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The primary tin a guy needs is maturity...
Maturity to put your spouse and family's needs above Ur own and t understand that there are more important tins than 'winning' in conflicts.
Other points are extremely valid as well.

I don't see how APC is going to give us (Nigerians) the dividends of democracy and bring order to the system wen they can't even put their house in order
Last I checked, Charity still rises from home.

All these issues is getting outta hand

sartee:
I don't know what this oyinbo are turning this world into ... I don't think there is any sane Nigerian man who will do such .

I would..

It's a provision in d constitution isn't it, with the members clearly outlined
So, I don't really see wat the hullabaloo is all about.

Hopefully, we'll steadily make progress.

Leem4:
[b]i was born in the mid 90s. At birth i am a very healthy child according to my mum and relatives. My mum said, she can count the number's of time she took to the hospital.

It all started, when i am six years old, i started having crises. Majorly rheumatic pains in my body.
When these become convesant, our doctor told my, parent to carry out genotype test on me. As per the result of the test, i am SC. Since i am young, i dont have the knowlegde nor understanding about these.

Some month ago, a program is being aired in regards to advice to youth, base on genotype.
Then i voiced out to my parent, that as an literate , WHY did they get married to each other when they knew they will give bith to SS. WHY did they give birth to me to make me suffer. WHY do i have to live my life like these always, (they dont allow me to get involve in many activities ). As the conversation ensued, my mum said, during her time, the awareness level is low, and people dont even mind it.

Six years ago, for rougly two years, i didnt go the hospital, talkless of having crises. Am very healthy, but since last year, the crises and many health issue erupt again.

We relocated, then we changed our hospital, the doc the said my parents and i should go for genotype test and blood group test.
THIS is where the problem lie's, my mum is AA and my dad is AC. Regarding to the bloog group test, all of us are A+. With my little, knowledge, about genetics, if AA and AC is cross breed, they will give rise to AA AC AA AA. And they are both A+ they will give birth to A+. When i showed my mum these mistake, he told my dad, then we went to another hospital to retake the test which is still the same.
Now my question is this possible,? Is there any scientific backing about these, or are the not my parent, but i have physical resemblance to my dad.
Please i need your answer's
[/b]

If your dad's AS, then it might be a typical, common laboratory error.
In the electrophoresis test, due to the proximity of the A's and C lines, sometimes d uncommon C is read as an A.
My advice, find out from Ur mom if she used to have mild and occasional forms of ur crises and wen..(ac traits), you might also need to do a more expensive confirmatory test (e.g, d chromatography test..full name escapes me).
Might not necessarily be wat peeps are saying here..be rest assured of that.
All the best..

DzTzl:
morning, errrm have you found an alternative?

Lol...not really

Just a couple of intellectually inclined blogs
Beegeagle n co

Nonso23:
My parents did not raise a mugu.

Even the flavour guy self has his own harem... 2 na just to warm up...
Don't be so sure about that o.
The problem is that the average Nigerian lady is not willing to demand their fair share of respect from their man.
I mean what is even there to demand
Ask them what they intend to make out of their lives in the next five years and the majority will just start gawking like demented heifers.
Ask some guys how their mothers dealt with them during the turbulent phase of adolescence. Firm but loving. Consequences for actions or inactions were clearly spelt out. (for them good mothers o). There were boundaries and they were adhered to.
Today's woman is more interested in replicating mill and boons in real life than taking more pragmatic approaches toward their marriages. Whilst that in itself is not a bad idea but then again no sensible person goes about cutting down a tree by plucking the leaves.
Marriage today is a contract where the negotiation for value is a till-death-do-us-part activity - a staring contest if you like.
The moment the woman thinks she can get a better offer outside, the husband is gone. The moment the man notices that he can cut a better deal on the sides he goes for it. The latter is more prevalent because the man, in most cases, sports the bulk of their combined financial muscle.
Happy marriages are those where both parties have acknowledged that the value they provide for each other is worth way more than any side attraction can offer. Where the man goes out of his way to please his wife and the woman won't stop at anything to cater to her husband's needs.

