₦airaland Forum

Raymondenyi:
That's Doctor is very foolish n stupid for flagrantly breaking medical ethos and code of conduct; I wish I knew him... appropriate sanctions would have been meted to him...

SMH at the foolish people been groomed nowadays

So you believe this bullcrap?

Which Doctor in his right mind will do that?
The only reason a doctor would ve made such a mistake is if the OP posed as the patient's close relative

manbolistic:
Frustration indeed. Maybe if u countered with a superior argument, I would have understood. In d US n UK which we borrowed our civilization from. Hw are their doctors addressed. Hw do they write their names. It is only in Nigeria that d name is basterdized

I can see you lack appropriate exposure. Did you say in the US and Uk, medical Doctors and the general public do not use the title Dr for a medic?

I'm dead sure you've not crossed MMIA 'cause if you have, you won't spill this thrash you just did here....grow up man and stop advertising your ignorance.

I think what you should do now is to draft an agreement and make him sign, stating an exact pay back day after which if he doesn't pay back, the police 'ld be involved.

The agreement can be used as a legal footing to pursue your case incase he denies oweing you or refuses to pay.

You can tell him your creditor is threatening you and you need him to sign that agreement to atleast calm things down at the moment. After he signs, please get out of that relationship immediately and wait for the right time to go for your money.

Please, do not for any reason cancel that debt. The guy is really irresponsible, he cannot always eat his cake and have it.

Make sure he does not out smart you.
All the best!

Agukagu:
Is this your picture of stupendous wealth? Poverty is a disease.

Yea, poverty is a disease for sure. Alota people in that country are starving. But if the poverty statement was for me, then i'm really sorry for you.

This is why that country remains backward...it's not surprising you don't see anything wrong with a public servant keeping 40k USD in his residence, accumulating 9 cars and patronising hospitals abroad.


Goodluck to you!

Smartestelvis:
its obvious u have a bigger problem than any human can help,can't believe fools like this still remain in NL after the last purging.for ur info I'm a graduate of civil engineering from a reputable university so I guess ur dull witted carcass u call a brain can hang around the idea that all nairalanders are idiotic as u are.....but I'm not gonna tangle with an e-diot,some problems are better left between patient and therapist

Young man, stop being silly and defensive.
I got you busted with a couple of evidence, you can counter my post intelligently if i was wrong.

You are just so freaking daft...to think that you actually spent 5 years in a university makes me smh for you

ahidjo:
$40000 in his house. What a criminal. These are the types of characters entrusted with the task of securing Nigerians. Most Nigerians are hopelessly shameless!

Bro you didn't see the part about the 9 cars they took from his residence and his sick father in a london hospital?

What the hell is he doing with 9 cars?

Aren't there hospitals in Nigeria ? , lol. I'm so sorry for that country oo, no be small

Smh for Nigeria and those hypocrites claiming Nigeria is good....i pity dem

Smartestelvis:
yes i finally found the cure through this WhatsApp no:08082801194

You are so shameless, you created a thread just to sell your fake herbs and people actually beieved you needed help.
You made them go out of their way to profer solutions to a problem that never existed in the first place. Smh for you!


They should have seen through your lies, no contribution was helpful to you and all the Doctors you visited couldn't help...smart estelvis indeed, it took me less than 10 minutes of going through this thread to deduce you are a miserable and pathetic liar.

You seriously need a ban for making people waste their time on this thread, go get a real job man or come out clean and advertise your products if they are really potent.

luthorcorp:
so sorry to hear this bro but i once had a much more worse case but after spending millions going from one doc to the other i finally met someone who gave me what i first understimated but miraculously....send me a pm or call me via 08082801194!!!!!also elvisbob815@yahoo.com

This moniker is owned by same Op...chec out the email address and the op's handle...yea, Elvis....smh for you

Raymondluv:
wat did u use in curing it?

Please don't fall for this cheap fraud. I wish i saw this post earlier. This is so disgusting.

Op, you are so foolish, did you have to use the same DP for your two monikers? Get some good education and stop creating fake threads.

Lagusta:
Well, as a doctor, let me put in some stuff....

1) from what I see here, that is NOT oral candidiasis. Those spots look brownish, candida comes as white curds on the tongue and buccal mucosa, and they RARELY affect the teeth....

2) also, it can NOT be cancer, cos if the OP really said it started since she was four years, the cancer should have finished her off a long time ago.....

