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merahki:
That was my jokey way of leaning towards a humanistic approach to life (well, from an independent and not a member stance)
It’s not that kind of do (I don’t even know if I understood you properly)
Happy Sunday/December

Lol, I was torn between inserting/not inserting a laugh emoji in that comment
Clearly I should have.

Wish you same dear

dancok:
i don't think quiet means unfriendly, some people are not just ur friend, no matter how u force yourself to be their friend.

Your introductory post is speaking from the perspective of other people right?

So I'm typing, in response to your question - a quiet person could be seen as unfriendly by other people, but not quite a threat.

merahki:
I can go on and on oo
I want and get periodic breaks but would want to skin my sister in-law alive if she ever suggested this to my brother
I don’t cook but how dare they not cook?
I don’t like vows but she must be yoked to my brother
And many more
I am simply, just terrible. I just said that sha, I am simply too honest and wild
I am a good person oo, I guess, but my sister in law has to be a saint
Well, I never do gender wars, have never been inclined to too. I do people not sexes

People doer, please continue oo.
You never finish na

Unfriendly? Probably yes.
A threat? I don't think so.

OlawaleBammie:
U too get braiiiinnn, am one of those people.

I won't even say a word, I just trust myself Dat she would nt slp in Dat ous not until I recv a call from the top.

even me as a man I can't leave home without prior notice talk more of Iyawo ile

stubbornness my foot.

I tell you man.

Some of these new-age women want to carry Hollywood film behaviour into an African man's home.

Raw-bish

glamouree:
Shut up, what do you know about skincare.
Keep mute when adults are talking.

Look I'm sure by now you know I don't care if you live or die, but you have to gather some cojonés and quote me with your main handle already.
It's becoming pathetic to always hide cowardly behind alternates like the albino rhesus monkey you are.

You're supposed to be asking if it's the right thing to do, not if it's possible.

Baby mamas and baby daddies are everywhere these days.

Hmmm, doubtful.
Let's see how possible it is for her to retire without abdicating.

That woman is wicked oo.

Your colleagues are ignorant.

Everyone who has done studies on slavery in sub-saharan Africa knows that the westerners would not have succeeded in laying their hands on Africans living in the hinterlands if the natives themselves had not willingly captured their kinsmen and transported them to the coasts.

God bless the ancient Benin Kingdom and Ijaw kingdom who refused to sell their kin into slavery - I don't want to mention names, but we all know the ethnic groups that did this.

No child of mine will suffer from gender dysphoria.

UyaiIncomparabl:
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Did you delete what you typed before or what?

Perhaps she's trying to keep with the custom of the ancient Hebrews. It was common for children to be suckled till about age 3 in that culture, though I feel the 5years she's working with is a stretch.

sassysure:
It's only clothes and plates. My dept president( student)

Okay

sassysure:
Canoe, truck etc. It's like this

Ohh dear, I know it. Thanks for this nostalgic photo, I haven't seen a soap of this kind in forever.

That HOD tried though, using this soap to bath.
Something which the girls in my secondary school then used kerosene to make in Home Economics practical class. Why won't he have rashes...

sassysure:
That long one. Truck soap and those on that category.

Don't think I know it, but yea some soaps can cause allergic reactions on sensitive skin.

sassysure:
Now u are talking. There is room for improvement

Her husband should improve small small. With time, he will get there.

Lol

sassysure:
Leave me alone
I go wound u o

It may be reaction.

My dept head in school had rashes that refused to heal continuously. He treated everything in this world until he did skin culture.
Lo and behold he was reacting to one chemical in our green bar soap. Can u imagine that?. As soon as he stopped using bar soap,everything disappeared. Who would have imagined.

Which one is green bar soap?
Premier? Canoe soap?

sassysure:
Hmm, a sanguine is people friendly and if your wife is such, she will be calling them always. Deny her that and u will make her unhappy. I grew up having so much respect for elders. If I'm in town,I do visit quite a number of them so I wonder how I will feel if I don't call my mother or father in law.

There is one mummy that is hardly related to my husband's people except that the family friendships spans when they were still single. As mummsy no dey, she comfortably took the role of mummsy. If I call this lady, she will be so happy. She don't need anybody's money. One of the ruling families of naija. She just want to hear your voice. This is what they want. Just to hear that voice saying mama, how are u. Not calling bc my husband is on the phone with her. Most parents want that.
Look at your dad, as u don't call, he is calling. It stabilizes their blood pressure. I have seen cases where they cry that their son in laws hardly call them. It's not good abeg.
We will be like them one day.

My husband don't call anybody. Only his dad and most time it's the old man calling. I push him to call and visit. U must call o. He will be whinning that I'm disturbing his life but secretly he loves that I push him to do things like that especially as the first born.Others can afford to misbehave but not him.

I can very well relate with this.
In fact, visiting is a stress trigger for me.. Once I know I have to visit someone, I start thinking of excuses and even manufacturing reasons to postpone it.

With calling, I'm getting better - I think IM apps affected me so badly that I deliberately began avoiding & using them to contact family & friends.
This way, I'm now calling more instead of just texting.

I've been on both sides though, so I can understand people who are not so good at calling - which is why I hardly take it personal when someone does not call me often.
There's room for improvement anyway.

sassysure:
Lots of skin infection flying around and mostly guys.

When they don't proper hygiene serious

U wear boxer 2 days straight yet u open mouth to say girls smell. They hardly groom.their body.

