₦airaland Forum

vivalavida:
Lol
Introvert dey marry too oo

For how long do u think u can keep up with coming back home to an empty house?

As long as possible, but my mumsi go actually beat me die one day if I don't bring a girl home soon.

vivalavida:
Single life is bae ooo

But having babe over the weekend for one month consecutively has shown me the other side of life. Sometimes u come home and an empty house is quite discouraging. No one to talk to. All chores are done by me. Sometimes I run back to the family house on weekends. But having my babe over has been exhilarating. Someone to gist with, laugh with. Someone who helps you out in the kitchen. My fridge is stocked up with food prepared by her. The nights are more pleasurable. The cuddling and everything is on point.
It's actually making me think of marriage right now sef.
Lol

@czarchris, come and state your own opinion

Guy leave matter, the single life is the best of the best, as an introvert, coming home alone is sweeter than anything ever. I cook myself, infact I prefer meals cooked by me, but truth be told the chores can be discouraging.
But I love my solitude, but the freedom that comes with being single is bliss, I can go home at anytime without fear of being reprimanded by anybody. Guy I love my freedom o, even when girl come sef, most times she most go her house that day o.

Aswear I give up on this country. What kind of international embarrassment is this one na? Na wa!

Rgade:
Nigeria is now synonymous with fraud.
The average Nigerian is a fraudster.
If you meet the average Nigerian youth hustling in the streets, any small business you wan run with am, he is already thinking of how to de-fraud you.
The average Nigerian youth approaches any transaction involving cash, with fraud at the back of his mind.
Just slip up and give him that little window of opportunity, and you're done.
Them full my contact list, I dey view their status nah, I just dey watch them.

Guy calm down, we still have God fearing, disciplined and principled people in this country. Stop the generalization please.

[quote author=NiklauseFred post=90602620][/quote]Your not a nice person.

Ibadanpikin:
We have two universities in Nigeria UNIZIK and others.

For your left mind abi?

vivalavida:
How did u come up with that 150Billion there?
How much does the state receive as allocation from federal government? How much does abia generate as IGR?

My brother, wetin this politicians dey do us no bi here o. Agreed there might be some exaggerations here and there, but guy if you close the loopholes in IGR generation looses, can you imagine how much can be generated from Ariaria market alone?

blingxx:
she's not that kind of person in real life ..trust me even if you had a chance to date her it will not end well

My crush and a 5.3billion naira house? It will be a fairy tale ending, I can assure you that.

I fell in love with Arianna immediately after watching her in Sam and Cat show on Nickelodeon. She has been my crush ever since, Who get her phone number for here abeg.

RuudVanNisteroy:
You are delusional!Go and get help in Yaba or Aro.

Thanks soo much for your apt analysis, I won't insult you back, but only time will tell. No matter how long it will take, the truth about the man Gen. Sani Abacha will emerge.

ijustdey:
Abacha loot: Emirs and Chiefs were consulted when money was kept overseas ― Al-Mustapha



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2020/06/abacha-loot-emirs-and-chiefs-were-consulted-when-money-was-kept-overseas-―-al-mustapha/

I know I will be attacked for this, but the entire truth will surface one day. Gen. Abacha was the best thing to happen to this country till date. Obasanjo demonized his image, when he came into power as president, we all know how vindictive baba iyabo can be knowing that the then late General threw him into prison for his alleged role in a coup that tried to topple Abacha's government. So Obasanjo's aim was to demonize the public's perception of Abacha and the unfortunate death of Ken Saro wiwa and kudirat Abiola didn't help the general's posthumous case, hence the oputa panel.
Either way, all I know is that time will tell, the truth can never stay hidden forever.

Nbote:
Nigerians are jus something else... The whole categorization of d bill as evil is simply becos some ediots made up a story about Bill Gates and the antichrist. The bill was jus copied without doing d necessary amendments becos we have lazy representatives who jus plagiarize without even considering our peculiar situation and environment.

I don't seem to understand you on this one. I'm not giving credence to any conspiracy theory whatsoever, but describing that bill as evil is an understatement.
How on Earth can someone in his or her right mind freaking categorize malaria as an infectious disease? MALARIA?!!
Infact Gbajabiamila is a big disgrace to this country.

senatordave1:
Not again.this same matter caused the last warri crisis where itsekiri defeated ijaws

With the help of the military, the itsekiris can't stand the Ijaws in an all out one on one, and they know it. But I believe this can be settled amicably, enough of the bloodshed, that land has drank too much blood already.

Una wan start again? Ogbe-Ijoh market wahala wan drink blood again this year? Hmmm, God abeg o.