3) yeah, it could be a bacterial infection, but it usually comes with very high fever and other features of sepsis. But we could still do an m/c/s

4) HIV since about 11yrs ago?? Come on....

5) my input: its likely a viral infection, but let her go to teaching hospital for further evaluation

My thoughts exactly.
For sure, that is not an oral thrush neither is it a cancerous lesion going by the 11yrs history.

acenazt:
where did u see me mention menstruation? Ovulation leads to menstruation I know but ho check well I didn't mention menstruation cos the hormones that boost the libido is released durinh ovulation through menstruation.

Ok

acenazt:
Its pretty Normal. The females get an extra boost of Libido. During ovulation girls get more urge.

Ovulation and menstruation are two different things, using them interchangeably is wrong.

Saw love, win and money...

Ijecks thanks

oyin01:
Something happened in a private hospital where my sister had her baby recently.... She said during the surgery. The doctor was making series of phone calls and he was eating corn while he was operating on her. I am so upset that I am going to get him arrested. Is this what they are being taught in school? What if........ I need opinions before I decide. CC lalasticlala

OP are you sure @ the bolded?

Lagusta:
Hahahhahaahaha....

Thanks boss

BTW, where are the other founding fathers...

Lomaxx

Alutacontinua

Storm2

D_Best_doc

DrGboy

Ebsuguy

Aliandro

Where una dey nah....

Doc Lagusta we dey ooo....

I think most of these people are probably rounding off and have to come online less often....

Double post

Though you sleep, you live on in my heart...keep resting in God's bossom my Hero

martijez:
Leaving him is not the problem,buh wah if the next is worse than him,for how long will I keep "leaving",for how long will I keep running instead of facing my fears,he made me promise to never leave him.....

Not trying to sound disrespectful, but i think you need to grow up.

Just take a look at what you wrote up there, this can only come from a helpless woman with a zero self respect. That relationship has done more harm to your self esteem than you can imagine.
Whatever you decide, i wish you the best!

babyosisi:
Manhood 101, don't work for your inlaws ,don't work for your wife and for heaven's sake don't live in an accommodation provided you by your inlaws.
The only way for it to work long term is that you have decided to just allow yourself be kicked around like a football
What did you expect ?
The woman owns a business and you say she is succesful
The only way she achieved that success was by running her business her way and any employee must tow that line and do her bidding so I don't fault this woman entirely in that aspect ,she has to be shrewd to stay in business.

Now I will separate her role as an employer from her mother inlaw role
She definitely overstepped her bounds
You had described your girlfriend several times as a good girl
Her mother had a hand in the destruction of her relationship with you

Where I fault you greatly was taking out the frustrations you had with the mom on the daughter to the extent of telling her not to call you
How did you expect to be told when the baby was born when you walked away from the relationship and abandoned an 8 month old pregnant girl.you could have still left the house and remained in touch with the girl.
You are 25 so some of your choices are a factor of your youth
If her mom dislikes and perhaps hates you now,no one will blame her
Her side of the story is that a young man impregnated her precious daughter,she gave him a house and a job and he bailed and left her daughter alone at 8 months.

You and this girl may be good for each other but you are not yet ready for marriage,financially and emotionally
I wish you had listened go your own parents and stuck to your guns

You need to involve your parents and you may need to do some pleading to be allowed go see this baby
At that final showdown,I suspect hurtful words may have been said,apologies may have to be made
They may not have put you on the birth certificate as the father sef because they are angry with you

Thanks for this comment

aflyingbird:
he is your son , u hv a legal right to be in his life , they can't keep u from him . get a Lawyer if u must . get ur own family n friends involved to support u , show dem u hv pple . her mother wanted to put a wedge between u and d daughter n u let her succeed . frustrating u to d point of moving out was wat she wanted . maybe she was jealous of ur relationship with d daughter but u shoulda kept in touch with her ater u left . d daughter, do u still luv her ? u don't hv to be with her if u don't . never get back because of a child unless u want all of u to be miserable including the poor baby . buh if u still love her , try working it out buh u hv to find a way to get her away from her mother's control . twhat u should do now's talk to her into letting her see ur child . buy diapers, clothes, other things the baby needs n give her when u see her, it will show u care. get a job so u can be giving her something to take care of him every month . ur son needs u in his life , do wat u need to do as a man to stay be in his life

@ the bolded, What legal right does he have over the child?
From what he wrote, he didn't marry the girl legally neither did he stick with her all through the journey and tough times.