I refuse to accept that the woman is suppressed. I think the movement of society's focus from moralist/socialist foundations to capitalistic tendencies is more to blame. The women of the last generation had to combat with the inculcation of monogamy in their men thanks to Christianity and when it seemed like they were succeeding the "sex sells" adverts started to receive attention. Their target - those with the most money to throw around -men. Then morals boundaries became a question of "how much do you want?" . Women became more open to trading their morals for money. Young men who couldn't meet up were forced to step up and those who did wouldn't settle for less and whenever there appeared a better deal they stepped up yet again and the woman again is left with the shorter end of the stick. This is the reality of most of today's marriages.

The unfortunate thing is that both good women and men are the victims of this vicious cycle and it is not going to end anytime soon.
Trust is dead today. Everyone is as loyal as their pockets' depth.
Are there still good people?
Yes.
How can you find them?
I don't know. Try Tum bum tum bum...

This is just an 'A' class summary of the situation we find ourselves now.

This is. New Thread worth bruv, and if u don't open it, I will. No apologies.
Ppl need t see n read what you've written.

Joavid:
Its either you are broke or stingy.

I mean, you keep crying about this same thing on every thread to bash women.

Taking a lady out is totally a waste to you.

Its your type that turn women to slaves. You would prefer she come to your house always; To cook, clean and have with sex you.

I pity the woman that ends up with you.

He speaks the Truth.
It's important for couples in a relationship to Bond, and bonding cannot be done in d aforementioned places.
What happened to taking long walks or just chilling together so u can talk, read n understand each other.

It's such situations that give rise t threads like this.

@ o.p..Lemme tell you what a lot of ppl are too considerate t say...You have a part t play/responsibility in Ur own tragedy.
You got warned prior to the wedding, u didn't investigate but obviously it left a mark hence Ur snooping ( the recycle bin Is one of the Most unlikely places f ppl t pop into except they looking f something).

About Ur Marriage, it most likely won't survive this.
Your husband's a wandering dic.k, that has No respect for the marriage.
A mistake is having sex with , maybe an ex, prior to d white, premeditated is Recording It.
Also, he's clearly bringing prostitutes into Ur home with the connivance of his friends.
Introduction is a contract of future marriage, and that should be a basis for future commitment.
Add to that, the fact that he u gave Ur PreCious, priceless virginity to.

Confront him, preferably outside d house (to avoid stories that touch), and also Talk to an Elderly, Long married, respectable fellow/ preferable,couple t help u put tins in proper perspective, but eventually the Choice of wat to do next is urs.

Onegai:
For all those explaining away this man's adultery and foolishness in cheating AND videotaping it (in these days where trashy blogs are looking for gist to fill up their columns)...

That is Nigerian Morality 101, titled "Personal Responsibility Is Not Something You Need In Your Life". Because they sway the bible to read that God forgives you without having to be remorseful (permanent Get-Out-Of-Jail-Free card), it is not and will never be your fault for doing anything (so you never have to accept you messed up) and the wronged person has to do all the work to fix things, your job is to siddon-look and send bible passages their way to encourage them.

This mentality is why inspite of having 10 churches per any major street in any large city in the country, we cannot even transact honest business or trust the next person with our N1,000 note. This is why the entire country is crippled by problems that make no sense. This is why the average successful Nigerian business that is very big requires a foreigner to be in it, because the Nigerians there don't trust themselves.

If you cannot look in your wife's eyes, your children's eyes, your husband's eyes, if you cannot have the moral courage to look people whom you have hurt in their eyes and say "I did wrong, I have no-one to blame but me, I am sorry and I will do everything to fix this", then you cannot do that at work, in church or with your peers in society. In your personal life, you are giving yourself excuses for every shortcoming, is it in your professional life you will go on to be great and noble?

And that is why Nigeria is the country we see it to be right now.

focus7, please highlight the fact that you struggled and wept to God to lead you from the path of immorality, that God gave your wife the grace to stay with you whilst He worked on your life but the most important aspect was that YOU, YOU were willing to change from your ways first. Because I think a lot of people need to see that message clearly.

Well said

Was expecting to see a white couple..
Was pleasantly surprised to see they were black.

Hope y'all pessimists that don't see anything good in black/African marriages take note and learn something.

A lifetime of happiness is possible and it ain't jamb...
Marriage is not competitive, Don't keep a score card..
Love, Respect, Support.


Nuff said.

fulanimafia:
I don't understand how everyone can see the efforts PMB is putting in, in the fight against BH yet some people deliberately pretend the armed forces has completely ignored BH and is facing Calabar.

