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AntiWailer:
U cnt even show me a MacBook.

U cnt cash out yet , can u ?

U can lie wit testimony that they paired you.

That is the grand illusion a lot of you live in.

Lest I forget, every tin on dt screen is not up to 150k and u too will say u are balling or buying Mansion.

Why is it difficult for you to just be neutral on MMM issue?

I used to respect you a lot for a singular act of kindness you did for the needy youths on this forum sometime ago but this MMM issue has exposed the other side of you which is not pleasant at all.

You jump from one MMM thread to the other to spill venom. It shows you've got a dark heart, believe it or not. Most Nigerians are like you, and it's a pity.



What is expected of you as a reasonable and mature person is to warn the participants and then stand aside and watch how things turn out.

Come on, you're bigger than this. I do not expect you to stomach this criticism well. You need to ask the Holy Spirit to renew your mind (if you believe in him), that way, you'll go far in life and live a longer happier life.

I know how much calls i received from people home to fix my money in the scheme, but i told them i don't do such online stuffs. whether it's working for them or not shouldn't be my problem and worse is wishing them ill-luck, for what exactly? Stay Neutral if you can't wish your fellow country men well. is that difficult to do?

Why not allow God and the forces of the universe decide the outcome?

Stop playing omniscient, show some respect to yourself. Let them lose their money, it's their problem and not yours.

@ the emboldened, you need to grow up. You still have a long way to go
God help you!

AngelsAndStars:
God in his infinite mercy will pardon him. the Bible says you should forgive even if you were offended 77 x 77 times.

God knows best

So you've never read in that your Bible where it says "God cannot be mocked, for whatever a man sows same shall he reap"?

Even your same bible says God institutes Authorities to punish the evil doers. Justice will be served, he won't escape it.

AngelsAndStars:
but it did end up in death. my point is learning what caused it and educate people.

punishing people won't solve problems but punishing and also working to prevent such would go a long way.

if there is a problem there must be a curse.

No matter the cause. Your bible also says if you're slapped on one cheek, you shouldn't retaliate. Rather, present the other cheek.

Make sure you read your bible very well, don't just sieve it in your favour. Call a spade a spade.

RIP to the dead

sparta231:
dear NL I work in a company dat produces soft drink n drink a lot of its product av worked der almost 10 gud years now n recently my left leg is aching av done series of exercises BT its still der am jus so scared it shouldn't b Wat am thinking pls I need ur advice av gone for check ups dey kip telling me am ok BT am not satisfied pls d doctors in d house pls hep my situation I jus need an advice Wat do I do next....no insults plzzzz

What is your job description at the company?
Is the leg swollen? When did the pain start?

NarnieSnyper:
Not to bring the Western culture here but is it right to go through someone's phone, even if the person is your dad or mom. This is something Nigerian parents and guardians refuse to accept.....Privacy!

What are you even saying?

Everybody wants to adopt the western parenting styles. By the time you guys are done ruining the lives of our future generations all in the name of privacy, una eyes go clear.

Who and what is she exactly to talk back at her uncle for trying to save her from foolishness?
Did she buy the phone with her money?
Has she ever earned a living?

That girl should be disciplined before it gets out of hands and personally, i'd ban her from using a phone for 1 month.

If she wants privacy and independence, she should hustle and gain admission into the university.

RadicallyBlunt:
Lol. Got that from my experience as a teacher. Children never forget such songs.

BTW pls are you practicing already or still in medical sch? Would wanna discuss something with you. Thanks

Done with medical School. You can send me a PM.

RadicallyBlunt:
Show her the videos of consequencies of stealing like thieves burnt to ashes in Lagos.

Overfeed her with food. Give her big meat weh go scare her on top rice. Put her in care of money and threaten her with kondo/garri turning stick and a scary face.