ZeroShenanigan:
I'm above mid thirties, finished NYSC 2015 and i just secured a government teaching job after spending more than 3 years teaching in private schools. I met my wife earlier 2019, she was in her final year in school, we dated throughout the year and planned to get married after she graduated. She graduated and we make a move for our introduction, then we suggested to have the marriage before she go for her Nysc so as to enable her serve in our home state as I already have a rented apartment to start a small family.

As we were planning for the marriage, we were also planning her NYSC. She was required to have a medical certificate for the NYSC which of course required blood test including genotype. She came back with the result of her genotype as AS. That was the only time I remember to take genotype issue serious. Even if I have some little knowledge about it before, I decided to research more about it on the internet and also met some of my friends who are medically inclined. I came to realize my own genotype test is also important at that moment. I might have done the test in school but I didn't pay attention to it usefulness so I don't remember the result.

I don't usually fall sick except for normal malaria when there is mosquito bite, never had a drip line in my body for once, never slept in a hospital bed, I don't have any reason to take note of my genotype or blood test.

Her results then prompt me to have my own test done too which came out to be AS also. By these periods we have convinced our families to choose a date for the marriage so that we can have the wedding before her NYSC. Marriage is to hold in a week time when I got my own genotype result.
From my further findings about AS and AS couple, I discovered how risky it is for their offsprings. I tried to explain to her but she turned a deaf ear, she alleged me of trying to break her heart at that critical period. She reported to her sisters they tried to blame me but I make them all realized it's not my fault because throughout my visitation and introduction to their family nobody has ever ask us about genotype. I am an orphan, I don't have any closer family to guide me except for my sisters who can't wait for me to get married because of my age, they also had never thought of it as well.

My wife sisters gave us some examples of older couples who were both AS with only one or no sickler among their children. My wife also made a threat of killing herself or she kill me if the marriage didn't hold. She even suggested we proceed with the marriage and break up after few weeks of marriage because of the shame that may follow if we stop the marriage or maybe she was desperate because of the marriage certificate, I don't know. I maintained my stand of backing off the marriage but she reported to my sisters also. Her sisters and my sisters later tried to encourage us to go ahead with prayers since we have chosen the date. We were advised not to disclose our genotype result to anyone again because people will discourage us.

Even though I was skeptical about the marriage, it later commenced with less spending because the Nikkah was held in a mosque and a tent for refreshments.
After the marriage we tried to talk about it, and she told me, she was afraid, may be she was pregnant before the marriage that's why she insisted on going ahead with the marriage. She also revealed to me that she was not happy with the decision as well, means she also know the implications but she have to avoid the shame of stopping the marriage after inviting guests to the occasion.

During these period genotype before the marriage, my love for her reduced drastically because of her desperation and her refusal to understand the risk we are about to take. I tried to avoid pregnancy from our first month of marriage but I later gave up and she conceived immediately. Now she is closer to her delivery. We hardly talk or play together inside. We only discuss about feeding, maternity and things to get for the coming baby.
I discovered we quarrel over little things that can be over looked by lovers. I'm not happy in the marriage, I spend most of time watching TV or stay outside all day because of unresolved issues.

I'm planning to arrange for a divorce after she delivered the baby because this is my first baby and I would love to have 2 or 3 kids more. I can't take the risk of allowing any of my children to be a sickler.
Advise is needed if my plan for divorce is a good one and do I stand a chance of loosing anything?

First of all ignorance is no excuse, with the easy availability of information these days, it's amazing how things as little as (but life threatening)genotype is overlooked.
But what's done is done, I have a friend whose a doctor and his wife is also a doctor both of them are AS and they insisted on getting married. They are happily married now, what they do is whenever his wife gets pregnant, they conduct a CVS test(Chorionic Villus Sampling) to check for genetic defects in the foetus, in which the sickle cell anemia defect is one of them. If it is detected, the pregnancy is terminated at it's early stage. It's truly that simple.

Some home truths is that you and your wife educated uneducated people. Please for the sake of your unborn children freaking get enlightened. She's acting up because she believes you betrayed her trust, and you are acting up because you're wondering why doesn't she want to understand you?
Fact is even at your age, you both are painfully ignorant, petty, proud and childish.

SpicyMimi:
It's shocking really! I don't understand how people just get laid easily like it's nothing. The way I avoided sex years back, you'd think sex has some kind of plaques attached to it.

Same experience here, I delved a little bit into spiritism as a curious young man years back and that shaped my idea of sex. It's truly a plague if used wrongly.
I'm very friendly to my students, so they tell me things, infact it's a miracle my ears never block on its own. No shame or fear anymore, imagine one of my students once sent me her nudes (no jokes) I didn't request for it o. They find me weird, because I'm very friendly and approachable, but strict and principled.

