, and told her to call my sister to return the money as the money is not mine... She disconnected the call saying she was busy.

bukatyne:
What about singles who deliberately decide to stay off sex and/or romantic partners?

Watch depression and suicide increase with this nonsense.

Biglittlelois:
[s]Really? She tried to be a bigger person by using that phrase and also prove to you that opinions matter, but this is what you could come up with, SMH!!! This is how to differentiate the manboys from the sane ones, and sadly, you 100% fit the former.[/s]

Fountainofyouth:
My comment hurts that's why you can't quote me? I know opinions can be brutal at times, reason why you had to indirectly reply me, so go back to your previous comment and eat your words dude and stop being hypocritical, people's negative opinions affects you and it's okay, we are humans not robots, and I love you too regardless.

KIkiofure:
Good evening all..
So the update is I finally told my mum but she has been crying non stop and she said she doesn't wanna see me for now so I am currently not home.
She asked of the guy and called him and immediately he heard her voice he hunged up..
Like right now he is saying I should do my worst he even said I should curse if I want to even mocking me..
So my resolution is I will just anyhow bear the shame but my mum said I can't stay home so I might just go stay with a family for now but I am sorry to say this I will go extra mile I swear to make sure he suffer..
He impregnated me on purpose because i asked him severally he said he didn't cum in me..
He will beg for food but won't see I promise

Ishilove:
I'm serious. I thought they rush to the bathroom to shower

KevinDein:
She's the quintessential Alpha female. She gives zero fuckks what other ladies on this forum think. Doesn't go out of her way to belong to a clique.

Ishilove:
Is there a particular way to detect if there is sperm inside one?

bukatyne:
Funny thread.

Like men also do not get labels.

If been called bitchy for instance gets to you, review your behaviour and change.

If you don't care, dust it off and move on.

I wonder why you want to legislate people's opinions of you.

mumumugu:
He is not alone in this, there are thousands of Nigerian men who ends up sad lonely old men every year.

olabrinks:
I used my case as an example as it related to topic. You’re the one deflecting as you seem excited and amused, trying so hard to deliberate on that one sentence when it was simply a reference. If you don’t want to be challenged on ignorant comments posted on nairaland, then don’t comment all. Simple as that.

olabrinks:
Since that’s the only thing you got from everything I wrote, it’s clear that your argument is void and invalid. Two people lie down to have sex, there’s a possiblity that pregnancy will be formed by these two people. Whether the man decides to walk out and leave doesn’t negate the input he had in creating that child. If it’s up to the woman who decides to get herself pregnant or not, then please why can’t she get pregnant on her own? Why cant the egg fertilise without sperm? Contraception or not, sex= pregnancy. Your argument would’ve been better if you told women to abstain from sex, that is the only way she will have 100% responsibility and control over her body. It’s as simple as abc.

olabrinks:
This is not about who is right or wrong, I’m simply correcting your statement that the responsibility of falling pregnant falls solely on the woman. Of course we know that the man can simply walk away if he wants, because biology doesn’t allow a man to carry the pregnancy. This doesn’t negate the fact that both adults were equally responsible for producing that child during conception. And there’s nothing rare about getting pregnant with condoms, birth control pills, postinor or using all methods of contraception. My husband and I still got pregnant using two methods of contraception. Are we now going to say it’s solely my fault for getting pregnant, when both of us decided to lay down which we knew had consequences? and It happens on a daily basis. Like I said, man made products can not defeat nature. If you have sex, you can get pregnant no matter what. And that’s what I’m simply correcting you on. The only way a woman can prevent herself from getting pregnant wholeheartedly is by abstinence, and In that sense your argument would be more valid. You would be surprised how many women have gone through abortions, after failed methods of contraceptions. It’s more common that you think.

olabrinks:
You can use condoms, it will still tear, bam you are pregnant. Even if it doesn’t, there’s still a possibility of pregnancy.
You can be on birth control pills, you can still get pregnant
You can take the morning after pill aka postinor and still get pregnant. This is not the matter of allowing yourself to get pregnant or not, the truth is that biology will always take its place faster than man made products no matter what anybody does. The only way to ensure you will never get pregnant is abstinence, which 90% of young adults cannot do. So no, you’re wrong. Pregnancy is not strictly controlled by the woman. The man and the woman who lie down together are equally responsible for the reproduction of a child if they decide to have sex.

Ishilove:
So the guy that poured inside doesn't have any responsibility in the pregnancy, abi? What happened to condoms?? Don't let me summon the spirit of whitlow to locate the fingers you used in typing this

KIkiofure:
Ye I am scared o.. I guess I will go tell my pastor(She is a female) so that she can follow me to meet my mum

KIkiofure:
TBH sir I didn't get pregnant on purpose..Like I said I was very careful about it and him too but that day I guess he Came inside me but forgot because I kept asking him and he kept saying no he didn't.. We argued and he blocked me yesterday but I will tell my mum but not now,i am thinking when the pregnancy is about 4/5 months because I have a flat tummy..Concerning the abortion I have tried all kinds of medication noting worked o.. I will bear the shame and carry my Cross

KIkiofure:
Hi All.. I called my BF and told him that I want to keep the child he said if I want to then I am on my own so he blocked me..
I don't wanna say anything but this isn't what he said when the going was good

bluefilm:
This is the summary of what their useless feminism movement is all about.

Nonsense.

omokoginimi:
she’s married? Pheeeew