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If you had a good job and shop in Lagos and was doing perfectly ok, why didn't you two just get married so the issue of unwanted pregnancy wouldn't arise? Why give up so much to avoid impregnating her....what kind of man abandons his job and business in Lagos and relocates to Kaduna where he'll begin life from the scratch just to avoid impregnating his girlfriend, only to end up impregnating her.

I still find your actions very difficult to believe... you're obviously a very confused person who takes decisions without thinking and rethinking about the consequences.

I'll advise you to come back to Lagos and at least buy back your shop and this time use your head to think and make decisions not your heart.

It's a pity you learnt your lesson the hard way.

If you didn't submit any kind or form of application to the said company, no one submitted your details there on your behalf, no one recommended you to the management of the company and you didn't write any kind or form appitude test then it's fake.

My best guess is that they're all this GNLD people or their likes.

You can also run a google check on the company name and location so as to erase all form of mixed feelings.

Tolams16:
I am seriously in debt and i need solid advice. I am in debt of about 100k Please i need ideas on how to get out of these heartache, pls if this has happened to you before please share your experience of how you escaped it. It all started with gambling, then borrowing money to gamble on bet sites before you know it you re borrwing money and then borrowing money again to pay back, before you know it u re using family up keep money on betting sites and soon your ruin is at the door knocking. I am seriously in debt, and right now i am out of ideas on what to do, please your advice is seriously needed. I have only one week to make sure i pay back. Pls help.
Pls guys betting is bad, like really really bad, pls stay away from it.

The problem with betting is that it's addictive. You'll keep on consoling yourself that one day you'll hit it big and recover all the money you've lost. And the more you keep investing In it, the poorer you become.

What you need to understand is that if betting makes 10 people millionaires monthly then has made thousands and even millions paupers.

Purge your mind from this get quick riches syndrome believe me, it causes more damages than good...look for a job, be deligent in it and work hard to offset your debts. Then live on the rest.

If you're looking to become millionaire, then consider this advice. Nigeria has over 170million people, no light, untapped resources, inadequate food, poor medical emergency facilities, lack of portable water to homes, lack of domestic cooking gas to homes and many many many more...

Fine a long lasting solutuon to one of the numerous problems plagueing this country and see yourself become a millionaire/billionaire in a couple of years cos people won't mind parting with their money once they can get satisfactory service no matter the cost.

dominique:
Another calamity from Ambode. Why take on so many projects when second term is not guaranteed? Now Lagosians are suffering the aftermath of the unfinished projects littered all over the state.

He felt that being Tinubu's loyal puppet his second term is guaranteed. Unfortunately his blind loyalty to Tinubu wasn't enough to secure him a second tenure.

Ambode obviously wasn't a politician...if he was, he would have illfitrated Tinubu's ranks of loyallies and carved out some for himself like how Fashola did. That way Tinubu wouldn't know how to dispose him without shooting himself on the foot

Instead he refused to come out of Tinubu's shadow, thereby making himself politically useless to Tinubu. And when it became obvious that he had no political allies and power to ammase support and enforce his second term agenda without having to depend on Tinubu his godfather for total support, he was replaced because Tinubu felt he was now useless to them.

What baffeled me with ambode's case is how he sat at the helm of affairs for 4years in a state with massive wealth like Lagos and his plan in retaining his seat was his dependence on one man to enforce his continuty. That man was a real joke.

You must do everything you can to start having kids immediately you get married and must not delay it at all as the chances of pregnancy drop significantly for the woman as their age begin to increase.

However, make sure that you and your partner are physically fit and fine to be parents.

Because despite how crule that era was, it served as the portal that opened the gateway of civilization, education and Christianity in Africa.

Thousands of lives were lost during that era, but hundreds of millions have received salvation and have been saved as a result of it.

Also a lot of crude African cultures and traditions were abolished. One of which was the killing of twins.

As crule as that era may have been I strongly believe that it happened according to God's plan. Remember the biblical children of Israel lived in Egypt for 430years as slaves before God sent Moses to liberate them.

Rip

What's the name of the company that invited you for the interview?

liohan:
When I tell bigoted people that religion in Nigeria is scam, they don't believe.

Shey you were all shouting Islamic Banking. Islamic Banking!