Compose song for her like..."thief no come good life oooo, na some people get pikin dey become doctors lawyers and bringing glory to the family, me(her name) i go bring good fortune to my people, my destiny will shine, satan no go ruin my future thru stealing..." Tell her to sing am 50 times on her knees before she sleep every night. Believe me she go sing am for dream and by so doing, youre unconsciously building integrity against theft in her mind, she'll never forget the song till she old.

Don't isolate her from your children, just let them know you disapprove what she's doing. If she feels loved, she would give up the stealing naturally.

Except its a spiritual case which ur pastor under the influence of your wife may start saying..she may even be called a witch soon.

OMG! you killed me.

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Feb 26th...

Lots of birthday mates on this thread

Incline:
I dey wonder too.


Which one?

From her report, she has a ventricular septal defect. Meaning there's an opening in the muscle that demarcates the left and right ventricles of the heart, allowing some quantity of blood to flow from the left side of the heart to the right which is not normal.

It's a moderate sized defect so the chance of it closing spontaneously on it's own is very slim unlike small defects that are asymptomatic and may close after 1 year.

She can be well managed medically to control pulmonary hypertension and prevent congestive heart failure and respiratory infections.

All in all, it's not an emergency case but it needs an early surgical correction while she's still young to avoid complications.



I hope they get the needed help.

realGURU:
is she married, so he is a bastarddds

How can you call someone's child a bast*rd?
You need a psychiatric assessment.
smh for you

cococandy:
His ex wife took 80% of his wealth after the divorce. In Nigeria?
Tell me another story.

Dude is a broke scam artiste who knows how to manipulate women into spending money on him. then when they realize he's full of stories, the relationships go south. Those play boys know how to give the appearance of wealth when they don't even have shishi in their accounts. Let her not be fooled.

Your friend is already setting up office for him in V.I. Lmao.

The guy is good, i give him an A+

silverr:
well, he claims it was in the past. so far he hasnt given us a reason to doubt him. Upon my advice, my friend set him up with 2 different girls who dont know themselves. One stripped herself naked in his sitting room and tried to seduce him but he threw her out almost naked. He told the other that he will ask his gateman toflog her the next time she visits.. we were on a call with the girls so we heard everythingg.
Since then, my friend wan hear anything again.

I no know if i go say na small pikin dey worry your friend, but i no fit talk that one 'cause a lady in her mid 20s should know better.

How many men, no matter how bad the konji is would willingly go down with an unclad stranger they met in their house unexpectedly without prior invitations or familiarity?

Even a 10 year old kid would be able to tell it's either a set-up or there's a mission behind the act.

Ladies, we need to keep sentiments aside sometimes and put our God given brains to use. it's not unachievable.

silverr:
let me set some things straight,
my friend is very well to do. considering the toll his divorce took on him, she's now richer. she has been the one spending on him. she recently got him a fitted office in v.i among many others I wont list. This is another thing that bothers me

How sure are you @ the emboldened?

This man sure knows how to use women to get what he wants, he's perfected the art of .

Cooked stories swallowed hook and sinker.
I sympathize with other sisters that fell victim to his charms and illusions of perfection he gives.
I wish his current catch all the best!

baum1:
Guy, if you are truthful, post your results like the young girl and we will do follow up.

I am interested in why our excellent students, near geniuses and geniuses are not getting admitted by our good schools in naija, after the students have worked so hard to make elite grades.

Please sir, help them out. Exactly my thought when i saw that girl's Twitter rant.

I think people like her should be considered first before bringing Catchment areas and ELDS into the equation.

Please, that girl deserves a seat to study Medicine this year.

Benwems:
stop lying. You are a liar. Nigerian doctors are one of the best paid in the entire Africa. Stop misinforming people.

Stop exposing your ignorance on a public forum.

I have colleagues from almost all southern African countries and what they earn as medical officers is almost same amount a consultant practising in Nigeria earns as a take home.

Do you know how much intern Doctors earn in Namibia?

Even Doctors in Botswana earn far better than a senior reg. in Nigeria.

