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I will just laugh and tell them to continue while I pack is things for him to leave with.

Nope. But I wont respect him if he fails to pick himself up and wallows in self pity.

greateros: in as much as i empathize with the 'victimized' ladies, we should all understand that their are two sides to every story especially when it involves relationship.


Before passing judgement and calling names, its fair to hear the side of the other persons involved - women have a way of telling domestic violence stories to suite their side

am not married so don't crucify me .

No man has any right to beat a woman. Simple

Good girl!

What I dont understand is why they are always fighting. Always arguing about this, or that. Why shd they fight for their god? Cant he fight for them? My own God fights for me and for himself so I dont need to fight the ppl that portray my Jesus as homosexual. Really I dont send them. They can kiss my blabk ass

When you cant explain the feeling you are feeling for that person. When your spirit is lifted and you smile at the site of him or her. When you just dont want to get off the phone, when the persons laughter is all you need to make a perfect day. Thats when you know you are in love.

septua: Father said in as much as he want me to marry a rich man dat dey shuld allow me to follow my heart and giv me a chance to say No if i wish to. Meanwhile wen i met d suitor and he said he wanted to know everythin abt me . I told him abt my guy and i tot he understood. But he went and told my piple dat i said i m already engaged to marry to sombody next year and dey know abt it. Now my mum dem are upset dat dey have not even met my guy and am tellin a suitor about my plans to marry him.(BTW I havent introduced my guy to dem cos we r waiting for d rite time) but now things are kind of gettin complicated and dey dont want to hear abt my guy for now cos i want to bring him in d picture.and i dont want him to come and rush thins. and he says if i want to marry rich man dat he wont stop me but if i wait next year dat he will neva disapont.i beliv him and i want to wait. But i m being pressed by my aunty dem. I want to switch off my fone but my sister say i shuldnt do dat.

If you want my honest advice, marry the guy you love and who loves you. Forget all that crap your Mama is telling you. Follow your heart. What is 1 yr? What is 3yrs? That time will came and go in a flash. Marry the man that loves you. Dont join the ranks of women complaining about how their hubby provides for them but carries women around. If you have ears, heed my advice and marry the bobo that loves you. How can you even CONSIDER marrying someone you dont like? You will live with him for 10, 20, 30 , 40 years so you have to love him very very well. My 2 cents!!

cute08: Noting! Jst endurance.. Besides i tink is tautish 2 scream during childbirth. Jst try maintain n save energy 2 push.

Tautish? This mumu has no idea what pain is. I was on serious pain killers and I nearly ran mad! I weep for not using epidural. After it all dem oyinbo nurses were shaking my hand that I tried. Try pushing out a 9 pound baby and don't shout. I dare you!

Okontami: @Poster, your problem is simple ignorance. There are ways you can curb an abusive man, but it take s a lot of sacrifice. The truth is you will now be more calm, less talk, less complaint, you must not compare him with any one , do not abuse him back, do not argue with him. Do everything that will make you faultless. You will say this is slavery, but you have 2 options in an abusive marriage, keep mute and be the big full or act wise and have no future with the man. Its so clear that most abusive men grow to be very loving and kind men who have regrets for all the evils they might have done against you. But if this involves your life, please run away and give him a break. Run to his parents house preferably before you are accused of infidelity. The Lord is your shepherd o.

I disagree completely. There are women that do all things right and still get beaten up. A bully will always be a bully, even if she lies down like a doormat. How can yo do that to your child woman. If your child is a boy, he will grow up to be a wife beater, if its a girl she will not see anything wrong with being beaten by her husband. Take your children and flee.

Una be fool: I know this may sound weird and some of you may beg to differ. Your skin complexion doesn't only affect who you fall in love with, but affects who falls in love with you as well.

If you are dark skined, you may tend to easily develop soft spot or affection for a fair complexioned opposite séx and vice-versa. Look deep down into yourself and confirm if am right or wrong. ^_^

I use myself as a practical example. Am a dark skinned(chocolate) tall dude with broad shoulders and all the ladies I get attracted to both emotionally and sexually are all fair in complexion. Dark skinned ladies do'nt even stand any chance at all. I told my dark complexioned uncle's wife this and she said it is hereditary but could not explain how and why she loved and married my fair complexioned uncle.

My friends and I have debated this and they use themselves as examples and agreed/believe it. That is why the complexion of most husband and wife are mostly opposite.


If your mom and dad have the same or similar skin complexion, ask them if they really love each other....

Hogwash!