Imagine Jaiz an Islamic bank refusing to lend money when that's the sole reason it was started .

The problem of most banks isn't that they don't have cash to loan out to customers, the problem is that most customers aren't credit worthy.

Many years ago the church I attend opened a micro finance bank for the sole purpose of lending money to members at a zero interest rate.

You'll be shocked if I tell you that the bank folded up after few years of operations. Reason being that most members who were opportuned to access the loans refused to pay back thereby making it impossible for others to get.

With time, the bank couldn't pay it's staffs and ended up folding up.

So when you see some of these financial institutions finding it difficult to give out loans or making you agree to some ridiculous terms and conditions before accessing the loans, don't blame them...they're only taking those steps to make sure that the cash they're lending you finds its way back to them in a very easy and stress free manner when it's time to pay back.

Jesus Christ! What killed him?

May his soul rest in peace and may God comfort his family. It's not easy to loose a young vibrant and promising man.

So sad.

dochenaj:
What eventually happened?

Yea the op should brief us on the outcome. Did she eventually resume there or has she gotten another job?

madenigga:
We really have anti Christ's in this Nairaland

Why is someone opening different accounts to spam nairaland pages with porn.

What is he or she trying to achieve?

He's an account hacker...if you click on that link and your main e-mail address is linked to your nairaland account, he'll automatically gain access to that account. The bait they use is porn cos they know that most people would easily fall for it thereby giving them access to hack into their emails and access vital information.

The best thing to do is to keep report them to the mods.

deltateam:
Pythons are the easiest snakes to kill since they are non poisonous.

I disagree...it takes experience and courage to singlehandedly confront a massive snake like a python. You should also note that one slight mis- calculation in your attack can earn you a twist of death.

So in order to successfully kill pythons it's advisable to use a very long plank and aim for it's head repeatedly till it gives up. Only experienced people use Cutlass. I myself can't come close to a python with a Cutlass. Although I've never killed a python before, the few little snakes I've managed to kill were with very long sticks aimed repeatedly at their heads till they died.

This measure is to ensure my own safety as well.

No interior pictures?

And why is the front plate number port broken?

James4bright:
Good day fam, it's a bit difficult surviving as a journalist here in the state I actually reside. Most journalists aren't on the payroll, but we have no option because valuable jobs are a bit scarce.

So I'd like to ask newspaper journalists in house, how exactly do you make your earnings? Few journalists I've come across hides their own means like their lives depends on it, anyways it could be ethical or not, it doesn't matter as long as you make good amount of money to survive in this harsh economy. Please help, a brother oh.

How much you make will depend on what media market you're in, your specific job and how much experience you have.

Also and will I say sadly, many newspapers across the country are in financial trouble and have been forced to lay off journalists, so at least for the next few years, salaries are likely to remain stagnant or even fall.

What I would advice is that you develop yourself...become a genius in your field and give your best whenever your services are required. With time the scretes on how to make a living from your profession would be unveiled before your eyes.

Young68:
I'm a awesome singer but need a sponsor 0please

And you want help with this your incomplete information?

I hope it isn't true.

queenxey1:
If she says " I'm sorry" even when she knows she is right, My brother Marry her. Ladies like that are only 15 in Nigeria

Are you among the 15?

Amen

Seeing yourself in an examination hall repeatedly and writing nothing means one thing *STAGNATION/FAILURE* you're being tied down to a spot

Then seeing cow in the dream isn't a good one either. It signifies destruction...a demon of destruction monitoring you and frustrating/destroying your efforts thereby leaving you back to square one.

Remedy. Locate any genuine Bible believing church around you and go for serious prayers/deliverance I would recommend MFM.

Then try to draw closer to God live a holy life so that he (God) can take up your battles.

blackslayer:
You're welcome...I won't.

Lol... English teacher

czarina:



Thanks for checking. Don't forget to refer us

You're welcomed...I wouldn't

czarina:
Check our profile and give us a call!

Thank you

Jos kwa... hundreds of kilometers away from my location... anyways good luck with your business with the way Nigeria is playing today, you'll definitely have a trailer load of customers today. Hope you're prepared for the overflow.

czarina:
You all need to calm your nerves after this match. Book a massage session now.