I'm not just quoting stuffs from the top of my head, i have these people as friends.

I told myself from the beginning, I'd rather go practice in Botswana, Zambia than have anything to do with the Nigerian government.

@Op, i think there's something else you're concerned about.
You seem not to be very sure/ peaceful bout the whole thingy.

It's not compulsory for you to go back home to be married. After all, a lot of people travel abroad to have their weddings these days.

If you're totally cool with him, i believe you guys can find a way to sort things out. Like his family seeing your people while you invite your parents over for the ceremony.
Your fam can do a background check on him even before meeting him.

I don't think you'd have much problems getting your people to give their consent if he's all you wrote up there.

Whatever you do, pray and choose wisely.

All the best!

Gabriel6:
Hi guyz. i just got newly married and found out that they is a round, hard stuff in one of her breast, i asked her about it, she said it happened when she was 15yrs (now she is 23). she told her mum about it and the mum told her it was a normal thing, that it will soon go. she waited for many years it was still there instead of going it was increasing. and her parent refused doing anything about it, she said she went to hospital on her own, after a doctor examine her he said it was not cancer because cancer does not move but hers does. that it was just a lump. now why i need you guys help is because she is presently pregnant and i don't want a situation where by she won't be able to breast feed the babies. pls to save the life of my unborn babies help me with any way i can solve this problem. epp a brother, and before i forget she is carrying double in her womb.

I think what your wife has is a fibroadenoma from the history you gave, it's mostly seen in women her age although, only a tissue biopsy can give the definitive diagnosis.

Try and calm down, there isn't much cause for alarm. It may increase in size even more now that she's pregnant due to hormonal effects, but that shouldn't stress you.
I advice she gets a lumpectomy done after she stops breastfeeding. It's a pretty much easy procedure.

I had one myself, and it was removed exactly 4 years after i discovered it. that's to tell you how slowly it grows. But i strongly recommend it be removed as soon as you guys can 'cause it doesn't belong there.
A biopsy can be done first to determine the need for urgent surgery. This is a very inexpensive way to put your mind at rest.

BTW, from your write-up, it seems you're hardly concerned bout the outcome on your wife. Your worry is bout breast milk for your unborn children.
sounds kinda selfish to me .

All the best!

Double

Bishops10:
The boy is still young bro.....my elder bro once told me about this scenario...One will come telling that,that guy over there just came down from Ghana,he doesn't know how to speak our language and he has a lot of money with him,lets dupe him and run away...he will then tell you to go and bring money for them to buy chemical to wash the Dollar,in some cases you drop your phone with them. ..
Lagos is survival of the fittest

Did you say he is still young?
How can he be so greedy at a young age?

What does he want to do with an extra cash belonging to total strangers that he knows nothing about?

What stupid drug is sold for 1.2 million naira?

You guys have a lot of proper upbringing to do on that child. No silly charm was used on him, i've had numerous of such encounters and most happened when i was a teenager and gullible, but i never fell.


They'll usually give you stories of how you'll be handomesly compensated for doing absolutely nothing...only the greedy fall for such crap.

ifyalways:
No. Was sold for that price 3 weeks ago (2 liters or big Eva bottle) but I learnt it's now sold for btw 500-800 depending on location.

Okay.
I pray things get better.

ifyalways:
Lool Nld.

But what if that is what the man wants at that particular day ( I crave for yam, palm oil and pepper sometimes) or its what they can afford? One tuber of yam is 500, bottle of red oil 1000 so yam and oil is not by any means a poor man's meal anymore.

Dear OP and fellow nagmen , you can't drop "crayfish" chop money and expect "chicken soup". Cause and effect

Please, is the emboldened for real or a mistake?
1k for a bottle of palm oil?

omohlexy:
u will be childless

Why will he be childless?
The last time i checked, Children don't come from you.

The guy you quoted has a superior thought process and made a comment devoid of sentiments.