He had the guts to order her never to call him again, and suddenly he wants to be a part of somebody else's struggle, tears and pain.

All i got from the OP is the story of a selfish and proud young man who thinks he can eat his cake and have it back, you no want cool down take life slowly.

"She is rushing me into marriage bla bla bla"....why she no go rush you when you decided to put the cart before the horse, she suddenly turned from a good girl to a devil because you were being persuaded to fix the mess you contributed to and do things properly.

Oga life can never be at your beck n calloo let me tell you. You have to cool down and think things through before making important decisions in life.

To say you decided to move on with your life, abandoning your girlfriend and your unborn child made me smh .....this is the time to do that because that woman and her daughter with the way you painted them won't let you anywhere close to that child, If you like go hire SAN. Except they decide to forgive you ofcourse, which means you have to keep gree gree aside and act as a responsible and grown man.

I may be blunt, but this is exactly the same thing i would tell my brother.

Goodluck!

50calibre:
What about my comment didn't you understand or didn't you read the topic? Because you're basically repeating the same thing I said.

The OP said his friend was being operated on the chest (or isn't it what he said? in that case, where was he being operated on) and thè surgeon asked him to hold the light to his chest.

I said the only way he stays awake is if the operation on his chest is superficial or non-invasive. I know local anaesthetic can be applied to the area that's being operated (that's common knowledge) this comminuted used at the dentist. However local anaesthesia is not applicable in all cases, if I may ask, what part of your body was operated on? I bet it's your limb.

Allow me to counter your experience with mine, in 2012 I had a brain surgery at one of the best hospitals in the UK, and one of the top neurology hospitals in the world... (Kings College Hospital to be precise). I was given general anaesthetic, it knocked me out in seconds, I was only told to count down from 10... That's the last thing I recall till I awoke hours later.

My point is; no way a quack hospital without steady electricity can keep a patient awake while performing a chest operation. Performing an operation with torch light while sweat drips off the surgeon's face? Holy shi*t! That's the lowest thing I've ever heard, if that's true, then that hospital is a death trap

Well, i didnt see the part where he said his friend's surgery was on his chest. Maybe i'm missing something. He probably edited his OP though!

To your question, no....not my limbs. The surgery was on my boobs, i was awake all through and conscious enough to help out if my help was needed. Ofcourse there was a sort of interaction in the process and i also learnt one or 2 things from the guy 'cause
he is a specialist in that area. This was in a Chinese teaching hospital though!

My point is, if the surgery is less bloody and uncomplicated, the patient can be kept awake all through.

50calibre:
Shut up!! Can you and all the other ignoramuses on this thread shut the fuc*k up!! I get tired of seeing simpletons on this forum propagate ignorance.

Except it was just a superficial or non-invasive surgery on the chest, it is safe to assume that it was a heart or lung surgery. In that case, it is a major procedure which requires the patient be generally anaesthetised and intubated.

However, It is possible to perform major surgeries while the patient retains some level of consciousness. Typically, the patient will have to be heavily sedated to a point where they're just on the edge of consciousness... They can respond to basic commands, but nothing on the scale of holding a torch light into one's own chest while surgery is performed (are you insane?)

This is complex procedure which requires a higher degree of sophistication, one a hospital which can't provide steady electricity, most certainly don't have.

I thought you knew better oo. May be you should start by defining what SURGERY is.
From the OP, the region of the body where the surgery was carried out wasn't specified. From your definition, cardiothoraciic surgery is the only kind that qualifies as surgey to you.

Any part of the body can be operated on, it is invasive if an incision is made and non-invasive when other procedures that require minimal cut are employed. For all we know, it could be a not so bloody and uncomplicated procedure that was performed on the OP's friend.

Personally, i've had a procedure performed on me, i was awake all through chatting with the surgeons and asking questions. Lidocaine was used as the Anaesthesia, it was injected around that region and i even had to call their attention when it started wearing off so more dose was given and i left right after the whole ish...

I decided to use my personal experience as an example and not some other patient's.....its very possible for a patient undergoing surgery to help out in the process if its not gona disrupt the procedure....

Patented:
the hospital released him the same evening of the surgery? i find that hard to believe.he would have been monitored for at least a day, abi na stitch dem stitch wound? that wont qualify for surgery

Chai! Oga, try read small na. No be everything you suppose write, especially wetin you no know much about.

