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fatymore:
Stop quoting me

bukatyne:
Not a woman thing bro.

I am sure you would be worried if your wife is snooping on your phone or monitoring you without giving her a reason to.

sassysure:
Oh my God, can u see how shocked I am.

This lady is a destroyer. Those men are killers.

U know former governor of Enugu state chime Sullivan. The enstrangled wife was a sister to the girlfriend. This lady and man were shamelessly floriking together until she got pregnant and now married her.
Just not more than one yr into the marriage, problem started. She was booted out of government house and I think she has filled for divorce. The wickedness of man. I can't comprehend at all.

cheenway:
Am I a fool to bring something as delicate as this here if it were to be me in the picture.

If you must know, it's a copied post from fb

Ode!

sassysure:
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It does.
I don't absolve the husbands too.

All of them are super guilty.

When they say make una dey control your third leg, una no go gree.

Look at what third leg has caused. It's their type that will go for their daughters tomorrow. Because of toto,toto, man will see death and gladly walk into it.

bukatyne:
You intended is aware sha.

Because it is lack of trust especially when she hasn't given you a reason not to.

bukatyne:
I am surprised that not one of them is his out of the four.

Also they all belong to one man which suggests an affair spanning more than 10 years.

@bold: Why?

sassysure:
Just seeing it.
Haaa!
If it's true, I'm speechless.

bukatyne:
Is the man impotent?

I find it strange, the four kids for one man.

sassysure:
How do u know it's an old moniker?

I don't even know what to say.

At least pity the sisters. They are innocent

Yummymummy07:
I swear on my father grave my story is 100% true . I had to create this new account just for security protection of me and my daughter

fatymore:
I meant all what I said.

fatymore:
I.know you are laughing your head off...


Bye joor

bukatyne:
Sexcapade ke?

Makes it seem I was bed hopping.

Biko o!

kayfx2:
Now i just like intellectually sound people like this.A bottle of cold Heineken for you..I believe strongly in marriage honestly ..But, I see comments from some girls here! and i am like ha ha !! that's the reason most guys are scared to get married nowadays..If 9 out of 10 thinks like this...Then lets just live with it or just be single forever.Marriage is not by force. For me personally,I have zero tolerance for violent people either physically or emotionally.. I can't even marry a woman that is too confrontational,yell or nag...Hell No, you are not gon turn me to what i am not...I have a family member i grew up with..He is such a mild person and i have never known him to be violent in any way for the 20 years we have been friends together..Guess what!! My guy slap the wife on top nag oh ! His story is quite similar to this ...God help us ..

Graxie:
[s]please ignore that guy, do yourself a favor and do that. He has a female partner here, all they do is ridicule women and make light of their pain. You just ignore them.[/s]

bukatyne:
Hahahaha.

Lay all cards on the table and we know where to chook mouth.

BRATISLAVA:
does shouting, screaming or yelling(not physical) equate to slapping/punching and drawing blood(physical violence)? In your haste to justify domestic violence, don't forget to use proper situations that are similar.

fatymore:
Otito... Don't reply me again biko

fatymore:
I rest my case..you are irredeemable

ebyjoyken:
After reading all this, you still want clarification from me?

fatymore:
I was diplomatic enough and you resulted to insult... Well done ooo

fatymore:
You wrote all these to justify beating.

Clap for yourself and well done for a good job.

A responsible man with a 7month old child wouldn't waltz in by 2a.m. in the morning.

That's provocative and insulting enough. He doesn't have regards for the wife.

Good Morning

fatymore:
Yelling at him isn't a big deal as hitting her.

ebyjoyken:
I can't do that. I have told you the truth about what happened. What more answers do you want?

ebyjoyken:
Hi! Good morning all.
I have been married for 10 years, and i have never had any serious with my husband,

ebyjoyken:
Thank you ma. I have been loyal and respectful to him. He has been abusing me emotionally but i refused to break. But he found my weekness and that's my children. Every little thing he will threaten me that he will take my kids away from me. I have been good with his siblings and mum. If he sees my children around me, he gets angry and ask them to leave my side. It is beginning to really bother me. If he does something wrong and i correct him or tell him to treat people with love, he becomes very angry and starts threatening me with my kids. Telling me that i will soon run mad. So many things but i can't bear my heart on a public forum.

Fountainofyouth:
You can stop with the name tags, it doesn't suit the situation here.....

Fountainofyouth:
@emboldened, who provoked who first? Was he not the one that stayed out late? Is she suppose to be meek and happy when he got back at 2am in the morning? Wouldnt you react same way if your wife did same?

I just couldn't ignore your comment cos it's annoying, and I'll continue to quote you whenever I feel like, so you can as well say your piece, it's a faceless forum, I can't have a grudge on someone I don't know from Adam.

fatymore:
That's different, why will he come home late, will he take that if I am the one coming in at that time and believe me, he has been coming late at night that was why she was angry.

Ekene161829:
I did something I really regret . Me and my wife have an amazing marriage 2 years of marriage and we are blessed with a 7 months old baby girl. She is 28 and I almost 33. Last saturday I got invited to go out by some of my work friends , I got home late 2am, so madam wasn't happy. She was yelling me ,throwing hands and screaming at me . I ignored her and left the room to the living room but she followed me and I asked her to leave me alone but she kept going which made me angry, I took the back of my hand and gave her a slap on the mouth. She cried out and held her face and started crying and her lips was bleeding. I didnt intentionally hurt her , I just wanted to calm her down since ignoring her was not working. I said sorry , and I was literally on my knees begging her . I tried to hold her but she refused. The rest of the night was me repeating apology or i didnt mean to hurt you. She ignored me . She went into our room and locked the door , she was in there for a long time and the next morning , her mother and older brother was at the house and she came out of the room with her and our baby stuff and she said she was leaving me for good. I told her how sorry I was but her mother told me to get out of their faces and they left the house. I feel so ashamed and I've never done anything like this before and I never thought I would. I dont want to loose my wife and baby. I need both of them back . Should I attempt to contact her? What do I do?

fatymore:
Don't take the advice of people telling you to ignore her.


Talk to your parent and let them follow you to her place to beg for forgiveness.

As for me, you will write an undertaken that you won't ever lift your hands on me again.

RisenPhoenix:
I have met contented people happily living on less than minimum wage a month, and I have met discontented people making millions annually. The wife's attitude makes or breaks the home. If she has a contented nature, she will be fully supportive of the husband and make the home a happy place, even if it is constructed with plywood and rusty sheets of corrugated iron roofing. And if the wife is a malcontent, even Buckingham Palace will not be enough for her. Believe it.

bukatyne:
OP is no longer talking.