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NwekeUG:
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/nerc-abolishes-estimated-billing-by-discos/

seanwilliam:
U see that betting ehn, you will naturally stop it.. if you no get where to sleep, what to wear and what to eat, u no go dey bet.. na because u dey see support...
Mastubating is very hard to stop, in as much as you have access to internet..

U see that sugar, when you get diabetes, body go tell you .

Solution for betting pos
.1.start daily contribution of money to all these thrift collector
2.Stop going to bet house
3.Book a game for 5 consecutive times, dont put money and watch the end result.. by doing this, u will know how much you are losing and how to stop...
4. Tell your mama about it, she would always caution u time to time
5. See those who gamble as a fool
6. See gambling as a crime
7. Gamble with small money like 100 highest
8. Start HUSLE
9. Believe you cant make it through gambling no matter how u try
10.tell your pastor and change your circle of friends


Solution to mastubation

See this one is worst than betting because you dont need money to do it.. all u need is physical and mental picture and you are good to go..anyway consider the following

1. Get busy.. if you are busy, it will automatically reduce the times of mastubating
2. Get a responsibility,....u no go get time to mastubate.. like u get pikin wey u one pay their school fees,
u get house rent to pay, nepa bills,
family to feed and all that
3. Get a budget range girlfriend
4. Make sure the girl is a sex maniac
5. Download inmessage and find girls to fhuck u
6. Dont stay alone all the time
7. When the urge to mastubate comes, force yourself to go outside, where people dey..
( u sha no go comot prick dey mastubate outside na)
8. See mastubation as gateway to poverty
9. Stop watching porn, stop reading Sex stories and stop looking at hot pictures
10. Believe you are about to commit sin whenever you want to mastubate

Solution to sugar
1. Stop taking carbonated drink
2. Reduce intakes of real sugar
3. Eat more of locally prepared food
4. Squeez bitterleaf and saint leaf
5. Start taking cucumber
6. Reduce carbohydrate food
7. Substitute carbonated drink with milk( without using sugar)
8. Drink more water every time
9. Always do test to know your sugar level
And consult doctors on foods and drugs to take
10. Eat more of fruit


Lastly, when you have a problem, believe you are not the first and last person to have it...
And every problem has a solution only if we could think wide and far.. follow any of my advise and watch your life get back on track...



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P.s. 89% ( according to stats) of guys mastubate. But they do it with moderation.. I mastubate too cc
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U people can contribute

Amanda4life:
Everybody will fight for their own territory.
I won't fight where I will not be appreciated
Mbok

Blindersoff:
https://amp.news.com.au/lifestyle/health/health-problems/coronavirus-is-airborne-chinese-official-confirms/news-story/201218c04deb601b1b144f4cbbc4d807?__twitter_impression=true

prof2007:
SOURCE: https://www.thecable.ng/full-list-the-18-parties-that-survived-inecs-hammer

ruggedtimi:
In other words no need to write c. v

Jeffmonti:
About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help!

This might turn out to be a lengthy read, please bear with me. The bashing and insults will be unnecessary as i have already told myself hurtful things a thousand times over.

So i am 29 and have a girlfriend who’s 25 we are both graduates; she’s a nurse and i am a practicing engineer and we’ve been dating for 3+ years now and preparations are underway to tie the knot this year God willing. Something happened last year, she suggested i move to a bigger apartment so that we can start buying household items and everything necessary to start a home as we are looking to get married soon which we did; i got a bigger place, met her parents she met mine. In a nutshell everything seems to be going well, we even started a business together and set to take on the future together before the devil struck (i take blames for my actions as i am not overly religious)

Around June last year, i met a girl (very fine girl) in the new area i moved to, although i have been seeing the girl around but one day as i was driving in i saw her hiding somewhere close to my compound avoiding the rain with her friends so i took them in until the rain subsided we exchanged contacts and started texting on WhatsApp a few days later. And soon after we started having sex (protected sex), prior to that time i never cheated on my girlfriend.

The sex continued, up to 2 times a week sometimes 3 as it was relatively easy as she lived very close and my girlfriend only visits on the weekend and never sleeps out (she’s from a very good and wealthy family with proper moral upbringing). Most evenings when return from work conji just do me one kind i don cross street other times she calls until we became comfortable having unprotected sex

So late October 2019, the new girl (I’ll call her Lola) texted me that’s she’s not feeling too well and i asked her to visit the hospital to run a test to know what to treat. She came back with a pregnancy test result proving she’s already 3 weeks pregnant, i was sure it was mine but i didn’t panic as she had a bf and i have my gf we were just for the sex at least that’s what we told each other.

So i asked her to remove the pregnancy, but got the shocker when she said she’s never going to remove the pregnancy that she’s 27 and have no desire to marry me or stay with me but she’s going to have the child. Omo my heart flipped. I begged her for like 3 weeks until she got mad and stopped taking my calls, she even moved away from her apartment. So i texted her and arranged a meeting, we sat down and discussed at length but she was still bent on keeping it, i got furious and told her i am not ready to be part of the child’s life if she’s going through with it as i see no reason why she wants to have my child when she knows we are NEVER going to be together, that was when she said she had already told her family that i am not interested in the child and they support her to keep it and let the child bear their family name. I discussed the matter with two friends a boy and a girl and the asked me to let her have the child first.