SpicyMimi:
100% LUST! It will end in tears, trust me as you'd remember this post.

Secondly, how's it that you guys fornicate without conscience these days? The Fear of God is very vital, don't be FOOLISH!

Well, don't blame her. She's still in her hoe stage, tears goes with the territory.

The fornication part really got me on the floor rolling with laughter. I work in a university, sex na handshake these days.

UzorChinonso:
Good day Nairalanders, I have been married for just a year now and it has not been easy here! My Husband wants to know every thing about my finance. He has disturbed me to know how much is my salary worth of.

I have always denied him of the fact, what I know is that I used my money to refurbish our flat, got some new things to change the outlook of the place....

But I am not really finding it funny any longer. As we speak, he collected my ATM card since last two weeks, said I must tell him the pin or I should forget having it back. I went to my bank, told them that I lost the card and they changed it for me last Friday and he collected it again said it's either I tell him the pin or he will do something funny ...

I don't know what funny thing he's gonna do but I am worried! Pls is this how marriage is?
He claims to own me and own my salary! Is it fair? This marriage is too early instead I would have quit and I am pregnant at the moment!
What do I do? I don't want anybody to know anything about my finances including him till I have my baby whom my spirit accepted that I should make my next of kin.

What do I do ?

I have a friend who lost his job due to downsizing of the company he works for 3years ago. His wife has been the one catering for the family ever since, through the money she makes from a small provisions store she was running even before marriage. The funny thing is, you will never know, the husband has access to her ATM and banking app, she even pulled her resources together and bought him a car in February as a Valentine's day gift to use for taxi services. I only know this because I'm really close to the family.
There should be no secrets in marriage, else that family will fail, because if you can hide your finances from your husband, what else can't you hide?

My prayer is God should keep women like you far from me when I'm finally ready to get married.

TMwise1942:
please who now create mathematis will u still say is einstein, africa make una use una head einstein learned mathematis and showed the world what he learned if not for the egyptians were would he have learnd mathematis, the fisrt university in this world is egypt, the are just foresing u guys to think is oxford africa please wise up

No vex, but are you okay? How on Earth does this comment of yours relate to this post I made years ago? Yes the first university in the world was in Alexandria, Egypt even Pythogoras who postulated the pythogoras theory we use in geometry today and the Greek Eratosthenes the man who calculated the Earth's circumference 200BC was schooled in Egypt. Egyptians perfected astrology/astronomy, the Egyptians solved the quadratic equation when people in Europe where still living in cages, don't even get me started on Cush, present day Ethiopia. But where are they now? Africa has missed it and I'm well within my rights to switch alligence.
I'm a scientist by career, and there are people whom I aspire to be greater than (aim for the sky, if can't reach it, atleast you'll fall among the sky)

By the way nobody can lay claim to inventing mathematics, it's in everybody.

FortuneDeGreat:
No you're wrong!

May God give you understanding. These people at the top don't see tribalism or religious differences, just personal interest and growth. The sooner you see this, the easier it is for you play their game and improve yourself, if not you'll remain in one place turning around in circle, fighting for people who will easily exchange you for a piece of bread when push comes to shove. Believe me, I know them too well.

FortuneDeGreat:
Madam Ngozi is not an Igbo woman, but was married by an Igbo.
Her tribe is Niger delta.
PERIOD!

When will you people stop all these nonsense? She is first a Nigerian before anything else. Freaking get a grip.

The blacklist,

Supernatural,

Witcher,


Why on Earth that did they cancel Designated Survivor?

I'm honestly dumbfounded at this, see pot calling kettle black.



#lalasticlala, Seun do the needful.

China says US protests show 'chronic disease' of racism

A man holds a flare as protesters enter Interstate 580 to block traffic in support of George Floyd, in Oakland California on May 29, 2020, during demonstrations over the death of George Floyd. (Photo: Josh Edelson/AFP)
01 Jun 2020 05:31PM
(Updated: 01 Jun 2020 05:40PM)




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BEIJING: China said Monday (Jun 1) unrest in the United States highlighted its severe problems of racism and police violence, and exposed Washington's double standards in supporting Hong Kong's protesters.

"Black people's lives are also lives. Their human rights must also be guaranteed," foreign ministry spokesman Zhao Lijian told reporters in Beijing, referring to the death in custody of an unarmed black man in Minneapolis.

READ: Tear gas fired outside White House as protesters rage over death of George Floyd
"Racism against ethnic minorities in the US is a chronic disease of American society," Zhao added.