How much...and where are you located?

Udushemi:
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Contact 08134411634.

Where are you located?

Money doesn't just develop wings and fly out from your account, something must have gone wrong without you knowing it.

As a corper, stop opening links sent to you buy unknown persons to fill in your banking details and get cash rewards, stop patronizing unknown merchant sites or pop ups asking for your card details.

Don't respond to messages from fraudsters claiming to be bank agents telling you that your account will be blocked if you don't sent them your card details.

One called me like that and was telling me he's from my bank, I asked him which bank he said first bank. Funny thing is since I started operating an account I've never banked with first bank so how will someone tell me that my account in a bank I don't use will be blocked if I don't provide my details so they can upgrade it for me. It's obvious he's a scammer, I just ended the call.

Be on the alert cos these scammers are everywhere...don't keep your card carelessly most especially if you have roommates.

Finally abandon that account and open another one.

Sorry for your loss.

As a doctor look for states with large population, and quite a great number of private and government hospitals like lagos, kano, Enugu, rivers...etc. the greater the number of available hospitals, the higher your chances of getting employed after service.


Good luck.

crazygod:
That ur point No 1 get as e be. If she was pissed off about the 1st act, then its two things. 1. She was forced which equals rape. 2. She was disappointed cos her expectations about first time sex was dashed. Perhaps she expected more acrobatics from the pastor

96% of girls having sex for the first time don't initiate the process, it's the guys that do that. Some at some point will even beg and tell the guy to stop that's where you see guys begging as though their life is on the line. "Baby it's only the head I will put in" baby I just want to cuddle" etc...most times there's always a little bit of force during first time sex.

How you react during and after the sex is what makes people and even the the initiator interpret it to be either r,ape or consensual sex.

She let her guard down and submitted to him for sex. Which made even the pastor feel it was consensual.

After the act who did she confined in... Nobody

Who did she tell.... Nobody

There's a saying that if you give a free meal to a stray dog, he'll be back the following day for another.

After the pastor layed low for days and everywhere was calm, he decided to try his luck for the second time...and guess what, he succeeded and sex became a regular thing between both of them.

My question is if she was r,aped as she claims why didn't she speak out after it was done the first time. Why let him in a second, third, forth....time ?

If the pastor is to tender an apology, it should be for adultery to his wife and to the church and not r,ape cos the sex was consensual.

NoToPile:
This her post and Poju Oyemade's post admits pastor did it.

They both apologized.

Now waiting for the accused to tender his own apology.

Acceptance of guilt is an important step in repentance.

Everyone knows that pastor biodun had sex with busayo. The question here is was it r.ape or consensual sex. Cos I believe that if indeed she was r,aped she shouldn't have had anything to do with the pastor in question.

Her continued presence in the church, and even allowing the pastor join her and her husband in holy matrimony after the incident speaks volumes.

My take.

1. They both had sex.

2. She was pissed of after the first sex but kept quite maybe because the guy in question was her pastor.

3. She developed likeness for him, something he noticed which made him come back for more romps.

4. The relationship went sour at some point which made the pastor regain his full pastoral authority over her. Maybe that was during the time she got pregnant for her current husband.

5. She confined in him after the second pregnancy. He suspended her, and he advised her to get married to the father of the baby.

6. He bought her a car gift and wedded them personally in his church to settle her off.

7. She resurfaced years later and began to claim she was r.aped.

From this I believe it's safe to conclude that if pastor biodun should be scolded it should be for fornication and not r,ape

Now on the issue of apologizing, would you apologize to a girl you had consensual sex with, married her in your church to her husband, gifted her with a car?

What exactly would you be apologizing for?

Jayslicky:
Nothing will happen or is it not Nigeria again, money will be given to both the police and the assaulted woman, then case closed.

I beg to disagree. Something will happen because he's a member of the opposition party (PDP) so the government will definitely make an example out of him.

Derrinclay:
Can someone explain associating krest with the koza saga

According to her claims, the pastor gave her krest to drink after committing the said act.

Jobac:
Innoson did not sponsor research and development in Engineering, but he has money to waste on big brother that will not help his business, nawa for Innoson o.

The publicity by DStv of the bbn show is enough to help his business cos the whole world is definitely watching it.