Some surgery na outpatient surgery. You only get to report to the hospital from time to time for monitoring.

Some anaesthesia no dey sedate d patient, dem go only need to numb the pain sensation for the area wey dey need operate on. The patient is fully conscious. And ofcourse you can leave right after the surgery is done and wound is dressed provided you will be careful enough to avoid injuries to the operated site.

Chai! D kind blind arguements i read here so eee, wahala dey more dan i bin think oo. The problem na person no know, yet em no know say em no know

drnoel:
Are u minding them. The scenerio he gave can not even be seen in a bollywood or nollywood movie. Even tales by moonlight will refuse such a script.

Why do you think it's not real? From your username, i'm guessing you are a medical personnel. But your statement reeks of ignorance.

No offence intended.

chuna1985:
Lol, Tell me more jokes ooo.

Anesthetic can ruin a Mans head ooo

Can you please explain your statement?

The man just messed his girl's hair in the name of bathing her
Hair wey dem pack, em carry soap and water put ontop. Na extra job him don give the wife so, 'cause she has to re-wash and dry the hair again.
Men think say the same technique used in bathing male children applies to the female folks? Lai -lai
What a woman can do, a man can do better my foot

MrAfrica1:
I really need your advice on which country to settle down with my family that will entail:
1.Good Employment
2. Security
3. Low cost of living
4. Sound environment for raising kids
5. Good economy
6. Good weather (plz i don't want to freeze to death)
7. Friendly people(no racism)
8. Low occurrence of natural disasters
9. Sound education
10. Holiday joints(the movies, beach, waterfalls etc)

Please i need your honest opinion.

Oga this looks like the description of a perfect country. Please let me know when you find one on earth

kaeycea:
And u think physiological changes that accompany pregnacy will leave ur private part attractive to d Dr...
It's even out of call to duty and selfless service to humanity will a Dr attempt to touch such a pregnancy-induced physiological distortion of ur private part at such a time

This got me laughing
Guy, you're funny

Congratulations!

Ogbeche77:
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Thanks Bro!

50calibre:
You're a bleating retar*d!! What conducive environment has the Nigerian government created? Keep deluding yourself by thinking you're in the same league as those people.

Short sighted retar*ds like you are always quick to name drop Dangote, bill gates & Zuckerberg without taking various factors into account.

You're not Dangote, he was born rich whereas you're just a regular joe on the street. I understand your expectations of your government are so low because you're used to it but don't try to stifle the voice of someone demanding the basics from her government.

Moro*n!!

Thank you my bro. The truth is some of these guys have never left the shores of Nigeria, i read what that guy wrote up there and all i did was to smh. Ignorance is bliss as they say,let him leave that dungeon of a country to a functional environment for one month only and let's see if he will write the same trash he wrote up there.

Adaptation is really a good phenomenon, some people are used to eating from the trash can that it has become the norm to them.

martyns303:
Frankly He's just being lazy.

How was he surviving before he got married? After marriage he relinquished basic responsibilities such as cooking, cleaning etc solely to his wife

These are the reasons why a couple should do chores together. Cos she can be sick, pregnant, had a baby etc.
I hope he appreciates her more after coming to the realization.

Guys your wife/fiancee/GF is not a machine or a paid maid, if you can't do all those chores. How do you expect her to do them all alone and she's the weaker sex?

Here's a few tip on how i share chores.

1. Follow her to the market, am terrible at pricing things so I don't even bother, but I carry the bags, by watching, I now know how much a particular item should cost on average. I can now help ones a while with market, tho she always say they cheated me.

2. Am with her in the kitchen, I help dice okra, clean fresh fish, blend tomatoes etc. Now am a pro in cooking.

3. We clean together, Saturday being a major cleaning day.

4. I wash my own jean, and help with hers, while she washes all our clothes that require hand wash, she is very meticulous. Boxers, bedspread, towels etc goes to the washing machine.

Like my mom will tell us her male children, "men don't NEED respect, it is women who need it, between a man and a woman, the man will always be respected, he doesn't need what he already has"

Wow!
I'm impressed.

Mprex:
This is foolery. What stopped her from backing the baby?

Maybe she has another child backed already.
You know this kind people na dem dey faithful pass to keep the commandment on multiplication, replenishing and filling the earth.