One month passed fast forward to early December, Lola called 6 times i was so shocked. I couldn’t take her calls. She texted that she’s ready to terminate the pregnancy since i am wicked and unconcerned she rained all manner of derogatory words but i was only concern with her decision to let go. I called and we agreed to meet the following day, I skipped work that day and met with her and her elder sister and elder sister’s friend. The sister and her friend were so mean but i was unmoved; i don already fuckup and ready to take anything to let it all go away because the knowledge of things will destroy my girlfriend.

So Lola entered my vehicle and we drove out, on our way to the hospital for her to terminate the pregnancy plus treatment she’ll take afterwards and for the damages i have caused her. She’s going to need 150k from me, i was furious and told her i don’t have that kind of money talk less of handing it over to her for something like this (i sure don’t know what i cost but i know it’s not up to 50k). She said if i don’t give her what she want she’s going to have the baby and that i should be thankful that she’s coming up with this that if she had listen to her friends advices she would have moved to my house with all sort of troubles (she was right) but i didn’t give in just yet. I dropped her off and ask her to have the child that am not going to give her the money as i don’t have it (I get the money sha).

So two days passed, she called again and after many arguments we agreed at 100k, made her to sign a NDA not to bother me again and all, I transferred her the 100k that night, she confirmed receipt and promised to go with it the following morning and that was the last I have heard or seen or her since then, until 3 weeks ago when another of her sister called from Canada and was asking if i am Me, that she’s been seeking my contact for a while now that Lola friend had to steal the number Lola’s phone and pass it to her as Lola has been hiding my phone number from the rest of the family and she doesn’t know the arrangement i have had with her but i should know that she’s having the child, she just thought i should know that i have a child somewhere when the baby eventually drops.

Knowing fully well that i am a shitty person to have done something terrible to myself and my girlfriend and all our future plans because of cheap sex, but I’ll be a more terribly bad person to have knowledge of a child somewhere and not be in his/her life. I called Lola but she didn’t take i texted her about her sisters call she called back to know who called and was furious, she ended the call (I guess to call her sister back) and called back again in about 20mins and asked me not to ever call her line again. I replied her text she should tell her family not call me as well. I have dodged to her apartment building a coupe times but she’s not been around for weeks as i was made to believe.

So i bought a ring to engage my girl few weeks ago but had to hold first to see how things play out, i can’t go ahead and marry my girlfriend with this kind of secret untold; that will be wickedness from the pit of hell and i still don’t know how to break it to her, it will destroy her.

I jokingly painted a similar scenery to my girlfriend; her response was: she will not marry me because if she does she will kill me in my sleep. That everybody is expecting us to get married this year, she now have high respect from her family because of me and this kind of thing happens both of us will die. Omo fear catch me.

Fellow Nairalanders, this is my predicament please advice a stupid brother. Insults are welcome as I hope to pick a thing or two from your comments. MODs please push this up biko.

adontcare:
La click la bend

Millz404:
Which one is foreign films. This guy is talking like we are still in 1995.

Osagyefo98:
That's good of you leah shearibu.

Congratulations on your new born baby.

Seems you really enjoying there.

TerraMessorem:
please if you talk, say specific things, which border exactly did he close, it was only the benin border, and what did you see as benefit that resulted from it, that made you come here to type this. so he closed benin border, what came of it?, and how do we know the closure was effective.

Brandonx:
My Ex- girlfriend who just got married recently (arrangée marriage) still calls and chats with me.

When we parted ways I severed ties with her completely. Few months later she called and texted at first I ignored but after a while I decided to reply her messages and take her calls.

We talked about so many things that happened in the past. She came visiting, we were cool until she traveled back and started acting funny.

I ignored her got into a relationship. She somehow knew about it and she went berserk.
So I stopped communicating with her.

After a few months she called and sent text as usual, we started talking again as my new relationship wasn't too serious.

She requested for my recent pictures, we made video calls. Little did I know she was getting married in a few weeks. I sent her a congratulatory message and she was surprised.

Few weeks after the wedding she called we spoke at length, at a point I asked about the husband, she quickly changed the topic and I also observed she wasn't too comfortable, I told her I was about leaving the house , we should probably talk some other time .
She then said " you asked about my husband, he's fine " I then told her to extend my greetings, her reply was " who do I tell him sent his greetings".
I think we still have feelings for each other.

igboamakaaa:
Bros, Agụ means Tiger in Igbo
Odum means Lion

BlackBigBlog:
On White Wedding Day , Husband And Wife Rock ISI Agu Attire For Church Service

Nairlanders .... What do you think ....

TheLaughter:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for about some years now, we have been good. We have encountered ups and downs but we pulled through. We plan together and execute things together.

Recently, I indicated plans for marriage but my people didn't give consent. They said she isn't my destined partner. According to them, they have prayed, saw in prophesies and visions that she isn't the one...

I happen to speak with one of the prophetess on phone and she repeated what she told them that she is not my wife, that I should pray, that my wife will come.

I am finding it hard believing all these but at the same time I am mindful too. I have been asking myself questions if what they are saying is true. They said I will encounter all kinds of hardship if I continue and many other things the prophetess said.

I see her as God's creation too, why will God allow such happen to me just because I married someone He created too.

I don't believe all these prophesies but at the same time I just want to ask if there could be any truth in this destined partner stuff. Thanks

Islie:
https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/jonathan-visits-soldier-injured-during-gunmens-attack-on-his-residence.html