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He lost to a fellow Liverpool brother... So, he should console himself.

Promisecinho12:
I met the pretty lady few years ago and we were cool with each other I was the first man in her life but distance became a barrier in our relationship, she later got married and now she had two lovely kids, whenever she visit her parents she always want to visit me too but I don't usually allow her to enter the room with me cause am scared that okafors law may work on me, recently I told her to stop visiting me that she is married and I don't fancy her visiting me and she called me all sort of names pls I don't know if I did something wrong for telling her not to visit me again.

My brother, you did the right thing... So, stand your ground on it.

I strongly disagree with him over this...

raslim20:
I noticed these days, trading financial market most esp forex is not that common perhaps anything forex is most related to scam. I also notice most people prefer to run into crypto trading rather than the usual forex,indexes, metals, commodities and energy.
Trading forex now is not what it has always been before, most challenges that traders do face has been solved in such a way that its more easier to be successful now than before.
The number one challenges I noticed is capital to fund your live account, 80% of Nigeria traders trade with less than $500 and mostly before the end of the day they blow up their account, or get tired with the little profit it could produce without putting more risk on your equity. To my best knowledge, to be a successful trader you need nothing less than $5000 to trade meaningfully but how many of us can afford that,
Acquiring trading skill is the hardest part in the journey of been a trader as every other thing has been easy without stress, now we have hundreds of company that are begging to fund traders if they know what they are doing, more accurate indicators are coming out day by day to help your technical analysis.
So I'm writing this to encourage traders don't quit, and to those who wish to acquire trading skills, go for it. Forex now pay more than ever

I love your post... But, the paradigm has shifted a bit from FOREX to crypto, and synthetic markets due to past experiences or hearsays about FOREX.

Lamanii22:
Hello guys, this may be a bit lengthy, please bear with me... thank you





my mother is always right about everything,could it be her 6th sense or something more.... so many times I would be like "mom I don't agree with you" and later i'd be like "omoor mummy you're right ooo".... I am someone who is very plain and I easily trust people, so there's guy who offered to teach me pastries for free, he even offered to teach me at my own home... I was like what a lovely gesture, he is the one that will buy ingredients, he would buy me ice cream, yoghurt and different things..... my mom was like "does he want to marry me" I'm like "he is just being nice that's all"...


So one day he came to tell us that they are doing freezer promo in his area and that he has already started the payment on my behalf.... cause one can pay in installment, he showed me everything, he said he has almost finished the payment and that the balance is remaining 20k and we needed freezer so badly that time cause I sell tasty time and drinks.... I was like "what a great opportunity"... I then told my mom happily about... my mom just said "o fe gba e ni" (he wants to scam you), I told her no way that someone that is teaching me kini for free, I sha collected the money from my mom and then gave it to this guy, he even showed me the receipt and the freezer via video call and all...... guys it's been two years I didn't see freezer nor my mom's 20k... He still calls me and keeps promising he would return the money, some part of me still believes he would return the money cause if you see this person eehn, he is really nice, he would help me carry tasty time from a very far distance to my house..... there was this day I lost my market money and he gave it back to me...


I just don't understand why he lied to me, or maybe he needed my money for something or he just did all that to gain my trust, my mom would always say she warned me but I didn't listen..... I have always wanted to prove my mom wrong but she's right all the time.....


Some other occasions like that too but this one....

What a child sees by climbing a tree is what an elder sees while seated...
Since you've noticed such ability in your mum, seek for ways to use seek her opinions for your own good in most of your decisions.

The book go dey alright in Turkey where hin dey... The bible we are used to is good enough.

He deserves it...

That dude is a killer fighter... I just hope he will sort out his issues with UFC and not get to leave the promotion.

Poverty in Africa and a search for greener pastures have turned our fellow Africans into modern day slaves.

Political gimmicks ...

Police brutality knows no bounds in africa...

She means business...

Black Kettle calling a black pot black...

All I know is that both the accuser and the accused are guilty of the accusations...

Klassic01:
I just found out they've been dating for sometime now and sex is involved as well. I got info she do sleep over at his place sometimes. She's barely 19 and this guy is 22.

I feel hurt and betrayed. I haven't confronted either of them yet, because I'm so angry this Sunday morning. I did some investigations and my source is truly right. I haven't spoken to her this morning to avoid stories that touches the heart.

What do you guys think?

Confront your friend amicably... He should have told you about it himself rather than finding out this way.
Anything you do, try to handle it maturely.

Pareyz:
Over the years, i had always admired Jane, a girl that lives in my neighborhood. She's extremely beautiful, the kind of girl I liked and wanted in my life. Any time I saw her, my heart would start to race, and my lips would begin to quiver- i just couldn't summon the courage to
step up to her and tell her how I felt about her.

However, in the last quarter of 2021, i decided to man up and make an advance on her. She didn't hesitate to accept to go into a relationship with me and i became very happy. It was like a dream come true.