CeaserB: Na Baba God (Jehovah, Allah, Eledumare, Chukwu) Sign, Seal And Deliver The Authority To Us (Men).
So We (Men) Suggest You (Women) Send Your Appeal To The Supreme Creator If You Have Any Case Against (Men) Being "Special". Until Then You (Women) Can Keep Ranting. That Does Not Remove An Inch Of The Authority From Us (Men)


"And God said, Let us make Man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over EVERY creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth" (Genesis. 1:26).

"To the woman God said, I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing; in pain you shall bring forth children. Your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall RULE over you.” (Genesis 3:16)

"But I permit NOT a Woman to teach, NOR to have dominion over a Man, but to be in quietness." (1 Timothy 2:12)







[size=21pt]...AND GOD SAID, "CASE DISMISSED!" [/size]

You know I watched this really interesting interview with Fela Durotoye and he said and I quote "If a man is shouting "I am the head of this house and all of you must respect and obey me", he's not the head of the house". Kinda seems like what you are doing. You know in your heart that its all lip and we rock. Finito

afam4eva: You got it spot on. This is the reason. A male child will keep the family name while the female will just marry and may even forget where she came from. It's not because the male child is better than the female child.

I beg to differ. A woman NEVER forgets where she came from. NEVER!!!!

caseless: I hop u'r not al sayin it is moni dat hav metamorphosed dz guy 2 his present look or shape? How dos poverty inhibit growth or how dos being big indicate richness? If d tym com 4 bodi 2 grow nothin go stop am na.

Dude, money makes you big. Even R.Kelly acknowledged it with the lyrics "Moneys like steroids, look at my muscles!"

Ppl can try energy saving methods

[quote author=tpia@]If the wife isnt working then why do they need a househelp?[/quote]People that say things like this have never had to deal with a new born, do housework and still try to make some money. I'm sure she doesn't want to be a house wife and from the post she wants to get out and do stuff. Tell your friend that she wants to get a guy because she doesn't trust that HE wont fcku a girl if she brings one in.

I forever wonder why women are so dumb. Does anyone have to tell her what to do? Stay there until you die you hear? Dont leave him you hear? enjoy your vacations. the good life while you suffer. You better get your kids put of there. You want your daughter to grow up with your bad example and believe this is how a male female relationship shd be. As you stay you teach your son(s) to disrespect women. Well done!

hannydarl: Yes! Break it, burn her young single lady clothes, cut her off from family. while at it, burn her certificates and diploma if she has any cos if she dare find a job men can toast her. Then kill all those ex bfs and then put her in a room and seal it with bricks. Keep space for food and your dick to do her doggy style without openning the cage. Durriong labour deliver her yourself o Cos a midwife can go tell people how her younder is and what it looks like. Don't let her look at any man hide her sons from her too. There! Now you have her ALL to your dick alone.

no take laff kill me oh!

llade: Do I also need witnesses to succeed in my case. I av evidences including photos of my car she damaged and audio recordings n want to ask if they are tenable. Also, in Nigeria how long is it going to take. Tanks.

Do you also have witnesses and evidence of beating her up?

Ol boy please, she cant introduce you to her mom yet cos you are just a boyfriend. In Naija most of us are not comfortable introducing our bfs to our parents. I never introduced my husband to my father as my bf when we were dating. Infact he never introduced me to his parents as his ghf either, they just understood. So dont let such trivial matters bother you, if you like her so much, then propose and she can introduce you properly. You wan enter house siddon like oga when you are no one just the guy nyashing their daughter . Ol boy hold it there!

I like a guy that will go down on me
I like him Tall
I like a guy that can laugh @ himself
I want him him wearing an earring
I like moderate body art
He's got to know how to kiss!

Do what you know she likes. The other day day my man said something that really hurt me. He knew he did wrong when I got home and went straight to bed without dinner. You know what he did? he made my fav meal, woke me up to eat and did exactly what I had asked him to do, even more. No one had to tell me he was sorry, or that he loved me. Know what you have to do to fix this and do it.

[size=18pt]HELL NO![/size]

Its over 156-74. Another Olympic record.

gbosaa: take your miserable ugly a.ss to the romance section.some agony uncle might help you in there.LEAVE OUR BOYS ALONE...WE LOVE THEM WIN OR LOSE..AND IF YOU,VE GOT NOTHING POSITIVE AS WELL TO SAY,KEEP GRUBBY FINGERS OFF THE KEYBOARD.

Just be quiet and watch the game. You sound like you have psycho issues

mithel: and in what way was wthat you wrote any better??

He is a little boy. Mouthing off and talking trash.

I cant believe they missed that!!!!!

gbosaa: No he just shat and creamed on your ugly ass bi.atch.

what is wrong with you? If you don't have anything good to say then go to bed little boy!

Did u see what LeBron just did? He just shat on us!

These guys r using us as target practice

Damn! The game is killing me!