1. Relocation of the command centre

2. The composition of the MNJTF and establishment of their headquarters

3. The commitment of $100 million to fight the terrorists.

4. The release of $21 million already for the fight.

5. The donation of $5 million from the U.S alongside technical and weapons support.

6. The commitment of the G7 to eliminating the terrorists.

While there is clearly a brief transitional lull in the actual fight which makes the terrorists appear to be winning, it should be appreciated that the aforementioned are crucial and vital for a solid foundation for dealing the blood suckers a final fatal blow.

All militants, kidnappers, and demented elements that think they can threaten Nigerians should either make good their threats, repent, or embrace the Hell-fire from the air.

Commendable but ill timed.
That transitional Lull, has clearly dampened the pace of the ongoing military operations and given d insurgents the much needed respite to regroup and reorganize and to start planning coordinated attacks as we've started seeing the past week.
That plus d uncertainty surrounding the future of the service chiefs may make the war effort grind to a halt.

The issue with most ppl here is that Nigeria cannot afford to open 2 theatres of war at opposite points of the compass, besides kidnappings and armed robbery are the forte of the 'police'.

But what do I know sha.....

dustmalik:
Don't we always have friends when it's time to lie? I'm privy information about these refineries, and I can authoritatively tell you that you are lying. You saTANoids can keep lying to yourselves if it helps you get by.

You've been noticed,
Now run along....

Turd.

Next time, if u can authoritatively tell am lying, THEN DO SO, or u go stick Ur limp shi.t where the sun don't shine.

Rubbish..

toluene2016:
as nice as your point may seem to be don't forget that there are 4 different refineries involved with different maintenance requirements therefore if the TAM work was carried out most likely work would end at various times at the various refineries and not at the same time or within close proximity as we may experience.

In addition, it is also nice you recall that just last week it was just the PH refinery that NNPC said would become operational next month now they've come to say that all would be operational I think it is only logical to conclude that the refineries aren't really as bad as to be left idle but some peoples interest (definitely oil marketers) were been protected against the nation's interest by keeping them idle.

Now let me ask you if you really think GEJ won't av used the TAM project as campaign point if it was actually been executed at least he used the rail project for campaign even though it was not a completed project then and even till now.

In conclusion, my take is that the refineries were not as bad as to be left idle and now Buhari wants to bring them into use therefore Buhari should take the credit.

I honestly don't seem to agree with ur point on government's collusion with the oil marketers cos if u recall, one of ex prez Jonathan's first policy was d unpopular subsidy removal which wasn't favorable t d oil marketers, so logically it doesn't add up.
Granted, the commencement is ahead of schedule which maybe due to d 'Buhari' factor, but I still think majority of d credit goes t GEJ..plus, PMB, hasn't really made any policy statement/given any mandate on this issue, so....

Not sure I would 've used a sore topic as non operational refineries as a campaign topic, but point taken.

Peace

Greatidonis:
Dbard pls I really need to talk to you concerning the wedding planner in PH pls can you send me SMS I will call you once I see your name 08106161779 pls help a brother. Thanks

Ok..Will do so tomorrow

A friend who works @ d refineries in PH, some weeks ago on fb, alluded that the refineries were under maintenance which so far ws70-80% complete.
Didn't really believe him then but time has proven him right.

If credit is to be given, majority of it Should go to GEJ.
He it was who started the renovation and rehabilitation (turn around maintenance) of the refineries since 2012/13 (not really sure which).
His name it is on the paperwork.


Not taking anything away from Buhari sha, but the Truth needs be said.





sycophancy is for lame brains..

'nuff said

Anyi3:
To the people typing some insane words above, I feel sorry for una. May your loved ones never get missing.

The girls went missing, no doubt. The campaigners were funded by APC, no doubt.

That's the work of opposition in democracy to constantly make the current government uncomfortable. I see no reason why PDP shouldn't fund groups that have legitimate reasons to tackle this administration.

Stop acting like babies. The opposition can reverse the tables now and use this same issue to witchhunt the current administration instead of crying.

It is extremely callous and insensitive of APC to use the lives of the girls as propaganda and a campaign TOOL!
It is utterly despicable.

If Oby Ezekwesili had any bit of integrity in her, the Proper tin f her would have been to forgo any government appointment f now, at least till d girls are found.

atlwireles:
What is there to applaud, sorry I don't see it. The Fulanai political position is well known in Nigeria, there is no deftness and finesse involved. The fools willingly leading themselves into bondage is the tragedy needs explanation.