"The current situation reflects once more the severity of the problems of racism and police violence in the US."

Chinese diplomats and state media have seized on the violent unrest sparked by the death of George Floyd to accuse the US of hypocrisy and compare American protesters with demonstrators in Hong Kong.

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Beijing has long been infuriated by criticism from Western capitals, especially Washington, over its handling of the protests that shook Hong Kong last year.

READ: China threatens to 'counter-attack' US over Hong Kong curbs
Zhao on Monday said the US government's response to protests at home was a "textbook example of its world-famous double standards".

"Why does the US lionise the so-called Hong Kong independence and black violence elements as heroes and activists, while calling people who protest against racism 'rioters'?" Zhao asked.

China has insisted that "foreign forces" are to blame for the turmoil in Hong Kong, where protesters – described by Beijing as rioters – have marched in the millions since June last year and often clashed with the police.

Beijing sparked outrage and concern earlier this month with a plan to impose a national security law on Hong Kong that it said was needed to curb "terrorism".

It was condemned by activists and Western nations as another attempt to chip away at the city's freedoms.

Foreign ministry spokeswoman Hua Chunying also took aim at Washington.

"I can't breathe," she said on Twitter, with a screenshot of a tweet by US State Department spokeswoman Morgan Ortagus that had criticised China's policy in Hong Kong.

Hua was quoting the words Floyd was heard saying repeatedly before his death – after a police officer knelt on his neck for nearly nine minutes.

Source: AFP/dv

https://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/asia/china-us-george-floyd-protests-show-chronic-disease-of-racism-12792158#main

einsteino:
Finger print was examined? against which database? Nigerian police don come again with format.

The thing dey somehow Sha, but let's believe that they are using the database of our BVN or NIN, cause all our prints were captured.

If not, e get as e be.

These people are comedians, Nigeria has not yet peaked and you are busy opening everywhere.


Infact, I support those saying that there is nothing like Covid-19 in Nigeria na business Dem dey take am do.

Imagine! Nonsense and Ingredients.

Juliusmalema:
Good.

Mr Op, At least for once stay in your state and stop constituting nuisance in another man's state.

Okezie has delivered.

Quick question, what do you guys gain by turning every thread into a tribal war zone? It was funny before, now it's turning into something else.

The funny thing is that this contraption called Nigeria is not disintegrating anytime soon, even in the next hundred years we will still be together. Nigeria is like a bucket filled with crabs, no need closing it anyone that true to climb out of the bucket will be dragged down by the other ones stuck inside that same bucket and you would have to start all over again. Rant from now till tomorrow, Nigeria is not going anywhere anytime soon. We all just have to respect each other and try to live in peace. If not, our politicians will continue to rip us off while we fight ourselves. Remember Nigeria's breed of politicians are not tribalistic among themselves, it all about personnal interests to them.

Nigerian youths should wake up and smell the coffee for crying out loud.

Jokerman:
Ronaldo has won the Golden boot in two different leagues and team...

Don't compare

Don't mind that slowpoke, CR7 will keep giving them nightmares.

ODJ123:
_*�I mistakenly sent 50k to a wrong*_
number early this morning. After
realising this, I calmed down and
sent this text message,

"Hello dear, I hope u have received the
membership welcome fee of 50k
into the Satanism Industry. That is
just the begining of the richest life
u are about to start living.

We have a meeting tonight whereby we will
slaughter 3 virgins in celebration of
ur new membership. Lets meet at
11pm in ur house. But if u are not
interested, kindly send the money
back to this number otherwise,
welcome to the Satanism Industry.
See u tonight." 10minutes later, I
received a text message saying,
"Pls send another 50k�, my friend is
interested too...........

*Am still crying ���since morning*

A lot of crazy people in Nigeria I tell you.

Davash222:
Are there no medical practitioners in the North? Are they restricted from practising in US? Or is it Haram to practise in US Asking for my neighbor, sha.

If you ask me? Na eji I go ask?

But this question get as e bi sha.

BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.

I honestly was an advocate for this your post sometime ago until I became fully born again midlast year and realized my error. In some parts of present day Israel, Turkey and some parts of the middle East(the more conservative side)sex before marriage is seriously frowned upon, infact some are so strict that woo betide any woman that on the wedding night the husband doesn't show his family members and members of the ladies family a the token of her virginity which usually is a blood stained bedspread. Now this is to correct your wrong assertions about Mary and Joseph.

The Bible says in Hebrews 13: 4(KJV) "Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge." So sex before marriage is totally wrong. My opinion as made clear by the Holy Bible.

JasonScoolari:
This lockdown should just end before all the youths turn into full-time hunters.

This one really got me.