Two Months into our relationship, i discovered that she had sex with my cousin long before I met her. A boy that I'm 7 years older than. When i asked her about it, she admitted to have had sex with him. This is a girl i love so much.

Right now I'm totally broken, I don't know what to do. I'm just thinking of breaking up with her.

She chose to tell you the truth... So, what has she done wrong here ?

Mineralzz:
Hello everyone.
Am an active member on this forum, I've have my main account but I wish to remain anonymous, i just want to hide my identity and i will deactivate this account as soon as I get a solution. I'm so heartbroken right now

I thought my fiancée was different from every other guys, despite his gentle and innocent face I never knew he was a liar and a cheat

He's fond of connecting his laptop to his smart TV (65 inches). What displays on the laptop automatically displays on the smart TV screen. See what happened, he went downstairs to pickup something, So I wanted to see a movie on Netflix, while I was looking for a suitable movie to watch, a message popped up from Facebook and it stated "Whr are U? Check ur phone...6 missed calls "

At first, I wasn't triggered to open the msg but what drew my attention was the "cry emoji". When I opened the msg my heart melted, I was crying . Their secret affair has been going on since April last year. A married woman with 2 kids, I checked her profile I saw her kids and husband photos everywhere, she has visited my fiance at home several times, I saw lot of romantic messages.

I videoed their chat conversations as evidence, thank goodness his TV screen is wide enough for the blind to see. The moment he came inside he noticed my mood has changed, he was smart enough to know I opened his msg. He's started begging me, he said he can explain. Explain what?

Am on my way home now feeling devastated, heartbroken and sad . I plan to upload the video on Facebook and tag all the woman's friends until her husband sees it. I will also send the video to instablog, Linda ikeji.. Honestly I feel dejected and heartbroken. Help I don't know what to do .

Mynd44, seun, lalasticlala.

It is good that you are not yet his wife... I know you are heartbroken but biko, walk out of the relationship in peace.
Leave the married woman out of the drama cos to her, she might not even have known that you exist in the guy's life.
For your Fiancé, I hope he gets the type of woman he deserves for his betrayal.

gift0123:
Good day responsible nairalanders not the irresponsible ones abeg

I am a salary earner and I want to start up another source of income, you all know it's good to have another source of income especially when you earn salary only. At the moment I have a good idea of phone accessories, but I don't know if I should go for phone accessories or look for someone who can give me a professional teaching on forex trading... Should I go for phone accessories or forex trading? Which one is lucrative?

I need geniune advice guys . Thanks....

Forex is more lucrative but riskier... Since, you have good knowledge about accessories, start with that and venture into forex from part of your proceeds.

Sell Cech, bench Buffon and use Van der ser

AlienStar:
Hello everyone, I need help with an enquiry. My sister is writing thesis for her Msc program and the thesis requires gathering food samples and taking them to research center which she was told is in either University of Ibadan or Ile-ife for test. Due to distance, I would like someone who is in University of Ibadan or Ile-ife to help me confirm if such ( research center) laboratory still exists, functional and when and how one can bring samples. This is make the journey easier for her and less confusing. Thanks in anticipation.

If you are in Lagos, try out FIIRO.

Glad he at least came back alive...

I wonder why anyone would intentionally want to cause an injury ro a fellow player...

Freshint:
PLEASE ADVISE!
I have a white woman in canada, and I told her I want to be with her, she said she would send me an employment letter for me to come and work in her restaurant as a helper.
So I told her okay.. She said said,she will accommodate me.. I can sleep in her room.. Because we are doing this lovey do very thing on Facebook..

But I am married with a son here. And I don't know if she's nt seeing that or maybe she don't give a Bleep.

I am confused on what to do... And I really want to give my family a better life abroad because nigeria is not guaranteed.


But I have a question.
What if I get there and get work permit and resident permit then leave to another province.

Or should I stay with her there and marry her and have a baby with her.. So I will get citizen ship.

And how long will I stay to get a permanent residence or citizenship when I marry her and have a child..?

Thanks for ur response

I do not like your plan... Get there, work for a year and apply for your PR. You will be granted cos you would have acquired canadian job experience and living experience in the country.
Please and please, do not abandon your family just for the prospect of a better life that you can still achieve with them in the picture.

mike404:
WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY WILD WILD THOUGHTS

Excerpts from Rihanna's song with DJ Khaleed

Topccy007z:
Please help throw more light on this important issue. Can married couples sexually harass each other under any given circumstance?

Yes there can be, especially in a case of marrital rape. Although, marrital rape is not covered in the tenents of the laws in Nigeria.

1Rolake:
Please I need nairalanders advice. I'm in dilemma.

I'm sorry the story is long please take your time and sorry for any mistakes.

My sister and her husband got married late 2018, she was pregnant then.
Few months after their marriage the husband lost his job. He was sacked because he embezzled over 5m from his company.

Note: he dated my sister for only a year before their marriage and only bought a phone (infinix) for my sister during their courtship. He has no car nor a house from this money.