I tend to agree with tawa89, it takes a level of deftness n finesse to play d same trick on an informed audience, with so many variations and Yet get the same response.

My take in all this, is that it's high time the 'south' takes its eyes away from d centre and develop themselves first @home. It's important we do this cos if not, the 'northern oligarchy' will always play n prey on that greed to their advantage.
Human. nd material resource development and control will eventually get us there.

@o.p, get the mods to move this to the Family or Health section if u want intelligent answers/ discourse.

Topic will get rubbished here.

@o.p...this is actually a controversial issue.
Does d fact that the woman got 'wet' mean it wasn't a rape, or that she enjoyed it

I think it has to do with the person navigating the zone btw fantasy n reality.
For some women, 'rape' is part of their sexual fantasies..her undergoing d act becomes quite confusing to her mind which then blurs d line btw d trauma of d reality and d fantasy.

Also, rape is a very traumatic experience and the mind deals with trauma in different ways, to lessen d effect on d individual, and one of those is 'switching off'. In such cases, the person zones out of the experience (blanks out), and the body is left to respond to the physicality of the action, which might result in some measure of arousal.

Lastly, females get aroused by 'exciting' (f lack of a beta word) , thrilling experience..a car race, extreme sports, or during vigorous exercises...things that can cause heightened senses, it's quite physiological. rape in itself can put her in this State of heightened awareness/excitement, which if not careful can lead to a form of arousal.

Then there are the Perverts...



cc;coogar, bukatyne

A house divided amongst itself cannot stand..
The APC legislators spent weeks bickering and quarreling like market women while the nation watched and waited...eventually, d opposition took advantage of the situation as they were wont to do, as Any opposition party in Any clime would do.
APC dropped d ball and it's bin picked up...all this wailing and teeth gnashing ain't necessary.
The Senate president is a longtime card carrying member of the party,who is a believer in d party's ideologies and APc still has D majority in both houses, so what is All the cry about

Nigerians voted for change and This will not be acceptable as d basis f d excuses y promises couldn't be delivered on.

I for one won't accept it.


nuff said

mikolo80:
You prolly never heard of rush Limbaugh or ann Coulter

Rush Limbaugh I know, Ann Coulter, not so much, but the thing is, Rush Limbaugh has a 'candid talk' kinda show where he makes sure his opinion is heard. Anyone who is brave enough to go on d show Knows What to Expect...yet he still manages to walk that fine line of decorum.
There's NO excuse for that lady abeg.

onila:
the immigration officers at those desks that attends to you before get into UK

okay, I stopped at the UK airport because I used british airways

I was on the wrong line
instead being on the line for transit
I was on the line for pple getting into UK

so while standing on the line, I saw a black young hot officer, he was the only black officer, the rest were white
something told me he was Nigerian
he looked like the Yoruba guys I like (dark, handsome and posh)
I was like this is perfection

fortunately, Hes the one that attended to me

me being the friendly person we all know, I asked are you Nigerian

he said what makes you think so(in an uninterested tone)
I was like what is the f00l thinking like

he wasnt friendly at all. .
he went straight to the point, you are on the wrong line
go to the other room

just because he managed to get that gateman job, hes feeling so proud

Lool..lmfao.
Onila, seriously, if you ever leave NLand, I'll so miss u and Ur threads.

Ymodulus:
ellechrystal

I am sure you never watched, the video you just went on to comment. Did you notice that Adeola Fayehun of Sahara Reporters, was sarcastic a bit?
Did you also notice she truly believe she never did anything wrong?

Did you also [b]noticed that Christine Amanpour of CNN asked Mugabe same question Adeola asked Mugabe in Nigeria? Yet no one called Christine Amanpour an irresponsible journalis[/b]t?
Did you notice, how she stressed the hypocrisy of Nigerians?

Same Nigerians say her actions were non patriotic, yet same Nigerians laugh at same president muhabe and say he his a bad president.

I am not surprised, this is a major reason Africa is far from development and improvement. Nigeria is a country where truth and fairness will never happened. We are people that hate the truth, everything we do we are not sincere. What i observed over the years no matter how good and beautiful a thing is, take it to nigeria within a flash that thing becomes bad and ugly because of who we are. Look at religion both muslim and christianity, electricity. education, socio_economic life. We are far from civilisation, though we are independent we are still much in bondage. Adeola you too good to be talking about Nigeria.