The average naija body is a breeding ground because of the humidity. When we do clean up, we use only soap and water. Sometimes only water. Is that one clean up?

Germs breed mostly in the kitchen and bathroom. And on the body, ur boxers, bushy private parts etc.

Guy, meet a dermatologist. A simple culture will show what's wrong with u and adequate treatment administered.

You see yourself for outside?
See what rushing to blast men has caused you.

And even if it was a man, mad man wey dey chop rotten trash and no dey baff still no dey get infections associated with bad hygiene.

I'm thinking this might be HSV-1 (Skin Herpes) that has developed overtime and has been left untreated.

sassysure:
Will it hurt you if your wife don't call your old man or mum? Or only chip in when u are with them on the phone?

Not at all, simply because there is always going to be a reason for my wife to want to call them besides just chipping in when I'm with them on the phone (not like I have any issues with this being the only time).
But anytime she tells me she has any health scare, I just tell her to call my mother to get a diagnosis, drug prescriptions, or just medical advise. Easy.

As for my pops, he's even the one to do most of the calling - that man is too playful with everybody and he's fond of checking up on people, his call time never runs out.
Sometimes I wish I was like that sef.

Ladylite:
Wrong... This is a myopic view. Listen, nagging is a vent out of frustration or fear.... Women who nag lack security, affectionate attention and joy.

No woman loves to nag... But men are just insensitive most times. When women are pregnant they usually nag. So please don't generalize

Because these women are babies right?

Liztee:
Thanks to everyone. I learnt something new. Though I usually call his parents because if I do same, I won't be respected as a wife in his family. I have seen that it's his behavior. Over to him. My parents do not demand things from him, Infact for our wedding, it was a low-key wedding because my mum was a teacher then, she invited just 4 friends from her school, few friends from church .

Good, don't invent an issue where there is none.

For someone like him, you can get him to talk on the phone with your parents whenever you yourself are calling them - in this way, it will be you and him together on the phone talking to your parents and it won't feel too weird for him to just pick up the phone on his own to ramble some memorized lines.

I always tell my guys and brothers, if mumsi does not like your babe for one reason or the other, be wise and DO NOT marry that girl oo.

Only a woman can see deep behind the facade another woman like her puts up.

Lmao... This was too funny to read
There really is no factual basis to backup your list at all.

I agree though that some girls/women who are very pretty do have a certain attitude about them - almost like they walk around expecting to be pandered to because of their stellar looks.

But you can't really blame them, I know I don't - it's the boys and men who feed this vanity that should be blamed.
Although a grown woman ought to realize that there's more to her life than her fading looks, but then I don't understand why a guy meets a lady and he can't say anything else but compliments her beauty...something that 10 other guys must have done the same week.

Of course a woman like this is bound to get carried away with all the attention, which is where people like me come in.
I make it a point of duty to make any beautiful girl/woman I meet come back down to mother earth - that's if I sense she has the 'attitude'.

Just telling her a simple, 'hi how are you, you good? You look stressed though, are you okay?'...
And she will spend the remaining part of that conversation wondering what it is about her looks that gave me that impression. She might even excuse herself (if possible) just to take a look at the mirror in her handbag to confirm.

The thing about beautiful women who are terribly vain is that they are the easiest to make insecure.

Just imagine what this one is complaining about

Liztee:
He hasn't visited them since after our wedding. Is this right? He only calls them if I travel to greet them or if I go for an occasion.

And this is not enough?

Are your parents complaining?

sassysure:
Where did u get this from
Epic!
If I hear
I'm a naija lady and I know what's up. Una no get control, married o, single o, name them, it got to a stage it doesn't bother me anymore.
I started breathing as soon as l left naija.
The day the landlords in my area came to my house and discovered I was alone was the day i gave up on u guys.
Hitting on somebody's wife shamelessly.
Una no get shame at all.

You will still believe what you want to believe sha, let's not drag it.
I know what I'm telling you - not all guys dey mumu for pucci.

Heroclitus:
Is it just me?

I do find it very difficult to believe that ladies like this actually do exist... How do they feel comfortable begging for things they can't afford themselves

Wait happened to courtesy?

You probably don't go out and meet people often

Na Dem...
Coldstone Creamery girls

All they know is Coldstone ice-cream, Dominos Pizza, and money for Uber.
Nothing else inside their empty skull

sassysure:
I hear u
U are not part of naija men again?
Their third leg normally do the thinking for them. Consequences can be handled later

I am full blooded Naija man oo, no time.
But when it comes to matters of woman & pucci, lots of guys with my kind of OT are fully in control of the third leg.

Na we fit do dis kain thing to woman
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sassysure:
Why did u run
U for stay and collect free food
Man wey see free food run, that one na man
Fear fear guy

If I tell you how many free food I don run from ehn...
Interesting encounters all of them

Not to shout, but sex has never been too hard for me to come by...perhaps this is why I have more control over my urges and can quickly decide who I will fvck & who I will not fvck right in the heat of the moment - doesn't matter if the woman strip teases in front of me, I go just dey look am. If I'm not feeling it, I'm not feeling it.
Then there are those free food situations where before her clothes even come off, I'm already locating all the hotspots myself.

No be all kinds of free food guy man dey chop oo.

lenanol:
my friend go and sit down. holy than thou.

Bítch quote me with your main handle and stop ducking behind alternates like a rhesus monkey