We got to know that he is a chronic gambler. He can bet 200k on a single game.

For 2 years he was out of job, my sister supported him and never complained, we also do not have problem in my family. We didn't even act as if we know that he was out of job for that 2yrs. After my sis gave birth the MIL stayed with them for a year with my sister footing the bills, the MIL eats only Amala every night and my sister covers every damn expenses and still cook for the house. She takes care of her family without complaints.

The problem is that the husband is never satisfy, never appreciate my sis for a day and always complain anytime she did not cook for those 2yrs. He has pushed my sister to collect loans of 40k twice from LAPO without paying back. He sold almost all the properties at home for betting, they have no TV, nor fridge.

In late 2021 he got a job in a restaurant with a salary of 80k and he promised to be given my sister 25k every month. Since then until now he has never given my sister 1penny from the 25k, he has never bought a clothe nor shoe for his child since he was born. He use his salary to either womanize or Bet. He has borrowed money in almost all the loan apps and my sister keep receiving messages from this loan apps almost everyday, I've also received a message from them before. Their landlord asked then to leave his house because they couldn't pay for house rent and he kept receiving messages from this loan Apps too. He doesn't talk to my sister, they live as neighbors in the house. They only share greetings at home unless he wants to ask my sister for money. They behave as strangers, always shut my sister off.

His company kept 150k with him for 2days and he used the money to play betting not until they start chasing him with calls before he borrowed the money from his sister to settle the bills.

He no longer go to work again, he told my sister yesterday that he has resigned because he's working on a project that will give him twice his investment. We're suspecting that he was sacked (job not up-to 6months)

So last year I advised my sister to start a Thrift so that she can be saving her money and use the money to start a business this year.

My sis called me today and told me that her husband has resigned. He no longer go to work and I advised her to get an apartment outside and give the man space. She has advised him so many times, pray for him, supported him. Uptil today we've never questioned the man, we just want him to treat my sis right but he's not ready to change.

Please nairalanders what do you think we can do? Do you think I gave my sister the right advice?

I don't really want my sis to divorce her husband. But she cries almost everyday.

It is so unfortunate that some men do not value the jewel they have in their life...

Zeal0000007:
Pals just don't know what to think, here is it, my fiancee's sex libido increased rapidly than before, I work at sea returning back from work , the way my woman has been spinning during sex is disturbing.
I know she must have missed me but she is not a very sexy driven person. This time around during sex, she can raised her legs up to her head, and its shocking, the way she moans its unbelievable, this time around she loves doggy style, like say tomorrow no dey, she wants to come up top me and alot more.

My imagination is trying to tell that she might be having it with someone that is very good in bed while I was away, pals this is giving me a lot of concern. Soon I will be going back in matter of days, from my observations since I came back I have not seen strange number calling her.

Stop overthinking and let's hope what you're thinking is not true.

joeselfjoe:
I would appreciate the whole of nairaland to celebrate my queen for me. Today's her birthday. I don't have the money to take her for a picnic in Zanzibar but I'm sure one day I go carry her go enjoy for there.

Happy birthday to her... Wishing you guys many more blissful years ahead. And I say a big amen to your financial prayers.

GingerbreadMen:
I've noticed a pattern,all the girls that are attracted to me a slim for some reason I fail to comprehend. Most of them are actually pretty but I don't feel any attraction towards them.
I'm a dark,tall, muscular guy and I have been told often in school that I have a nice physique. I don't see myself as handsome though I've been told that by a lot of my female friends,but, I still don't understand why I attract people I don't feel attraction for.

Is there anyone experiencing this or knows why this is happening?

Stop moving around slim girls... Your association determines who is attracted to you.

Kindly go for the Camry...

SQLmastar:
A girl of about 22 just approached me that she needs a lawyer to pursue her cause and get her entitlements paid.
The background of the issue goes thus:
There was this guy in her area that had been wooing her for weeks. She finally agreed to him but only on the condition that he would sign a 'contract' pledging himself to her. That if he ever broke her heart, he would have to pay her the sum of 1million naira. I saw the paper agreement and it contained two signatures. I asked what transpired between her and her guy. She says she caught him with another girl. This allegedly happened 6months into their relationship.
Please lawyers in the house, is this issue valid in court? Can she be awarded the payment?

It is not valid except the agreement was drafted by a legal practitioner and within the context and tenents of the law.
She should brace up herself and try to get over the heartbreak.

Precious911:
I noticed that some people are just totally against USA. I don't really understand their reason.



Someone should clarify me here. Isn't it a matter Russia would have discussed with Ukraine or threatening Ukraine with sanctions (cutting trade deals with them) instead of invading. Does it mean that Russia is going to invade all European countries crushing their independence just to halt USAs influence in Europe?

Mynd44 lalasticlala seun

I believe Putin is just using the whole invasion threat to catch cruise and put the US on their toes ... There will be no invasion.