Now I believe its true, when Nelson Mandela said 'it's a long walk to freedom'. As we Africans refuse to face the truth, that will ultimately set us free.

Christiane Amanpour is Not in her league.

Amanpour usually doesn't appear blatantly rude or appear to be badgering her interviewee no mata how contentious the issues.
She's mastered d art of being politely impolite.

The girl acted like an agbero..fullstop.

She should learn her lessons and move on.



Talking hypocrisy, would she have accosted someone like Putin d same way

Lubbish

To all those #sycophants commenting,
there hasn't, to the best of my knowledge, been ANY DIRECTIVE OF SUCH FRM THE PRESENT ADMINISTRATION..if there were, I would like to be proven wrong.
The present gov't hasn't fully kicked off yet, no cabinet, policy direction...

shouting 'sai Buhari' for everything whether it's to his credit or not doesn't make y'all different from those that were screaming up GEJ in the past administration.

Objectivity is wat will help us get to where we are going.

#sycophancyisreal #thegr8NigerianHerd

989900:
1. Again, the TAM on the refineries didn't start until October 2014 (3-4 months before the scheduled Feb elections), to be completed in 18 months (sometime April 2016).

2. For someone who allegedly is full of brains, I'd expect you to be able to read between the lines, and if you can't, at least I would expect you, to expect solutions and competence in-lieu of lame excuses and cluelessness -- especially when it's the 'blood' (if you will), of the nation we'r talking about.

3. I'm still astonished at how your skull full of brain matter can't read, or read but can't comprehend the original article from 'The Punch', and deduce new strategies are being implemented to hasten the TAM.

Help yourself further oh wise one (it might do you a world of good sir, to read it twice/thrice at the least, so you don't repeat your comprehension blunders):

http://www.punchng.com/business/business-economy/refineries-repairll-be-concluded-in-january-2016-nnpc/

http://sunnewsonline.com/new/?p=100162

The news article clearly states that 'The REHABILITATION' of Nigeria's REFINERIES will take up to 2016.
You possibly are confusing the terms Renovation and Rehabilitation.
Plus the article was referring to All Nigeria's refineries which he clearly stated will be rehabilitated In Phases.


Possibly PMB had an input here, But credit should be given to whom due here, and that is GEJ..

babyosisi:
In another news Buhari says he will be traveling to Gold Coast next week and after that he heads to Upper Volta


He will say Soviet Union one of these days
Who wan bet?
I feel it in my spirit

Loooooool... ..

why wickedness

Maybe Baba needs to undergo 'stimulation' in order f him to get used to current world affairs...

If it's good enuf f Osibanjo, it should be good enuf f him..

phantom:
If This is really true, then Its a pity. I would have wasted my vote......

bwahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.....

well, u know they say , ' the only constant thing in life is 'CHANGE' '.



Enjoy.

Commendable stand by the c-in-c. Chad and the other nations have no basis for making such a ridiculous request , ridiculous even to a civilian as I.

Will the other member, francophone, countries agree to it...I doubt,@ least not without a 'fight'.

Now if it's true that d command center will be based in Chad, then I fear that arrangement might end up with issues. A Nigerian commander with '2' command/control centres, might end up having a conflict of interest.
The Chadian s too cannot be trusted.



As long as it brings to a close the boko haram chapter, it's all good sha.

Lovely and thoughtful gift. Kudos t her......and u for be deserving of such.




ahem @o.P, hope you're aware that product is classed as a spy camera watch

** strolls away**

KanwuliaJara:
Is it turning ya on like it is "dooyin me sun 'ow?" SEEEEEEE MEAT!!!!!

s.m.h.v....
question...is that Ur.......

eph12:
Still I fail to see Wike's plan for his state. What are his campaign promises? How does he plan to achieve them? Who are his cabinet members? He should just stop this show of strength and focus on the major reason why he's there.

Stop being mischievous.
If there's one thing I liked about Wikes campaign, it was how well outlined his blueprint for the state was.
There was an open presentation as well as a booklet to that effect.

Whether he'll fully achieve them is a matter f anoda day but so far, I'll say, he has hit the ground running (or at least walking )