So this man wants to tell us his wife never had an ultrasound scan all through her pregnancy duration?
At least as a part of her routine pregnancy check up to make sure all is well.

I'm sure if they did, they would have discovered it was a multiple pregnancy. In fact even a layman would tell the baby will be a big one or multiple pregnancy (twins et al) from the size of her abdomen. It's usually bigger than normal.

Knowing what was coming, they had much time to sort themselves out.

Wisdom is cheap, yet expensive.
I wish them the best

A friend sent me the Video, she told me it's the latest car snatching method in Nigeria now. I don't know how true it is.


Only God 'll help, things are getting crazier.

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Sgttanner:
( notice:pls don't mind my grammar )Hello doctors in the house .. It happened that I imprenated my girlfriend and we aborted it (she brought the whole abortion thing up herself ooo even though I was thinking about it but didn't know how to tell her , the pregnancy is like a month sha )The abortion was done lat week Monday surgically I guess ..after that , she was given ciprotab, and one orange pill like this ( I don't know the name ) to be used morning and night . But she has just been noticing some changes in her body such as high temperature , not feeling too good in her body , sleepy , tired , yellow urine, fever ..another thing is she stopped seeing blood the second day, she saw a brown discharge the third day and the fifth day But I just get scared anytime she calls to tell me all these.The latest development is she was told to receive anti malaria injection cos of the yellow urine and I just hope this won't complicate the matter , though she took the injection already . I am 24 and she's 23..I had to create another profile .. Please I need to know what she can do and your advice pls .. God should forgive me

@ Op, Was the D&C done by a real Doctor?
The signs and symptoms she is currently showing could be a result of retained product of conception...meaning some parts of your "would have been" baby may still be left inside of her which is very dangerous and can lead to sepsis.

Please, let her go back to her Doctor so she can get examined properly as the antibiotic she is currently on may not be helping much and it's been close to 1 week already.

Condoms Condoms Condoms...una go gree hear? i no think so

obontami:
and what is wrong with having seven kids ?

Everything is wrong with having 7 kids when your only source of income is selling rat poisons.

CindyeMerAld:
babe since ur a doctor,i suggest u give urself ur normal dose of medicine or i will be forced to give u an over dose of it....this means dnt quote me again..

You have a lot of growing up to do, but unfortunately people like you never learn.

That comment of yours tells so much about you.
You're either suffering from Grandiose delusions or you're just plain ignorant. Either ways, you can be helped if you'd calm down and accept you got a problem.

Do i expect you to see the insensitivity in your post? No. After all, you added " no offence" to it.
Smh...

CindyeMerAld:
sweetie,am proudly anambrarian....God forbid i come from imo#no offense#

This is one of the reasons i say Biafra is dead on arrival...

Bunch of jokers. You people should keep deceiving yourselves.

emmanwandud:
Op let's read I thesolonains 4 1

Brother, it's not 1 Thes. 4:1
It's 1 Thes. 4 :11.

iLife:
Did you even ask the state I reside before giving this suggestion? I hate my myself for starting this in the first place.

N.B I'm done replying any other mention or comment

Dear Oliver Twist,
is anybody here your father or mother?

Is Badagry the only place where construction sites are located?
Wherever you reside, there must be survival means.

Stop feeling entitled, the fact that people helped you out when you were in need shouldn't make you call them out every time you need free money. You are the one without a conscience here.

A few have suggested you go look for a construction site and you try to counter them because the idea of reaping without sowing is very exciting to you.

You are not the only one in that country, go out and look for a job. Nobody is going to do that for you.

lovekillz:
Seriously, nothing to be thankful for... . No money, no job. So I don't see the need for thanking God.

You should contact me for a guided trip to an Intensive care unit or an A&E of a hospital...i'm sure you'd have somethiing to be thankful for afterwards..

Don't worry bro, you will get a job...but first, be grateful for the little things you got. Like a phone, data to browse the internet and even the ability to use your phone without assistance.